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AUTHOR: kt2062 on 2/02/2025

As someone who is independent, I try to do as much around the house as I can. I don’t mean housework or laundry; I mean things like unclogging the toilet and putting up shelves. I try to stay as independent as possible to save money and so that I don’t have to be subjected to someone else’s time schedule.

But most of these require certain skills I’ve never learned. I haven’t used an electric snake, or a toilet auger.  I have put up shelves which is difficult to do by yourself.

I used to change my own oil and filter until they made it so that you needed a car lift to accomplish this task. Now that I have an electric vehicle, I no longer have to worry about that.

My question to the talented group of Humble Dollar (HD) readers is this:

  1. Which skills have been most valuable in saving you money.
  2. Which skills have been most useful to remaining independent?
  3. What tools are essential?
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Jeff Bond
1 day ago
Reply to  kt2062

I don’t agree with some of the items on this list. It all boils down to your training and/or skill level. All home repair or maintenance projects should be approached with a plan and ample time to complete the job.

Martin McCue
2 days ago

The machine that has saved me the most money is my lawn mower. I estimate it saves me well over $1,000 each year, and a new generation electric one with two batteries saves even more. (Do your own fertilizing and weed prevention, too. It is easy once you know the calendar.) Next, a good power drill is easily the #2 tool. (Both wired and battery have their place.) I have a garage wall full of tools, but it is the knowledge of when and how to use each one that is most valuable. “The right tool for the job” is a 100% correct maxim. You won’t really need big tools like a table saw or jig saw unless woodwork is your passion. I don’t buy a new tool unless I see that the value in a particular project will pay for the tool. Even one use can make it worthwhile to buy. Over a lifetime, the basics – good quality screwdrivers, wrenches and clamps, hammers, razors and cutting tools, paint brushes, and a good selection of screws, nuts and bolts and small things like that – all prove invaluable. A level, for example, isn’t used much, but having it when you need it is essential, like hanging pictures. When you do a project, you want to see it was done carefully, instead of being reminded of your mistakes. The most important skill? Being methodical and careful, researching and planning things out, measuring carefully twice or more, and not feeling rushed. I leave electricity and plumbing to professionals – the mistakes there can be costly or even dangerous. Also, water is a home’s worst enemy. Never let a water issue go unresolved.

Last edited 2 days ago by Martin McCue
Winston Smith
2 days ago

There are lots of “how to” videos on the internet. Watching some helped us with very simple domestic repairs. And putting together some flat-pack, ready-to-assemble furniture.

Of course having mechanically minded children and daughters/sons-in-law is the most helpful.

It’s Win-Win! We get to watch our grandkids while they do the work!

Mark Eckman
2 days ago

Your questions reminded me of two quotes from Bernard Baruch:

“If all you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail.” – So, use the right tool. Sometimes that tool is using the phone to call the pro.

During my eighty-seven years I have witnessed a whole succession of technological revolutions. But none of them has done away with the need for character in the individual or the ability to think.” – I have a friend that is an ER nurse who has numerous stories of DIY projects that have landed in the ER. Thinking is an under rated tool for the DIYer.

jan Ohara
7 days ago

Regarding Tools – I don’t know if this is unique to Seattle, but my SIL volunteers at a community free tool “library.” The tools range from the most basic hammers to things like miter saws and air compressors and more.

Rick Connor
7 days ago
Reply to  jan Ohara

The Red Bank, NJ Library has a tool for loan section. They have a pretty big selection of hand and power tools; they even have an air compressor and nail gun. The library also has some small appliances lie a hand mixer. I wondered if anyone else had seen something like this.

R Quinn
7 days ago

As I think about it, I have no skills to save money other than an ability to not spend. I have no DIY skills for sure.

Skills to remain independent? Not sure how to answer. A check book?

Essential tools? I have a hammer, screwdrivers and pliers. Is that what you mean?

oh yes, I have my son, the home repair, handyman’s phone number in my i phone. Now, that is essential. If he can’t fix it he knows people.

Andrew Forsythe
7 days ago

As for tools, a modest addition: some good glues. I seem to use glue pretty frequently (maybe because I tend to break things!). One problem I frequently have is that my glues dry up in the container and become useless. I’ve had this problem repeatedly with Gorilla Glue.

One I’ve found that avoids this problem: “Shoe Goo”, which I use on shoes but also on a wide variety of small jobs. It works well and never dries up.

