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Lent, Chocolate, and the Art of Retirement

"Love this article, Mark. I cannot get through a day without recurrent chocolate, not just the dark and healthy stuff but the milk chocolate dreck. You know how drug addicts go to Betty Ford for rehab? Well, I tell people that I went to the Betty Crocker Clinic. And they kicked me out. But I can also say with gleeful truthfulness that for me, trash chocolate is also medicinal. Type 1 diabetes means I have occasional blood sugar crashes, especially working out. Most diabetics treat those with glucose tablets or fruit juice. Not me. I carry Kit Kats in my gym bag. It's all an excuse, of course, for indulgence. I have always rejected the concept of self-denial for the sake of self-denial, or worse yet for religious reasons like Passover or kosher dietary laws. Life is to be savored. And allowed to melt on your tongue."
- Mike Gaynes
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Stock Market Contest

"If the students are picking individual stocks I hope the teacher “picks” a broad based low fee ETF or mutual fund and then 🤞it outperforms all of the students’ portfolios."
- David Lancaster
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Blood Money

"Since you are selling stocks in your 401k why do you care what the cost basis is?"
- Jim Burrows
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A Big Little Move (by Dana/DrLefty)

"There is not a legal reason. My issue in not doing so currently is there would now be the additional legal expense to re-title and record the deed transfer to the RLT (in addition to the legal cost to initially create the revocable living trust (RLT) which we do not currently have) and it is also my understanding that the particular, mostly unused, large home equity line of credit (HELOC) that we have would also have to be re-established and I worry that since I have stopped working and my earned income has ended I do not know if I would be able to get a new HELOC with the high limit and terms that my current HELOC loan has. I expect that if my spouse dies first I would downsize my residence by moving and my wife would certainly have to move because of her current limited mobility should I die first. Thus when either of us dies or I become unable to maintain our current home a move is in our future. Where Dana lives, in California, I believe she can choose to include a transfer on death provision as part of the titling in a deed in lieu of using a RVT but my state currently does not allow for TOD provisions in deeds. Fortunately my state intestacy provisions currently matches our bequest intents when including post death transfers via beneficiary designations and joint ownership. In the unlikely event that my wife and I die at the same time I expect the probate process is not so onerous in my state for what assets I will expect will be left as my state allows for a simplified administration process for small estates."
- William Perry
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Any concern?

"No problem, I have a pension and Social Security, neither is correlated with the market. I have an IRA and Roth for inflation but haven't started doing withdrawals yet. Turning 70 in June. Any drops are a time to buy."
- Tim Mueller
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Giving Up on Owning a Home

"Yeah, I remember those mortgage rates."
- Dan Smith
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Social Security Spousal Benefits

"This is a great description of the rules involved with figuring social security benefits when coordinating with a spouse. I know it has been mentioned before, but I think the Open Social Security calculator is worth mentioning here again in helping to strategize when to claim benefits."
- Doug C
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Quinn’s super frugal experiment. Are you up for a challenge?

"Ed, yes, thank you for asking. Everything went through fine, I updated in my guardianship post from December. Spouse will have to do a report to the court every 2 years. We were also very relieved that the bond we thought we would have to post, was waived by the judge. The “big” things like the house and car sale have closed. We are sleeping better. C"
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The Cardinal Sin

