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Money and Me

JONATHAN CLEMENTS’S final book was released this week. Titled Money and Me, it traces the arc of Jonathan’s nearly four-decade career as a personal finance columnist.

Money and Me starts with the story of a man named George Cope, who was a nineteenth century tobacco baron. At the time of his death in 1888, Cope was one of Britain’s richest men. But within just two generations, his fortune was gone. Why? Cope’s daughter was the sole heir to her father’s fortune, but she lived what Jonathan described as a Downton Abbey lifestyle, on an estate in the Cotswolds with five homes and eight children. Before long, the fortune was gone.

This story was of interest to Jonathan because George Cope was his great-great-grandfather. He called it the “big family story” and explains that this hard financial lesson was imprinted on everyone in his family from a young age.

In part because of this family story, Jonathan got interested in personal finance, and, among his peers, was early in focusing on the psychology of money. “I like to think I’m rational in the way I spend my dollars, and I suspect most readers do, too. We are, of course, deluding ourselves,” he wrote.

Early in his career, Jonathan covered mutual funds for Forbes, then The Wall Street Journal. Each week, he'd review a different fund and interview the fund’s manager. From that vantage point, he was early in recognizing a reality about Wall Street: that they’re great marketers but not such great investment managers. After reviewing scores of actively-managed funds, Jonathan came to the conclusion that index funds were a better way to go for most investors.

Since the investing question was “solved,” as he put it, by index funds, Jonathan turned his attention to other domains in personal finance. The relationship between money and happiness was of particular interest. Though he acknowledged that each of us has a happiness “set point” that is largely fixed, he pointed out that our happiness level isn’t entirely fixed. There’s plenty we can do to move the needle.

A chapter titled “15 Ways to Happy” includes a number of practical suggestions. Among them: Jonathan always recommended making plans—especially vacation plans—far in advance. Why? “Often, the best part of a purchase or experience is the anticipation, he explained.And since it doesn’t cost more to book early—indeed, it often costs less—that was his recommendation.

Jonathan leaned heavily on academic research and helped translate its findings for everyday investors. In Money and Me, he explains concepts from psychology including the hedonic treadmill, eudaimonic happiness and many others. Jonathan acknowledged that there’s no magic wand for achieving happiness. On the other hand, he explains why a million-dollar salary isn’t a necessary ingredient for financial contentment.

Jonathan also wrote a lot about spending. On the one hand, owing to his family’s experience, he developed frugal habits early in life, and he was grateful that those habits led to financial independence by age 50. On the other hand, he knew that frugality could be taken too far. In a chapter titled “Don’t Overdo It,” Jonathan offers a menu of ideas to help others who might similarly struggleto loosen the purse strings.

Jonathan had two children and thought a lot about how best to convey money values to them. He knew the risk in helping too much. Money doesn’t necessarily kill all ambition. But it seems to put a big dent in financial ambition, he wrote. For that reason, Jonathan mostly emphasized education rather than direct financial assistance. 

He describes, however, one important way in which his own parents helped him: They always made it clear that they were there for him as a backstop. Though he might have never needed it, simply knowing this support was in the background gave Jonathan the confidence to always invest heavily in the stock market. He describes maintaining an allocation to stocks that was regularly above 80% or even 90%. That kind of aggressive investing ran contrary to the textbook. But recognizing the benefit it had provided during strong markets over the years, Jonathan offered a similar backstop to his own children, thus allowing them to take risks that they might not have otherwise.

In choosing a heavy allocation to stocks, Jonathan explains some of the other factors that went into his thinking. For starters, he points to the role of financial forecasters. They’re often wrong, but that doesn’t stop them from waking up the next day with something new to say. As a result, during both stock market rallies and routs, prognosticators can be found on TV telling stories that often cause investors to overreact. In the chapter “Not Scared of Bears,” Jonathan walks through the math that should give investors the courage to ignore forecasters, to keep their feet on the ground and to stay fully invested regardless of what bad news happens to be in the headlines.

