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Buying and Selling our Condo (Our Big “Little” Move, Part 2)

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AUTHOR: DrLefty on 4/15/2026

When my husband and I bought our brand-new condo in Davis, California in 2019, the move made sense to a lot of people in our lives. We were empty-nesters in our late 50s, our youngest child having left home for college in 2014. The four-bedroom home we’d purchased in 1998 and where we’d raised our kids was more than we needed and was getting older. Our dog had died in 2018, so we didn’t need a yard as much anymore, and speaking of yards, neither of us was particularly into yard work, gardening, or home maintenance and improvement. Perhaps most importantly, we love traveling and intended to do a good deal of it as we headed into our 60s and eventual retirement. The “lock and leave” aspect of condo living appealed to us a great deal.

We bought a lovely 3 BR, 2.5 flat on the top floor of our four-story building. We purchased the unit early enough in the building process that we got to make most of the design decisions, and we added some great upgrades. We’ve enjoyed living there and have an active social calendar with the neighbors.

So why, not quite seven years later, are we selling the condo and moving back to a single-family home? I shared some of the reasons for our house purchase in my previous post, but here I’ll elaborate specifically on why we’re pivoting away from the condo.

  1. The HOA fees. We pay into two HOAs, one for the larger development in which our condo buildings are located ($122/month) and one for the condo community itself ($632/month). When we first moved in, the total for both was around $500/month; now it’s a little over $750. They will go up 5% again in 2027, and regular increases are likely, even though the HOA is generally well run. (I should know–I’m on the board!) Multi-story condos with elevators and gated garages need maintenance and repairs, and that stuff just costs money, more all the time.
  2. Construction concerns. I’ve been on the board twice (2020-22 and 2024-26), so perhaps I know too much now about “how the sausage is made.” The units are still fairly new, but the builder made a major settlement with the HOA several years ago for construction defects. We have been worried for a while that the units and buildings will not age well and have talked about 5-10 years of ownership as being kind of a sweet spot for us–not such a quick turnover that it’s financially irresponsible but leaving before any major problems really started surfacing.
  3. Lagging resale values. This has been a pretty big surprise. Davis has a tight housing market with a slow-growth measure on the books, and usually homes in Davis gain value and sell quickly. There are really no properties like our condos in town. Our agent who is representing us in both buying the house and selling the condo is the expert in town on these condos (that’s why we picked him). He thinks they built too many of them (there are eight buildings with a total of 120 units). Yes, there are buyers interested in this kind of property, but not enough for the market.  And, of course, the HOA fees are daunting for many prospective buyers.

So despite our enjoyment of condo living in general and our community and unit in particular, we’d started looking around. The primary reason, as I said before, was that a single-family home with a yard and a guest cottage meets our family’s needs for the upcoming years–not to mention my strong desire to be a dog mom again(!). But as a financial matter, we remained concerned about the above issues and feared that if time passed, they could get worse. For example, Davis will have a measure on the ballot in June allowing for more new housing–which it desperately needs–which if passed could put even more pressure on the local resale market in the next few years.

When we found our new home, we started making plans to sell the condo. We were worried. The Davis market in general has been slower than normal over the past year (for economic reasons I’m sure I don’t need to enumerate), and other condos in the community have lagged on the market for months, usually only selling after several price reductions. This included our neighbor two floors below us–same floor plan/size, same view–whose unit took a long time to sell last year. We were ready to consider keeping the condo as a rental if a reasonable resale option didn’t work out in the coming months but hoped it wouldn’t come to that.

Then we got lucky. The original plan was to get the condo on the market immediately after we move into our new home on May 13, catching the spring/summer selling season. But our realtor mentioned that he had clients looking for a unit like ours and that he knew of two other agents who similarly had interested buyers. Would we be open to off-market showings? Sure, we said. So he quickly lined up the inspections, we agreed on an asking price, and he scheduled three showings for a weekend we were out of town. Within 24 hours of seeing our unit, one set of buyers made a full-price offer with no contingencies, which we happily accepted.  Our selling price equals the top number that any of the units has ever sold for–and that previous high was three years ago.  The buyers are moving from New Jersey to California to be close to their son and grandchildren, who live in Davis, and they don’t need the condo until the end of May, so we can move out on our schedule and have the place ready for occupancy with no stress.

What made our unit sell so quickly? Though there are maybe 5-10 other condos in our community currently on the market, ours was the only one that has the largest floor plan. We’re on the top floor, which is more desirable for many people. (It certainly was for us–after decades in houses, we didn’t relish going back to our student/newlywed days of having neighbors tromping around overhead.) We also have unobstructed views to the west (incredible sunsets!) and the south, which most buildings don’t have. It helped that our buyers had been looking for a year at our condo community, just waiting for the one they wanted to come on the market. When they saw it, they didn’t dally, just as we didn’t when we finally found the house that checked all our boxes.

Maybe we could have done even better if we’d waited and put the condo on the market, perhaps sparking a bidding war, but we felt that a fast, no-drama sale at our asking price was good enough for us to move on with our lives. We’ll end up with a profit of almost $70K (from what we paid in 2019). We came out much better than our previous neighbors had, and we’re grateful and mainly amazed at how quickly and easily this all happened.

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Mike Gaynes
23 hours ago

Thanks for this detailed account. You didn’t specifically mention it, but it seems like you’re staying in Davis (a lovely area, certainly, but that summer heat would kill me!!). We also went through the process of selling one home and buying another simultaneously. It worked out, but it’s not something I would ever consider again. Too stressful. Too many parts of the process that aren’t in your control.

