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AUTHOR: Dan Smith on 3/27/2026

I just spent the last two months with a bunch of nerds. This was my second year as a volunteer tax preparer for AARP, in Bowling Green, Ohio. If I wasn’t a nerd when I signed up, I certainly am one now. Just kidding, I’ve been a nerd all along.

I’ve jotted down some comments from clients as well as some things that made a mark on my memory from the season. 

  1. In preparation for the phasing out of refund checks in the mail next year, the IRS has made receiving one this year a pain in the butt. Many of my fellow boomers insist on receiving a refund check in the mail. We explained that the IRS would send a letter asking them to register online in order to provide banking information. If they still insisted on a check, the IRS would sit on their money for another 30 days before beginning to process it. Now we are receiving calls from the folks we warned, asking us what this letter is all about. 
  2. Several clients insisted their Social Security was no longer taxable. That was, of course, not true. 
  3. There was a new bonus deduction of $6,000 if you were 65 or older and fell within the income limitation. One young couple wondered why only old people got the deduction. 
  4. The new tax deduction of up to $10,000 for interest on the purchase of a new US built car offered a little relief. One client boasted that he would never buy a foreign built car. I had to tell him that his GMC Terrain was built in Mexico. 
  5. Many public sector retirees received increases to their Social Security income due to the repeal of the Windfall Elimination Provision. It was interesting that some were unaware of the increase, or had no idea why they got a raise.
  6. Of course the number of new forms and worksheets continued to bulk up your tax return, as well as the price most preparers charge. What ever became of the promise of a postcard sized tax return?
  7. Some news that many of us can use. Beginning in the 2026 tax year, non-itemizers can claim an “above-the-line” deduction for cash donations to qualified charities, capped at $1,000 for single filers and $2,000 for married couples filing jointly. This deduction is taken in addition to the standard deduction, which rises to $16,100 (single) or $32,200 (joint) in 2026.
  8. There was a lady who told me that after she paid her rent, she only had $100 left for the rest of the month. I know there are many people in similar situations. At least AARP was there to offer a free tax return.
  9. This is another sad one. I sat across from a couple as I reviewed their documents. I quickly determined that the woman was the partner who handled all things taxes. I typically endeavor to engage with the passive partner in order to help them understand taxes, and to generally make them feel a part of the process. Still, the man sat without expression as I spoke, almost as if he were in a catatonic state. At the end of the interview, the wife slid his chair a few inches away from the table, and the man moaned in pain. She asked if I could assist her in raising him from the chair. He was like lifting dead weight. Another of our clients, seeing him struggle, came over and helped position his walker. I’ve been thinking about these folks since that day, wondering about the quality of their life. It seemed that his pain was such that there was little to no relief. For his wife, the stress, both mental and physical, could surely destroy her health. Is anyone helping them? And I wonder about their past life. Was their life together good? Did they enjoy the go-go years? Were there any go-go years? Is there a message for us, that we should make the most of our remaining go-go years?

Perhaps my fellow HumbleDollar tax nerds can add a few thoughts of their own.

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Kenneth DeLuca
7 hours ago

Dan, this is my first year as an AARP tax preparer in Fort Wayne, IN. I would characterize the experience as eye-opening. It has been educational for me to get out of the finance/retirement nerd bubble and see how others view the world, both financially and otherwise.

Edmund Marsh
7 hours ago

Dan, thank you for an installment of “Tales from the Trenches”. I could provide a similar list from healthcare. It seems some folks are just not blessed with enough mental capacity to understand information that is obvious to others. Then again, the fabric that holds our society and our lives together is so complex, it’s hard for anyone to cover all the bases alone. I think it’s wonderful that the AARP team is helping out with tax prep. Good job.

DrLefty
3 hours ago
Reply to  Edmund Marsh

We just started Medicare last year, and I set up our online accounts and our “Easy Pay” automatic deductions. I have no idea why this is, but the payment thing gets screwed up for one or both of us almost every month. Our payments are supposed to come out on the 20th, I always check, and if something goes wrong, which it often does, I then log into the account and see if the payment’s been made (not). The page assures me that I am (or he is) enrolled in Easy Pay and we don’t have to make a payment. Yet the payment hasn’t been made. I ignore the advice and make a payment anyway to keep us up to date.

