I NEVER PLANNED TO retire at age 53. I wasn’t an early adopter of the FIRE, or financial independence-retire early, philosophy. In fact, I didn’t start saving seriously until my late 30s, when I left my first husband and finally realized that—unlike pensions in my native U.K.—my U.S. pension didn’t come with an annual cost-of-living adjustment.
Instead, three developments in the late 1990s led me to consider quitting. First, I was no longer enjoying my job. I had been a happy techie for most of my career, but in the early 1990s a major corporate reorganization had miscast me as a project manager for a couple of years. My division was then sold to a competitor and two-thirds of my colleagues in the division were laid off. Although I was back working as a techie, the job seemed less interesting and I didn’t think I was as good at it as I had been. I started to think about reinventing myself as a technology writer.
Second, I was hearing too many stories of people who had retired at 65, only to drop dead or become sick. I was developing an interest in travel, and I wanted to start while I still had good health and good mobility.
Finally, my employer started on its long road of rolling back promised provisions for retirees. I was old enough to be grandfathered under the existing pension plan, but my pension wouldn’t increase after I reached 30 years of service—and that was only a couple of years away.
But could I afford to quit? My pension would only be 40% of my final year’s salary. While corporate apparently wanted me out, my local management didn’t, so I had no hope of a package. I had been fully funding my 401(k), and saving in my taxable account as well, but my nest egg hadn’t yet reached my personal “magic number.” Still, that number was in sight, and I wasn’t planning to stop earning altogether, at least not then.
Looking at cash flow, the picture was brighter. I was living on less than my income and my expenses would drop considerably when I quit. I had refinanced my mortgage to 15 years, and had also been making extra-principal payments. I could easily pay off the remaining loan. If I stopped working, I’d stop saving for retirement, and instead leave it to the market to increase my nest egg’s size, and I’d also save a bundle in taxes.
I discovered that a local university offered a “certificate in professional writing.” I took the first required class while I was still working fulltime. I told my managers that I was planning to retire. They offered to switch me to permanent part-time, but I thought that would confuse the benefit situation. Instead, I retired on Oct. 1, 2000, the day I reached 30 years. On Oct. 2, I went back to work as a part-time contractor, while also taking the remaining writing courses, which proved more fun than useful.
Of course, with stocks mired in a two-and-a-half-year bear market, October 2000 wasn’t the best time to retire from a sequence-of-returns perspective. It was fortunate that I didn’t need to tap my nest egg. Instead, I followed a policy of benign neglect, neither buying nor selling. Over time, my portfolio recovered and kept growing, which meant I had no problem following the same policy in 2008 and 2020. Indeed, in 2008-09, I was too busy planning trips and traveling to worry about my market losses.
I finally quit my techie job in August 2001, when I left on my first long trip, China to Chennai. I’d had thoughts of selling travel articles. But when I returned in January 2002, nobody wanted articles about travel in Asia. Instead, I got a job as a part-time tech writer at a local start-up that was mostly staffed by former colleagues. It paid a good bit less, but was also a lot less stress. I kept it—between trips—until April 2004, when I started a 10-month trip around the world.
Back home in early 2005, I found three jobs I qualified for on Monster.com, but then realized I didn’t actually want any of them. I was ready to quit work once and for all, and find out if I could live on my pension.
I began using Quicken in 1999, so I could run reports to see how I was doing and where my money was going, and I have records for the whole of my retirement. I started with a healthy balance in my Vanguard Group money market fund. I include interest from that account in my income, but not interest and dividends from my other taxable funds.
The money market fund paid for my house renovation in 2013, the cost of which is excluded from the income-and-expense analysis that follows, although maintenance costs—such as a new roof, new HVAC and so on—are included. My much-loved Mazda MX-6 was totaled in an accident in 2007. But since the insurance settlement covered almost all the cost of my current Camry Hybrid, my new car fund is still untouched.
The key question: Has my retirement income—my pension, Social Security and the income from my money market fund—proved sufficient to cover my expenses? The years from 2001 through 2021 break down into four phases. From 2001 through 2004, when I was both working part-time and traveling, my income was ahead of expenses. From 2005 through 2009, when I was traveling but not working, I basically broke even.
