Sundar Rao Sundar retired after a four-decade career as a research and development engineer. He lives in a 55-plus community. His interests include investing, digital painting, reading, writing and gardening. In addition to his Forum posts and comments, shown below, be sure to check out his writer's page where his articles are listed.
DURING A PROJECT meeting at my old employer, a member of our team was constantly raising questions without offering any solutions. Afterwards, the team leader commented, “This guy always thinks his cup is half empty. Nothing will ever satisfy him.”
We’ve all known such people. Is there anything wrong with their attitude? It depends. My boss told me during my first week, “Never be satisfied with the status quo. Find ways to improve everything.
MANY FOLKS CLAIM TO be ready for retirement, both financially and psychologically. But they’re often surprised to discover that the reality is different from what they expected.
I started planning well in advance of my 2023 retirement. I read dozens of books on the subject, and talked to many classmates and friends who’d already retired. Of all the books and videos that I reviewed, one talk on YouTube stood out: a TEDx Talk by Dr.
WHEN I LOOK BACK at my career, I see that the key to my long tenure with one employer was my desire to learn new skills and help expand the business. That mindset, I believe, helped me survive multiple rounds of layoffs.
I’m hoping that same mindset will help with retirement.
Many retirees say, “I just want to relax. Get rid of the alarm clock. No more classes or schedules for me.” While that feels good for a while,
DURING A GATHERING of retired friends, the topic of wills came up. Many had completed their wills and had their finances in order, while others were working on updating their wills. But there were several who hadn’t even started thinking about it. One of them said, “As a retiree, I’m just starting to enjoy my freedom and have some fun. It’s too stressful to think about death. I’ll get to it someday.”
As you might imagine,
IF SOMEONE TOLD ME 10 years ago that I’d end up living in a 55-plus community, I would have laughed. Our plan was to stay in the home we loved and age in place.
What happened? Our initial move to a 55-plus community was driven solely by convenience. My company transferred me to Atlanta in 2021. We wanted to downsize to an apartment, but finding one close to work was challenging. Our son pointed out that there was a 55-plus apartment community close to my workplace.
WE’VE ALL HEARD THE maxim that “without risk, there’s no reward.” Over the years, we’ve all taken countless risks—big and small, financial and otherwise—to get to where we are today.
Every activity has a risk associated with it, and that includes retirement. It’s best to be aware of these risks and, when prudent, take steps to limit them. Here are nine risks that retirees face.
1. Health. Even if we’re fortunate to enjoy a long,
DURING THE PANDEMIC, I started devoting more time to retirement planning. But I had more questions than answers. I called a friend who was a financial planner.
“Retirement planning is confusing,” I told him. “I have a lot of questions.”
He laughed and said, “The answer is money. What’s the question?”
While his answer was humorous, it reflected what most retirees already know: Money is crucial for a good retirement. While it isn’t the only thing you need for a happy retirement,
I WAS WORRIED ABOUT what we’d be giving up when, a few years ago, we moved to a 55-plus community in Atlanta. We downsized from a large home to a small apartment, plus all our neighbors were considerably older. It was obvious we had to adjust and start enjoying our unfamiliar environment or we’d end up miserable.
My wife and I made a conscious decision to slow down, and make every effort to get to know other residents and their life stories.
WHEN I VISITED INDIA after working in the U.S. for a decade, it struck me that people seemed happy, despite harsh living conditions.
How could that be? “People compare themselves with others,” my brother said to me. “That’s human nature. If they’re better off than their immediate community, they’re happy. It doesn’t matter how bad their situation may be compared to more prosperous countries.”
That made sense. I was making the mistake of applying U.S.
DECADES AGO, WHEN I was trying to save consistently for retirement, I found that my impulse purchases were standing in my way. Like many, I wanted feel-good stuff or the latest gadget, and I was willing to spend money to get it.
Once, I saw an expensive jacket in a store and badly wanted it. I was about to buy it when reality struck. I said to myself, “Let me think it over for a day.
I WAS FASCINATED with retirement planning during the final decade of my career. I read many financial books and focused on saving diligently. Yet, after retiring several months ago following a 39-year career as a research and development engineer, I had a rude awakening.
You can plan all you want, but then comes an unexpected situation that derails everything. As boxer Mike Tyson famously said, “Everybody has plans until they get hit for the

Comments
Andrew, Thanks for this excellent piece honoring Jonathan! I will never forget how Jonathan helped me. After my retirement, I started writing as a hobby. A friend mentioned to me about Humble Dollar. I was fascinated by the quality of articles, comments from readers and the mentorship provided by Jonathan as editor. I wanted to write for HD. He was very tough editing a draft of my first article, and made sure it was good enough for HD. I learned basics from him and slowly improved by writing skills. Here is his message on editing my 10th article draft: Mohan, Many thanks for the attached. Nice piece. Please let me know whether the edit looks good to go. Best, Jonathan He laid the foundation and gave me the confidence to continue writing. Thanks Jonathan, for your encouragement and support!
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Link to comment from September 20, 2026
There were 4 deaths during past 3 months in our 55+ community. It is devastating to everyone, especially survivors. My learnings: Focus on relationships, spend time wisely, and be well prepared for end of life. Jonathan, Thanks for showing us what truly matters.
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Link to comment from June 7, 2026
It is not only the ever increasing HOA fees, but also special assessments that cause residents to revolt. We had a recent HOA fee increase to cover reserves for roof replacement, which will be needed in 20 - 30 yrs. Residents opposed it, saying " We won't live that long to see the roof replaced, why should we pay now?".
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Link to comment from April 19, 2026
Andrew, Your article brought back so many memories of my growing up in India with very little. Looking back, that experience shaped my world view and how I look at wealth and material possessions. I am a better person because of that. Thanks for a wonderful article, and keep writing. Sundar
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Link to comment from April 18, 2026
It will be wise to scout out several Assisted Living facilities in the area before you actually need it. At least you will know which is a good facility. One manager of such a facility told me " We get 48 hours notice that a patient is moving in. This often happens on Fridays. In many cases, patients have no choice."
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Link to comment from January 24, 2026
Bogdan, This is a very important compilation for HD readers. Advice from Jonathan is always evergreen and timeless. Thanks!
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Link to comment from January 1, 2026
I chose pension over lump sum for exactly the same reason you described. It has worked out very well.
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Link to comment from January 1, 2026
Happy Anniversary! Wishing you many more years of love and happiness!
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Link to comment from December 15, 2025
Look for a non-profit, financially sound CCRC. There are many, if you do your due diligence. Be wary of situations like these.
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Link to comment from December 9, 2025
I am sure HD readers have heard about this plan. The administration is eyeing Australia’s superannuation model as a potential method for the U.S.
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