“Super glues” are the ones that dry up on me the quickest. But (fingers crossed) I may have finally found one that doesn’t: “Loctite Super Glue Gel Control”. So far it’s done the job and has shown no signs of drying up.

Rick Connor
7 days ago

Thanks of the tip Andrew. I seem to find myself buying new glue whenever I need it.

stelea99
7 days ago

Along with skill(s), to stay independent, you have to get wiser about what tasks you decide to take on. I know a lot of folks who have fallen off of ladders, stools, chairs etc, or off of roofs or other elevated places. As you age, recovery from an accidental fall of this type gets a lot harder. Falling off of a roof can kill you.

And, what about lifting heavy objects? Twenty years ago re-setting a toilet on a new seal was easy, now at age 78 I call a handyman. What does a bag with 2 CF of potting soil weigh?

Finally, are you up-to-date on any tech which was built into the thing you need to fix? Something to think about.

Norman Retzke
7 days ago

Interesting topic. I’m probably a bit extreme. I strove to become independent beginning at age 17 and never stopped.

  1. Which skills have been most valuable in saving you money? Money management is probably number one. Continuous education is number two. Developing critical thinking skills is also in there. Knowing the difference between needing and wanting allowed me to make better decisions. There is something called “sweat equity” and that has saved me a bundle. What all of this means is I can build or fix nearly anything from electronics to home construction; electrical, plumbing, carpentry, decking, roofing and concrete are all in that skill set. I’ve replaced a kitchen down to the walls and a master bath, etc. I always did my own landscaping; I built a japanese style garden, etc. I’m a “Preventative Maintenace” advocate. As a consequence, I preemptively replace automobile oil, tires, brakes, wear parts, etc. So, I don’t have to deal with automobile break-downs which can be disruptive. For example, I recently donated my 2004 Chevy Malibu Maxx in excellent condition. I concluded we no longer needed it; we have a Chevy Cruze and a Roadtrek to travel in. I installed lithium batteries and a solar system on the Roadtrek, have diagnosed and repaired problems with the complex electrical system, the propane system and even the absorptive refrigerator. RV repairs can be expensive. My largest maintenance expense in 11 years was replacing the tires twice. I’m now retired and I finally am letting a landscaping project involving several tons of rock, a patio and a pergola to a contractor. I previously did these types of projects and that yielded savings. However, I also worked full time (I founded a high tech business), raised a family and was a youth group leader. So, I only slept about 6 hours per day. Obviously, time management was a necessity.
  2. Which skills have been most useful to remaining independent? Saving has been important. I’m an excellent cook and baker and so my spouse and I cook for each other and for friends. I have more than rudimentary medical skills. I am tech proficient so I deal with any and all technology issues. Achieving independence means I choose which home projects to do and which to subcontract. It is a choice; I can go either way. I also have been a health buff, which meant backpacking, canoeing and even such mundane things as mowing the lawn, which was great exercise. One’s health is critical. I was diagnosed with an inoperable, deadly disease (15% survival rate). Nearly three years later I’m stable and the doctors tell me it is everything I’ve done throughout my life that has contributed to my survival. Dealing with adversity has its benefits. That too is a skill.
  3. What tools are essential? To answer this literally re: home repair. A variety of saws depending upon the project, a claw hammer, screwdrivers, wrenches and pliers (needle nosed, plumbers and adjustable). A torpedo level and a hand drill for small stuff or an electric drill. Duck and electrical tape. A 3 ft. level, teflon plumbers tape (only for water) and a Wonder-bar. A voltage tester is handy but a volt-ohmmeter serves more functions. An infrared thermometer (I use mine when seasoning the cast-iron skillet or looking for drafts, etc.). I do use a kill-a-watt to determine energy consumption of electrical equipment and home appliances; the town I previously lived in would lend one to residents! I learned using hand tools so any electrical tool is a pleasure, but is usually not a necessity. Electrical tools speed the work and can improve accuracy. Battery operated tools are convenient but batteries do fail which means when needed the tool may not be available. Plumbing may require specialty tools and if I need something I go to Harbor Freight because I may only use it once. Socket sets, etc. are specialty tools. A trowel and scraper for plaster repairs, etc. “Ace is the Place”.

Because I’m a RVer, I own a few specialty tools. 

Norm

Norman Retzke
2 days ago
Reply to  kt2062

Harbor Freight has several tiers of quality. I do use them for specialty tools which seldom use. For example, I purchased the “Shower Valve Socket Wrench Set” $10.99. I did major bath renovations and this is a tool I used for the job. Will probably sell at a garage sale. I’ve always liked Craftsman tools (formerly Sears). As for storing, one has to be selective about purchases. I have tool bags of various sizes. I sort by type, etc. Because I RV in a classB I don’t have a lot of tool storage space.

