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Automatic Income stream? How important to you?

"I don’t know. Any involvement with markets has risk- at least more than a guaranteed income stream. And I don’t want to be flexible in my withdrawal rate."
- R Quinn
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Does Vanguard Know Something?

"That is the best explanation. Compliance run check daily for any potential violation, since after 10% there is no 11%, 12% the next one is 20%, therefore the fund manager should consider that."
- Hung Nguyen
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When to Leave Your Portfolio Alone

"Thank you! I rebalance to the band rather than target."
- Mark Gardner
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Billy’s Certificate – 1937

"Really enjoy creative writing. And if any discipline needs it, it is the 'dismal science'. thanks!!"
- Will
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Investment Wisdom

THE INVESTMENT WORLD is full of storytellers. And while these folks might be entertaining, they generally aren’t very helpful. There’s one category of stories, however, that I do think is useful: They’re what I might call investment fables. They’re apocryphal stories that likely aren’t real. But they’re helpful nonetheless because each carries a useful lesson. Here are some of the more popular ones. Consumer choice. In 1999, Richard Mille and a partner launched a company to make wristwatches. By 2001, the company was ready to begin taking orders for its first model, the RM 001. They knew they wanted to target a high-end market, so they chose the Financial Times for their first advertisement. According to legend, however, a graphic designer at the newspaper made a mistake. Instead of including the watch’s intended price of $13,500, an extra zero was added, making the price $135,000. At first, the company was furious at the newspaper for the mistake. But then the phone started to ring. The sky-high price turned out to be attractive to a certain class of buyers, and the initial run of the 001 quickly sold out. Today, Richard Mille sells several models priced in the hundreds of thousands, and some limited editions carry price tags north of $1 million. For its part, the company denies this story, maintaining that $135,000 was always the price it intended. But whether this story is true or not, it illustrates a concept in personal finance known as the Veblen effect. This occurs when the traditional shape of a demand curve gets turned upside down. Instead of consumers buying less of something as its price rises, when it comes to Veblen goods, consumers want to buy more as the price increases. Hermes handbags and Ferrari sportscars are other examples. What should we make of the Veblen effect? To answer this question, it’s worth examining its origins. Thorstein Veblen was a sociologist and economist. Perhaps owing to his background as the sixth of 12 children growing up in modest, rural surroundings, Veblen became broadly critical of capitalism. In his 1899 book, The Theory of the Leisure Class, he coined the term “conspicuous consumption.” And while Veblen didn’t explicitly see himself as a socialist, he leaned in that direction. He would have been bitterly critical of something like a Richard Mille watch. In making spending decisions, though, I wouldn’t worry too much about value judgments like this. The reality is that each of us is different, and we each value different things. That’s why I prefer to stick to the numbers. The most important thing, in my view, is simply to have a framework for your household finances, to ensure that your overall spending level is in line with your long-term plan. Other people’s subjective judgments, in my opinion, shouldn’t factor in. Investment gains. When it comes to investing, what’s the best strategy? According to lore, Fidelity Investments once looked into this question by examining the performance of all of the accounts on its platform. What did they find? The accounts that had done the best were those that had been abandoned due to the death of the owner, with the result that the investments hadn’t changed for years. There’s no evidence that this story is true, but it’s repeated frequently because it aligns with real data. In studies going back more than 25 years, research has shown that frequent trading is generally associated with worse investment results. This is true for both individual and professional investors. To be sure, some active managers have delivered impressive results. In the past, this has included the likes of Warren Buffett and James Simons. More recently, a 24-year-old named Leopold Aschenbrenner has delivered returns of more than 1,000% in the two years since he founded a hedge fund to bet on AI stocks. But cases like this are the exceptions that prove the rule. For most investors, most of the time, the data tell us that it’s better to trade less rather than more. Market tops. On a related note, there’s a tale about Joseph Kennedy—President Kennedy’s father. He was an active investor in the 1920s, but he said he realized it was time to sell when the fellow giving him a shoeshine one day started offering stock tips. What’s interesting about this story is that Kennedy did actually sell his stocks and even took a short position early in 1929, earning him a fortune when the market dropped. The shoeshine aspect of this story likely isn’t true. But it’s a favorite because it carries a useful message. Veteran investor Jeremy Grantham has often talked about the market signals he pays attention to. In addition to P/E ratios and other quantitative measures, he’s noted that he looks for “signs of craziness”—things like the GameStop mania in 2021. When the stock market begins to look more like a casino—and when we see YouTube influencers making stock calls from their gaming chairs—Grantham gets nervous. Intuitively, this does make sense, but it may not be very useful. Consider how the market has performed in recent years. After Grantham urged caution in 2021, the market did drop in 2022. But then it rose in 2023, 2024, 2025 and in the first half of 2026. So an investor who sold in 2021 would have missed out on significant gains. The bottom line: Just as the number of world-class stock-pickers is limited, so too is the number of tactical traders who have profited in the way Joe Kennedy did by getting out at just the right moment. Market forecasts. What’s a better way to think about the stock market? According to another Wall Street tale, J.P. Morgan was once asked what he thought the market would do over the coming year. His reply: “It will fluctuate.” There’s no evidence that Morgan ever actually said this, but in this case too, the story is popular because it sounds right. And in my view, this is exactly the right way to think about the stock market. At the end of the day, the only thing we can know for sure about the stock market is that it will either go up, go down or stay about the same. If we can structure our portfolios so we won’t be too negatively affected whichever way it goes, that, in my opinion, is the road to success.   Adam M. Grossman is the founder of Mayport, a fixed-fee wealth management firm. Sign up for Adam's Daily Ideas email, follow him on X @AdamMGrossman and check out his earlier articles.
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Why can’t more people plan for their retirement future?

