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Note: I’m still cleaning out my old ‘never submitted’ article file. Here’s #4. And yes, my OCD compels me to keep track of the numbers.
FRUGALITY IS WORN like a badge of honor among many of us in the HumbleDollar tribe. I am happy to include myself in that club. Even if we no longer have a pressing need to be so frugal, we get a kick out of it. I’ve written several articles on the theme.
What about the other side of the coin? How about those times where, instead of going for the low-cost option, I’ve stepped out and splurged a bit? Here are examples of what I consider some of my most satisfying indulgences:
All-wheel drive vehicles. I wrecked my first car, a Honda Accord that I had bought right out of college, while driving to work in the snow early in my career. In retrospect, the problem was caused my inexperience and cheapness. I had let the tires wear down to unsafe levels. After that experience, I developed a phobia about driving in the snow.
Even with good tires—I had learned my lesson—those unavoidable drives in bad weather caused me considerable stress. Near the end of my career, I bought my first AWD vehicle, an older Subaru Outback. I found driving an AWD to be a cure for my decades-long snow phobia. I got rid of the Outback, which was always a money pit, and both our vehicles are relatively new (at least for us) AWDs now.
Landscaping services For many years, a spring ritual at our house would be mulching. A large pile of mulch would be deposited on our driveway and I would chip away at it, wheelbarrow load by wheelbarrow load. I never liked doing it. Lisa used to help a bit, but her back issues made it hard for her to continue.
A few years ago, we hired a landscaping service to do our mulching and edging for about a grand. Needless to say, the yard looks much better after being worked on by professionals.
Pets At one time, we had three cats and a Shetland Sheepdog. Living with so many animals was like having a four-ring circus at times. It also cost a good bit of money, especially as our precious furballs aged. Still, it was money well spent.
We have fond memories of all those pets. The enjoyment we received over their lifetimes was priceless. We’re down to my daughter’s cat, Blossom. She’s responsible for all of Blossom’s costs, so last year we had no pet expenses. I’m itching to get another pup, but a bit hesitant to make such a large commitment this early in retirement.
Restaurants No doubt about it, it’s much cheaper to cook and eat at home these days. My wife Lisa is a great cook and I can manage some dishes that aren’t bad. Chicken pot pie is my specialty. I don’t have an office to go to any more, so I am more proactive about getting together with my friends.
Often, we meet for a meal. Lisa also eats out often with her friends. I expect our restaurant budget to rise during retirement, and that’s okay. The experience is well worth the expense. I rarely pick up food for a solitary meal any more. I’d rather just eat at home unless a social aspect is involved.
Electric Yard Tools In the spring, I would often have a miserable time trying to get my gas-powered yard trimmer to run. I purchased a low-cost electric trimmer hoping to get some relief. Unfortunately, that trimmer had little power and the internal battery did not last long.
A few years ago, I bought an EGO brand trimmer, which was expensive but has lots of power. The batteries are easily replaced, but in any case, they are still working well. We also bought a hedge trimmer of the same brand. When my gas-powered Toro mower finally conks out, I expect to replace it with an electric model.
There aren’t many material things left that I need or want. Like many HumbleDollar readers at my stage of life, experiences give me the most bang for the buck. How about you, fellow member of the frugal fraternity (or sorority)? What are some of your most satisfying splurges?
Ken, I’ve been racking my brain for a splurge to post, but I came up empty until last evening. My wife said, “I’m splurging with three slices of bacon on my BLT, instead of two.” I did the same. Does that count?
Maybe it belongs on the Humble Bragging post.
My wife tried a BLP – peach slices instead of tomato – at a local restaurant. I was amazed at how good it was. They used a grilled, garlic sourdough bread and basil aioli. She found this recipe which is very close and has made it several times to tremendous acclaim. Enjoy
here’s the recipe.
https://www.foodnetwork.com/recipes/food-network-kitchen/bacon-peach-and-arugula-sandwiches-recipe-2119977
Ed, just be careful not to let yourself get carried away. Next time: back to two slices. Try to limit the three slice BLT to special occasions in the future.
Greek pistachio nuts from the island of Egina.
We find ourselves spending a lot of money on food these days while hosting our adult children and grandchildren. Sometimes I feel a little anxious about this, so I occasionally have to remind myself this is fantastic way to spend our money. I’m so blessed to have them living close to us and wanting to spend time with us.
Consider it an entertainment expense rather than a food expense!
Definitely a great way to spend your money; we love to share meals with our kids and are fortunate they live close by. I’ve tracked our restaurant expenses for years. This year we are on track to break our record, and that is perfectly fine. The major perk I’ve allowed myself for working a bit in retirement is an ‘unlimited’ restaurant budget. Well, unlimited within reason that is…after all, I’m still a member of the HumbleDollar tribe.
