To travel or not is right up there with when to claim Social Security, if a Roth conversion is desirable or the amount of retirement income needed – many answers and personal choices.
I will admit travel can be a hassle, mainly the getting there and back if flying is involved and while trying to get through customs. Because of an incompetent desk agent we missed being stranded in Istanbul by seconds. Leaving Moscow was a nightmare as we were intentionally ignored while Russians were put ahead of us, again nearly missing our flight. Occasionally you will encounter an attitude from a local, but pretty rare.
None the less, in my opinion travel provides a valuable education. You learn about people, about societies and cultures. You learn that your way of life is vastly different than many others – especially valuable for many Americans. You can gain an understanding of history that helps better understand current world events.
Needless to say, the desire to travel is highly personal, but not traveling when there is the ability to do so is missing a great opportunity to learn and understand this world. The greater the difference between our own and other cultures, the more valuable the experience. Russia, the Ukraine, Eastern Europe and Morocco opened my eyes. Hey, they don’t even use toilet seats in the Ukraine.
I have never been to Asia, but my cousin Carol just returned. Do you have a desire to sleep on a mat on the floor and dine on roaches and tarantulas- she did.
Seeing how so many Palestinians live in abject poverty helps you understand the conflict there. Not much happens in the world that does not affect us in the US.
We are not much for resorts, sitting by the pool or on the beach, but I was fascinated walking on the Giants Causeway in Ireland. My vision of Oxford in England was changed after I walked in some of the buildings.
You can better understand how we are all connected when you hear a McDonalds in Europe referred to as the American embassy or feel right at home in a Starbucks in Germany.
I was initially surprised how many people speak English, very good English in many cases, especially among younger people. Hand gestures work pretty too well when speaking different languages😎
Even our aborted South American cruise was a learning lesson about how people react in an emergency under stress and also how nations set their priorities.
Talk about inequality, not much beats Russia where some people in the rural areas live as if it were the middle of the 19th century.
Travel the U.S. and see amazing sites, we have nearly everything from coasts, to deserts, soaring mountains, giant lakes and rivers, and prairies. People who live on the coasts probably can’t understand driving across the Great Plains with barely the need to touch the steering wheel for twenty miles it is so flat and straight.
The differences within our 50 states is incredible. Someone will know where you live once you say a few words. Is it a sack or bag, a sub sandwich, grinder or torpedo, soda or pop? We are Americans but also very different just based on where we live.
For me, not being able to travel as much now is a bit depressing. I truly miss it.
Hey fellow HD’ers,
While we can debate travel or no travel to no meaningful end, please consider sharing a memorable moment or two from your own travels as some have done here. I guess this could become a sector of its own within HD (and if I have missed it, my apologies).
I had the very good fortune of visiting England several times for business, including a six month stint in Bath. I was able to bring my wife over for a visit and then my whole family at the end of my assignment for a two week vacation. I had to work some of the time that they were visiting but I’m very thankful they had a wonderful life experience. (Also, I just don’t fit into the tour vans that took them to many great places – my knees!). I’ve found that I enjoy the longer stays in one location as you have more time to absorb the culture of each community and given time, get to know the people around you and the off-tourist locations to enjoy. And yes, many of the pubs serve terrific food! Stunning local parks and gardens, Cotswolds, Tur (sp?), Glastonbury, Cheddar Gorge/caves, cathedrals and ruins galore, a great rail system, etc. And then there’s London which adds a whole new list of adventures of all sorts. It took a few polite corrections before I remembered to call the The Tube its proper name and not the Subway. Even getting lost a few times ended up as fun adventures. Ever so grateful that I didn’t have to drive, especially on the two-track through a corn field to a wonderful town and restaurant, seemingly in the middle of nowhere.
The passion you have for traveling is great, but some find that same passion in gardening, reading, animal care, volunteering, amateur astronomy and other retirement pursuits. There are diverse groups of people in all of these activities! It’s not sad when people choose not to travel or cannot afford to do so. Jacob at Early Retirement Extreme wrote often of his happiness at not traveling, it really made me feel better about being honest about the downsides when one feels pressure to be a tourist.
No pressure from me, each to their own. The activities you mentioned may be enjoyable and fulfilling to many people and that’s a good thing.
However? They are not the same as engaging with people in different societies and cultures. I have a better understanding of the conflicts in the Middle East having been to Israel and with Palestinians on the West Bank and in Ukraine and the Crimea and many other similar experiences.
But as i said, do what makes you happy.