Jonathan was willing to pile on even more risk in his portfolio when markets declined. He acknowledged that this opened him up to the accusation of being a market timer—“pretty much the nastiest insult you can hurl”—but he explains a subtle difference between his approach and true market timing, then offers a helpful strategy for profiting from downturns.

Jonathan Clements was one of a kind. Like all of his readers, I miss his kindness, wit and good cheer. For decades, he helped readers navigate the potholed road known as Wall Street. With his final work, Jonathan leaves us with a timeless guide to thinking about money in uniquely sensible ways.

  Adam M. Grossman is the founder of Mayport, a fixed-fee wealth management firm. Sign up for Adam's Daily Ideas email, follow him on X @AdamMGrossman and check out his earlier articles.
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The Ping

"I am in the same boat. In my case, my lovely wife also purchased so many pair of shoes and purses/bags. Sometime the same bags in various color (4-5). But this is women thing, I am thinking it is kind of cheaper therapy to make her happy. Happy wife happy family."
- Hung Nguyen
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Shopping carts again…but not what you think

"I totally get your point about finding hidden savings, and I suspect it applies to many, but it’s worth noting how subjective this can be. Anyone could look into another person's cart and find something to disagree with—whether it's a six-pack of beer, a bottle of wine, or an expensive steak. Depending on consumption levels, and the consumer's personal health, you could even argue some of these choices are unhealthy. But the larger point is one person’s 'non-essential' prepared dessert is another person’s hard-earned reward. Budgeting is rarely one-size-fits-all because what we value is so personal. Additionally, we never know the financial reality of the person pushing the cart. Many of those carts are being propelled by people for whom money is simply no object, making the exercise of auditing a stranger's groceries a bit of a moot point."
- John Katz
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Peter Cancro from age 14 to 69 covered in oil and vinegar

"Your comment about Mr Cathy "not being fair" to his children is inaccurate and mischaracterizes the nature of the restrictions he placed on his heirs.  He did impose strict operational and financial conditions on the future of Chick-fil-A, because he wanted to preserve the company's Christian values and charitable mission, not to unfairly penalize his children. He also did not restrict, or forbid, the sale of the company; he only prohibited taking it public (IPO) to ensure that shareholder pressure would not compromise the company's charitable giving and religious principles. Not being open on Sunday's may be a drawback to some, but Chick-fil-A ranks #1 in customer satisfaction among fast-food chains for the 11th consecutive year according to the 2025 American Customer Satisfaction Index. Many of my neighbors are retired executives of the company. The story of Jersey Mike's is interesting. I've been enlightening my knowledge of the criticism Cancro received regarding his sale of a majority stake in Jersey Mike's to private equity firm Blackstone."
- Olin
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Percentage that “age in place”

"I read all the comments to date and I appreciate this thoughtful discussion, as well as Keith's thoughtful launch of the topic. Having now made three placements for two people in 3 categories (cottage care, assisted living, and memory care) and visited about 20 sites in our area, I can agree with both sides of this discussion. (There are now hundreds of sites in our area!) First, running these facilities can be a passion project, but more typically it is a big business with a lot of marketing involved and healthy profit margins. The first person you see is usually a pure and simple salesperson who comes across as caring and empathetic, but is focused on doing their job of signing people up for an expensive service operated by a rich person or group whom you will never see. Often this is called something along the lines of a "community care representative." Regarding cost, in a larger community like ours, just under a million, but serving a larger catchment area that adds another 50%, in a desirable lifestyle area, there is a complete range of options from those who take medicaid (or do after a period of time) to those over $10k per month and only private pay. The CCRC's are just moving in. And I know for a fact that buying what you don't yet need in advance always comes at a premium, so yes the market plays to the needs, fantasies, fears, and anxieties of people in the target audience. BTW, if there is a waiting list and it is not a CCRC, usually you can get a place on it for a refundable deposit, typically a check not cashed. This gives you priority on the list when you do need a spot. Also, while some communities may always be full, more typically the flow is rough--people do not die or otherwise leave on a schedule, so a facility with 40 units might be full in December, but have 5 units available in early February. (That also speaks to the unevenness of when people are looking to enter, and yes, we moved our mom into a secure unit mid-February.) Finally, the two factors that I leaned on the most are proximity to family and quality of staff. Every other factor ends up being more sizzle than steak. I didn't figure this out myself, I had to be told and then also experience it. I also learned that facilities (and teams) dedicated to memory care do a better job than ones that just include it--if 80% of the residents are in assisted living, that's where the focus of management and facility will be, same if most of the residents are in independent living."
- Steve Spinella
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Don’t Quantify the Qualitative