Bob G
7 days ago

Skills I’ve developed and used over my 60 years of adult life:

  • basic car maintenance (oil, filters, keeping them clean and waxed, etc.)
  • interior painting (not just “a guy with a paintbrush”)
  • carpentry, including complex trim (still have all of my fingers)
  • even wrote a crown molding manual for my sons
  • basic electrical (outlets, adding ceiling lights, simple wiring, etc.)
  • basic plumbing (faucet replacement, removing clogs, etc.)
  • financial management and investing (from a very early age)
  • computer proficiency (Word, Excel, Power Point, etc.)
  • lawn care and landscaping (still mow my own lawn)

All of the above were either learned by reading, practicing, copying, or more recently by YouTube (wish I had it earlier). I’m confident I’ve saved tens of thousands of dollars (maybe $100,000) over the years. Most developed into hobbies which gave me great pleasure as well as saving money.

Skills most useful in remaining independent:

  • All of the above, except car maintenance has gotten too complicated for most DIY
  • I haven’t changed spark plugs in 30 years (fortunately they last a lot longer these days)

Essential Tools (links for illustration only):

  • basic household tool kit like THIS for starting out
  • electric drill/screwdriver like THIS and drill bits
  • small electric screwdriver like THIS for smaller jobs
  • basic lawn tools (mower, rake, shovels, etc.)

Buy more tools only as needed for the next project. You don’t have to spend on the highest quality tools because you’re not using them to make a living. There were tools I wish I had bought earlier like electric screwdrivers and an electric miter saw. (I used a miter box and hand saw for years.) I also have the advantage of having a walk-down oil pit in my garage for getting underneath my cars.

August West
7 days ago

The most valuable skills that I have learned came from my DAD.

Olin
7 days ago
Reply to  August West

Those are the most rewarding. Mine come from a grandfather, father and a brother.

S Phillips
7 days ago

Up votes for the socket and screwdriver set with lots of bits along with the battery operated screwdriver, which can also serve as a drill.

also upvoted the painting labor. We’re repainting one room now, but we’ve also hired two different painters through the years, including most recently this summer. I don’t get up on the roof anymore like I did all the time 20 years ago.

The biggest savings though is with Plumbing. Changing a faucet that has started to leak or shower valve can easily be $400 in my area. The parts tend to be free if you’re the original owner of certain brands. So if you can do it yourself, there’s no out-of-pocket cost at all. I work with two plumbing companies for the big stuff like an entire hot water heater which my house has two and so while they are here doing something that requires soldering copper pipe or that I don’t want to do I walk them around to get prices on anything else I need done Then either choose to hire them or DIY.

kristinehayes2014
7 days ago

I love this topic!

I’m a DIY believer. There aren’t too many house projects I won’t try to tackle. I generally stay away from plumbing, but I’ve even done some minor projects in that realm.

The scenario usually starts out like this: I get the names of a couple people/contractors to do some type of work. Then I get the estimate. Then I research the project. Then I do it myself.

I think painting has been the most valuable skill for saving me money. In 2018 I purchased a home that was physically in good condition. But as far as aesthetics go, it was pretty ugly. It had been painted a horrible shade of green both inside and outside. There was some old wallpaper on a few of the walls.

Over the course of four years, I painted every wall–inside and out. I stripped off the old wallpaper, patched minor holes in the walls and polished all the wood trim work. I suspect if I paid someone else to do all of that work it could have easily cost me $20,000 or more. Instead, I suspect I came in at about $1500 total cost. The difference all the work made in the appearance of the house was huge.

I’ve done electrical repairs, replaced flooring and recently tore out a shower door. There’s not too many things I won’t try at least once.

As far as staying independent, I would argue eating healthy (no sugar, no grains), walking 7-10 miles a day and maintaining a healthy weight are the best things I can do to try and stay independent for as long as possible.

kristinehayes2014
2 days ago
Reply to  kt2062

In my case, I enjoy doing projects around the house because I have to stay busy. I just don’t have the kind of personality that allows me to stay in one place for more than a few minutes. My mind (and body) are in constant motion.

