How to protect your retirement savings from scammers?
smr1082 | Jul 29, 2024
I was reading this New York Times Article today titled: " How one man lost $740,000 to scammers targeting his retirement savings". See this link.
This is a shocking reminder that scammers are getting more and more sophisticated. It is going to get worse. Criminals on the internet are increasingly going after Americans over 60 for their retirement savings. Potential losses last year were over $3.4 billion.
Here's another link that's relevant.
What steps should we take to protect our assets from scammers? What telltale signs will you look for, to warn you of a potential scam in the making?
Read more » Lessons you have learned from articles by Jonathan
smr1082 | Jan 22, 2025
While there are thousands who have been following Jonathan's columns and articles for decades, I started reading his articles only about a year and a half ago. His articles influenced me to change my investing behavior. Now I am focused only on broad market ETFs and not reacting to frequent market gyrations. I am sure many of you have learned much from him and made changes to how you think about investing. This goes beyond financial lessons. I have also learned a lot about how to cope with adversity from his recent articles after terminal diagnosis. He certainly has made a huge difference. I have read quite a few of his articles in HumbleDollar. It will be great to hear from those following him for many years to benefit from their perspectives. What lessons (financial and about life in general) have you learned and implemented from Jonathan's writings? - Sundar Mohan Rao
Read more » Lump sum Vs Monthly Payment – Which pension option is better?
smr1082 | Jun 21, 2024
Obviously, this depends on individual situation. I faced this dilemma in 2023, when I retired. There are pros and cons for each. Many of my colleagues opted for lump sum. That seemed to be the most popular thing to do. I was one of the few who opted for monthly payment. With Social Security and monthly pension, which cover my expenses, I can be more aggressive with investing our nest egg. I don't need to worry about funding expenses from investments in the midst of market fluctuations. So far, I have been very happy with this decision. What has been your experience? What would be your advice for someone faced with this choice? Sundar Mohan Rao
Read more » Need or Want?
Sundar Mohan Rao | Jan 11, 2024
DECADES AGO, WHEN I was trying to save consistently for retirement, I found that my impulse purchases were standing in my way. Like many, I wanted feel-good stuff or the latest gadget, and I was willing to spend money to get it.
Once, I saw an expensive jacket in a store and badly wanted it. I was about to buy it when reality struck. I said to myself, “Let me think it over for a day. If I really need it, I’ll buy it tomorrow.”
Guess what? The next day, I didn’t think about it. I had other things to worry about, and I saved some serious money.
This was a revelation. I could avoid impulse buying simply by postponing the decision. Thereafter, this became my mantra when making any big purchase—wait a day before buying.
On further thought, it became clear to me that I was confusing wants and needs. If the expensive jacket was a real need, I would have gone back to the store the next day and bought it. But the truth is, it was a want, and I could live without it.
Now, the question I ask myself before buying anything big is, “Is this a want or a need?” For decades, this simple question has helped me save money by avoiding impulse purchases.
I preached it to my sons as they were growing up, but I was never sure whether they’d put it into practice. Proof came a few years ago. One of my sons told me he was going to buy a fancy electronic gadget on Black Friday because the deal was too good to pass up.
After a week, when I asked him about it, he said, “Dad, I followed your mantra. I waited 24 hours before clicking the buy button and the deal didn’t look all that good, so I didn’t buy it.” I was happy to know my simple strategy worked for him, too.
Impulse buying is one reason that six out of 10 American families report living paycheck to paycheck. Even among Americans earning more than $100,000 a year, four out of 10 say they live this way, according to a survey by LendingClub.
It’s not easy to resist the siren song of purchases. Products are promoted to make you want to buy them, whether you need them or not. Social media makes the situation worse. When your friends show off their new purchases online, you also want to buy them.
Impulse buying can extend to stock trading. We’ve seen momentum stocks take off as everyone piles in. Getting in on the action seems attractive. A recent example is the meme stock craze. FOMO, or fear of missing out, is an immensely powerful emotion.
Rushing to buy a stock based on an analyst's recommendation is another pitfall. I’ve made that mistake on multiple occasions, and I’ve lost money every time.
These days, I take a more disciplined approach. First, I’m wary of buying individual stocks, instead focusing on exchange-traded funds. Even if a stock looks extremely attractive and its price is spiking, I’ll take time to do research before buying. By that time, often the crowd’s impulse buying has waned and the stock has dropped to a more reasonable price.