"Thank you Jeff for the comment. That's a wonderful observation. Looking back, I think you're right, there are teachers who inspire us, teachers who discourage us, and a much larger group we simply forget. The fact that we still remember certain teachers decades later says something remarkable about the influence they had on our lives."
- Andrew Clements
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The Financial Stress a Simple Document Could Have Prevented

"Jeff, Thanks for sharing. Your experience is definitely a cautionary tale. My parents didn't have a trust set up. I was able to sell my mother's house while she was alive before she became incapacitated. She needed the money from her house to pay for the assisted living which was over $10,000 a month the year she passed."
- Lucretia Ryan
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The Quiet Failure of Good Advice

"Javier, apologies for the length, you asked two questions and I'm apparently incapable of brevity. My wife spent over twenty years in banking and came to her advisor through her professional network rather than any formal search. Given the complexity of her portfolio and our country's tax rules, where every individual is personally responsible for their own position, she probably needs one, and I suspect she has about as good as she's going to find. We've had some friction around fees and the scope of his advice, but that's largely settled. On your second point, as a citizen of another country I'm not best placed to answer meaningfully, but I can offer some examples of where I think the UK makes things easier for the average worker. On the tax side, most employees with straightforward affairs never have to file a return. Tax is deducted at source from every wage through a system called Pay As You Earn (PAYE), handled entirely by the employer's payroll department. Drawing down in retirement is similarly managed by your provider — Vanguard and the like — through the same PAYE system. On the savings side, every employee is automatically enrolled in a pension scheme, with contributions taken directly from their payslip into their chosen funds and a mandatory employer match on top. Growth within a pension is free from capital gains tax, and whether it's a workplace or personal pension the rules are essentially the same, making it straightforward to consolidate and manage across jobs. The government also provides free, impartial retirement guidance through a scheme called Pension Wise, available to anyone approaching retirement age. The UK system seems designed with the disengaged majority in mind. Tax handled automatically, savings enrolled by default, a consistent framework regardless of employment history, and free guidance when retirement arrives. The US system arguably offers more for those who engage with it actively, but rewards financial literacy and punishes inertia in equal measure. For the average Joe, in the UK anyhow, an advisor is normally not required."
- Mark Crothers
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Moving is Expensive!

"Yep. We aimed for June 1 as the day we’d turn the page on the move and go back to living life after three hectic months of buying, selling, and moving. We inaugurated our new grill with a couple of burgers last night and are having a friend over for dinner tonight. Working on enjoying the house rather than just dealing with it!"
- DrLefty
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Farrell Behavior

"William, It’s ironic that you posted this. Just yesterday my daughter texted me a picture of her returns from her Acorns account which is about 67.%. I mentioned to her how our Vanguard account has more return money in it than what we contributed. I also told her that exactly 10 years ago we were in the red a few hundred dollars. Her reply was you never want to see that. I saw her comment as an excellent teaching moment. My reply was true, but the key was I didn’t panic and kept investing and look at where it is now. I also reinforced with her that the in the short term the markets go up and down, but in the long run it has been up."
- DavidHLancaster
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Money and Me

JONATHAN CLEMENTS’S final book was released this week. Titled Money and Me, it traces the arc of Jonathan’s nearly four-decade career as a personal finance columnist.

