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Sundar Rao   Sundar retired after a four-decade career as a research and development engineer. He lives in a 55-plus community. His interests include investing, digital painting, reading, writing and gardening. In addition to his Forum posts and comments, shown below, be sure to check out his writer's page where his articles are listed.

    Forum Posts

    Lump sum Vs Monthly Payment - Which pension option is better?

    39 replies

    AUTHOR: smr1082 on 6/21/2024
    FIRST: steve abramowitz on 6/22/2024   |   RECENT: smr1082 on 1/1

    How to minimize the caregiving burden on our adult children when we need help? 

    33 replies

    AUTHOR: smr1082 on 8/2/2025
    FIRST: Catherine on 8/3/2025   |   RECENT: moonwalkerdaughter on 8/10/2025

    What's the best career advice you ever got? 

    33 replies

    AUTHOR: smr1082 on 7/20/2025
    FIRST: Mark Crothers on 7/20/2025   |   RECENT: Martin McCue on 7/28/2025

    Sad news about T. V. Narayanan, a writer for HD

    13 replies

    AUTHOR: smr1082 on 5/22/2025
    FIRST: Andrew Forsythe on 5/22/2025   |   RECENT: smr1082 on 5/25/2025

    Assisted Living: How Will You Choose?

    40 replies

    AUTHOR: smr1082 on 5/11/2025
    FIRST: mytimetotravel on 5/11/2025   |   RECENT: smr1082 on 5/17/2025

    Going Against the Grain

    30 replies

    AUTHOR: smr1082 on 4/25/2025
    FIRST: Dan Smith on 4/25/2025   |   RECENT: smr1082 on 5/3/2025

    Three bucket strategy for financing retirement

    20 replies

    AUTHOR: smr1082 on 3/27/2025
    FIRST: Jonathan Clements on 3/27/2025   |   RECENT: smr1082 on 4/23/2025

    What should be our % cash allocation in investment portfolio?

    20 replies

    AUTHOR: smr1082 on 11/6/2024
    FIRST: Brent Wilson on 11/6/2024   |   RECENT: Ben Rodriguez on 4/2/2025

    Senior Care Crisis - Are we prepared?

    21 replies

    AUTHOR: smr1082 on 3/4/2025
    FIRST: Nick Politakis on 3/5/2025   |   RECENT: smr1082 on 3/10/2025

    Dump the 60/40 and target date funds for 100% stock plus annuity portfolio?

    31 replies

    AUTHOR: smr1082 on 2/5/2025
    FIRST: David Lancaster on 2/6/2025   |   RECENT: L H on 2/19/2025

    Lessons you have learned from articles by Jonathan Clements

    21 replies

    AUTHOR: smr1082 on 1/22/2025
    FIRST: Randy Dobkin on 1/22/2025   |   RECENT: Bear Seiver on 1/28/2025

    When should one give up financial control?

    36 replies

    AUTHOR: smr1082 on 12/11/2024
    FIRST: eludom on 12/12/2024   |   RECENT: Rick Connor on 12/15/2024

    What life lessons would you like to pass on to the next generation?

    28 replies

    AUTHOR: smr1082 on 11/17/2024
    FIRST: Winston Smith on 11/17/2024   |   RECENT: smr1082 on 11/27/2024

    Dream Retirement: Is It Fading Away?

    43 replies

    AUTHOR: smr1082 on 10/31/2024
    FIRST: Dan Smith on 11/1/2024   |   RECENT: neyugn on 11/5/2024

    How would you prepare for the staggering cost of in-home care?

    18 replies

    AUTHOR: smr1082 on 9/10/2024
    FIRST: baldscreen on 9/10/2024   |   RECENT: parkslope on 9/15/2024

    When you retire, should you move your savings to IRA or leave it in 401(k) plan?

    29 replies

    AUTHOR: smr1082 on 8/11/2024
    FIRST: Nick Politakis on 8/11/2024   |   RECENT: smr1082 on 8/17/2024

    How to protect your retirement savings from scammers?

    44 replies

    AUTHOR: smr1082 on 7/29/2024
    FIRST: Rick Connor on 7/29/2024   |   RECENT: Margaret Fallon on 8/7/2024

    Signing up for pre-planned funeral services: Is it worth it?