I find this worrying. I’m 65 and still stay on top of things pretty well, I’d say. But what if I were 75 or 80 or whatever age experiencing cognitive decline? What if I were not good at checking my bank account and my Medicare account online? It shouldn’t be this hard. It should be seamless.

R Quinn
1 hour ago
Reply to  DrLefty

Are you not collecting SS now so premium can be deducted from your monthly payment?

R Quinn
8 hours ago

Dan, I am not surprised by your observations. This lack of information is displayed and rampant in social media posts and much worse.

Didn’t anyone tell you that Congress stole the social security funds😱

NJ has several property tax relief programs, but when I talk to friends and relatives many have no idea how they work and of course, the info is all readily available.

Michael1
7 hours ago
Reply to  R Quinn

It’s all readily available but you still have to know to look.

I have a good friend who was recently surprised by IRMAA. I don’t mean surprised by crossing a threshold by a dollar, I mean they had never heard of it until they had to pay it. I’m talking about an extremely intelligent guy who would have considered himself well informed, as I would.

Of course I’m a proponent of looking for oneself, it’s just that our systems are so complicated, and we don’t know what we don’t know.

Last edited 7 hours ago by Michael1
kristinehayes2014
18 hours ago

It’s a little scary how naive some people are about taxes or even finances in general.

I will never forget going to a ‘pre-retirement’ planning meeting at the college where I used to work. It was designed for people who were within three years of retiring. The first year I went, there was an employee there who had been working at the college for nearly thirty years. When the TIAA representative gave their presentation, this employee asked what “TIAA” was–they were completely unaware that the college had been contributing money to their retirement account for almost three decades.

That said, I guess it’s better than thinking your employer has been contributing money to an account only to find out thirty years later they weren’t…

R Quinn
8 hours ago

I used to run a similar program at our company and the lack of info or amount of misinformation was scary. The most misunderstood was related to survivor pensions and health benefits for a surviving spouse. It was very sad.

Last edited 7 hours ago by R Quinn
kristinehayes2014
9 hours ago
Reply to  Dan Smith

When I was in high school (the early 1980’s), I had to pass a series of “competencies”. They were real-life skills that were designed to show that we could do basic life skills.

We had to count back change from a purchase, write a check and show we could balance a bank statement. Not all the skills were finance based, but at least a few of them were.

In our retirement community, I have met a few folks who seem to be painfully uneducated about personal finance.

kristinehayes2014
7 hours ago
Reply to  Dan Smith

The counting back change competency was my most feared one! I have a similar fear of four way intersections with stop signs…

David Mulligan
9 hours ago

We have a friend who worked as a bartender in London for at least 35 years. His employer told him he was putting part of his pay in a savings/retirement account (no idea what kind). The pub ended up going out of business, the owner took off for parts unknown, and if there ever was any money put aside for our friend, it was gone now.

He is completely financially illiterate, but luckily lives in a country that provides housing and free medical care. He gets a small state pension. We have no idea how much money he lost over the years, but it would certainly have afforded him a much more comfortable retirement.

David Lancaster
19 hours ago

“For his wife, the stress, both mental and physical, could surely destroy her health.”

My Dad dealt with my Mom’s Alzheimer’s symptoms for more than a decade. He wouldn’t ask for help, and reluctantly decided too late to move to assisted living to make any social connections before they moved to a nursing home about a year later.
A few years before he passed I said to my wife the stress was making him speed past my mother in decline. Sure enough he passed away six months before her. This has made me promise to myself that we will go into a CCRC earlier rather than later and save our children from the same scenario.

On the lighter side:

Question: “What ever became of the promise of a postcard sized tax return?”

Answer: The promise was made by a politician.

Last edited 19 hours ago by David Lancaster
DrLefty
3 hours ago

We went through a very similar progression with my husband’s mother and stepfather. He ignored/denied her symptoms for years until she went missing for four hours one day in early 2020. It was terrifying. He put off getting any outside help for way too long. She wasn’t safe and it wasn’t good for his health, either. He finally agreed to move her to memory care, and she died barely three months later. He’s actually doing better now that the stress of caring for her and making decisions is behind him. He’s had a hip replacement, shoulder surgery, and just adopted a puppy! He’s even taken a few trips with friends and family. He’ll be 84 in June.

But my husband and I have the same train of thought about CCRCs because of observing this. We took our first tour of one in February!

kristinehayes2014
8 hours ago
Reply to  Dan Smith

Me too–I wasn’t even aware of CCRC’s until reading about them on HD.

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