Money and Me starts with the story of a man named George Cope, who was a nineteenth century tobacco baron. At the time of his death in 1888, Cope was one of Britain’s richest men. But within just two generations, his fortune was gone. Why? Cope’s daughter was the sole heir to her father’s fortune, but she lived what Jonathan described as a Downton Abbey lifestyle, on an estate in the Cotswolds with five homes and eight children. Before long, the fortune was gone.

This story was of interest to Jonathan because George Cope was his great-great-grandfather. He called it the “big family story” and explains that this hard financial lesson was imprinted on everyone in his family from a young age.

In part because of this family story, Jonathan got interested in personal finance, and, among his peers, was early in focusing on the psychology of money. “I like to think I’m rational in the way I spend my dollars, and I suspect most readers do, too. We are, of course, deluding ourselves,” he wrote.

Early in his career, Jonathan covered mutual funds for Forbes, then The Wall Street Journal. Each week, he'd review a different fund and interview the fund’s manager. From that vantage point, he was early in recognizing a reality about Wall Street: that they’re great marketers but not such great investment managers. After reviewing scores of actively-managed funds, Jonathan came to the conclusion that index funds were a better way to go for most investors.

Since the investing question was “solved,” as he put it, by index funds, Jonathan turned his attention to other domains in personal finance. The relationship between money and happiness was of particular interest. Though he acknowledged that each of us has a happiness “set point” that is largely fixed, he pointed out that our happiness level isn’t entirely fixed. There’s plenty we can do to move the needle.

A chapter titled “15 Ways to Happy” includes a number of practical suggestions. Among them: Jonathan always recommended making plans—especially vacation plans—far in advance. Why? “Often, the best part of a purchase or experience is the anticipation, he explained.And since it doesn’t cost more to book early—indeed, it often costs less—that was his recommendation.

Jonathan leaned heavily on academic research and helped translate its findings for everyday investors. In Money and Me, he explains concepts from psychology including the hedonic treadmill, eudaimonic happiness and many others. Jonathan acknowledged that there’s no magic wand for achieving happiness. On the other hand, he explains why a million-dollar salary isn’t a necessary ingredient for financial contentment.

Jonathan also wrote a lot about spending. On the one hand, owing to his family’s experience, he developed frugal habits early in life, and he was grateful that those habits led to financial independence by age 50. On the other hand, he knew that frugality could be taken too far. In a chapter titled “Don’t Overdo It,” Jonathan offers a menu of ideas to help others who might similarly struggleto loosen the purse strings.

Jonathan had two children and thought a lot about how best to convey money values to them. He knew the risk in helping too much. Money doesn’t necessarily kill all ambition. But it seems to put a big dent in financial ambition, he wrote. For that reason, Jonathan mostly emphasized education rather than direct financial assistance. 

He describes, however, one important way in which his own parents helped him: They always made it clear that they were there for him as a backstop. Though he might have never needed it, simply knowing this support was in the background gave Jonathan the confidence to always invest heavily in the stock market. He describes maintaining an allocation to stocks that was regularly above 80% or even 90%. That kind of aggressive investing ran contrary to the textbook. But recognizing the benefit it had provided during strong markets over the years, Jonathan offered a similar backstop to his own children, thus allowing them to take risks that they might not have otherwise.

In choosing a heavy allocation to stocks, Jonathan explains some of the other factors that went into his thinking. For starters, he points to the role of financial forecasters. They’re often wrong, but that doesn’t stop them from waking up the next day with something new to say. As a result, during both stock market rallies and routs, prognosticators can be found on TV telling stories that often cause investors to overreact. In the chapter “Not Scared of Bears,” Jonathan walks through the math that should give investors the courage to ignore forecasters, to keep their feet on the ground and to stay fully invested regardless of what bad news happens to be in the headlines.

Jonathan was willing to pile on even more risk in his portfolio when markets declined. He acknowledged that this opened him up to the accusation of being a market timer—“pretty much the nastiest insult you can hurl”—but he explains a subtle difference between his approach and true market timing, then offers a helpful strategy for profiting from downturns.