From 2010 through 2016, despite starting spousal Social Security benefits in 2013, my expenses were well ahead of income. About a third of the amount over and above my income was for work on my house, and the rest went to travel expenses. Finally, since 2017, when I started my own Social Security benefit, and was later grounded by rheumatoid arthritis and then the pandemic, my income has significantly exceeded my expenses and has more than made up for the shortfall in phase three.
The money market fund, which I used as a kind of overflow tank, reached a low point in 2013—the year of my big home renovation—but has since recovered, although it’s down about 45% in inflation-adjusted dollars since I retired.
Last year, I sold my home and moved to an apartment, ahead of my planned move to a continuing care retirement community (CCRC). In the 23 years since I retired, I haven’t touched my retirement or taxable accounts—except for the money market fund—but I expect to finally start the dreaded decumulation phase when I enter the CCRC.
Do I regret my early retirement? Absolutely not. It’s true that I would have more money and a bigger Social Security payment if I’d continued to work. But when I was grounded by rheumatoid arthritis in 2017, I was profoundly thankful for those years of travel. Carpe diem, dear reader, carpe diem.
Kathy Wilhelm, who comments on HumbleDollar as mytimetotravel, is a former software engineer. She took early retirement so she could travel extensively. Some of Kathy’s trips are chronicled on her blog. Born and educated in England, she has lived in North Carolina since 1975. Check out Kathy’s previous articles.
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Thank you for this insightful article. As a 53 year old who is within a couple of years of being able to access a pension, I am contemplating the best next steps for my finances and my quality of life. You mentioned selling your home recently. May I ask if you ever wish you had done that sooner to avoid the costly renovations and maintenance or are you glad that you stayed in a house? The thought of selling my home with 11 years left on the mortgage and renting runs through my mind from time to time. It’s hard to know if it would be a great move (eliminating major expenses like replacing appliances, HVAC, etc.,) or a big mistake (giving up 2.75 interest rate, missing a comfortable home in a good location.) Would love any insights you may be willing to share from your vantage point. Your articles and comments on the Humble Dollar are appreciated.
It would probably have been better financially to sell the house right after I renovated it, but only if I bought another. I renovated in 2013 and sold in 2022. In terms of hassle it was better to stay put. I do think that paying off the mortgage before I retired was great for peace of mind.
Thanks for the reply. Yes, moving is quite the hassle. Paying off the mortgage sooner than later is a definite priority.
“I haven’t touched my retirement or taxable accounts—except for the money market fund—but I expect to finally start the dreaded decumulation phase when I enter the CCRC.”
I’m envious that so many can retire without immediately drawing down their nest egg. With no pension on my horizon, that’s the only way I can retire: start spending the lifetime savings I’ve accumulated- I keep telling myself that’s really what it was for, but it’s still scary.
I could wait until 67 or 70, so SS does the heavy lifting first, but I don’t want to risk missing out on my healthiest years.
The pension made all the difference. Along with retiree medical. No way I could have retired at 53 without them.
Excellent article. You travel is amazing! I am turning 62 in November and already focused on carpe diem!!!
Good luck!
Nothing is as inspirational as someone living an intentional life. You rock, Kathy!
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Great article Kathy. As you note fortune/timing has played a role, but you’ve also made some well-reasoned decisions, both financially and in just knowing yourself and what was important to you. Glad you got to do the travels you did.
Thanks, Michael1. There are still a few places on the list, but I did get around. My timing was good: I saw Angkor Wat and Luang Prabang before the crowds got there, and now you wouldn’t want to visit Xinjiang, Russia and Ukraine at all. Hope you are having fun out there!
Kathy thanks for the excellent article. You may not have considered the writing courses useful, but you are an excellent writer. I second the request for future articles about the transition to a CCRC. It’s something we may have to face in the future and I’d love to hear your take.
Your pictures are great.
Thanks for the compliments! The trouble with the writing course was that it was geared for aspiring journalists, not aspiring tech writers (I had to explain the internet to one of the professors). The curriculum has since been revised. However, I credit any writing ability to my British education, you couldn’t get into a British university in the ’60s without being able to write reasonably well.
There is an article related to the CCRC in the pipeline.
Wow – your journey is something to envy – I peeked into your smugmug – what wonderful places you have travelled to – well done. Our hopes are to do the kind of things you did already and it may remain hopes. I am curious though why you kept so much in money market vs. stock and pull out when you need it – where you trying to protect the principal – MM for many many years – I think 15 or so was paying about 0% interest – no?
I hope you get to realize your travel dreams!
