FREE NEWSLETTER

Forum › Behavior

Help Wanted

If you could offer your fellow readers one piece of advice that you’re confident would improve their life, what would it be?

To get us rolling, here’s my suggestion: Be generous with others—but do it when they aren’t expecting it. For instance, folks expect to receive gifts on their birthday, so any gifts you give likely won’t seem all that special. What if, instead, you present them with a gift out of the blue? The element of surprise has the potential to make the gift especially meaningful.

More On This Topic

Email Alerts for this Comment Thread
Notify of
67 Comments
Newest
Oldest Most Voted
H S
1 year ago

Listen more, talk less

Scott Masters
1 year ago

Never argue with ignorance, it is an absolute waste of time.

landal hudlow
1 year ago

Such wise advice. Now is when we’re able to do it and it feels great, especially when the recipient is at a point in their lives where they are so appreciative.

William Dorner
1 year ago

When you are young, try all types of jobs, get a good education and determine what passion you have, because work lasts about 50 years or so, and you want to do something you really like, and if you can make work FUN, that is a wonderful thing.

Regan Blair
1 year ago

I love this idea. In fact my wife and I did exactly that a few weeks ago. Our son in-law is from Myanmar (FNA/Burma). His father has lung cancer and so they decided to visit him in the event he doesn’t have long to live. They were already scheduled to visit Paris for a few days, and so they are planning to work their way from Texas, to France, Brussels Singapore, Thailand, and finally Myanmar. My wife suggested we give them 10K to assist with any travel needs they may have and perhaps help my son in-law with any unexpected medical expenses his dad may have to incur. We were happy to do it and my daughter and son in-law were so thankful for a gift they had not asked for nor expected. We were obviously blessed for having had the opportunity to be generous as Jonathan said when they least expected it.