DrLefty
8 days ago

I was going to answer “nothing” to all of your questions but then read some of the comments below. I’m not handy AT ALL around the house, but I can:

  • plan and cook healthy meals
  • manage my own finances, including my taxes
  • plan my own travel
  • keep physically fit, using home workout machines and classes on apps (and just walking a lot).

OK, I’m not quite as useless as I thought, but I do have Ed coming over tomorrow to put up our new painting. It’s heavy and neither of us wanted to mess with hanging it. And we have a house cleaner.

Marjorie Kondrack
8 days ago

I’d like to put in a plug to men and women who cook meals at home. Not only are restaurant meals at least 5 times as expensive as home cooked meals, but meals cooked at home are much healthier, as you get to decide what goes into the meal. If you use meal kits, you’re paying 3 times more than cooking from scratch.

My husband and I make a variety of soups during the winter months—he’s the sous chef and I’m the head chef. We make a winter harvest soup that’s chock full of a variety of vegetables and is delicious, not to mention economical.

Dan Smith
7 days ago

lol Marjorie, I get to brown the beef, peel the potatoes, boil the water…. I’ve said that my role in the kitchen is akin to being on the dumb end of the tape measure.

kristinehayes2014
7 days ago

Yes! We eat ‘no sugar, no grains’ so eating out really isn’t an option.

We just started soup season in our house. I made a smoked ham and vegetable soup the other day that was delicious.

Edmund Marsh
7 days ago

Great response.

Marjorie Kondrack
7 days ago
Reply to  Edmund Marsh

Thanks Ed. I did say I’m head chef, but I’m more like the Swedish Chef from The Muppets” show!

Rick Connor
8 days ago

This is a great topic, especially as we get older. When we bought our first house I bought 2 Reader’s Digest books on plumbing and electrical work. They served me very well for a few decades. That, and access to friends who were plumbers,. electricians, and carpenters allowed me to do most of the work in our first 2 homes. Also, working with many engineers gave me access to many highly skilled, smart people. One of the things I’ve learned is that the building codes are not static, electrical codes especially. There are also many new products on the market, like the frost freeze hose bibs on our new house. One of the benefits of using, for at least talking to, professionals is understanding the latest products and techniques. One of the best skills you can develop is the judgment to know what you are capable of, and what you should get help with.

Jeff Bond
8 days ago
Reply to  Rick Connor

I bought “Plumbing for Dummies” and “Electricity for Dummies” a very long time ago. They both came in very handy.

Jeff Bond
8 days ago

In the past, I did a lot of automobile repair. I wrote about it in an earlier HB piece. That probably saved the most money, but I quit when the electronics got in the way of the mechanical aspects.Just being able to use tools, understanding “righty tightly and lefty loosey”, and knowing that brute strength can solve lots of a problems.A good 1/4-inch drive ratchet set with both metric and english sockets, and an adapter for screwdriver bits (straight, phillips, hex, torx, etc.). A high quality rechargeable battery-driven screwdriver and driver with accompanying bits. A good, basic set of screw drivers, pliers, hex wrenches, and a hammer. For small in-the-house projects, include a short bubble level, tape measure. If you do electrical work, an inexpensive volt-ohm meter would be helpful. Everything else I would only purchase if needed for a particular project.Also, here are others.

Other folks have recommended YouTube. I heartily endorse that option. It can save time and frustration. But not everyone on YouTube has the solution to your problem – or they have the wrong solution. Don’t rely on the first video you watch. Review several and look for consistency and logic.A good, independent hardware store can be a lifesaver. If you walk in with a good description of a problem plus a picture or two, they can often walk you through the parts you need and the steps required.Don’t buy a large predetermined selection of hardware (bolts, machine screws, washers, wood screws, metal thread-cutting screws, lock washers, etc.). Just buy the hardware you need for a particular project. I have buckets of leftover hardware from myriads of projects.

Last edited 8 days ago by Jeff Bond
Rick Connor
8 days ago
Reply to  Jeff Bond

Excellent list. Agree completely.

Edmund Marsh
8 days ago

I think the previous comments are all useful, but I would say it depends. I once made my living with construction, so many jobs around the house are familiar to me. For someone without that experience, but with a knack for using tools, there’s a YouTube video for just about everything. That allows skipping on-the-job training and getting right to the repair. But if I had to start from scratch to gain both knowledge and experience, the time might not be worth the eventual savings. And don’t discount the cost of blunders during the learning process.