Jonathan Clements was one of a kind. Like all of his readers, I miss his kindness, wit and good cheer. For decades, he helped readers navigate the potholed road known as Wall Street. With his final work, Jonathan leaves us with a timeless guide to thinking about money in uniquely sensible ways.

  Adam M. Grossman is the founder of Mayport, a fixed-fee wealth management firm. Sign up for Adam's Daily Ideas email, follow him on X @AdamMGrossman and check out his earlier articles.
Read more »

The Ping

"I am in the same boat. In my case, my lovely wife also purchased so many pair of shoes and purses/bags. Sometime the same bags in various color (4-5). But this is women thing, I am thinking it is kind of cheaper therapy to make her happy. Happy wife happy family."
- Hung Nguyen
Read more »

Shopping carts again…but not what you think

"I totally get your point about finding hidden savings, and I suspect it applies to many, but it’s worth noting how subjective this can be. Anyone could look into another person's cart and find something to disagree with—whether it's a six-pack of beer, a bottle of wine, or an expensive steak. Depending on consumption levels, and the consumer's personal health, you could even argue some of these choices are unhealthy. But the larger point is one person’s 'non-essential' prepared dessert is another person’s hard-earned reward. Budgeting is rarely one-size-fits-all because what we value is so personal. Additionally, we never know the financial reality of the person pushing the cart. Many of those carts are being propelled by people for whom money is simply no object, making the exercise of auditing a stranger's groceries a bit of a moot point."
- John Katz
Read more »

Peter Cancro from age 14 to 69 covered in oil and vinegar

"Your comment about Mr Cathy "not being fair" to his children is inaccurate and mischaracterizes the nature of the restrictions he placed on his heirs.  He did impose strict operational and financial conditions on the future of Chick-fil-A, because he wanted to preserve the company's Christian values and charitable mission, not to unfairly penalize his children. He also did not restrict, or forbid, the sale of the company; he only prohibited taking it public (IPO) to ensure that shareholder pressure would not compromise the company's charitable giving and religious principles. Not being open on Sunday's may be a drawback to some, but Chick-fil-A ranks #1 in customer satisfaction among fast-food chains for the 11th consecutive year according to the 2025 American Customer Satisfaction Index. Many of my neighbors are retired executives of the company. The story of Jersey Mike's is interesting. I've been enlightening my knowledge of the criticism Cancro received regarding his sale of a majority stake in Jersey Mike's to private equity firm Blackstone."
- Olin
Read more »

Percentage that “age in place”

"I read all the comments to date and I appreciate this thoughtful discussion, as well as Keith's thoughtful launch of the topic. Having now made three placements for two people in 3 categories (cottage care, assisted living, and memory care) and visited about 20 sites in our area, I can agree with both sides of this discussion. (There are now hundreds of sites in our area!) First, running these facilities can be a passion project, but more typically it is a big business with a lot of marketing involved and healthy profit margins. The first person you see is usually a pure and simple salesperson who comes across as caring and empathetic, but is focused on doing their job of signing people up for an expensive service operated by a rich person or group whom you will never see. Often this is called something along the lines of a "community care representative." Regarding cost, in a larger community like ours, just under a million, but serving a larger catchment area that adds another 50%, in a desirable lifestyle area, there is a complete range of options from those who take medicaid (or do after a period of time) to those over $10k per month and only private pay. The CCRC's are just moving in. And I know for a fact that buying what you don't yet need in advance always comes at a premium, so yes the market plays to the needs, fantasies, fears, and anxieties of people in the target audience. BTW, if there is a waiting list and it is not a CCRC, usually you can get a place on it for a refundable deposit, typically a check not cashed. This gives you priority on the list when you do need a spot. Also, while some communities may always be full, more typically the flow is rough--people do not die or otherwise leave on a schedule, so a facility with 40 units might be full in December, but have 5 units available in early February. (That also speaks to the unevenness of when people are looking to enter, and yes, we moved our mom into a secure unit mid-February.) Finally, the two factors that I leaned on the most are proximity to family and quality of staff. Every other factor ends up being more sizzle than steak. I didn't figure this out myself, I had to be told and then also experience it. I also learned that facilities (and teams) dedicated to memory care do a better job than ones that just include it--if 80% of the residents are in assisted living, that's where the focus of management and facility will be, same if most of the residents are in independent living."
- Steve Spinella
Read more »