My advice: If you’re about to make a significant purchase, don’t be in a hurry. Make sure it’s something you truly need—and not an impulse purchase.
Sundar Mohan Rao retired recently after a four-decade career as a research and development engineer. He lives in Tampa in a 55-plus community. Mohan's interests include investing, digital painting, reading, writing and gardening. His previous article was More Than Money.
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Read more » What Financial/ Life advice would you give a 2024 college graduate?
smr1082 | Jun 29, 2024
Times have changed a lot since we graduated from high school or college. We have experienced many ups and downs in life and observed what works and what doesn't. Some financial and life lessons we learned are still valuable to the next generation. Let us share it here! Sundar Mohan Rao
Read more » Filling Our Cups
Sundar Mohan Rao | Dec 25, 2024
DURING A PROJECT meeting at my old employer, a member of our team was constantly raising questions without offering any solutions. Afterwards, the team leader commented, “This guy always thinks his cup is half empty. Nothing will ever satisfy him.”
We’ve all known such people. Is there anything wrong with their attitude? It depends. My boss told me during my first week, “Never be satisfied with the status quo. Find ways to improve everything. That’s the only way you’ll move up in the organization.” Our civilization has made tremendous advances because people weren’t satisfied with the way things were. That can be a good thing—but only if it’s followed by steps to fix the problems identified.
The “cup half-empty” group can be overly pessimistic. I’ve known several folks who always find fault with how things are. They may say they have high standards, but others might describe them as “very demanding” or “perfectionists.”
Meanwhile, the “cup half-full” group can be overly optimistic. They’re the ones who say cheerfully, "Good morning. What a great day,” even when the sky is cloudy and the forecast isn’t good. They tend to be positive almost all the time. People tend to like optimists, and research shows optimists are typically happier than pessimists.
I used to wonder if I was an optimist or a pessimist. I got my answer when visiting my son some years ago. He was driving with the gas tank less than 10% full. I was constantly pointing out that he needed to fill up. He thought I was stressing unnecessarily. In fact, I fill the gas tank every time it drops below the 50% mark. That may be overly cautious, but that’s me.
One survey found that 46% of those age 65 and below are optimistic, versus 66% for those who are older. Life has a way of teaching us to ignore meaningless shortcomings and focus on the big issues. That’s a good thing. I’ve seen my own attitude change with age. I’ve become less stressed about things that I can’t control.
Such attitudes carry over to our finances. Pessimists take steps to ensure they don’t lose money by, say, holding a high allocation to bonds and cash. They may constantly worry about a market downturn. Meanwhile, optimists take risks in investing, perhaps betting heavily on highflying momentum stocks. They may also lose big during market downturns.
How do you go from a “half-empty” to a “half-full” person? If you opt for a smaller cup and pour in the same amount of water, you now have a full cup. In other words, you need to change your frame of reference. For example, if your finances are tight because you own a big home, it may be time to downsize and cut your expenses. Your financial cup will be fuller, leading to less stress.
You might have heard of the “missing tile” syndrome. You focus on a single missing piece in a beautiful tiled wall. You zero in on the negative and ignore all the positive things you have. The result is misery.
I didn’t have a good grasp of this until I saw a friend of mine after a gap of five years. His first greeting was, “What happened? You lost some hair.” I was surprised. We had so many things to catch up on. Why was he talking about my hair? It dawned on me later that he had been bald from an early age and his “missing tile” was his hair. He was focusing on everyone else's hair, thereby making himself miserable.
Focusing on the negative is a common problem that leads to stress in relationships, finances and life more generally. I’ve suffered from this myself. I have a nice car, though not the latest model, but I’m happy with it. Still, there’s a little scratch. Every time I got in the car, I noticed the scratch and it made me a little less happy. Nobody else notices, because the scratch is so small. But it’s the negative I kept focusing on.
Lately, I’ve learned to ignore the scratch. I’d encourage you to do the same. This holiday season, I plan to count my blessings, avoid comparisons and stop worrying about things I don’t have control over. My goal is to be thankful—and to think of my cup as always being at least half full.
Sundar Mohan Rao retired after a four-decade career as a research and development engineer. He lives in Tampa in a 55-plus community. Mohan's interests include investing, digital painting, reading, writing and gardening. Check out his earlier articles.
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