I had a lot more money in stocks than I did in the MM fund! That’s how my nest egg grew. I forget what my asset allocation was when I retired, maybe 75-25 or 80-20, but I’ve been gradually reducing my exposure to stocks to 50%. Still way more in stocks than the MM fund.
Congratulations on your early retirement. Most folks would like to retire early, but the ability to achieve this goal often comes down to a combination of: 1) do I have enough money saved (or secure income streams), and 2) can I live within my means? You have obviously been able to accomplish both of these objectives, but luck and circumstances should not be discounted. For many people, failed marriages, children, illness, late-stage career changes and familial obligations can produce financial strains that may delay retirement, regardless of our ability to save or manage our spending. I applaud early retirement goals, but life often has other plans in mind for us.
Oh, I don’t discount the importance of luck. After all, it was bad luck that my RA came out of remission, and good luck that it’s gone back. As I mention below, if I had faced serious inflation I would have been in trouble and that was certainly out of my control. Still, those years of travel were priceless.
Kathy…I took a look at your photos. You are one adventurous, courageous, undaunted woman. And I’ll bet you have wonderful memories of your travels.
Thanks, Marjorie! There were one or two rough spots, of course, but overall it was a series of wonderful experiences.
Thanks for sharing your story. I appreciate the blend of caution and daring embodied in your story. In hindsight you certainly made some good decisions with the data you had at the time. I’ve certainly taken a few lessons from your writings. I look forward to seeing more of your articles as you (hopefully) continue to share your experiences going forward.
Thanks so much. There was certainly some luck involved. If I had faced 2020s style inflation in the 2010s the picture would look different. I’m surprised no one has picked up on the no-COLA US pension issue, but perhaps that’s because any kind of pension is rare these days.
I’d suggest, you know your auto. Newer autos are costly. Taxes, unknowns, declining quality, I myself, would not upgrade a 07/65k auto and if it was a Honda or Toyota I’d keep it till I, or it..fully expired.
Auto’s in junk yards data dictates they are there for motor/transmission failure issues primarily.
An individual with the financial acumen of JBogle opened my eyes to the saying, it gets you from “point A, to point B, regularly & reliably right”? JMHO/ shrug / I’d keep it.
Good luck…..
I hear you, but living alone means I have no back up. I’m fine with the car around town, not so sure about a couple of weeks on the Blue Ridge Parkway. Last time I did that the tire pressure warning light came on early in the trip, and it there is one thing I hate it’s fooling around with those stupid tire gauges. (Turned out to be a bad sensor.)
A former co-worker rented cars for long trips. It helped keep the mileage off their older vehicles plus they had a new, comfortable car with the latest safety features to enjoy!
I remember a colleague from way back who did the same thing. His own car was a beater.
That was my very first selfie, I hate being photographed.
Thanks for the compliment! For more photos, mostly unedited, see my Smugmug page.
Oops – that was meant as a reply to OBX9397.
Since Mr. Quinn brought up some personal questions below, I will take advantage of the opening to make a request: Please update your bio picture with one where you are smiling! A smile costs nothing, so it fits with your frugal personality.
On the subject of pictures, I recommend people check out your blog. I was entranced just by the photos. You are a fantastic photographer.
Great story! Maybe this is too much in the weeds, but you said you haven’t touched your retirement account. Haven’t you been required to take RMDs, or did you time that right, too, when Congress changed the law in 2019 and then again in 2022?
Sadly, no. I had already started RMDs when Congress began changing the age. So far, however, I have simply been moving the money between untaxed and taxable accounts at Vanguard, and not spending it.
It’s interesting how many people experience the dreaded reorganization or corporate buyout. I went through the same things and have always said I’d gladly to back to work for my first employer (who was bought out) for zero. I’d work for nothing simply because it was such a great atmosphere even though didn’t realize it at the time.
I wasn’t a FIRE person either, but I did operate on the theory that I could be fired the next day, so I wanted to build up my funds in order to handle this potential situation, which never developed. That was a nice springboard for retiring a little earlier.
I’m truly glad you were able to retire when you did. I’ve always felt using Quicken (or similar software) helps provide a look at how things are actually going and give you confidence to make changes like this.
Thanks! Yes, the company was never the same after the reorg.
My Quicken records were especially handy when I saw a fee-for-service financial planner a couple of years back for a sanity check on my CCRC move.