Don’t Quantify the Qualitative

"Thank you Jeff for the comment. That's a wonderful observation. Looking back, I think you're right, there are teachers who inspire us, teachers who discourage us, and a much larger group we simply forget. The fact that we still remember certain teachers decades later says something remarkable about the influence they had on our lives."
- Andrew Clements
Read more »

The Financial Stress a Simple Document Could Have Prevented

"Jeff, Thanks for sharing. Your experience is definitely a cautionary tale. My parents didn't have a trust set up. I was able to sell my mother's house while she was alive before she became incapacitated. She needed the money from her house to pay for the assisted living which was over $10,000 a month the year she passed."
- Lucretia Ryan
Read more »

The Quiet Failure of Good Advice

"Javier, apologies for the length, you asked two questions and I'm apparently incapable of brevity. My wife spent over twenty years in banking and came to her advisor through her professional network rather than any formal search. Given the complexity of her portfolio and our country's tax rules, where every individual is personally responsible for their own position, she probably needs one, and I suspect she has about as good as she's going to find. We've had some friction around fees and the scope of his advice, but that's largely settled. On your second point, as a citizen of another country I'm not best placed to answer meaningfully, but I can offer some examples of where I think the UK makes things easier for the average worker. On the tax side, most employees with straightforward affairs never have to file a return. Tax is deducted at source from every wage through a system called Pay As You Earn (PAYE), handled entirely by the employer's payroll department. Drawing down in retirement is similarly managed by your provider — Vanguard and the like — through the same PAYE system. On the savings side, every employee is automatically enrolled in a pension scheme, with contributions taken directly from their payslip into their chosen funds and a mandatory employer match on top. Growth within a pension is free from capital gains tax, and whether it's a workplace or personal pension the rules are essentially the same, making it straightforward to consolidate and manage across jobs. The government also provides free, impartial retirement guidance through a scheme called Pension Wise, available to anyone approaching retirement age. The UK system seems designed with the disengaged majority in mind. Tax handled automatically, savings enrolled by default, a consistent framework regardless of employment history, and free guidance when retirement arrives. The US system arguably offers more for those who engage with it actively, but rewards financial literacy and punishes inertia in equal measure. For the average Joe, in the UK anyhow, an advisor is normally not required."
- Mark Crothers
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NO. 44: WE SHOULD view our debts as negative bonds. Instead of earning interest, we’re paying it. Tempted to buy bonds? First, we should see if we can earn more by paying down debt.

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SELF-INSURE. If we have a moderate amount of savings, we might choose to scale back our insurance coverage and perhaps drop some policies entirely, and instead self-insure. Let’s say we have enough set aside for retirement. We might cancel our disability insurance, knowing we could cover costs for the rest of our life, even if we never worked again.

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PUT RETIREMENT first. Are you socking away at least 12% of your pretax income toward retirement, including any matching contribution to your employer’s retirement plan? To amass enough for retirement, you may need to throttle back other financial ambitions, including the size of the house you buy and how much you help your kids with college costs.

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NO. 49: WE’RE enthused about stocks when our preferred political party wins and in despair when it loses. But how do financial markets feel? Markets don’t feel. Instead, they reflect the judgment of all investors—liberals and conservatives—whose chief concern isn’t the country’s political direction, but rather what’ll happen to corporate profits and interest rates.

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NO. 44: WE SHOULD view our debts as negative bonds. Instead of earning interest, we’re paying it. Tempted to buy bonds? First, we should see if we can earn more by paying down debt.

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You Might Be Ready to Retire…Who Would You Rather Be?

Dear HD readers:  We had so much fun with the original version of this post, that I thought it might be fun to add a 3rd possible route to funding retirement at $138,000/yr.   Of course, there is no reality in this, no real personal info, it is just a scenario.  And, most important, any legal route that get you to your desired retirement income is the right one for you.
 