THERE’S A LITANY of investment sins. But one may top them all. I’m guessing it’s one you haven’t given much thought to. Until recently, neither did I. The cardinal investment sin: selling your winners too soon. From 1926 to 2016, more than half of all U.S. stocks—57.4% to be exact—returned less than one-month Treasury bills. In other words, you were better off putting your money into risk-free T-bills than owning these stocks. In fact, more than half of common stocks delivered negative total returns. These stats come from an academic paper by finance professor Hendrik Bessembinder. Now here’s the real kicker: Bessembinder found that the best-performing shares, a mere 4% of all stocks, were responsible for the stock market’s entire gain over and above T-bills. The remaining 96% of companies collectively generated returns that simply matched one-month T-bills. These findings have profound implications for investors. If just 4% of stocks—we'll call them the winners—account for the lion’s share of stock market returns, you had better own them or you’re doomed to underperform the market. If you invest in total market index funds, you will own these winners by default. On the other hand, if you’re picking individual stocks, your odds aren’t great. But let’s say you’re really smart (or lucky) and happen to pick a fair share of the winners. You face another big hurdle. You must hold on to your winners and not sell them prematurely. Unfortunately, this is easier said than done. Most investors display a strong tendency to sell their winners and ride their losers. This has been termed the disposition effect, first described by behavioral economists Hersh Shefrin and Meir Statman. The disposition effect can be explained by mental accounting and loss aversion. When an investor buys a stock, a mental account is subconsciously created. The initial investment or cost basis is recorded in this account. If the position is subsequently sold for less than its cost basis, the mental account is closed at a loss. Since losses are painful—particularly to our egos—investors do everything in their power to avoid this from happening, hence the tendency for investors to cling to their losers and even double down on them. Mental accounting also explains why investors are so quick to sell their winners. Selling a position for a gain closes the mental account in the black. This feels good and strokes the investor’s ego. It also serves as a salve for the pain caused by the losers in the portfolio. Prospect theory says that investors weigh losses more heavily than equal-sized gains. That means the mental anguish from a $1,000 loss must be counterbalanced by gains far in excess of $1,000, thus serving as further impetus for selling winners. From a tax standpoint, the disposition effect is an anomaly that shouldn’t exist. After all, our tax code rewards us for taking capital losses and penalizes our capital gains. Despite these incentives, the disposition effect is alive and well. It appears that investors are willing to pay a heavy tax to preserve their self-esteem. [xyz-ihs snippet="Mobile-Subscribe"] Taxes aside, consider the enormous damage done to a portfolio by selling winners too early. As demonstrated in Bessembinder’s paper, strip out the big winners from a portfolio and you are left with middling returns that are on par with T-bills. Why are the winners so vital to a portfolio? Because of the inherent asymmetry between losers and winners. A losing stock has limited downside. At worst, it can go to zero. In fact, in Bessembinder’s study, a 100% loss was the single most frequent outcome for individual stocks over their lifetime. On the other hand, winners had virtually unlimited upside. If you talk to seasoned investors, most will confess they struggle far more with the sell decision than the buy one. A recent study of institutional investors confirms this striking discrepancy. While the authors found clear evidence of skill in buying, selling decisions underperformed badly. In fact, they were worse than random selling strategies. Given the data from Bessembinder’s paper and the behavioral biases plaguing the sell decision, perhaps the best strategy is the one espoused by Warren Buffett: "When we own portions of outstanding businesses with outstanding managements, our favorite holding period is forever. We are just the opposite of those who hurry to sell and book profits when companies perform well but who tenaciously hang on to businesses that disappoint. [Celebrated fund manager] Peter Lynch aptly likens such behavior to cutting the flowers and watering the weeds." The greatest investing sin may also explain why active managers find it so hard to beat mindless index funds. Notwithstanding lower fees, cap-weighted index funds have fundamental advantages over their actively managed brethren. As alluded to earlier, a total market index fund by definition will own all the winners. More important, it lets them ride. The manager of an index fund won’t be tempted to sell the winners, nor does he have an ego to preserve. What’s my advice to active managers and stock pickers? As much as possible, ignore your cost basis and focus on the fundamentals. Remember that the market is right most of the time, so let your losers go and enjoy the tax loss harvest. Most important, fight the urge to cash in on your winners with every fiber of your being. John Lim is a physician and author of "How to Raise Your Child's Financial IQ," which is available as both a free PDF and a Kindle edition. Follow John on Twitter @JohnTLim and check out his earlier articles. 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Very Fast, Not Very Smart

"Your comment give me a glorious mental image of greedy gerbils stuffing their cheek pouches with money while the bankrupt lemmings hurl themselves off a cliff in despair. I know, Norm — my mind needs a serious talking to."
- Mark Crothers
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Lent, Chocolate, and the Art of Retirement

"Love this article, Mark. I cannot get through a day without recurrent chocolate, not just the dark and healthy stuff but the milk chocolate dreck. You know how drug addicts go to Betty Ford for rehab? Well, I tell people that I went to the Betty Crocker Clinic. And they kicked me out. But I can also say with gleeful truthfulness that for me, trash chocolate is also medicinal. Type 1 diabetes means I have occasional blood sugar crashes, especially working out. Most diabetics treat those with glucose tablets or fruit juice. Not me. I carry Kit Kats in my gym bag. It's all an excuse, of course, for indulgence. I have always rejected the concept of self-denial for the sake of self-denial, or worse yet for religious reasons like Passover or kosher dietary laws. Life is to be savored. And allowed to melt on your tongue."
- Mike Gaynes
Read more »