Even now, with the ability to do many maintenance and repair jobs, I choose to pay to have some of it done, because it’s a job I don’t like or my schedule won’t allow, and money’s not as tight as it once was. That said, it’s nice to be able to do a quick job like changing a light switch, faucet or cartridge without the expense and wait time that a service person would cost.

But I think Jonathan’s comment shouldn’t be overlooked. Money also brings independence.

David Lancaster
7 days ago
Reply to  Edmund Marsh

I recently changed a faulty ground fault circuit interrupter. It was easy Peary. Shut off the power transferred one wire at a time, install, turn on power.

i was however shocked at how much one cost.

Rick Connor
7 days ago

Our current home is the first we’ve owned with Arc Fault Circuit interrupter outlets. We recently added a new circuit in our basement and it was required to be an arc fault breaker. That was newer technology to me.

David Lancaster
7 days ago
Reply to  Rick Connor

One upgrade that I was adamant with the builder is I wanted a whole house surge protector in the panel. No need for them all over the house to protect electronics, appliances etc. don’t know what it cost, but didn’t matter. I was more concerned with protecting all the things from damaging surges.

David Lancaster
8 days ago

About the my current house I would say my gardening, landscaping, and lawn care. After we built our retirement house in 2016 I built a dry fit stone retaining wall up against the house for planting as well as a natural stone walkway from the driveway to the front stairs. All of the landscaping such as planting bushes and trees were planted by me. This definitely saved me thousands of dollars in labor costs and increased the value of my home to boot.

Regarding my previous house which was a 100 year old Victorian I saved thousands by scraping and painting the entire house multiple times over the 20+ years we owned it. I also did a lot of the demolition and rehabilitation of the house such as insulation, sheet rocking, painting, and refinishing floors.

One of my motos is I won’t pay someone to do something I can do myself.

Patrick Brennan
8 days ago

I’ve never thought of myself as mechanical in nature, however, YouTube has allowed me to make repairs I never thought myself capable of. For instance, I’ve replaced my dryer heating element several times, something I never would have done previously without seeing via video how relatively easy it was. You do get a nice feeling of accomplishment when the repair works and your wife may again think you are useful. I’ve found a good set of socket wrenches, pliers, and battery powered drill very useful recently. Bottom line, I’ll try to do it myself if I think I can do it without making things worse or hurting myself, otherwise I get a pro.

Last edited 8 days ago by Patrick Brennan
Dan Smith
8 days ago

Excellent point Pat, youtube videos have enabled me to take on several repairs.

Dan Smith
8 days ago

In my youth I was confident dealing with bolt on car parts; water pump, radiator, oil changes. Friends used to come to me to install fancy radios and tape players. Not anymore, cars today are a whole ‘nother breed of beast.
I’m okay with rough carpentry but am getting too old to be climbing ladders. I did recently build a 6 by 24 foot platform over the floor in the front of the garage, and installed wall and base cabinets. That probably saved us about $3k in labor. It was fun and satisfying, but wore me out.
Essential tools? I’m hoping my saws and my brain remain sharp. I don’t own contractor grade power tools because I don’t use them often. In addition to decent saws and drills, oscillating saws and rotary tools come in handy.
Of course I do my own taxes, and manage most of my investments. 

David Lancaster
8 days ago
Reply to  Dan Smith

I’m hoping my saws and my brain remain sharp.”

I don’t know about your saws, but the quote above seems to confirm that the brain is doing just fine.

Jonathan Clements
Admin
8 days ago

I know you’re focused on practical skills, but let me put in a plug for managing money: That’s a skill — minimizing fund expenses, limiting advisory fees, holding down interest costs, avoiding overdraft fees and so on — that’s potentially worth hundreds of thousands of dollars over a lifetime.

G W
1 day ago

I’ve noted several commercials and ads that promote apps that can flag duplicate paid subscriptions you’ve signed up for. Is anyone else taken back by this “need”? I can see the ease with which one can sign up for a free trial period and forget that after the trial ends, your subscription signup becomes automatic and possibly reoccurring on a monthly or annual basis. Even so, a quick reminder placed on your calendar to cancel the trial several days ahead of such a threshold is pretty basic stuff. Egads! We need to change the credit card commercial to, “What’s coming out of your wallet?”

Michael1
8 days ago

Thanks for saying so. I was feeling pretty useless after reading the original post. 🙂

DrLefty
8 days ago
Reply to  Michael1

Me too. And I do my own taxes!

Dan Smith
8 days ago

Yes indeed. Saving $30 on an oil change while paying 1 or 2% in advisory and fund fees is penny wise and pound foolish.

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