A New Kind of Heaven
Catherine Horiuchi | May 1, 2024
I'M TYPICALLY FRUGAL and financially cautious. But this past January, I became reckless. No, it wasn’t love, at least not the ordinary kind. Rather, I saw a photograph and made an offer of $48,000 on a “park unit” located 1,000 miles from home.
Park unit, I learned, is a technical term for a variant of what I’d call a mobile home. My first task was to look up the term, so I’d know what I was offering to buy. For those readers who enjoy reading government standards definitions, these constructions are governed by ANSI standard A119.5.
This manmade object is mobile in name only. It has been “parked” inside an age-restricted recreational vehicle resort in Arizona for nearly 40 years. The resort rents space by the day, month or year to vehicles that move (RVs) and those that don’t (park units and manufactured homes). Until I arrived at the beginning of March, I knew its particulars only through pictures and a 33-page report of an inspector I’d hired. I knew little about its construction or its series of prior owners and occupants.
As a result of my impetuousness, I’ve added to my personal possessions an immobile vehicle, with an assessed value of about $25,000 per the Pima County Treasurer’s Office and which sits on a tiny patch of rented land over which I enjoy limited control. In purchasing the park unit, I also acquired an attached porch and laundry, a back patio with landscaped garden, a covered driveway and a large storage shed. The unit came “fully furnished,” meaning a houseful of secondhand appliances and discarded possessions, including a golf cart. This drove the difference between my purchase price and the unit's assessed value.
I have a rough estimate of forward expenses for this and the coming years of ownership, expenses that I’ll be able to cover without trouble. Still, new costs and uncertainty have come my way, despite my focus on financial simplification over the past year. Why take this plunge? It’s a fair question.
My youngest turned age 18 and is off finding his future. My twins are establishing themselves in their young adult lives. Thanks to good cellular coverage and a family phone plan, we’re able to keep tabs on one another. I have few expectations, responsibilities or demands on my time. I’m still in the company of the family dog, so it’s not a complete break with the past.
When my spouse died five years ago, I soldiered on as a single parent and breadwinner, before taking early retirement. Now that those roles have been unwound, I’m reinventing myself. I don’t know the future, though many things are evident: I’m not as youthful as when I last looked in a mirror.
Adventures transport me beyond the world that defined my working and family years.
Infirmity will eventually find me, fast or slow. If slow, I could need help at home, or my kids might bring me into their homes. I could require services of a care community. Or I might go in a flash. Meanwhile, I have to be somewhere.
I need to grow, learn new things and keep my mind fully engaged.
I want my “decumulation expenditures” to reflect my values and interests.
I remain curious about other people and their life stories. I want to meet new people and tend to longstanding friendships.
Time spent with family and friends brings great joy.
I have more to contribute to the wider community. I’m redefining an already excellent life, living true to my nature. And I’m finding this involves a new universe, the world of 55-plus housing.
So, it’s not random, my decision to purchase this so-called recreational vehicle. HumbleDollar contributors have already shared stories about second homes, continuing care retirement communities, traveling around the world, retiring near children and relocating to less expensive cities, states or overseas. Threads have discussed long-term-care insurance and the cost of skilled nursing, as anticipated for oneself or as experienced by spouses or parents. I’ve read these and am better informed, thanks to the perspectives offered by others.
I also hold close the insights of Australian hospice nurse Bronnie Ware: “It all comes down to love and relationships in the end.”
My home neighborhood exemplifies “aging in place.” I’ve listened to neighbors’ stories during my 35 years of living here. Two seniors regretted their inability to visit siblings. One had a brother on the opposite coast. The other neighbor’s brother was only 200 miles away, but neither traveled well once they hit their 80s, so that left only phone contact. A third neighbor grew timid about leaving her house after retiring, especially during the pandemic, resulting in crippling seclusion and loneliness.
My brother and sister-in-law, like others residing in northern states, favored mid-winter holidays in warmer climes during their working years. First it was St. Petersburg in Florida, then Arizona, where they visited a friend who’d moved into a 55-plus mobile home in Tucson that was once owned by her father. My brother and his spouse decided to head south for good when they retired. In a thorough search, they considered housing options throughout the Tucson metropolitan area, both age-restricted and typical neighborhoods.