Stock Market Contest

"If the students are picking individual stocks I hope the teacher “picks” a broad based low fee ETF or mutual fund and then 🤞it outperforms all of the students’ portfolios."
- David Lancaster
Read more »

Blood Money

"Since you are selling stocks in your 401k why do you care what the cost basis is?"
- Jim Burrows
Read more »

A Big Little Move (by Dana/DrLefty)

"There is not a legal reason. My issue in not doing so currently is there would now be the additional legal expense to re-title and record the deed transfer to the RLT (in addition to the legal cost to initially create the revocable living trust (RLT) which we do not currently have) and it is also my understanding that the particular, mostly unused, large home equity line of credit (HELOC) that we have would also have to be re-established and I worry that since I have stopped working and my earned income has ended I do not know if I would be able to get a new HELOC with the high limit and terms that my current HELOC loan has. I expect that if my spouse dies first I would downsize my residence by moving and my wife would certainly have to move because of her current limited mobility should I die first. Thus when either of us dies or I become unable to maintain our current home a move is in our future. Where Dana lives, in California, I believe she can choose to include a transfer on death provision as part of the titling in a deed in lieu of using a RVT but my state currently does not allow for TOD provisions in deeds. Fortunately my state intestacy provisions currently matches our bequest intents when including post death transfers via beneficiary designations and joint ownership. In the unlikely event that my wife and I die at the same time I expect the probate process is not so onerous in my state for what assets I will expect will be left as my state allows for a simplified administration process for small estates."
- William Perry
Read more »

Any concern?

"No problem, I have a pension and Social Security, neither is correlated with the market. I have an IRA and Roth for inflation but haven't started doing withdrawals yet. Turning 70 in June. Any drops are a time to buy."
- Tim Mueller
Read more »

Giving Up on Owning a Home

"Yeah, I remember those mortgage rates."
- Dan Smith
Read more »

Social Security Spousal Benefits

"This is a great description of the rules involved with figuring social security benefits when coordinating with a spouse. I know it has been mentioned before, but I think the Open Social Security calculator is worth mentioning here again in helping to strategize when to claim benefits."
- Doug C
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Manifesto

NO. 35: OUR ODDS of beating the market averages over a lifetime of investing are so small they’re hardly worth considering. Overconfident investors insist on trying. Rational investors index.

Truths

NO. 30: TO MAKE money, investors must overcome the triple threat of costs, taxes and inflation. Suppose your investments climb 6% over the next year. If your advisor charges 1% and you buy funds that charge 1%, you’ll be left with 4%. If you lose a quarter of your gain to taxes, that 4% becomes 3%. What if inflation is 3%? Your effective gain is zero.

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SOCIAL PROOF. We take our cues from others, assuming what’s popular is also good. That’s a smart strategy with movies, cars, restaurants and electronic gadgets. It’s often a terrible strategy with investments, because we find ourselves buying into stocks and market sectors that have already been bid up—and will likely have modest future returns.

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CONSIDER A TARGET-date fund. Financial advisors push the notion that every investor needs a customized portfolio—and, indeed, we all like the idea that we have an investment mix specially designed for us. Yet most of us, whether we’re investing on our own or through an advisor, would likely fare just as well by buying a single target-date retirement fund.

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NO. 35: OUR ODDS of beating the market averages over a lifetime of investing are so small they’re hardly worth considering. Overconfident investors insist on trying. Rational investors index.

Spotlight: Spending

Is the “Experience Economy” Derailing Millennial Retirement Prospects?

The phone call from my 29-year-old daughter in London recently sparked a familiar parental concern. She and her partner were jetting home  not for a family visit, but to catch a Coldplay concert. My mind immediately did the mental math: flights, tickets… easily $500 per person. And then it hit me: this is the third major concert they’ve attended this year, on top of a holiday to the Canary Islands and my other daughter is at this very moment camping her way around Turkey and Greece.

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Reacting to the Tariffs

A NEW TARIFF REGIME takes effect today. If the costs are passed along to buyers, the price of cars, orange juice, clothing and Swiss chocolates could increase, possibly dramatically.
I dealt with price shocks earlier this year. It gives me some insight into how we might behave if prices rise suddenly. Although I could have afforded the higher prices, the strong emotional impact made me highly adaptive. The price shock mobilized me to take action, even though it was only over a dollar or two.

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Mr. Quinn would be nervous. Would you be?