In the naming of groups of animals a tribe is applied to goats. Of course, Humble Dollar frugality deserves the greatest of all time moniker.
This year my wife and I celebrated our 25th anniversary. Since we had skipped traveling much since the start of COVID, we decided to blow it out this year with a Legendary Rhythm and Blues Cruise in January, a four-week vacation in Italy (including two hiking tours), and a trip to Philadelphia last month to see the Rolling Stones and some American history. No regrets.
Mine is easy. Dogs. I’m addicted to them. We have four right now–two German shepherds, a Dutch shepherd and a Cardigan corgi. The joy and happiness they bring to me and my husband is priceless. We spend hours each day training them, walking them and playing with them. I can’t imagine a better way to spend my day!
I think I’ve lived frugally, sometimes spending way too much time to save way too few dollars. I do value my EGO tools and my late model iPhone. But one of my top splurges has been cruising with Disney. Disney is pricey but I just love the family focus, even if its just my wife and me. Besides the Bahamas and Caribbean, we’ve cruised with Disney through the Panama Canal, across the Atlantic, and around the Mediterranean and Baltic seas. There’s nothing like watching little girls dressed as princesses meeting “real” princesses.
I have always lived frugally as well but I am now firmly in the camp of spending well/more for things that are important to me and I find value in. As a cycling enthusiast I own a high end bicycle (more than just one even lol) that non cycling friends find crazy in cost. I also use my bike six days a week logging thousands of miles in a year. I believe there are health and social benefits as well. When a friend was ribbing me about the cost of my bike(s) I simply asked him how much his boat was and how much use he got out of it. It’s all about priorities and what you value, and I can easily afford it.
I am in the midst of reconditioning a free (HA!) 1960’s vintage table saw that someone had stored in a shed, unused for 20+ years. I have the table all smoothed, cleaned, and oiled. I just started looking at the electrical stuff. All the wiring is old and needs to be replaced. The motor runs, but I need to replace the saw blade. It has a belt drive not direct drive, so I also need to remove and clean the pulleys and make sure they can be fixed tight on the shafts. The support frame is solid, but could use a coat of paint. I’m wondering if I should have just splurged and purchased a new one, but I’m learning a lot and enjoying the process. Also, the same someone gave me a similarly stored 6-inch jointer. That will be a more difficult and time consuming rebuild.
We’ve had a good experience with our EGO mower. So nice not having to deal with gas. It eventually developed an intermittent problem with starting, so we took it in for diagnosis. We were within the 5 year warranty, and in a week or so we had a brand new EGO mower delivered to our door.
Just replaced the line in my EGO string trimmer a few minutes ago. It was so easy compared to other trimmers I’ve had. EGO is in pole position when I start shopping for a new mower.
We won’t stay at cheap hotels, eat fast food (with the exception of an occasional 5-Guys or In-N-Out burger if we’re near one). We will probably splurge for first class when we fly in the future as well.
Love this, Ken. We also believe in splurging for quality tools, among other things. One recent splurge that we found very satisfying was when we went on an Alaska cruise. We did not scrimp, but did excursions every day and did the optional Denali part. Where we scrimped was not buying things like the optional alcohol package, but we did have a drink for dinner if we wanted one. Will be interested to see what others mention. Chris
There are splurges and there are real splurges.
Travel was our largest splurge for 13 years, going to Florida each winter is the next.
My car was a splurge.
Paying to have outside work done was a necessity in my book.
Restaurants are probably biggest splurge we engage in on a regular basis. It’s scary how fast a dinner bill can add up, especially with drinks. The Philadelphia region is known for having numerous quality BYO restaurants.
Travel is the other category. Last year’s trip to Alaska was our first expensive trip with a tour company. All of our previous travel we planned and executed ourselves. I don’t regret the trip at all – it was worth it. We are leaving in a few months for an Adriatic small motor yacht cruise with good friends. This trip is also quite pricey, but it should be great. We hope to have many more years of travel in us, but you never know, so we plan to go while we feel good.
We want to do an Alaskan trip and we are thinking it would be smart to use a tour group. Would you mind sharing the tour company you used? Many thanks.
J. We used this trip.
https://www.roadscholar.org/find-an-adventure/11479/Alaska–s-Inside-Passage-Up-Close
It was a great trip. The ship was comfortable, but not luxurious. Food was excellent, crew was fantastic. The RS guides were top notch. We went in early September just before the whales started to migrate, and the salmon were running. Weather was OK, but the amount of wildlife we saw more than made up for it.