One of my friends is hitting 73 in August and we were discussing his need to do an RMD this year. 

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MANY PEOPLE FOCUS on building wealth through asset allocation and investment choices. Far fewer think about asset protection. In my opinion, protecting wealth is just as important as building it, especially since decades of disciplined saving and investing can be undone in one unfortunate event.
In this article, I wanted to discuss some of the strategies and tips that I’ve learned, and implemented in my personal finance journey.
Quick disclaimer: I’m not a lawyer,

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Going too far with FIRE: The downside of being in the financial advice business – RDQ

I always thought the glowing stories of FIRE folks were a bit dodgy. Much of the time they aren’t even retired in the traditional sense. Sometimes they go too far sharing their acquired wisdom for cash.
I followed one blogger for several years. She shared her frugal ways, extreme in my view like buying her two-year olds shoes in a second hand thrift shop. She wrote a book, gained a lot of publicity, was featured in news articles and gave advice. 

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I was fed up with the people who claim we’d all be better off if an equivalent sum of money was deposited into private accounts instead of Social Security, so I set out to prove them wrong.
I deserve a slap on the back from my spreadsheet loving engineer friends. From my first year working in 1969 to retirement in 2022 I listed wages by year, SS payroll tax by year, and the growth after 54 years if invested in the S&P500,

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What If

Last month I did my best to analyze investments to the market as an alternative to payroll taxes for Social Security. My conclusion was that the payroll taxes were worth it, though some readers respectfully disagreed.
But what if I could go back in time for a do-over. What if at age 16 I began to invest an amount into the market that was equal to and in addition to the payroll tax deducted from my pay?

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Is it possible to achieve financial well being without a plan or even a spreadsheet?

Based on the feedback I have received on HD over the years mostly directed at my failure to budget or track expenses in detail using spreadsheets, my selection of some high expense investments and to not pay much attention at all to our investments, failure to use financial or retirement planning services, retaining life insurance in retirement, beginning Social Security at FRA while working, buying cars for cash, retiring at age 67(part of my income replacement strategy),

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The Art of Spending Money

I just finished reading Morgan Housel’s The Art of Spending Money, and it hit a different nerve than most financial books. Most of us spend years talking about how to earn more, save more, invest better, and retire sooner. All of those matter. But Housel pushes a harder question: What is the money actually for? Is it buying back time? Peace? Family memories? Health? Independence? Or is it quietly being used to chase status, comparison, or applause? One line I keep coming back to is this: A raise that becomes a payment is not really a raise anymore. It is a new obligation. That made me think about retirement, lifestyle creep, debt, and how easy it is to look successful while feeling trapped. For me, the bigger lesson is that spending is not automatically good or bad. The real question is whether the purchase supports the life you actually want — or the image you feel pressured to maintain. So, here’s the conversation starter: What is one purchase you made that genuinely improved your life — not because it impressed anyone, but because it gave you more peace, time, health, family connection, or freedom? And on the flip side: What is one purchase you thought would make life better, but later realized it was mostly about status, pressure, or keeping up?
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Mortgage in Retirement

I’m planning a new home build as I head into retirement, and I’m considering carrying a mortgage and keeping the payment at no more than 18%-20% of my total retirement income floor, with a term of 10 years or less (with an early payoff). For those who’ve done something similar (or chose not to), does that sound like a reasonable plan in real life—and what should I stress-test or watch out for? Jeff
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“Too Much House” vs “Not Enough House”—But Through the Lens of Aging in Place

