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AUTHOR: Marjorie Kondrack on 12/28/2024

Many of us have an idyllic vision of what retirement will be like—endless days of relaxation and recreation.  But the rules of retirement are being re-written. This will come as no surprise given the changes in our culture and nation’s economy during the past several years.  It may also be a little unsettling to some, as there was some comfort in the knowledge that, after decades of working, you could retire and enjoy your remaining years in peace and tranquility. But there are reasons why baby boomers might not ride off into the sunset as previous generations have.

  1. Retirement can be boring. It may be great for a while, but many miss the challenges that came with employment.  Besides, you can only play golf or tend to your garden for so long, and traveling can cost a lot of money.  Then too, while expecting to fill too many days in the company of loved ones, it may become clear that they have their own routines and commitments.
  2. Funding Retirement.  We hear often that many retirees haven’t planned properly for retirement—nor does the current state of the economy, during the past several years, bode well for being able to have enough money to do the things you want to do. According to a recent survey, more than 80% of retired or soon to be retired baby boomers plan to do some type of work, in some capacity, during their retirement
  3. The increasing cost of health care.  This alone is reason enough for people to forestall retirement, especially now that pension plans are becoming a thing of the past.  You may have to re-assess the manner in which you withdraw money from retirement funds, with the help of a financial planner.
  4. The Social Security conundrum.  What will Social Security look like in the future, if indeed it survives. I believe that it will, but the shortfall is a little scary and it’s just something else to weigh on your mind, for those approaching retirement years.
  5. Lifetime workers.    Yes, they do exist.  I personally know someone who claims he will never retire, and he  plans to work for the unforeseeable future. Others retire, and after a year or two re-enter the workforce on a part time basis—while some transition from a full time job to a part time position—one that relates to their knowledge and expertise.
  6. Innovators.  A 30 year retirement is no longer out of the question. Medical advances have improved our chances for living longer and healthier lives.  Given longevity, there are those who want to enlarge their capacities and look for ways to continue growing—in a completely different field.

Do most people want to work full time? No. The golden years may not be so golden on your body. But people still want to work and enjoy the flexibility of working on a part time basis—giving them the opportunity to enjoy their retirement and to spend more time with friends and family; or engaging in their favorite hobby.

Americans are renowned for their strong work ethic.  Today, there are so many things to consider when we think about what we call “retirement “. Those with creativity will plan well.

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John Barthel
10 days ago

It’s always interesting to read columns such as this. With Americans attitudes/feelings about “work”, it makes me wonder how we would do with European or Australian style vacation time. They often start with a minimum of 4-6 weeks (20-30 days) with mandatory usage of that time, and go up from there. On a recent cruise, we met an Australian couple who were taking 3 months of built up time to travel, and would still have 6 weeks upon return to their jobs. For them, it is “forced”, as not taking it incurs a liability for the company. The built up time also accrued over a surprisingly short time.

mytimetotravel
9 days ago
Reply to  John Barthel

I started work at the megacorp in the UK, and when I transferred to the US payroll I was not pleased to lose a week’s vacation! The work day was also longer and there was no flex time.

At that time employees were not required to take their vacation days and I was surprised to discover that some people had a sizable amount banked. (I always took all of mine.)

Richard Adams
10 days ago

Thanks for the thoughtful post. After thirty years of intense work with my firm, I started part time this week (not working Fridays). The decision to try part-time as a transition to retirement was informed in no small part by the discourse here on Humble Dollar. Too soon for me to provide any findings, but I was definitely not bored yesterday on my first Friday off. Thanks again!

Rob Jennings
11 days ago

I was on a retirement finance social media site recently and the posted question from a pre-retiree was: “What, if anything, has surprised you about retirement?”. My somewhat glib initial answer was that what surprised me was that I didn’t like it. I found I was, in fact, bored and unfulfilled-in baseball parlance “not ready to hang up my cleats”. A reason for the surprise was that I had been on the long runway to retirement for several years at megacorp and the job had become increasingly draining-all I could see was the finish line. After I retired, we went on a very nice trip visiting a National Park, part of an established joint retirement plan to visit all the NPs. After getting home though, I put up a shingle on LinkedIn and to my surprise got part time contracting/consulting work. That was 7 years ago. Some of the work has involved travel and my wife has joined me and we have added personal travel around the work. On one trip to Switzerland she reconnected with a Swiss exchange student who had attended her high school. They now have regular calls and visits. On other trips we have been able to visit distant relatives and friends to renew and sustain relationships. I have really enjoyed the work and helping young folks. From a financial perspective, although we would have been OK if I wasn’t still working, doing so has had huge benefits including a bridge to delayed SS without drawing on retirement accounts. On the home front, I’ve been able to develop a structure of fulfilling activities and social engagements, some with my wife and some not, now such that I am slowing down the work a bit and the motivation for working is not quite as strong although I’m not ready to say with finality that I am hanging up the cleats just yet.