    17 replies

    AUTHOR: smr1082 on 7/23/2024
    FIRST: baldscreen on 7/24/2024   |   RECENT: smr1082 on 7/28/2024

    Perils of market downturns early in retirement 

    15 replies

    AUTHOR: smr1082 on 7/19/2024
    FIRST: Sanjib Saha on 7/20/2024   |   RECENT: Ormode on 7/22/2024

    What Financial/ Life advice would you give a 2024 college graduate?

    16 replies

    AUTHOR: smr1082 on 6/29/2024
    FIRST: Ed Wong on 6/29/2024   |   RECENT: Ben Rodriguez on 7/2/2024

    Comments

    • There were 4 deaths during past 3 months in our 55+ community. It is devastating to everyone, especially survivors. My learnings: Focus on relationships, spend time wisely, and be well prepared for end of life. Jonathan, Thanks for showing us what truly matters.

      Post: Mourning the World

      Link to comment from June 7, 2026

    • It is not only the ever increasing HOA fees, but also special assessments that cause residents to revolt. We had a recent HOA fee increase to cover reserves for roof replacement, which will be needed in 20 - 30 yrs. Residents opposed it, saying " We won't live that long to see the roof replaced, why should we pay now?".

      Post: The condo, HOA, senior citizen conundrum

      Link to comment from April 19, 2026

    • Andrew, Your article brought back so many memories of my growing up in India with very little. Looking back, that experience shaped my world view and how I look at wealth and material possessions. I am a better person because of that. Thanks for a wonderful article, and keep writing. Sundar

      Post: What Bangladesh Taught Me About Enough

      Link to comment from April 18, 2026

    • It will be wise to scout out several Assisted Living facilities in the area before you actually need it. At least you will know which is a good facility. One manager of such a facility told me " We get 48 hours notice that a patient is moving in. This often happens on Fridays. In many cases, patients have no choice."

      Post: This Too Will Pass – Moving to Assisted Living

      Link to comment from January 24, 2026

    • Bogdan, This is a very important compilation for HD readers. Advice from Jonathan is always evergreen and timeless. Thanks!

      Post: Best of Jonathan’s HumbleDollar Posts

      Link to comment from January 1, 2026

    • I chose pension over lump sum for exactly the same reason you described. It has worked out very well.

      Post: Lump sum Vs Monthly Payment – Which pension option is better?

      Link to comment from January 1, 2026

    • Happy Anniversary! Wishing you many more years of love and happiness!

      Post: Fifty-seven years and counting and it’s snowing…again.

      Link to comment from December 15, 2025

    • Look for a non-profit, financially sound CCRC. There are many, if you do your due diligence. Be wary of situations like these.

      Post: How Has Living in a CCRC Affected Your Monthly Bills?

      Link to comment from December 9, 2025

    • I am sure HD readers have heard about this plan. The administration is eyeing Australia’s superannuation model as a potential method for the U.S.

      • Unlike the U.S., where many workers lack access to or don’t participate in retirement plans, Australia mandates a 12% employer contribution, creating a far more robust retirement savings system.
      Will this plan help?

      Post: I CAN SOLVE THE SOCIAL SECURITY AND RETIREMENT CRISIS IN AMERICA

      Link to comment from December 6, 2025

    • As of now, ours is 18 carat. One reason is that we kept our expectations low and realistic going into retirement. In addition, we have not yet developed any new major health issues. That could change any day. We downsized, and lead a simple and active life. We have good support network amongst our community. Positive mindset helps.

      Post: They lied to us. 

      Link to comment from December 4, 2025

    Articles

    Filling Our Cups

    Sundar Mohan Rao   |  Dec 25, 2024

    DURING A PROJECT meeting at my old employer, a member of our team was constantly raising questions without offering any solutions. Afterwards, the team leader commented, “This guy always thinks his cup is half empty. Nothing will ever satisfy him.”
    We’ve all known such people. Is there anything wrong with their attitude? It depends. My boss told me during my first week, “Never be satisfied with the status quo. Find ways to improve everything.

