THESE DAYS, IT SEEMS every other article on retirement talks about a neat division between the go-go, slow-go and no-go years, with retirees moving seamlessly from one to the next.
I don’t remember seeing anything about these stages back in the late 1990s when I was contemplating early retirement. Instead, when I quit full-time work in 2000 at age 53, I just wanted to travel before I got too decrepit.
I did travel—extensively—right up until 2017,
LATE LAST OCTOBER, I was one of the first to move into the new building at my chosen continuing care retirement community, or CCRC. Now, more than five months later, I’m more confident than ever that I made a good decision.
I’m in my mid-70s, single and childless, with relatives 3,000 miles distant in both directions. Both bathrooms at my old home were up 15 stairs. Aging in place was not a good option.
I’D JUST ARRIVED IN the charming, car-free village of Murren in the Swiss Alps, and was trying to find my B&B on the helpful signpost near the station. Stepping back for a better view, I tripped over the curb, with my backpack pulling me further off-balance. I went down with my left wrist under my hip.
Two wonderful British couples rushed to my assistance. One pair took my backpack to my B&B and the other escorted me back down the mountain to a doctor’s office.
I DON’T REMEMBER when my hearing started deteriorating. I suppose it came on gradually. I definitely remember when I developed tinnitus—ringing in the ears—and it was tinnitus that sent me to an audiologist in 2012.
She confirmed the information I’d already found on the internet: There’s no cure for tinnitus. While I would always miss the complete silence I’d previously enjoyed, at least mine was a tolerable background hum, unlike some horror stories I’d read.
ONE REASON I WAITED so long to sell my house was my extreme reluctance to move all my belongings. I didn’t want to deal with the hassles involved—because I’d gone through that less than a decade earlier.
In 2013, I had the house renovated. I replaced almost all the flooring, with hardwood downstairs, carpet upstairs and tile in the bathrooms. I also updated the kitchen cabinets. That meant, of course, that every single thing in the house had to be moved.
I NEVER PLANNED TO retire at age 53. I wasn’t an early adopter of the FIRE, or financial independence-retire early, philosophy. In fact, I didn’t start saving seriously until my late 30s, when I left my first husband and finally realized that—unlike pensions in my native U.K.—my U.S. pension didn’t come with an annual cost-of-living adjustment.
Instead, three developments in the late 1990s led me to consider quitting. First, I was no longer enjoying my job.
IF MEDICARE’S A MAZE, its Part D drug plan is a maze within a maze, with no one good path and plenty of so-so choices, along with a couple of potential “gotchas.”
Until 2006, Medicare offered no coverage for outpatient drugs, so today’s situation—however imperfect—is certainly an improvement. It’ll improve even more for people with high drug costs in 2024 and 2025, as I’ll explain at the end of this article.
What if you have Medicare Advantage,
I GREW UP IN ENGLAND, with health-care coverage provided by the National Health Service, so I’m extremely sympathetic to people calling for “Medicare for All.” Still, I do wonder whether they realize that Medicare is neither cheap nor simple. My medical costs in 2021 were more than $10,000, with half of that for a single drug. And it would have been even more without the $3,000 a year kicked in by my former employer.

Comments
I'm an introvert, but when I moved to a CCRC I made an effort to meet new people and to get involved in some of the (many!!) activities. I now have valued new friends, so I definitely endorse your plan.
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Link to comment from September 26, 2026
I do the same thing with stockings (Knee-His, if that means anything to you guys). I reuse plastic bags. I just had a pair of 20-year old travel pants, which I can't replace, repaired. I'm typing this on my "old" iPad, in London. I thought the battery was getting a bit fragile, but Apple wouldn't take it as trade in. Since the new one plus cover weighs more, I kept it for travel.
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Link to comment from September 26, 2026
As someone who has spent much of her life single, I tend to see this situation less as a "window's penalty" and more as a pre-existing "spouse's bonus". Of course, the change in circumstances definitely needs planning, but with so many two-income households these days, the special treatment for married couples seems harder to justify.
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Link to comment from September 26, 2026
The original three laws were fine, and should be adopted.
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Link to comment from September 13, 2026
Breakfast room TV?? Only in America.
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Link to comment from September 11, 2026
The proliferation of Airbnbs has been devastating for the local residents in many places, and has led to the replacement of local shops with those directed at tourists in city centers. Plenty of info about the downsides both for tourists and locals on the web.
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Link to comment from September 10, 2026
Almost all of my travel has been outside the US, where I generally avoid US chain hotels. Old style B&Bs obviously included breakfast, guesthouses and pensions often did. Staying in cheaper places that served breakfast made it easy to meet fellow travelers. Of course, if you use Airbnb (please don't, mostly) you'll be on your own. For my upcoming trip to England some of my hotels (Premier Inn chain) offer breakfast at an additional cost. I will pay for that the day of arrival, but otherwise may resort to yogurt and instant coffee in my room.
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Link to comment from September 10, 2026
It succeeded in reducing the Lp(a) number, but reducing the number didn't produce better outcomes.
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Link to comment from September 9, 2026
Thanks for this. I had my Lp(a) tested last year after listening to a People's Pharmacy podcast on the subject, and mine is elevated. However, I didn't think there was a drug, yet, specifically for high Lp(a), and read only yesterday that one promising candidate just failed its Phase 3 trial - it improved the numbers, but did not reduce cardiovascular disease. I just looked up Repatha, and it seems to be targeted at LDL, not Lp(a). I have asked my PCP about a CAC test without success, I may get it anyway as I may not need a referral, but remain unconvinced that aiming for LDL under 100 is necessary.
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Link to comment from September 9, 2026
A beautiful tribute, and a loving portrait. So many people miss Jonathan, but surely none more than his family. May the next year be easier.
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