After making progress on estate planning, documenting financial records, and updating family history, it suddenly occurred to me that I should make a list of life lessons I have learned along my life journey.
Obviously, these life lessons are a lot more than strictly financial, but certainly they will contribute to overall success and a fulfilling life for the next generation.
I came up with these and put them in a document along with my financial records. Hopefully, someday it will help the next generations in my family. Here is my list of 10.
1. Live your own dreams, not someone else’s
2. Believe and invest in yourself
3. Focus on health, family, financial security and a purpose larger than yourself
4. Be a lifelong learner
5. Be self aware and know who you are and what makes you tick
6. Learn from failures and keep moving
7. Be positive to overcome life’s many challenges
8. Give to receive
9. Start small, think big
10. Leave everyone better than you found them
Everyone has different life experiences and value systems. What life lessons would you like to pass on to the next generation?
Remember to use time wisely. Once spent it’s gone forever. Unlike money, which can be earned again.
This is true for all ages, but specially important to retirees. With a limited health span, time is more precious than ever.
From my mom- “You are as good as anyone else…be confident.” I taught this to my daughters and they (and I) are passing this along to their kids. I have a 5 1/2 year old grandson who has many adults he is “friends” with and he holds mature conversations with. It’s amazing and wonderful to watch his confidence and interactions with people.
My parents taught me how to appreciate life. Always say, Thank You. Be especially attentive to older folks, and challenged folks, they need a little assist here and there. Simple things, a Smile is always welcome, hold a door open. Be a good listener, be kind, and help your neighbor. It is really nice to see that spirit come out especially after a fire, or flood, or the like. And yes, learn from your failures, we can all do better for our fellow citizens.