Even though I’ve used Quicken for several decades I just recently discovered “Tags” which allow me to identify subscriptions across many categories (entertainment, service agreements, computer storage, etc.) and then print a report combing all the subscriptions I have in one report. It’s eye opening. Like gaining weight, it creeps up on you before you know it.
Well done Kathy . I hope you keep writing and also please keep us posted on the CCRC.
Thanks, Paula! I finally have my move date for the CCRC. I’ll be among the first to move in, towards the end of October. Maybe there will be an article in that….
I’m counting on it!
Getting the date and the move organized has been a saga in itself, but travel taught me that the best stories come out of things going wrong. I’m hoping they won’t.
what a great attitude. I could use more of this when things go wrong for me while traveling and will try to remember your comment. I wish I had your fearless sense of adventure, but I’m more the anxious type.
Oh, I’m not fearless. I was always aware that I might need a Plan B at short notice.
Well done! Your timing was great.
I retired at age 66. I was and am still active but found that golf and other activities were more limiting. I was able to travel but my wife was not. So squeezing those last few years out of my retirement pension and SS had consequences.
People need to consider their and their mate’s health when planning retirement. It is not all about the “magic number”.
Thanks, jerry. Yes, I was very lucky with my timing. If inflation had been higher I could have been in trouble. I’m sorry to read about your wife.
Glad things worked out. Travel is great, and your timing turned out well given the health challenges that emerged at a time when most folks who achieved their retirement funding goals had been achieved would only begin exploring the world. One apparent factor (not specifically mentioned) that distinguishes your experience from many others is lack of children & grandkids which tend to have huge financial implications, not to mention lifestyle choices. That is NOT to say that having children and grandchildren is the only path to happiness.
Not having children and grandchildren in need of help when I retired certainly contributed to keeping expenses down. However, one reason I didn’t start saving until my late 30s was the fact that I had been helping to raise my husband’s four children from his first marriage, who lived with us.
Retiring at 53 is beyond my comprehension, but obviously you did it successfully as do others. You have accomplished some amazing things.
Retired 23 years on a fixed pension, starting SS only ten years ago, not using retirement savings and coping with inflation with money market earnings.
You deserve a great deal of credit indeed.
I realize we don’t want to reveal a lot about our personal finances, but your magic number would be interesting.
You mention your expenses would drop considerably after retirement. Other than perhaps no mortgage payment, how is that? Didn’t your extensive traveling offset what you were saving?
You mention a first husband. Are you retired now as a married person?
Now that you are fully retired could you give an estimate of the percentage of your former working income that you are now living on and what percentage is made up purely of investment income?
Thank you for sharing your unique journey.
I have been single since before I retired. As I wrote, after I retired I had no mortgage payment (though, of course, other housing expenses), I stopped saving for retirement, and paid much lower taxes. It obviously helped that I am naturally frugal – you may have noticed that I am still driving a 2007 car, although between travel and Covid it’s only done 65,000 miles.
Travel can be expensive if you choose, but I mostly didn’t. For instance, I read recently about someone who was paying $700/night for a hotel in Japan. I spent five weeks in Japan in 2016 and my total expenses, aside from flights in and out, averaged $175/day.
I’d have to go look at the numbers, but the only “investment” income I have been living on is the interest from my money market account, which hasn’t been much. That’s about to change.
I too track our travel expenses and calculate the daily cost. I’ve found it’s much cheaper to go to Kansas than Hawaii… (smile) In his book How to Get Rich and Stay Rich, Fred Young said it cost him $49 a day, $2.04 an hour and 3.4 cents to live (this was obviously sometime ago). I think I borrowed the daily expense idea from Fred.
Some countries are cheaper than others too. The year I went to Scandinavia was a real splurge compared to eastern Europe or SE Asia!
That’s an impressive amount of miles for a 2007 vehicle. I’m not an authority on hybrid battery packs, but while it seems like you’re well under any mileage concerns for needing to worry about battery pack replacement, I wonder if the sheer age of the battery at 16 years old might lead to a somewhat earlier replacement of the pack than the mileage would indicate.
Regardless, I would drive that sucker into the ground as it’s a great car. Buying a reliable, low-mileage vehicle and driving it for a couple decades seems like a great retirement strategy to limit spending.
I wouldn’t mind replacing it (a new battery pack would be expensive) but I want a plug-in hybrid sedan, and they are hard to come by.