    Begin by Quitting

    Sundar Mohan Rao   |  Oct 10, 2024

    MANY FOLKS CLAIM TO be ready for retirement, both financially and psychologically. But they’re often surprised to discover that the reality is different from what they expected.
    I started planning well in advance of my 2023 retirement. I read dozens of books on the subject, and talked to many classmates and friends who’d already retired. Of all the books and videos that I reviewed, one talk on YouTube stood out: a TEDx Talk by Dr.

    Still Learning

    Sundar Mohan Rao   |  Aug 21, 2024

    WHEN I LOOK BACK at my career, I see that the key to my long tenure with one employer was my desire to learn new skills and help expand the business. That mindset, I believe, helped me survive multiple rounds of layoffs.
    I’m hoping that same mindset will help with retirement.
    Many retirees say, “I just want to relax. Get rid of the alarm clock. No more classes or schedules for me.” While that feels good for a while,

    One Life to Live

    Sundar Mohan Rao   |  Jun 10, 2024

    DURING A GATHERING of retired friends, the topic of wills came up. Many had completed their wills and had their finances in order, while others were working on updating their wills. But there were several who hadn’t even started thinking about it. One of them said, “As a retiree, I’m just starting to enjoy my freedom and have some fun. It’s too stressful to think about death. I’ll get to it someday.”
    As you might imagine,

    Aging With Others

    Sundar Mohan Rao   |  Apr 10, 2024

    IF SOMEONE TOLD ME 10 years ago that I’d end up living in a 55-plus community, I would have laughed. Our plan was to stay in the home we loved and age in place.
    What happened? Our initial move to a 55-plus community was driven solely by convenience. My company transferred me to Atlanta in 2021. We wanted to downsize to an apartment, but finding one close to work was challenging. Our son pointed out that there was a 55-plus apartment community close to my workplace.

    Risks Retirees Face

    Sundar Mohan Rao   |  Mar 12, 2024

    WE’VE ALL HEARD THE maxim that “without risk, there’s no reward.” Over the years, we’ve all taken countless risks—big and small, financial and otherwise—to get to where we are today.
    Every activity has a risk associated with it, and that includes retirement. It’s best to be aware of these risks and, when prudent, take steps to limit them. Here are nine risks that retirees face.
    1. Health. Even if we’re fortunate to enjoy a long,

    Money Matters

    Sundar Mohan Rao   |  Feb 23, 2024

    DURING THE PANDEMIC, I started devoting more time to retirement planning. But I had more questions than answers. I called a friend who was a financial planner.
    “Retirement planning is confusing,” I told him. “I have a lot of questions.”
    He laughed and said, “The answer is money. What’s the question?”
    While his answer was humorous, it reflected what most retirees already know: Money is crucial for a good retirement. While it isn’t the only thing you need for a happy retirement,

    Still Above Ground

    Sundar Mohan Rao   |  Feb 9, 2024

    I WAS WORRIED ABOUT what we’d be giving up when, a few years ago, we moved to a 55-plus community in Atlanta. We downsized from a large home to a small apartment, plus all our neighbors were considerably older. It was obvious we had to adjust and start enjoying our unfamiliar environment or we’d end up miserable.
    My wife and I made a conscious decision to slow down, and make every effort to get to know other residents and their life stories.

    Comparison Culture

    Sundar Mohan Rao   |  Jan 26, 2024

    WHEN I VISITED INDIA after working in the U.S. for a decade, it struck me that people seemed happy, despite harsh living conditions.
    How could that be? “People compare themselves with others,” my brother said to me. “That’s human nature. If they’re better off than their immediate community, they’re happy. It doesn’t matter how bad their situation may be compared to more prosperous countries.”
    That made sense. I was making the mistake of applying U.S.

    Need or Want?

    Sundar Mohan Rao   |  Jan 11, 2024

    DECADES AGO, WHEN I was trying to save consistently for retirement, I found that my impulse purchases were standing in my way. Like many, I wanted feel-good stuff or the latest gadget, and I was willing to spend money to get it.
    Once, I saw an expensive jacket in a store and badly wanted it. I was about to buy it when reality struck. I said to myself, “Let me think it over for a day.

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