Not So Fast
Jiab Wasserman | Dec 20, 2018
THE GENDER PAY GAP is quantifiable. But there are also other, subtler forms of workplace discrimination that are harder to quantify, but which women face every day. When I was part of a five-person analyst team, my manager invited everyone on the team to a poker night at his house—except me, the only female. When I asked why I was left out, he said the absence of women would make the guys feel freer to relax. Another manager threatened to fire me when I asked to take a longer lunch break to attend my son’s sixth birthday party at his daycare center. While the manager approved my request unwillingly, his exact words were, “Next time, you will have to choose between being a mom and working here.” My experience in the workplace is hardly unique. Women are more likely to be subjected to demeaning comments, have to provide more evidence of their competence, have their work contributions ignored and be seen as the “different” employee who makes others uncomfortable, while also getting less access to senior leaders. Critics say the pay gap is due, in part, to women not asking for money as aggressively as men do. But even when women do, it’s often seen as arrogant, unfeminine and even “bitchy.” It’s also difficult for women to determine how much they are underpaid, as there’s little salary transparency in corporate America. When I requested the salary range for my pay level, so I could know where I fell, both my manager and my manager’s manager informed me they didn’t have that information. My question was escalated to a human resources employee, who informed me I wasn’t privy to this information. Over my career in financial services—where women typically earn 61% to 66% of what men do—I would occasionally ask for greater…
Read more » Buen Camino
Jiab Wasserman | Apr 30, 2019
ON APRIL 3, MY HUSBAND Jim and I were among 262 pilgrims who made our way into Santiago de Compostela to receive an official pilgrim’s certificate for completing the required distance along one of the famous El Camino’s several routes—the most popular of which is some 500 miles. We were now certified peregrinos, or pilgrims. Because it was early in the season, ours was one of the slow days for Camino completion. Last August, 2,000 certificates per day were issued. Walking El Camino is gaining in popularity not just with Spaniards, but also with folks from around the world. In 2018, there were 327,328 certificates issued, compared to just 2,491 in 1986. This begs the question: Why do people commit themselves to such an arduous walk, which can take weeks to complete? In an age that provides convenience, comfort, speed and efficiency, thousands from around the globe walk hundreds of miles, enduring considerable physical demands, long periods of solitude, and deprivation from most modern comforts and conveniences. I can’t answer that question for all pilgrims. But I can honestly say that it was one of the most memorable experiences of my life. The certificate at the end was, of course, nice to receive, but that was the least of it. In The Pilgrimage, Paulo Coelho wrote, “It is the road that teaches us the best way to get there, and the road enriches us as we walk its length.” El Camino enriched me in three ways: I had the feeling of being fully present. I recently retired after working more than 25 years in the business world, where I had to be simultaneously mindful of the past, the current situation and the future. The simple act of walking, putting one foot in front of the other for mile after mile, hour after hour, brought…
Read more » Less Is More
Jiab Wasserman | Aug 20, 2021
I RECENTLY INJURED my lower back playing tennis. I rested for a day and then decided I was well enough to resume my usual activities. But my haste worsened the pain, extending my recuperation to more than a week. Every move—even sneezing—hurt. Putting on my pants was a major struggle. I was forced to do nothing except rest. Doing nothing was the one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. Ironically, at the time of my injury, I was working with Jim on writing a book on Daoism, and I happened to be focusing on the idea of wu wei or “nonaction.” The notion: We shouldn’t act unnecessarily and instead do so only when we absolutely have to. In the Dao De Ching, Lao Tzu cautions against interfering with the state of things. He sees the world as one of precious balance, where an action that isn’t carefully considered might easily lead to an avalanche of unwanted effects before balance is eventually restored. This got me thinking about the financial world—and about how much better off we’d be if we adopted this kind of cautionary thinking by investing in index funds, keeping costs low and interfering with our portfolio's natural growth as little as possible. History has shown it’s extremely difficult to beat the market averages year in and year out. Sometimes, a rush to action hurts us. As Warren Buffett once observed, "The stock market is a device to transfer money from the impatient to the patient."
