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    Financial regrets about parenthood? - Mike Gaynes

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    AUTHOR: Mike Gaynes on 4/5/2026
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    • Ed, thank you for this thoughtful review of your strategy. I'm gradually heading in the same direction, although I've chosen VT and VYMI over your picks of VTSAX and VTIAX. A two-fund strategy just feels right at this stage of life, and I will likely get there in one of my SEP-IRAs before the end of the year.  

      Post: Slow on the Draw

      Link to comment from May 9, 2026

    • I'm about to out myself as having ghastly, plebian taste in coffee. I didn't become a coffee drinker until my late 50s when I got sick. I'd fly into Portland for treatment, and the Portland terminal was redolent with coffee aromas from multiple locally-based stands as well as the national outlets like Peet's and Starbucks. So one day, trying to overcome some pretty intense fatigue, I tried a mocha (I'm a chocoholic) and fell instantly in love. I'd have one every time I came through the airport and started visiting the local stands where I lived. And today I have two mochas almost every morning at home. But here's where it gets ugly, because I'm both cheap and tasteless. I don't use a Keurig or an espresso machine. I use a Mr. Coffee. That's right, the old $19 Joe DiMaggio model. I make it strong by shoveling in big spoonfuls of ground coffee bought at Costco -- the 2-pound bag of Peet's Dark Roast or the massive 3-pound can of Kirkland Decaf, depending on my mood and need for energy -- and for mocha flavor I use (cringe) chocolate-flavored coffee creamer. I love the concoction, but I'm a disgrace to true coffee appreciation. I'll hide my face in shame as soon as I wipe the mocha stain from the corner of my lip.

      Post: Dickie and his magic beans

      Link to comment from May 7, 2026

    • The three toasters turned out to be appropriate, considering all the bread you made over the years! Mazel tov on your anniversary.

      Post: For Richer, For Poorer: 37 Years of Compounding

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    • I think the thrill of the "crime" is more the point than the popcorn itself!

      Post: Live a little

      Link to comment from April 27, 2026

    • I adore movies, but I haven't been inside a movie theater in probably 15 years. I have all the movie access I want on my big screen at home, where I can watch anytime I want without driving, parking and paying. I can freeze the movie when I need to use the bathroom (that's a big one for me), and if I doze off I can push a button and replay the part I missed. Plus the popcorn is fresher and the seat is WAY more comfortable. No contest.

      Post: Live a little

      Link to comment from April 27, 2026

    • I'm afraid this article went over my head, Dick. I am not at all familiar with the acronyms CPI-W and CPI-E. Definitions and brief explanations would have helped.  

      Post: The great COLA debate-maybe not the expected solution.

      Link to comment from April 27, 2026

    • Love this story, Dan. Hard work, relentless optimism and just the right partner to make it all come together under the heading of Life. Well done.

      Post: Around the Obstacles

      Link to comment from April 25, 2026

    • 60? Wow. That's the mark of a passion, a true calling.

      Post: Rethinking the “Right” Time for Social Security

      Link to comment from April 23, 2026

    • Andrew, terrific article. Unlike Dan and Kathy below, I did consider breakeven, although I was doing my weighing at age 65 (one year before FRA) versus waiting until 70. When that breakeven age came up about the same as yours, 84, I took the benefits. I have no doubt that my decision was influenced by the same consideration as yours -- my own terminal diagnosis ten years ago. Although a medical breakthrough reversed that situation and I'm fully healthy, I remained acutely aware of how life can end early. I've been enjoying my benefits for four years now. No regrets.

      Post: Rethinking the “Right” Time for Social Security

      Link to comment from April 23, 2026

    • My family (wife, sister-in-law, parents and nephew) were locked down in a Wuhan apartment for the first three months of the outbreak with no direct access to food. Leaving was forbidden and stores were closed. Their neighborhood had to use a community website to arrange surreptitious truck deliveries of rice and vegetables from outlying farms.

      Post: Lonely Island (Correct Edit)

      Link to comment from April 22, 2026

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