Over Coffee
Richard Quinn | Apr 19, 2019
SITTING IN A COFFEE shop, I struck up conversation with a middle-aged woman. We were talking about winning the lottery and then, as if one thought naturally followed the other, we got onto the topic of retirement. She mentioned how difficult it was for her and her husband to pay the mortgage and the monthly bills. “After saving for retirement?” I interjected. “We can’t save for retirement,” she responded. “Our plan is to get our mortgage paid off, sell the house when we retire and invest the proceeds.” A smart strategy? According to data from Freddie Mac and elsewhere, the price of existing homes has increased at just above the inflation rate—and that’s before maintenance costs and other expenses. By contrast, the 90-year inflation-adjusted total return for the S&P 500 is around 7% a year. This couple seemed to be treading water. I was thinking to myself, “Where are you going to live once you sell your house? If you’ve never invested in the financial markets your entire life, is retirement really the time to start?” Then the coffee shop was empty and I was left with two millennial baristas, who became the next victims of my inquiries. I started by asking, “Were those tattoos expensive?” I know the answer—hundreds of dollars and up—from previous investigation. But when I see tattooed young people, spending money on what—in my opinion—just messes up their bodies, I can’t help myself. My occasional follow-up question is, “Have you thought about how that might look when you’re 65?” But not today. Today, I was thinking about HumbleDollar stuff, so I say, “Have you guys”—actually they’re young women ages 21 and 25—"thought about saving for retirement?” One takes the muffin from her mouth, and the other stops her pour over, and they stare at me. “No,” is the coordinated…
Read more » Faulty Perceptions
Richard Quinn | Nov 28, 2023
THERE'S A SAYING that “perception is reality,” meaning that what you believe is your reality, whether it’s true or not. Changing our perception isn’t easy. It takes effort, along with a willingness to discover and accept facts. Many Americans’ perceptions are incorrect, leading them to make subpar financial decisions. Consider: Social Security. Nobody stole the trust fund, it’s not going broke and, yes, it will be there for you. Medicare. It’s not socialized medicine. Care is rendered by the private sector and patients get to select who provides care. Taxes. The U.S. is not among the highest-taxed countries. Affordable Care Act. It’s not government-run health insurance. Like Medicare, care is provided by the private sector. Paycheck to paycheck. Struggling to pay bills isn’t just a low-income phenomenon. High earners can live that way, too. Paycheck-to-paycheck living is as much about spending as income. Recently, I was in a coffee shop when a worker from my old employer came in. I recognized the logo on his hard hat and struck up a conversation. “How are things at the company?” I asked. “Pretty bad” was his reply. He asked where I’d worked. I told him I’d been in the main office and had been in charge of employee benefits. Then I took a big risk and asked how he liked his employee benefits program. “It stinks,” he replied. I should have stopped there, but I pressed on. I’m the person who installed a new benefits program at the company in 1996, which was the year this man was hired. The program is different from that enjoyed by longer-tenured workers, which I also mentioned. His response was quick and to the point— “you suck”—though said with a smile on his face. Back in 1996, we were trying to lower costs and liabilities without…
Read more » Shopping carts. Please don’t consider this a rant. It is a lamentation.
R Quinn | Nov 5, 2025
Why oh why is it so hard for people to put shopping carts where they belong after use or at least not put them where they don’t belong? Three times in the last week I have pulled into a handicap parking space only to see a cart left right in the middle of the space - a handicap space‼️ Of course, in addition, numerous carts are left in regular spaces, alongside cars and in some cases at the end of a parking lot nowhere near the store they came from. My theory is these lazy, inconsiderate dolts are the same people who live paycheck to paycheck, carry credit card balances, fail to save for their future and who will not be helped by a budget. It’s a theory mind you, but it seems to me that inconsiderate, irresponsible behavior is rarely limited to one element of a personality. I bet they don’t carry life insurance either and their shopping cart is filled with junk food. They probably drive one of those Bentley SUVs, but would not leave their cart near it. I had a cousin who made a very good living selling shopping carts. I bet he would have liked to have seen them all sent flying off an embankment. Gadzooks, my theory may have reached its limit.😎
Read more » Could you be (justifiably) a source of envy by others? Are you wealthy?