Read more » Those Millennials
Jiab Wasserman | Aug 16, 2019
MUCH CRITICISM IS leveled against millennials, often defined as those born between 1981 and 1996. The criticism is frequently directed at their money and career decisions, including their purportedly foolish spending, excessive borrowing, job-hopping, self-absorption and sense of entitlement. The perception is so pervasive that even millennials buy into this view of themselves. But I wouldn’t be too quick to criticize millennials or compare them unfavorably to older generations. Each generation confronts its own unique challenges and difficulties, so it’s unfair to judge one generation’s choices based on what the previous generation did. How any generation turns out is largely a byproduct of two influences: the unique set of circumstances they face and their upbringing by the generation before. While baby boomers grew up in a world of relative security and steadily increasing prosperity, millennials grew up with the global uncertainty wrought by the Sept. 11 terrorist attacks. They came of financial age during the Great Recession, the most severe economic downturn since the Great Depression. They saw the impact of a dramatic decline in property values—touted by the previous generation as one of the safest investments. They also saw the collapse of major companies like Enron, Lehman Brothers and Countrywide. Told that the pathway to success was through higher education, they faced explosive increases in tuition, with the cost of attending a university increasing nearly eight times faster than wages between 1989 and 2016. According to Pew Research Center, millennials suffer higher levels of poverty, student loans and unemployment, along with lower levels of wealth and personal income, than the two prior generations had at the same stage of their lifecycle. The upshot: They are the poorest generation since the Second World War. A survey by TD Ameritrade shows that how parents handle money influences their children’s spending habits. If we don’t…
Read more » Grab the Wheel
Jiab Wasserman | Mar 13, 2020
WHILE JIM AND I cooked dinner the other night, we talked about the old cars we drove when we were younger—and how they tended to pull to one side if we took our hands off the steering wheel. We humans have a similar tendency: We head in one direction unless we make a conscious effort to be more rational. That brings me to the coronavirus and accompanying stock market plunge. We all have gut reactions to news like this. Many of us drift toward fear and even panic. If you find that happening, try these three steps: 1. Have a roadmap. Instead of reacting to the news, each of us needs a plan that’ll keep us on course. As we go from childhood to adult life to retirement, we all have financial goals along the way, things like funding college, building an emergency fund, paying off debt, amassing wealth, starting a business and more. Once we’ve developed a financial plan to take us from here to where we want to be, we need to stick with it, no matter how great the temptation to stray. For instance, three of my top priorities were saving for my children’s college, paying off the mortgage and retirement. The 2008-09 Great Recession was perhaps the scariest financial time since the Second World War. But at that juncture, my goals were still many years away, so I stuck with my plan. I continued to fund college and retirement accounts, while also sending in extra mortgage payments as often as I could. I had to cut back on luxuries, including vacations, but I kept my priorities dead center. 2. Know your risk tolerance. We need to be aware of how we react during times of stress and then plan for it. For example, when stressed, do…
Read more » Scope Creep
Jiab Wasserman | Sep 8, 2021
DURING OUR TIME in Spain, we came to admire the water fountains common in mudejar architecture, the Moorish-style homes of Andalusia. During the lockdown, while I tried my hand at creating art, Jim picked up the hobby of making water fountains using a few basic items, including a small water pump and terra cotta planters that he found around the apartment. As the lockdown dragged on, Jim progressed to building more complex fountains. He built an indoor one in a Zen-like style, with water flowing through bamboo pipes into a big terra cotta bowl. The cats claimed this as their drinking fountain. He built another small tabletop fountain for my office. The water bubbled over rocks, so I could enjoy the sound of flowing water. This was also claimed by the cats. Still, although the cats enjoyed the fountains, I think it’s Jim who got the most joy—from making them. About a month ago, we settled back into our townhome in Dallas. Jim wanted to build a fountain to remind us of our time in Andalusia. We already had a large ceramic planter that I’d purchased for $5 at a garage sale, along with a pump given to Jim as a gift. The pump, however, was too powerful. The simplest solution was to buy a smaller $10 pump from Amazon. With the smaller pump and the ceramic pot that we had, Jim could have built a basic fountain in under 30 minutes for $15. But basic wasn’t the type of fountain he wanted to build. It was a classic example of scope creep—a problem not only in the corporate world, but also in the world of remodeling, as Dick Quinn has written about. Long story short: Jim tinkered with the ceramic pot so much that it ended up damaged. That meant…
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- Up-to-date access to your password vault on all devices, regardless of the device’s operating system.
- Updates to your vault as you create new accounts or update existing passwords.
- A random password generator that creates really strong, unique passwords. Those passwords will meet each site’s requirements for length and allowed characters.
- A security challenge which guides you through the work of replacing existing poor passwords—those which are known to be compromised, weak or easily guessed, or which you’ve used more than once.
- Emergency access to your vault by someone you choose, as well as password sharing with, say, family members for your Amazon Prime or Netflix account.
- Two-factor authentication for extra vault security.
Some of these are only available in paid versions of the service. Despite knowing better, I procrastinated in evaluating password managers. That changed the day I tried to picture life for my spouse after I leave this vale of tears. I visualized the chores I handle: Banking, bill paying and investment management all involve online accounts. That brought my password problem into focus. A list of passwords in a binder, next to our wills, isn’t secure and it’s a pain to keep up. After experimenting with a free trial, I bought a family subscription. Moving my password vault from low-ranked to the top 1% took a couple of weekends. Each weekend, I’d spend an hour or two changing passwords, guided by the security challenge and with help from the password generator. Do this on your home PC or Mac, not an office computer. I started with high-value accounts: email, cellular carrier, and then banks and brokerages. Why email? Most web sites let you reset a password by emailing a link to the address on file. If hackers have access to your inbox, they’ll use it to access every online account. The cellular account is also important if you’ve enabled two-factor authentication that triggers text messages with secure codes. What if someone hacks into your password manager’s vault? If you pick a great vault password, the odds of this are low. But when you have all your eggs in one basket, you want to ensure that basket stays safe. That’s what led me to the YubiKey 5 series hardware keys. When you use a YubiKey with a password manager, the manager encrypts your vault twice, once with your vault password and again with a secret it gets from the YubiKey. For convenience, I’m using two models of YubiKey. I use YubiKey 5 Nano with my PC and Mac. Meanwhile, YubiKey 5 NFC stays on my keyring for use with my phone. The latter should work with an iPhone 7 or newer, as well as an Android phone with NFC (near field communication).What is the right percentage?
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