Towards the bottom of Mr. Quinn’s lengthy thread on spreadsheets and budgets I mentioned that I expect to spend a bit under 1% of my portfolio this year. Dick said that he would feel nervous in that situation. I am not currently feeling nervous, but since that percentage will increase over time, maybe I should be. I thought I would ask my fellow contributors what they thought.
Some background: I agree with Dick in seeing my income as just Social Security,

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I’ll take the “best” thing on the menu says Quinn

I was having breakfast recently in a small cafe when three people were seated at the next table. The server handed out menus and a woman asked her, “Between the pancakes, waffles and French toast, which is the best?”
I felt like saying, what a dumb question, but the quiet, reserved me said nothing. They are three different things and the “best” is highly dependent on personal taste. 
I was waiting for the customer to say,

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Dreams I Had

When you were in your 20s and 30s, what did you dream of doing—and why weren’t those dreams realized? Here are four of the daydreams I had, but which remained just that:
Buy a sports car and drive across the country. This one got nixed by a host of factors—not enough vacation time, lack of money, the arrival of my first child at age 25. But truth be told, what seemed like a fun adventure slowly lost its allure,

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Bah Humbug! It’s Not Even September Yet

I was in a large discount retailer yesterday with my grandson, picking up some school supplies for his return to school after the summer break. Bearing in mind it’s late August, around 20% of the store was roped off while staff were busy unboxing and displaying Christmas merchandise. Unbelievable!
I overheard a few people asking staff when the display would be open for business, and you could sense a general excitement within the store about this new buying opportunity.

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Spotlight: Quinn

Sharing It

I HAVE A PENSION, a 401(k) plan and other investments, and no debt. I worked more than 50 years to accumulate what I have. Still, I realize I am fortunate. That brings me to a list of advice for seniors that’s now making the rounds on the internet. I found it fascinating—and disturbing. The list is presented for “those of us who are between 65 and death, i.e. old.” Many people who have read the list buy into the philosophy behind it. I don't. Here are three finance-related excerpts from the list: 1. “It’s time to use the money you saved up. Use it and enjoy it. Don’t just keep it for those who may have no notion of the sacrifices you made to get it. Remember there is nothing more dangerous than a son or daughter-in-law with big ideas for your hard-earned capital.” Hey, if you are retired and have money that allows you to purchase more than the necessities, go for it—up to a point. I don't advocate being so frugal that retirement is a miserable bore. But I also don’t see frivolously spending, just to use up money, as prudent. The “use it” philosophy might be okay if you knew exactly how much money you need and for how long. But who has that information? If you spend carelessly, fate may dictate you becoming a financial burden to your kids. 2. “Stop worrying about the financial situation of your children and grandchildren, and don’t feel bad spending your money on yourself. You’ve taken care of them for many years, and you’ve taught them what you could. You gave them an education, food, shelter and support. The responsibility is now theirs to earn their own money." A rather selfish point of view, don’t you think? I do worry about the financial…
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Priced Less

I REMEMBER GOING to my grandparents on holidays. At each place at the dinner table was a cloth napkin in a sterling silver napkin ring. It was the thing to do at the time. Each napkin ring was unique and quite old. I still have mine. When my wife and I were married in 1968, two things she wanted were sterling silver flatware and Lenox china. We got the silver as a wedding present and eventually built up enough Lenox china to serve 12. On our first trip to Ireland, a must stop was the Waterford crystal factory. I remember it well. They gave you a clipboard to roam the showroom and check off your purchases. You were assigned a counselor to help you decide. My wife was good at deciding. A few weeks after we arrived home, we received two large boxes of crystal. Our new prized possessions, including water and wine glasses, cost $80 each—and that was more than 15 years ago. On trips to Europe, we gained more treasures from Meissen, Lladro, Wedgwood and Royal Doulton. Sadly, Royal Doulton stopped making the teacups with hand-painted Periwinkles. On my wife’s 40th birthday, I gave her a limited addition Lenox decorative bowl. It had great emotional value. Four children running around a dining room table waving a box of cereal managed to shatter that dream. We glued it together and, after a long search, found a replacement—for the bowl, not the children. Where is all that stuff today? Most is packed away in cabinets and closets. If we use the china and sterling once a year, it’s a lot. About the same for the Waterford. The treasured pieces of Lladro and such are carefully displayed in a curio cabinet. What is it all worth? In terms of memories, priceless.…
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We’re Overruled