R Quinn | Jul 19, 2025
A great deal of wrath these days seems to target the wealthy although that generally means billionaires or close to it. However, being wealthy is very relative. I suspect many HD readers are looked upon as wealthy by their peers while perhaps not feeling so themselves. I admittedly fall in that trap. Many comments on HD by those retired indicate to me being relatively wealthy or pretty close to it. So, look at the data as estimated as it may be, and see for yourself. Would your friends, neighbors and relatives be justified in viewing you as wealthy - with a touch of envy? For reference, latest data indicate: Median household income: $80.6k overall: peaks near $95k (45–64) and drops to $57k (65+). Median net worth: $39k (<35) $409k (65–74) $336k (75+). Average net worth: $183k (<35) $1.79M (65–74) down to $1.62M (75+). Overall median net worth: $192.7k; average is $1.06M. I’d say having a net worth in the 90th percentile makes a person wealthy in most people’s view. Approximate 90th percentile net worth by age: Age 45-54 $1.4 million Age 55-64 $2.2 million Age 65-74 $2.5 million Age 75 + $2.00 million These figures are estimates based on Federal Reserve and Census data, adjusted to 2024 dollars Recent surveys suggest that a net worth of $2.2 million to $2.5 million is often cited as the threshold for being considered wealthy by the general public. However, this can vary significantly by location and by generation. I say it also depends on what is included In the numbers. If it is mostly one’s home, that makes a difference in my opinion. There is a difference between income and net worth of course. Someone can have a high income but not be truly wealthy if they spend it all or have significant…
Read more » Quinn is considering buying a Bentley
R Quinn | Sep 3, 2024
While driving on the highway recently I noticed the vehicle in front of us was a Bentley - an SUV no less. My immediate thought was that this SUV would never be part of an off road adventure - neither are most SUVs for that matter. I had another thought too. Why would you spend that kind of money on a depreciating asset that costs a fortune to maintain? The price tag is about $279,000. That’s a lot of cash to get from A to B even in comfort. Connie had another thought. How much money do you need, what income level is necessary to afford such a car? I did a little research on who buys a Bentley. The information varies and who knows how reliable, but it seems the age group of buyers is 35-55. Buyers typically have an income in excess of $1 million a year and a net worth well above $5 million. They also own several other vehicles. Maybe they only drive the Bentley to church each week. I don’t meet any of the indicated criteria, but I could buy a Bentley - if I was willing to see a whopping decline in my net worth - not sure the ongoing insurance premiums and maintenance would be feasible though. Are there folks who would use a chunk of their assets to feel wealthier than they are, to impress? I’m sure there are, but in my case driving a Bentley to the local county public golf course might get me pulled over by the police. Actually I would be embarrassed, I would feel guilty, I couldn’t explain it to our children. Heck, I can’t even come to a decision whether to replace my ten year old Mercedes. The question remains, why would anyone spend over a…
Read more » Spending Tip: Don’t
Richard Quinn | Jun 27, 2023
I'VE DECIDED TO SELL some of my investments and buy a Bentley. The one I admire would cost about $300,000, including taxes and fees. Just kidding. Besides, I couldn’t face my four children after such an indecent splurge, knowing that they’re dealing with high-deductible health plans, saving for college and socking away money for retirement—just like millions of other Americans. While that Bentley purchase would be possible in theory, it would substantially reduce my assets, plus the insurance, maintenance and gas would mean giving up more frivolous things—such as eating. Indeed, a major purchase is rarely just a purchase. There’s usually some other expense that goes with it: maintenance, repairs, interest payments, insurance, opportunity cost or—who knows?—all of the above. That’s why, before any significant purchase, we ought to consider the long-term consequences. That’s no fun, of course. How many times have you heard the phrases, “It’s only money” and “You only live once”? I laugh when I watch a game show and the host asks, “What will you do if you win the $10,000?” Last night, the answer was, “I always wanted to go to Australia and New Zealand, and I’m going to take my family for a month or two.” Are they planning to swim both ways? I have yet to hear a contestant say, “I’m going to pay off my credit cards” or “I think I’ll contribute to my IRA.” There was little chance of him winning the $10,000, anyway. To the question, “What war did the Boston Tea Party precede,” he answered, “World War II.” Mensa candidate, he wasn’t. It doesn’t take a genius to know that spur-of-the-moment, emotionally driven buying can be risky. And it doesn’t have to be Bentley-level spending, either. Vacations are easily rationalized and put on a credit card. Such splurges seem…
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