"For me it was a combination of two related things. First, poor role models (my parents) and wanting to NOT be like them. Second, being a fundamentally anxious person by nature. I wanted to provide a more secure upbringing for my kids than I had experienced. I am not a risk-taker when it comes to finances. So being prudent about the future, including our retirement, fit right into all that."
- DrLefty
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Lessons Learned Along the Way

"The path in Life looks nothing in hindsight like it did at the beginning.."
- Will
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Four Walls

"Thank you so much for your kind words. I’m truly touched that the article resonated with you. The poem has never been published, so I’m not surprised you couldn’t find it online. I’m delighted to share it with you, and I hope it adds another dimension to the thoughts behind the article. Thank you again for your thoughtful comment and for your continued encouragement, it means a great deal to me. And go to YouTube to check Dimash Requiem of One Sky."
- Andrew Clements
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How do you prepare for the long term care cost as retiree?

"That is amazing internal fortitude. I read an article by Jason Zweig in WSJ about Daniel Kahneman. https://www.wsj.com/arts-culture/books/daniel-kahneman-assisted-suicide-9fb16124"
- V Saraf
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The cost of foreign taxes on returns

"Unfortunately, a good portion of dividend income is not qualified for the lower divident tax rate in taxable accounts"
- Charles Moser
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Automatic Income stream? How important to you?

"I don’t know. Any involvement with markets has risk- at least more than a guaranteed income stream. And I don’t want to be flexible in my withdrawal rate."
- R Quinn
Read more »

Does Vanguard Know Something?

"That is the best explanation. Compliance run check daily for any potential violation, since after 10% there is no 11%, 12% the next one is 20%, therefore the fund manager should consider that."
- Hung Nguyen
Read more »

When to Leave Your Portfolio Alone

"Thank you! I rebalance to the band rather than target."
- Mark Gardner
Read more »

Billy’s Certificate – 1937

"Really enjoy creative writing. And if any discipline needs it, it is the 'dismal science'. thanks!!"
- Will
Read more »