Did the idea of moving cause you any concerns? I’ve packed up my life and moved many times, and each time it becomes less appealing. How did you cope with that?

Jerry Pinkard
1 day ago

I think you did it right. A bird in the hand beats two in the bush, and with our crazy economy, you never know when things will turn for the worse. Congratulations.

kristinehayes2014
1 day ago

I can’t wait for Part 3: “I Become a Dog Mom Again!” 🙂

Nick Politakis
1 day ago

i can’t wait …

DAN SMITH
2 days ago

Dana, sounds like things are coming together for you guys.  Your vivid writing takes me back. A realtor that we once worked with described the ordeal of buying and selling at the same time as a “dance”. I found that simple statement described the process well. It’s like learning the moves in one of those line dancing thingies; if you don’t do it right, you can get run over. In some constantly shifting order, you sift through the pros and cons of the homes you want to buy, the price you want to pay, while at the same time marketing the home you are selling.  Then there are the simultaneous negotiations as both a seller and a buyer; price, possession, inspections, title searches, and what happens if my place doesn’t sell quickly? 
I hate dancing.

David Lancaster
2 days ago

Dr Lefty,

I think you were smart to use the title of a 1976 Steve Miller song to “Take the Money and Run.”

12 years ago we put our house on the market in the spring for what we calculated we needed to have enough cash to build our retirement home, and not return turn to having a mortgage in retirement. We used a realtor from a different county that had found us the lot to build the new house. We had an offer almost immediately, but I felt they lowballed us so we refused it. That offer ended up being the only offer for the next two realty seasons. When we put the house on the market the third spring it sold almost immediately. The realtor the third year lived in our town and knew the property values better. When we received the offer it came in for less than we posted, and her response was, “the first offer is usually the best offer,” and we sold to move on.

Lesson learned!

Last edited 2 days ago by David Lancaster
baldscreen
2 days ago

Dana, thanks for letting us know about your and your husband’s thought process about selling your condo, and the practical way you sold it. This was the same way our daughter’s family was able to buy one of the nicest homes in our part of the neighborhood last year. We love having them so close. And the way they bought there was no bidding war. Chris

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Edmund Marsh
2 days ago

I think you made a wise choice by taking a great offer, instead of waiting for the possibility of a better offer which might have never materialized. And it sounds like your first great decision was picking the right agent. Excellent work!

Jeff Bond
2 days ago

Congrats. Sounds like your timing was perfect. I hope the move goes well.

Nick Politakis
2 days ago

a second comment about an issue i have been thinking about. How did you deal with the realtor commission?

David Lancaster
2 days ago
Reply to  DrLefty

Dr Lefty,
If you deem it appropriate when you are settled in I would be interested in more detail about the new realtor payment system.

Nick Politakis
2 days ago
Reply to  DrLefty

Thank you.

Dave Melick
2 days ago

Those HOA fees you’re moving away from are ridiculous! $9,048 per year??? I serve on the board for our little lake HOA (105 properties, all lakefront), and each year, we determine whether the annual fees will be $125 or $100. And yes, we get complaints about the fees… I suspect being in the middle of the country rather on a coast is largely why there is such a difference and then there are likely some variance in services related to the costs. To the point of your post, those are all great reasons to consider relocating. Congrats on the quick sale!

R Quinn
2 days ago
Reply to  Dave Melick

Our HOA fee on a 2,000 sf condo is $950 plus property taxes of $14,000. Lots spent on snow removal, landscaping and pool maintenance. Nine buildings with 12 units each over 16 acres.

Linda Grady
2 days ago
Reply to  R Quinn

I know that you and Connie are happy with your location, but Wow!, those fees and taxes are high. Several of my neighbors have moved across the border from NJ to PA to reduce their property costs and are very happy here, less than 90 miles from Manhattan with bus and train transportation nearby. I pay $3000/year in property taxes for about 1500 sq ft, including a finished basement with a full bath. I have a nice yard and will soon revert an art studio in back to its original purpose as a one car garage, with a driveway accommodating two cars.

Winston Smith
2 days ago

Congratulations! Sounds like you two did everything correctly!!

mytimetotravel
2 days ago

Congratulations! Nothing beats a quick sale with no contingencies.

Nick Politakis
2 days ago

thanks for sharing your story. Wishing you the best in your new house.

Mark Crothers
2 days ago

My wife and I have been casually browsing the property market — no urgency, no pressure. One thing that has shaped our search, though, is HOA fees. Where we live, they’re not universal, they tend to crop up with certain property types and 55+ developments. News stories about these fees rising well above general inflation have put us off those options. The idea of having so little control over a cost that significant just doesn’t sit well with us.

R Quinn
2 days ago
Reply to  Mark Crothers

Here we want HOA fees to fully cover all the services we expect, to assure top maintenance to preserve property values for resale. In addition, we must maintain reserves. What we don’t want is an assessment to cover a major expense. I have a cousin with a condo in Florida who twice has been assessed $20,000 to cover major repairs.

Marilyn Lavin
2 days ago
Reply to  DrLefty

We live in a single family house. My husband and I just discussed the size of tip(bribe) we should pay to the person who does our snow removal and lawn care. To be sure, the prices for those services has been increasing, but it’s good to be able to somewhat control what we’re buying.

i guess the fast sale of the condo is another example of location importance! Loved the story!

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