If investors never discuss their losers, they probably are.
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Sanjib Saha retired early from software engineering to dedicate more time to family and friends, pursue personal development and assist others as a money wellness mentor. Self-taught in investments, he passed the Series 65 licensing exam as a non-industry candidate. Sanjib is the president and cofounder of Dollar Mentor, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization offering free investment and financial education. Follow his nonprofit on LinkedIn, and check out Sanjib’s earlier articles.FORD MOTOR COMPANY introduced the world to the convertible hard top in 1957 with a car called the Skyliner. It was a marvel of engineering.
To retract, the Skyliner hard top first tilted up and away from the front windshield. Then the top folded in half overhead. The trunk lid opened wide. The folded hard top swung into the trunk, which then closed. All by flipping a single dashboard switch. You can see it in operation in this commercial featuring Lucille Ball and Desi Arnaz.
To make this contraption work, Ford engineers installed seven electric motors, four jack lifts, 10 limit switches, 10 solenoids, four locking mechanisms for the roof, two locking mechanisms for the trunk and 610 feet of wire. It's hugely complicated—and difficult to repair.
I’ve never been a fan of complicated. This applies to investing as well as cars. My introduction to investing came from opening a savings account at my local bank when I was a kid. With time, I could see how my money grew in value if I just left it alone. Simple.
For years, I invested in either savings accounts or certificates of deposit. It wasn’t until I worked for a company with a 401(k) plan administered by Vanguard Group that I dove into the stock market. I chose a one-stop shopping 60% stock-40% bond balanced fund. I contributed an amount that I felt comfortable losing, should things go badly wrong. I knew I had cash in the bank to cover whatever surprises might arise.
I’m sure many others enjoy deciding when, where and how they’re going to invest next. Yet everything that I’ve read tells me the key isn’t timing the market, but time in the market. Just invest and wait patiently.
I keep in mind the old saying, “A watched pot never boils.” Just forget about it until you need the money. Then look up your balance.
Could I have done better with a more complicated investment approach? Maybe. But who cares? As long as I have money in the bank, I’m good.
Adam M. Grossman is the founder of Mayport, a fixed-fee wealth management firm. Sign up for Adam's Daily Ideas email, follow him on X @AdamMGrossman and check out his earlier articles.
Sanjib Saha retired early from software engineering to dedicate more time to family and friends, pursue personal development and assist others as a money wellness mentor. Self-taught in investments, he passed the Series 65 licensing exam as a non-industry candidate. Sanjib is the president and cofounder of Dollar Mentor, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization offering free investment and financial education. Follow his nonprofit on LinkedIn, and check out Sanjib’s earlier articles.NO. 69: WE CAN’T control whether stocks rise or fall, but we can ensure we pocket whatever the market delivers—by diversifying broadly, holding down investment costs and minimizing taxes.
NO. 129: FOREIGN shares tend to rise and fall in sync with U.S. stocks, but that close correlation doesn’t mean you’ll get the same return. In many years, there’s a big performance difference between U.S. and foreign shares—and the gap is even larger in any given decade, with the two asset classes often taking turns posting strong results.
SHORTEN YOUR commute. Thinking of moving home or taking a new job? Research suggests that if you can keep your daily commute to under 20 minutes—and preferably walk to work—you will be happier. By contrast, a long commute, especially by car, is associated with greater unhappiness, worse physical health and a higher divorce rate.
NO. 45: THIS YEAR’S winners often continue to shine next year. This momentum may reflect an initial underreaction to good news, followed by a catch-up period. Trading costs make it hard to profit from the momentum effect. Still, if you own an investment that’s lately started outperforming, maybe you shouldn’t rush to sell.
NO. 69: WE CAN’T control whether stocks rise or fall, but we can ensure we pocket whatever the market delivers—by diversifying broadly, holding down investment costs and minimizing taxes.
My grandmother immigrated to America from Kilkee, county Clare, Ireland. I always wanted to learn more about her life there, but she spoke very little of it. It seems she decided to just let go of hungry Ireland and cast her lot in her new country.
Because of family struggles she had to return to Ireland, but was able to return to the land she now loved and fully embraced. My grandmother loved patriotic poems. I offer an excerpt from her favorite;
I have mentioned previously my joy helping our grandchildren like funding 529 plans.
Now our oldest grandchild is in college. A few days ago I texted him to let me know if he needed anything.
Today I received this text. “I was wondering if you can get me a cheese burger with just lettuce, cheese and pickles, fries and a lemonade from the pizza house near my dorm and you can order online. I’ll pick it up.”
So I placed the order.
What creates a family tradition? Why is a certain vacation spot more special than another with the same basic attributes? Why must the family Christmas celebration repeat the annual ritual to seem authentic? Chances are, these events evoke memories of happy times, perhaps shared with loved ones who are long-gone. Traditions often become fixed in our minds as children, when we’re still learning how things ought to be done.
We’re entering the season of traditions. In the physical therapy clinic during this time,
As I mentioned in my last post, I’ve been thinking about various ways that complex family dynamics can affect one’s own finances, especially when we’re in or headed toward the retirement years. Today’s topic is about having adult children on the “family payroll,” long after one might have assumed they’d be completely independent.
A 2024 study published by the Pew Research Center reported that about one-third of young adults (ages 18-34) still live with their parents and that about 55% of American parents provide varying degrees of financial assistance or support to their young adult children.
MY SON IS A FRESHMAN in high school, and I’m beginning to be more purposeful about his baseball aspirations. But after dropping $85 on a one-hour pitching lesson, I was wondering, was my money well spent?
My search for an answer began with the Netflix series Receiver. I tuned in to see football player George Kittle, a former University of Iowa Hawkeye and bigtime professional wrestling fan. Kittle was kind enough to send autographed memorabilia for a softball fundraiser we had a few years ago.
WHEN IT COMES to financial decisions, there are, as I’ve argued before, two answers to every question: what the calculator says, and how you feel about it. There’s a fly in the ointment, though: Calculator answers might appear to be based in logic, but they’re still imperfect.
Why?
Ian Wilson, a former executive at General Electric, explained it this way: “No amount of sophistication is going to allay the fact that all knowledge is about the past,
- Pain and sorrow in the air,
- Death around us everywhere.
- But...
- One year closer to the grave,
- Think of all the food we'll save
- But...
- Easter Bunny broke his leg,
- Bled all over the Easter Eggs,
- But...
- Santa Claus wrecked his sleigh,
- No more presents Christmas day.
- But...
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