I BEGAN TRYING TO figure out the laws related to retirement and employee benefits after the enactment of ERISA in 1974. I spent endless hours over many years in lawyers’ offices in Washington, D.C., as each new law or regulation came along. TEFRA, DEFRA and COBRA are but a few of the many laws that now confound Americans. I bet most people think COBRA was only about health insurance. In fact, it’s the Consolidated Omnibus Budget Reconciliation Act. When you see a D in a law’s acronym, it usually stands for deficit. Meanwhile, an R means reduction or reconciliation. Good luck with that. Recently, HumbleDollar’s Greg Spears explained some of the new rules in the so-called SECURE 2.0 Act. When you look closely at such laws, it’s questionable whether they provide the right incentives, whether they’re administratively feasible and—most important—whether they benefit the Americans who most need help. My experience in trying to explain, comply with and administer these laws over many decades tells me the answer to these questions is almost certainly a resounding “no.” ERISA alone added thousands of pages of regulations. It also contributed to the decline of pension plans by making them more costly to operate. SECURE 2.0 delays required minimum distributions yet again, first to age 73 and later age 75. Who but the wealthy can delay taking retirement savings until their mid-70s? The primary beneficiaries of all this complexity are consultants and lawyers. The losers are average Americans. They’re turned off by what they can’t understand and often interpret the rules incorrectly. It can get them into a mess of trouble. Just consider the many different retirement plans we now have: defined benefit pensions—with many variations—the 401(k), solo 401(k), 403(b), 457, SEP-IRA, traditional IRA and Roth IRA. Each one has a different set of…
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Income or spending? Top priority in retirement.

If you are retired or expect to be in the near future, what is your primary concern (planning issue) income or spending? ‘Once retired, managing spending may be easier than trying to adjust income, but many people see expenses as the main issue. ‘’What is your opinion?
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A Large Bite

IN DECEMBER 2020, my wife got an infection at the site of an old root canal. The dentist initially thought it could be treated with medication. Unfortunately, that wasn’t the case, so an extraction and implant were planned. The process took several visits and several bills, with the charges accumulating along the way. Some of this pain could have been relieved by a modest dental plan that I had from my former employer. That was not to be, as my employer terminated the plan in 2021. What coverage we could then purchase—with money from the company’s health reimbursement arrangement—covers only routine care. I do have a health care spending account through my old employer. But the way it’s structured—which I designed many years ago—requires clairvoyance. You make an annual election for the amount to be available for bills in the following year. In 2020, I transferred way too little for 2021. When the dentist gave us an estimate, the figure reminded me of buying my first car. When you think about it, just the fact that you need an estimate tells you something. The good news: He gave us a senior discount—without regard to our ability to pay, I might add. Later, after the post was installed, he offered a further discount if we paid cash. Usually, I like to pay bills with a credit card to earn rewards. In this case, the discount prevailed. The way this procedure works: You go to the dental surgeon to get the post implanted, and then back to your dentist to have the new tooth attached. The tooth part has yet to be accomplished, so we only have one bill to go by. At this point, however, our cost after discounts is $6,651.67. The estimate for the remaining work adds another $1,500. Over $8,000…
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Throw, hit or kick … it all add$ up

If you have young children or grandchildren, you may know the answer to this question. How much do families spend on their children’s sports activities? 🏈🏒🥍⚾️⚽️ The answer is a lot, often thousands of dollars a year. I know that from experience in our family. My children each spend four thousand more or less for their children’s equipment, team fees, travel costs and in some cases lessons.   And then there are the fund raisers each team conducts. Ma and Pa are a go to source which is fine with us, but maybe not for those retired on a tight budget.  There is social pressure to participate in a different sport each season of the year. Baseball used to be spring and summer. No more, now there is “Fall ball” too. A good little league bat costs $200 or more. When I was a kid the equipment was a broom stick and a pink rubber ball. We never heard of soccer (or proper football). Never mind soccer, what about lacrosse? A mid-range lacrosse kit of equipment runs around $300. And then there is field hockey. A mid-range stick can be $250.  The only travel we did was climb the fence in our apartment’s back yard to get to the local park or walk a half mile with a wood bat, ball and glove to a (dirt, not artificial turf) ball field. Where we live now I can easily walk to four artificial turf football, baseball, soccer/ lacrosse fields all equipped with night lighting, electronic scoreboards and grandstands. One has a snack bar. And you wonder where your property taxes go.  Today travel teams actually travel. Two of our grandchildren have traveled from NJ to Florida, Georgia, Virginia, and Maryland with their teams.  According to New York Life’s Wealth Watch Survey,…
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