Investment Wisdom

THE INVESTMENT WORLD is full of storytellers. And while these folks might be entertaining, they generally aren’t very helpful. There’s one category of stories, however, that I do think is useful: They’re what I might call investment fables. They’re apocryphal stories that likely aren’t real. But they’re helpful nonetheless because each carries a useful lesson. Here are some of the more popular ones. Consumer choice. In 1999, Richard Mille and a partner launched a company to make wristwatches. By 2001, the company was ready to begin taking orders for its first model, the RM 001. They knew they wanted to target a high-end market, so they chose the Financial Times for their first advertisement. According to legend, however, a graphic designer at the newspaper made a mistake. Instead of including the watch’s intended price of $13,500, an extra zero was added, making the price $135,000. At first, the company was furious at the newspaper for the mistake. But then the phone started to ring. The sky-high price turned out to be attractive to a certain class of buyers, and the initial run of the 001 quickly sold out. Today, Richard Mille sells several models priced in the hundreds of thousands, and some limited editions carry price tags north of $1 million. For its part, the company denies this story, maintaining that $135,000 was always the price it intended. But whether this story is true or not, it illustrates a concept in personal finance known as the Veblen effect. This occurs when the traditional shape of a demand curve gets turned upside down. Instead of consumers buying less of something as its price rises, when it comes to Veblen goods, consumers want to buy more as the price increases. Hermes handbags and Ferrari sportscars are other examples. What should we make of the Veblen effect? To answer this question, it’s worth examining its origins. Thorstein Veblen was a sociologist and economist. Perhaps owing to his background as the sixth of 12 children growing up in modest, rural surroundings, Veblen became broadly critical of capitalism. In his 1899 book, The Theory of the Leisure Class, he coined the term “conspicuous consumption.” And while Veblen didn’t explicitly see himself as a socialist, he leaned in that direction. He would have been bitterly critical of something like a Richard Mille watch. In making spending decisions, though, I wouldn’t worry too much about value judgments like this. The reality is that each of us is different, and we each value different things. That’s why I prefer to stick to the numbers. The most important thing, in my view, is simply to have a framework for your household finances, to ensure that your overall spending level is in line with your long-term plan. Other people’s subjective judgments, in my opinion, shouldn’t factor in. Investment gains. When it comes to investing, what’s the best strategy? According to lore, Fidelity Investments once looked into this question by examining the performance of all of the accounts on its platform. What did they find? The accounts that had done the best were those that had been abandoned due to the death of the owner, with the result that the investments hadn’t changed for years. There’s no evidence that this story is true, but it’s repeated frequently because it aligns with real data. In studies going back more than 25 years, research has shown that frequent trading is generally associated with worse investment results. This is true for both individual and professional investors. To be sure, some active managers have delivered impressive results. In the past, this has included the likes of Warren Buffett and James Simons. More recently, a 24-year-old named Leopold Aschenbrenner has delivered returns of more than 1,000% in the two years since he founded a hedge fund to bet on AI stocks. But cases like this are the exceptions that prove the rule. For most investors, most of the time, the data tell us that it’s better to trade less rather than more. Market tops. On a related note, there’s a tale about Joseph Kennedy—President Kennedy’s father. He was an active investor in the 1920s, but he said he realized it was time to sell when the fellow giving him a shoeshine one day started offering stock tips. What’s interesting about this story is that Kennedy did actually sell his stocks and even took a short position early in 1929, earning him a fortune when the market dropped. The shoeshine aspect of this story likely isn’t true. But it’s a favorite because it carries a useful message. Veteran investor Jeremy Grantham has often talked about the market signals he pays attention to. In addition to P/E ratios and other quantitative measures, he’s noted that he looks for “signs of craziness”—things like the GameStop mania in 2021. When the stock market begins to look more like a casino—and when we see YouTube influencers making stock calls from their gaming chairs—Grantham gets nervous. Intuitively, this does make sense, but it may not be very useful. Consider how the market has performed in recent years. After Grantham urged caution in 2021, the market did drop in 2022. But then it rose in 2023, 2024, 2025 and in the first half of 2026. So an investor who sold in 2021 would have missed out on significant gains. The bottom line: Just as the number of world-class stock-pickers is limited, so too is the number of tactical traders who have profited in the way Joe Kennedy did by getting out at just the right moment. Market forecasts. What’s a better way to think about the stock market? According to another Wall Street tale, J.P. Morgan was once asked what he thought the market would do over the coming year. His reply: “It will fluctuate.” There’s no evidence that Morgan ever actually said this, but in this case too, the story is popular because it sounds right. And in my view, this is exactly the right way to think about the stock market. At the end of the day, the only thing we can know for sure about the stock market is that it will either go up, go down or stay about the same. If we can structure our portfolios so we won’t be too negatively affected whichever way it goes, that, in my opinion, is the road to success.   Adam M. Grossman is the founder of Mayport, a fixed-fee wealth management firm. Sign up for Adam's Daily Ideas email, follow him on X @AdamMGrossman and check out his earlier articles.
Read more »

Why can’t more people plan for their retirement future?