They explored the full range of options at every price point. Some were bare bones, while one development established by retired professors created a community stuffed with aesthetics and amenities, including regular lectures and Pilates classes. In due course, they sold their spacious riverfront Craftsman bungalow in Michigan and acquired a second-hand park unit in a modest age-restricted RV resort.
At the time, I thought they’d gone crazy. Why didn’t they buy a house with a garden like the one they’d left behind, only now in the Sunbelt? If they wanted to live an age-restricted lifestyle, why not select the finest retirement community with every amenity they might enjoy?
They encouraged me to visit them in their secondhand single-wide, so a few years back the kids and I took a holiday trip to Tucson to check it out. It was a mind-blowing week.
If they’d bought into the fanciest community, they would have spent their days with retired professionals similar to themselves. If they’d bought a house in a general neighborhood, they’d be the oldsters home alone while everyone else was off at work and school. They would need a car to do anything, okay for now but maybe not so much as they grow older.
Instead, my brother and sister-in-law became part of a compact and modest community of less than 300 households, the majority seasonal snowbirds and some just passing through. Their resort’s common areas include a small pool, a workout facility and community rooms an easy two-minute walk from their trailer.
They’ve got a small shopping center across a boulevard with restaurants, a salon, a bank, a post office, a hardware store, a mini-mart and an insurance agency. A park abuts the resort on one side, with a traditional single-family home neighborhood beyond that. Multiple county, state and national parks lie within a few miles, drawing visitors from around the world.
Their RV park includes dozens of spaces for Class A, B and C motorhomes. Migratory neighbors drive from as far as Canada to spend the winter in Tucson. As anyone who’s shopped for a motorhome knows, such vehicles range in price from a few thousand dollars to as much as $300,000. Let’s not forget the cost of a smaller car towed behind to get out and about while “camping” at an RV park. When temperatures rise come spring, winter vacationers return to northern homes and extended families, or continue their mobile RV roaming elsewhere.
I’ve learned that approximately 225,000 retirement-age individuals live in the Tucson metropolitan area. For virtually every imaginable malady related to aging, there’s a world-class medical center within the metropolitan area bursting with specialists. Access to good health care is on my checklist of must-haves in retirement.
My home town has grown substantially since I arrived. Doctors, dentists and the you-name-it who I’ve patronized for 35 years are retiring, like me. New restaurants and longstanding stores address the tastes and needs of the current generation of working adults and families with young children. Businesses that didn’t change with the times are gone altogether.
When I retired, I lost my daily contact with work colleagues. A few weeks later, the pandemic arrived and closed campus for a long time, keeping me from establishing the habit of wandering about and staying engaged as an emeritus faculty member. The campus has since reopened, but post-pandemic people seem to have changed their working and socializing habits, and I haven’t felt a strong urge to begin anew there.
I lost a second set of casual friends when the kids grew up, and aged out of school clubs and competitive sports, with their many practices, meets and travel. I spent years warming auditorium seats and gymnasium benches across the state and around the world, endless hours spent with parents of other youngsters. We shared our lives, but not anymore.
I still have friends around town and among local oldsters who hang out at neighborhood bakeries drinking coffee most mornings. But it’s nothing compared to the vibrancy of my brother’s social network. And so I’ve bought a unit in the same park as my brother and sister-in-law.
For now, I’ll be a seasonal resident. When hot weather arrives, I’ll return to where I worked and raised my family. With an extra bedroom available at home, my brother and sister-in-law can spend as much of the summer as they wish with me at my house. I can still enjoy the many wonderful things that make my neighborhood a great place, and I’ll have family nearby in the winters when I travel south.
Here's what’s crucial to this entire venture. My adult children don’t need to be spending time thinking about me growing old, possibly lonely in the old house. Instead, I’m building a more robust circle of family and new friends, where we can take turns both being needy and helping each other.
Maybe I’m not so reckless after all.
Catherine Horiuchi is retired from the University of San Francisco's School of Management, where she was an associate professor teaching graduate courses in public policy, public finance and government technology. Check out Catherine's earlier articles. [xyz-ihs snippet="Donate"]
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