We talk a lot about downsizing, upsizing, and “right-sizing.” But I think the more useful question is: How well will your home support you 10–15 years down the road—and what are you willing to pay for that flexibility? I’m planning a retirement build and I’m intentionally designing for aging in place—wide doors and hallways, single-floor living, an easy/step-free entrance, and a walk-in shower with a minimal curb (plus the usual goal: fewer maintenance headaches). The catch is that many of these features add cost up front, even if they reduce risk, hassle, and remodeling later. A few questions to spark discussion: If you could design (or redesign) your home for age 75–85, what would be your top 3 priorities? Which aging-in-place feature has been most valuable in your experience (or your parents’/friends’)? What did you think would matter in a retirement home, but later realized didn’t? How do you balance comfort now with future-proofing—without overbuilding or overspending? If you moved or built again, what would be non-negotiable (single-level, walkability, low-maintenance exterior, wider doors, curbless shower, etc.)? If you’ve already downsized, built, remodeled, or helped someone transition later in life—what would you do the same, and what would you do differently?  
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A Life You Build

My hope is this resonate with some of you and you will tell your own story. It's probably more of an article, but my hope is it creates good conversation and your wisdom as well. The life we built, the family we raised, and the future we prepared for were not handed to us. They were built—day by day, dollar by dollar, choice by choice. Most people will never have the exact same story. The details change. The names change. The setting changes. But the themes are often familiar: doing the best you can with what you have, learning responsibility early, carrying more than you expected, and trying to build a better life one decision at a time. That is what this story is really about. I grew up in a fatherless home, born in the mid-1960s and raised by two strong women—my mother and my grandmother. I was the youngest of four, with three older sisters ahead of me, and while we never had a lot, we always had enough. My mother worked as a nurse, and my grandmother did whatever honest work she could find—ironing, sewing, cleaning houses, and working at a donut shop. There was no easy road laid out in front of us. But there was faith, effort, sacrifice, and a willingness to keep going. I was also shaped by where I came from—the Texas Panhandle. Amarillo is a place of hard wind, blowing dust, blue northers, ice, heat, and weather that can turn on you in a hurry. It is a place that teaches you early that comfort is never guaranteed. The land is open, the climate is harsh, and life tends to toughen you in ordinary ways. Looking back, that environment matched the values I was being raised with: work hard, endure, adapt, and…
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At what age did travel start feeling like work—and what changed your plan?

I’m curious when this shift happened for you if it has. A lot of us picture retirement travel as freedom—until at some point it starts feeling like logistics: packing, airports, long walks, tight schedules, rental cars, luggage, sleep disruption, and “do we really want to do this again?” Sometimes it’s health. Sometimes it’s energy. Sometimes it’s just interest. So—at what age did travel start feeling like work for you, and what changed your plan? What was the turning point—health, stamina, spouse preference, grandkids, caregiving, crowds, cost, anxiety, or just “been there, done that”? Did you shift from big trips to shorter/easier travel (driving trips, off-season, cruises, one-home-base trips)? Did your spending change—more comfort spending (nonstop flights, better hotels, upgraded seats) or less travel overall? If you cut back, what did you do with the “travel money” (home upgrades, hobbies, helping family, larger cash reserve, more local experiences)? For those still traveling hard later in life—what’s your secret sauce? I’m trying to learn what people actually experienced—not the brochure version—and how you adjusted both lifestyle and money plan when travel stopped being automatic.
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Your two best investing books—and do you also keep an End-of-Life “family binder”?

Two practical questions for the group—because both have a huge impact on your family’s future: 1) Investing books: If you had to recommend one or two investing books that truly changed how you invest (not hype, not theory-heavy), what are they—and what’s the key takeaway you still use? Something you would gift to your kids/grandkids. 2) End-of-Life planner / “If I get hit by a bus” file: Do you have an end-of-life planner / estate organizer / family binder that your spouse or kids could use immediately if needed? I recently saw a spiral-bound end-of-life planner on Amazon (the type marketed as an estate planning organizer with tabs and large print—sometimes even labeled “I’m Dead Now What”). Do you use something like that, or did you build your own binder / digital folder? Paper, digital, or hybrid? What sections mattered most in real life (accounts, beneficiaries, insurance, passwords, contacts, final wishes, etc.)? I’m not looking for legal advice—just what’s worked (or what you’d do differently). We have updated wills but will be creating a Trust and Sub-Trust when I retire to ensure the protection and best interest for our disabled adult daughter.
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