
Jeff moved to Raleigh in 1971 to attend North Carolina State University and never left. He retired in 2020 after 43 years in various engineering roles. Jeff’s the proud father of two sons and, in 2013, expanded his family with a new wife and two stepdaughters. Today, he’s “Grandpa” four times over. In retirement, Jeff works on home projects, volunteers, reads, gardens, and rides his bike or goes to the gym almost every day. He's written several Humble Dollar articles that can be found here.
Whole Life Insurance Worked for Me
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AUTHOR: Jeff Bond on 1/22/2025
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Choosing the right executor/trustee
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AUTHOR: Jeff Bond on 12/10/2025
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Another HD Post About Cars
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AUTHOR: Jeff Bond on 5/27/2025
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How Did You Announced Your Retirement?
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AUTHOR: Jeff Bond on 8/13/2024
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Where and When Do You Spend?
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AUTHOR: Jeff Bond on 3/2/2025
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Home Maintenance Choices, Options, & Decisions
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AUTHOR: Jeff Bond on 11/5/2024
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DST Transitioning
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AUTHOR: Jeff Bond on 11/9/2024
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Long-Term Care? Who Has It?
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AUTHOR: Jeff Bond on 8/10/2024
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MY WIFE AND I purchased a 1942 bungalow when we got married in 2013. It met many of our criteria: price, location, spacious backyard, access to greenways and more. But the place also had drawbacks—including the one described below.
The entryway to the house included a climb up seven steps to a stoop. The stoop was small, large enough for only one person to stand while opening the storm door. The only protection from the weather was an old canvas awning.
MY RETIREMENT IN July 2020 came at a stressful time. I was recovering from knee replacement surgery and we were in the midst of the pandemic. Luckily, I had physical therapy goals to meet, and I’d already purchased a huge supply of reading material. TV, music and my laptop were also there to distract me. In addition, my wife had retired eight months before, so we had each other for company.
As the pandemic stretched on,
AS AN ENGINEER and a believer in keeping things running, I haven’t owned many automobiles during my lifetime. Instead, my focus has been on extending each one’s longevity.
Among the maintenance and repairs I’ve undertaken: oil changes, spark plug and wire replacements, carburetor cleaning and adjustment, belt and hose replacements, distributor and timing settings, brake replacements (disk and drum), master and slave brake cylinder repairs, clutch adjustment, alternator repair, radiator repair, heater core repair,
I BEGAN MY CAREER as a part-time employee for an engineering consulting firm. At the time, I was working on my master’s degree in mechanical engineering. I shifted to full-time when I’d wrapped up my coursework but before completing my research and oral defense.
Over the next four years, I finished that degree and passed the national exam to become a registered professional engineer. I also got married, and bought a dog, a second car and a house.
AS A KID, I WAS usually one of the last chosen for pickup games, be it softball, basketball or football. My athletic prowess was limited to being the fastest kid in my neighborhood, but it seems I lived in a slow neighborhood. I had moderate success on a local swim team, but again found that success didn’t translate to surrounding communities.
Into my teen years, I was plagued by allergies and asthma. It wasn’t until the late 1970s,
MOM AND DAD WERE products of the Great Depression. I feel like it affected every single day of their lives. Despite their difficult upbringing, they made good financial decisions that allowed them to live comfortably. Part of it was because Dad worked for the same company for almost 42 years. His pension paid him more than I earned in my first job as an engineer.
When Mom died in August 2004, she was almost 84.
WHEN I FIRST CAME across HumbleDollar, I just lurked on the website, convinced that everyone knew more about investing and personal finance than me. After a while, I started making occasional comments.
Finally, I’m ready to share some of my financial stories. My first topic relates to my misadventures with real estate limited partnerships. Note that all references here are to my then-wife, not my current wife.
I was in my first job as an engineer.


Comments
I'd heard about this, but didn't follow all the connections to the dramatic consequences. Now I understand better. While reading this post, I was reminded or sayings like "what goes around comes around" and "he who lives by the sword dies by the sword". Thanks for the (recent) history lesson.
Post: Risk Management
Link to comment from August 15, 2026
Andrew - I lost a brother to alcoholism too many years ago. I sometimes struggle with what to think about his loss. I love how you framed everything with this passage: "Yes, addiction shaped much of her adult life. It stole opportunities, strained relationships and ultimately took her from us far too soon. But it never took away her kindness, her generosity, her sense of humor or her ability to love. Those were the qualities that defined my sister, not the disease she battled." I've learned to never again say "I know how you feel" because you can never know what someone is thinking on the inside.
Post: My Sister – A Reflection One Year Later
Link to comment from August 12, 2026
Me, too. Prices not outlandish.
Post: FIFA Financials
Link to comment from August 10, 2026
I was a PE for 43 years. I gave it up three years after I retired when they still wanted fees and continuing education credits. But the only financials I did were my own.
Post: Beware the CFP Designation?
Link to comment from August 3, 2026
Ken - glad to see you're still on here.
Post: How Did You Find Paid Work After Retiring from Your Primary Career?
Link to comment from July 31, 2026
Jack - this is why we use a financial advisor now. I review and evaluate every purchase and/or sale my FA makes. But I'm five years older than my wife, and we both have longevity on our sides. So whether I croak first or lose all my marbles, I want the investment philosophy and advice to follow the form that we've established in the here-and-now.
Post: Today in Financial History
Link to comment from July 28, 2026
No credit check when I bought my Subaru last year. I was talking to the sales guy off-and-on for a couple of months, because the model I wanted wasn't yet available. Sometime in the process he looked at me and resignedly said/asked "you're gonna pay by check, aren't you?". I responded positively. At that point he knew that he would make no money off of me with a financing offer.
Post: Buying a car in retirement
Link to comment from July 19, 2026
Sage advice. Maybe I'll forward this to my younger son, who begins a new job tomorrow!
Post: Lessons on the Ground
Link to comment from July 19, 2026
One of the things to be concerned about in the US is whether or not the tradesperson has insurance. As others have mentioned for folks in our general age bracket, being on a ladder can be hazardous. If a worker without insurance is on your roof and falls, you might be liable for their injury. Asking for a Certificate of Insurance (CoI) is one of my automatic requests when speaking to contractors.
Post: Reluctantly Saving Money
Link to comment from July 9, 2026
LH - Both my wife and I primarily gas-up at our Costco. Though we don't really drive a bunch anymore and we drive fuel-efficient cars, the 30-to-40 cents per gallon cost savings is a significant savings towards the price of membership. Just before the pandemic hit, I went to Costco for our "normal run," which included a package of 36 rolls of toilet paper and 12 rolls of paper towels. It was a lucky break on our part, but needless to say, we were not part of the desperate search for TP during COVID.
Post: Frittering away Frugality
Link to comment from July 8, 2026