"For me it was a combination of two related things. First, poor role models (my parents) and wanting to NOT be like them. Second, being a fundamentally anxious person by nature. I wanted to provide a more secure upbringing for my kids than I had experienced. I am not a risk-taker when it comes to finances. So being prudent about the future, including our retirement, fit right into all that."
- DrLefty
Read more »

Lessons Learned Along the Way

"The path in Life looks nothing in hindsight like it did at the beginning.."
- Will
Read more »

Four Walls

"Thank you so much for your kind words. I’m truly touched that the article resonated with you. The poem has never been published, so I’m not surprised you couldn’t find it online. I’m delighted to share it with you, and I hope it adds another dimension to the thoughts behind the article. Thank you again for your thoughtful comment and for your continued encouragement, it means a great deal to me. And go to YouTube to check Dimash Requiem of One Sky."
- Andrew Clements
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Manifesto

NO. 39: WE SHOULD worry less about dying early in retirement—and more about living longer than we ever imagined. Faced with that risk, we might delay Social Security and buy lifetime income annuities.

act

INVEST YOUR TAXABLE account thoughtfully. If you purchase the wrong investments in your taxable account, you may be reluctant to sell because you’ll trigger capital gains taxes. A good choice: low-cost U.S. and international total stock market index funds, which should be tax-efficient—and which shouldn’t ever lag far behind the market averages.

think

ARRIVAL FALLACY. We strive mightily to get that next promotion or amass $1 million, confident we’ll be supremely happy once we achieve our goal. But the resulting happiness quickly slips away. What to do? We should pursue goals where we know we’ll enjoy the journey—and we should make sure we have new goals to replace the ones we achieve.

Truths

NO. 80: RETIREMENT should be your top priority, ahead of saving for a home or the kids’ college. Why? Retirement costs far more, so you need decades to amass enough, plus you should always fund a 401(k) with an employer match. There also aren’t loans available for retirement, as there are for college and home purchases, except for costly reverse mortgages.

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Manifesto

NO. 39: WE SHOULD worry less about dying early in retirement—and more about living longer than we ever imagined. Faced with that risk, we might delay Social Security and buy lifetime income annuities.

Spotlight: Life Events

The Unsettling Relief of Saying Goodbye

It would have been my mum’s 91st birthday this week. She passed two years ago this June after the long goodbye from the thousand small cuts of dementia. Although I experienced grief and sadness, it truly was a relief to bid my mum the final farewell after the long marathon of loss over many years. I gave a final kiss to the echo of the woman before me as the heat of life left mum’s body.

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Friday the 13th, the Luckiest Day of My Life

Happy Friday the 13th, everyone.
They say that one of the best financial decisions you can make, if you’re married, is to stay married. So I figure that gives me just enough of a hook to justify sharing on Humble Dollar why I celebrate today.
I met my wife Rosalinda for the first time…twice. In 1977, I was a 2nd year law student at the University of Texas in Austin. That spring I found myself spending another boring and tedious weekend studying at the UT law library.

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Price of Playing

WE RECEIVED A PHOTO Christmas card from a guy I used to work with. The picture was taken at his daughter’s wedding, with my old colleague standing next to his wife, son and daughter-in-law. Picture perfect.
The only problem: His story isn’t picture perfect. When he and I first met, we worked in the same division at an insurance company. Right before the division was closed down, I transferred to a different department. Eventually,

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A Diamond Wedding Anniversary

I wore a gown of Chantilly lace—the sun caught the sparkles in my bridal headdress. My husband was resplendent in his tuxedo—the sun was shining on a beautiful April morning —Our wedding day, 60 years ago, April, 1965.
While The choice of a spouse is among the most important decisions most people ever make,  it’s a choice that comes with no guarantees of long term happiness.  That said, we all have an ideal vision of the person we would like to marry. 

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Did the Era You Grew Up In Influence Your Financial Plan?

Does the larger societal era from your childhood influence your financial outlook as an adult and beyond into retirement? This question came to mind while I was responding to a comment by bbbobbins on an article I’d posted to The Humble Dollar forum.
For example, my childhood was set against the immediate backdrop of social and civil unrest in my local community in Ireland. This was compounded by the overarching global tension of superpower rivalry during the Cold War,

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Money Moments

IN THE WORLD of personal finance, some topics are serious—and others less so. Since it’s the holiday season, it seems appropriate to look back at some of the year’s less weighty stories.
Early delivery. The year started off on a positive note for an Alabama couple. Sha’Nya Bennett was in labor and on her way to the hospital when a snow squall rolled in, forcing her to pull over. The expecting mom ended up delivering in her car,

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Spotlight: Connor

How have you decided when it’s worth it to fix an old car?

