Sharing It
Richard Quinn | Jul 4, 2018
I HAVE A PENSION, a 401(k) plan and other investments, and no debt. I worked more than 50 years to accumulate what I have. Still, I realize I am fortunate. That brings me to a list of advice for seniors that’s now making the rounds on the internet. I found it fascinating—and disturbing. The list is presented for “those of us who are between 65 and death, i.e. old.” Many people who have read the list buy into the philosophy behind it. I don't. Here are three finance-related excerpts from the list: 1. “It’s time to use the money you saved up. Use it and enjoy it. Don’t just keep it for those who may have no notion of the sacrifices you made to get it. Remember there is nothing more dangerous than a son or daughter-in-law with big ideas for your hard-earned capital.” Hey, if you are retired and have money that allows you to purchase more than the necessities, go for it—up to a point. I don't advocate being so frugal that retirement is a miserable bore. But I also don’t see frivolously spending, just to use up money, as prudent. The “use it” philosophy might be okay if you knew exactly how much money you need and for how long. But who has that information? If you spend carelessly, fate may dictate you becoming a financial burden to your kids. 2. “Stop worrying about the financial situation of your children and grandchildren, and don’t feel bad spending your money on yourself. You’ve taken care of them for many years, and you’ve taught them what you could. You gave them an education, food, shelter and support. The responsibility is now theirs to earn their own money." A rather selfish point of view, don’t you think? I do worry about the financial…
Read more » Priced Less
Richard Quinn | Nov 1, 2021
I REMEMBER GOING to my grandparents on holidays. At each place at the dinner table was a cloth napkin in a sterling silver napkin ring. It was the thing to do at the time. Each napkin ring was unique and quite old. I still have mine. When my wife and I were married in 1968, two things she wanted were sterling silver flatware and Lenox china. We got the silver as a wedding present and eventually built up enough Lenox china to serve 12. On our first trip to Ireland, a must stop was the Waterford crystal factory. I remember it well. They gave you a clipboard to roam the showroom and check off your purchases. You were assigned a counselor to help you decide. My wife was good at deciding. A few weeks after we arrived home, we received two large boxes of crystal. Our new prized possessions, including water and wine glasses, cost $80 each—and that was more than 15 years ago. On trips to Europe, we gained more treasures from Meissen, Lladro, Wedgwood and Royal Doulton. Sadly, Royal Doulton stopped making the teacups with hand-painted Periwinkles. On my wife’s 40th birthday, I gave her a limited addition Lenox decorative bowl. It had great emotional value. Four children running around a dining room table waving a box of cereal managed to shatter that dream. We glued it together and, after a long search, found a replacement—for the bowl, not the children. Where is all that stuff today? Most is packed away in cabinets and closets. If we use the china and sterling once a year, it’s a lot. About the same for the Waterford. The treasured pieces of Lladro and such are carefully displayed in a curio cabinet. What is it all worth? In terms of memories, priceless.…
Read more » We’re Overruled
Richard Quinn | Jan 22, 2023
I BEGAN TRYING TO figure out the laws related to retirement and employee benefits after the enactment of ERISA in 1974. I spent endless hours over many years in lawyers’ offices in Washington, D.C., as each new law or regulation came along. TEFRA, DEFRA and COBRA are but a few of the many laws that now confound Americans. I bet most people think COBRA was only about health insurance. In fact, it’s the Consolidated Omnibus Budget Reconciliation Act. When you see a D in a law’s acronym, it usually stands for deficit. Meanwhile, an R means reduction or reconciliation. Good luck with that. Recently, HumbleDollar’s Greg Spears explained some of the new rules in the so-called SECURE 2.0 Act. When you look closely at such laws, it’s questionable whether they provide the right incentives, whether they’re administratively feasible and—most important—whether they benefit the Americans who most need help. My experience in trying to explain, comply with and administer these laws over many decades tells me the answer to these questions is almost certainly a resounding “no.” ERISA alone added thousands of pages of regulations. It also contributed to the decline of pension plans by making them more costly to operate. SECURE 2.0 delays required minimum distributions yet again, first to age 73 and later age 75. Who but the wealthy can delay taking retirement savings until their mid-70s? The primary beneficiaries of all this complexity are consultants and lawyers. The losers are average Americans. They’re turned off by what they can’t understand and often interpret the rules incorrectly. It can get them into a mess of trouble. Just consider the many different retirement plans we now have: defined benefit pensions—with many variations—the 401(k), solo 401(k), 403(b), 457, SEP-IRA, traditional IRA and Roth IRA. Each one has a different set of…
Read more » Income or spending? Top priority in retirement.
R Quinn | Jul 31, 2024
If you are retired or expect to be in the near future, what is your primary concern (planning issue) income or spending? ‘Once retired, managing spending may be easier than trying to adjust income, but many people see expenses as the main issue. ‘’What is your opinion?
Read more » A Large Bite
Richard Quinn | Oct 2, 2021
IN DECEMBER 2020, my wife got an infection at the site of an old root canal. The dentist initially thought it could be treated with medication. Unfortunately, that wasn’t the case, so an extraction and implant were planned. The process took several visits and several bills, with the charges accumulating along the way. Some of this pain could have been relieved by a modest dental plan that I had from my former employer. That was not to be, as my employer terminated the plan in 2021. What coverage we could then purchase—with money from the company’s health reimbursement arrangement—covers only routine care. I do have a health care spending account through my old employer. But the way it’s structured—which I designed many years ago—requires clairvoyance. You make an annual election for the amount to be available for bills in the following year. In 2020, I transferred way too little for 2021. When the dentist gave us an estimate, the figure reminded me of buying my first car. When you think about it, just the fact that you need an estimate tells you something. The good news: He gave us a senior discount—without regard to our ability to pay, I might add. Later, after the post was installed, he offered a further discount if we paid cash. Usually, I like to pay bills with a credit card to earn rewards. In this case, the discount prevailed. The way this procedure works: You go to the dental surgeon to get the post implanted, and then back to your dentist to have the new tooth attached. The tooth part has yet to be accomplished, so we only have one bill to go by. At this point, however, our cost after discounts is $6,651.67. The estimate for the remaining work adds another $1,500. Over $8,000…
Read more » Throw, hit or kick … it all add$ up
R Quinn | Sep 27, 2025
If you have young children or grandchildren, you may know the answer to this question. How much do families spend on their children’s sports activities? 🏈🏒🥍⚾️⚽️ The answer is a lot, often thousands of dollars a year. I know that from experience in our family. My children each spend four thousand more or less for their children’s equipment, team fees, travel costs and in some cases lessons. And then there are the fund raisers each team conducts. Ma and Pa are a go to source which is fine with us, but maybe not for those retired on a tight budget. There is social pressure to participate in a different sport each season of the year. Baseball used to be spring and summer. No more, now there is “Fall ball” too. A good little league bat costs $200 or more. When I was a kid the equipment was a broom stick and a pink rubber ball. We never heard of soccer (or proper football). Never mind soccer, what about lacrosse? A mid-range lacrosse kit of equipment runs around $300. And then there is field hockey. A mid-range stick can be $250. The only travel we did was climb the fence in our apartment’s back yard to get to the local park or walk a half mile with a wood bat, ball and glove to a (dirt, not artificial turf) ball field. Where we live now I can easily walk to four artificial turf football, baseball, soccer/ lacrosse fields all equipped with night lighting, electronic scoreboards and grandstands. One has a snack bar. And you wonder where your property taxes go. Today travel teams actually travel. Two of our grandchildren have traveled from NJ to Florida, Georgia, Virginia, and Maryland with their teams. According to New York Life’s Wealth Watch Survey,…
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