My 2014 Honda Accord recently hit 99,000 miles. It’s nothing fancy to look at, but it drives well. Recently I’ve been having an issue with the starter. The push start works intermittently. Sometimes it starts on the first push, sometimes it takes multiple tries. I think the most it has taken is 6 tries.  I’ve kept up with the maintenance, but I drive it infrequently, so the time between service has spread out. It was due for an oil change, so I decided to have the starter checked out. Long story short the car needed a new starter. It also needed brake work, new calipers, and a few other things.  The total cost (after some discount coupons) was about $2,500.  I elected to have the car repaired and plan to drive it for a while. It’s a reliable second car. But it got me thinking about the age-old question of when is it worth it to repair an old car? I did some research and the Kelley Blue Book private sale value ranged from about $9,800 to $11,900, depending on the condition. Carvana had similar cars for sale in the $16,500 range. So, the repairs are at most 25% of the car’s private sale value. I checked a few sources on the web and a general rule of thumb indicated that if the repair was more than 50% of the car’s value, it’s not worth it. I also found recommendations that said it was worth it if the repair cost was below the total value of the car. Obviously, there are a number of considerations in this decision, many of them personal. Is the car generally safe and reliable? Are there likely to be other major repairs coming soon? Does your wife hate the car? Is it the ugliest car…
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Paid to Wait

ARE YOU IN YOUR 60s and worried about rising consumer prices? It’s worth understanding how inflation affects Social Security benefits—especially its impact on those who postpone claiming their monthly check. Social Security benefits jumped 5.9% in 2022, thanks to the annual cost-of-living adjustment. This inflation increase was based on the Bureau of Labor Statistics’ CPI-W. This was the largest adjustment since 1982, and it affected nearly 64 million retirees. The increase took effect in January. Based on current inflation, another significant increase is also predicted for 2023. Several other Social Security limits also rose in 2022. For workers, the maximum amount of earnings subject to the Social Security payroll tax climbed to $147,000. For those in their 60s, the earnings limit—the amount of earned income that folks receiving benefits can collect before their Social Security check is reduced—also increased. This earnings limit kicks in if you’re younger than your full retirement age (FRA), which is age 66 or 67, depending on the year you were born. Social Security defines full retirement age as the age when you’re eligible for an unreduced retirement benefit. For people younger than their FRA in 2022, the earnings limit increased to $19,560. For people who reached their full retirement age in 2022, it rose to $51,960. If your earned income is above these thresholds, your benefit is reduced. Interestingly, these values didn’t rise by the same 5.9%. The maximum income subject to payroll taxes increased 2.94%, the pre-FRA earnings limit rose 3.16% and the FRA year earnings limit rose 2.85%. The increase in these values is based not on CPI-W, but on changes to the National Average Wage Index, which increased 2.83% for 2020, the latest year for which data are available. Although my wife and I are now eligible for Social Security, we’ve decided to…
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Refi or Not?

MY WIFE AND I BOUGHT our first home in the mid-1980s. We were thrilled to get an 8% mortgage, though we had to pay three points—an upfront fee equal to 3% of the loan amount—to get that rate. Many of our friends had bought a few years earlier and were paying 14%, a common occurrence back then, according to Freddie Mac data. We kept our eyes open for opportunities to refinance our high rate. If I recall correctly, the prevailing rule of thumb said you needed a two-percentage-point reduction in interest rate—and you might need to stay in the home for another seven years—for a refinancing to make sense. How times have changed. My son and daughter-in-law purchased a home in May 2019. Thirty-year mortgage rates were 4.125%. When my wife and I bought our current vacation house in November 2019, rates had fallen to 3.375%. Now, they’re down around 3%. At these low rates, the two-percentage-point rule no longer makes sense. A little internet research indicates that a one-point reduction is the new rule of thumb. What about paying points to get an even lower rate? You rarely hear about that these days. There’s a number of reasons to consider refinancing—including these four: Reduce your monthly payment. This is the No. 1 reason people refinance. A lower interest rate leads directly to a lower monthly principal-and-interest payment, assuming you opt for a mortgage of the same length. Switch from an adjustable-rate to a fixed-rate mortgage. Adjustable-rate mortgages, or ARMs, can reset to a higher rate, sometimes leaving homeowners with payments they can’t afford. If you plan to stay in your home, you may want to refinance into a stable, fixed-rate loan. Reduce the term of your mortgage. If rates drop enough, it may make sense to switch from a…
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Cheat Sheets

WHEN MY YOUNGEST son graduated college, he had two solid job offers. One would have allowed him to live at home for free and the other was halfway across the country. Guess which one he picked? In fairness, the job far from home was more interesting to him and provided a great start to his career. I remember him sitting down with his mother and me, and telling us he was planning to move to Texas. We discussed the job, benefits and salary. Then he asked a question I’ll never forget: How do I know this is enough to live on? I was working in the same industry, so I knew it was a good offer. But that doesn’t tell you what it takes to live in a different part of the country. I asked him to give me a few days to look into it. My first instinct was to create a budget in Excel and research costs in the Dallas-Fort Worth region. But instead, I searched for existing budget templates—and discovered Microsoft had templates available for free on the web. I downloaded a monthly budgeting template and got to work. It was logically constructed and easy to use. My son is an IT professional, tech savvy and way smarter than me, so I knew he would easily take to it. It had defined income and expense sections. The expense section was broken down into useful categories and easily customized. Being an engineer, I had to improve it. I added a separate worksheet that mimicked his future paystub, so he could see the impact of taxes, 401(k) contributions and other deductions—such as those for medical and dental insurance—on his take-home pay. I sent it to my son, and he added data on housing costs, utilities and so on. It showed…
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Should you include SS and pensions in your net worth?

A recent comment in the Forum got me thinking about the inherent value of certain fixed income instruments. The commenter said they did not include their traditional pension or Social Security retirement benefit in their balance sheet when calculating net worth. This makes sense since neither of these is easily convertible to cash. But pensions and SS clearly have significant value, and in many cases are the largest asset a retiree owns. I think it’s useful to get a feel for these amounts. You can compare them to your retirement savings and see how they stack up. There are several ways to do this.  You could build a spreadsheet using the Present Value function with appropriate variables. You could price a commercial annuity that would provide the same monthly benefit. Or you could take advantage of Mike Piper’s Open Social Security tool – he’s done all the work for you. Let’s consider someone who was born in 1957. Their full retirement age is 66 years and 6 months.  In January 2024, the average Social Security monthly retirement benefit was $1,907. The maximum benefit for someone retiring in 2024 at their Full Retirement age is $3,822. The average expected longevity of our retiree is about 16 years for a man, or 19 years for a woman. The table below shows the results from Open Social Security. The current value of future social security payments for an average benefit is about $320,000 for men, and $372,000 for women. For men and women receiving the maximum benefit, the current value is about $640,000 and $746,000.   Men Women Men Women Monthly Payment $1,907 $1,907 $3,822 $3,822 Open SS PV Estimate $319,641 $372,060 $640,623 $745,681 Pensions often have a lump sum option. When this is available, you have a direct estimate of the present…
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Four Decades Later

LAST MONTH MARKED 40 years of wedded bliss for my wife and me. I’m amazed at how fast the time has gone. I still remember the day we met. It was at a party celebrating her high school graduation. I gave her a ride to pick up a pack of cigarettes, all the while lecturing her on the dangers of smoking. I believe I saved her from a lifetime of smoking. She saved me from everything else. We’ve been blessed these past 40 years with a large and wonderful family, friends, great careers and now the chance for a happy retirement. We’ve had our challenges for sure, including early financial struggles, family troubles, illnesses, elder care and career hiccups. Through it all, we worked together and got through the tough times. I’ve heard it said that love and a long-lasting marriage are a choice. I know there were many days my wife woke up, and decided to stay in love and married to me, even though she may not have liked me very much that day. Both of our parents had long marriages. They were hardly perfect, but they showed what it meant to stay faithful and committed, despite lots of flaws and challenges. This shaped my wife and me, and seems to have rubbed off on our two sons. They both married fantastic women—beautiful, strong, smart, loving, independent. Just like their mother. They have given us near-perfect grandsons—grandpas can say such things—and they’re excellent parents. We couldn’t be more proud. Lest you fear that I’ll keep waxing poetic about marriage, let me be a bit more prosaic—and mention the economic benefits: Cost of living. They say two can live more cheaply than one. Sharing a home, utilities and real estate taxes helps reduce a couple’s per-capita expenses. In my…
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