Philip Russell
9 days ago
Reply to  Rob Jennings

What is the name of this retirement finance social media site? Thanks!

Rick Connor
16 days ago

Thanks for an interesting article Marjorie. I’ve seen each of your points exhibited by friends or colleagues. Many of my former colleagues had planned a pre-65 retirement, but have ended up deciding to work to 65, or at least closer. Health insurance is certainly one of the reasons. Our company’s traditional pension was frozen in April 2014. That means a meaning full reduction in what they had expected to receive upon retirement. I know a few folks who have been able to move to a part-time role, or a consultative role. I found consulting a good way to continue to use my mind, skills and experience, and make a bit of money also. Happy New Year.

smr1082
16 days ago

From my observations, a major determinant of happy retirement is health. Money is a distant second. If you are blessed with good health, you have many options to enrich your life in retirement – part time work, travel, hobbies and social networks.

When you are planning for retirement, it is wise to focus on your health (mental and physical) while building financial security.

T. V. NARAYANAN
17 days ago

I retired at 59 in 1999 in order to spend more time on investments. I retired also because commuting was getting more and more difficult. I was driving about 38 miles each way. My wife was an anesthesiologist. She was making enough money, so there was no pressure in making both ends meet.I had a Ph.D. in engineering but my interest was in investments.

Jo Bo
17 days ago

Thank you, Marjorie, for your cautionary advice.

I LOVE retirement (3 years in; age 66), feel incredibly blessed to afford it, and am never bored. The important pieces for me have been channeling my work ethic into volunteer activities, creating a central place for exercise and nature, and continuing on a path of lifelong learning. I also feel fortunate to work in a college lab several (largely unscheduled) hours a week — great for socialization, being among the young, and using the mind.

S
S
17 days ago

I loved working and love not working. Life continues and endlessly interesting. I am lucky I read people like Jonathan and Bogle along the way to plan financially.

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luvtoride44afe9eb1e
17 days ago

Marjorie, great article that covers many of the aspects of retirement, all of which are valid considerations. I would just add a couple more that I have found in my 15 months of retirement.

  • Mindset/ challenges- all the leisure activities mentioned are great but I found Myself wanting more mental challenges that I left behind while working. To fill this need, I am taking college courses under the New Jersey Senior Citizen Learning program. NJ residents 65 and older can take course at any NJ State college on a non-matriculated basis for free where space is available. I just finished my first semester/course at Montclair State and I really enjoyed the academic challenge and being with undergraduate students in the classroom on campus. It was a great experience.
  • I also visit our towns library (often with my grandson almost 6 years old) and have been reading more books than I have had time to read in years.
  • Decumulating the years of stuff saved and stored away. Going through file drawers, closets and storage bins to get rid of unneeded papers, Knick knacks, clothes etc can be tedious but very satisfying too.

These activities fill quite a bit of my time and I rarely find myself bored or looking for things to do.

Jeff Bond
17 days ago

Thanks for this article. I find retirement to be anything BUT boring. As noted by others, there are kids and grandkids (and for some, great grandkids) to visit, nurture, and cherish. There are hobbies old and new. There are still household and yard chores for many of us. Travel is a discussion during each and every year. Social activities are no longer limited to Saturday evenings – we’re always available and our calendar is an open book!

Edmund Marsh
17 days ago

Marjorie, thanks for a reminder that when or if we retire from our job, we shouldn’t retire from reality. The more senior members present remind us that life continues to have its challenges and pleasures, heartaches and victories.

Winston Smith
17 days ago

Another great post Marjorie!

As I have commented before my retirement hasn’t been boring.

Grandchildren, family, friends, books, puzzles, games, and endless internet surfing all seem to eat up lots of time.

Not to mention hobbies old and new.

I did get a chuckle out of “endless days of relaxation and recreation”.

Even though we downsized there are still the mundane tasks of cleaning, upkeep, repairing and the like to do.

Not to mention Doctor visits and all sorts of seemingly inscrutable medical “tests”.

Throw in some travel and I have to marvel at how I got in ANY personal time while I was working.

Kenneth Tobin
17 days ago

The key is to start investing early; 10-20% of gross income
Saving + Index Investing=wealth

Scott Dichter
17 days ago

The idyllic futures we imagine are probably because we Americans tend toward optimism, that we tend to see a better future. When we’re young and overly busy there’s often less time to reflect on out disappointments but in retirement they can become a focal point.

I say let’s keep dreaming the big dreams

mytimetotravel
18 days ago

“… people still want to work and enjoy the flexibility of working on a part time basis…”

People with certain kinds of jobs, requiring brain rather than brawn, may want to continue to work. Even they may not have the choice – try getting a tech job in your fifties.

However, no reason you have to work to avoid boredom in retirement. I retired at 53, in 2000, and I have yet to be bored. I did work as a part-time contractor for a few years after I retired from the megacorp, but I didn’t miss the work when I stopped.

“… traveling can cost a lot of money…”

It can, if you choose, but it doesn’t have to. In fact, you may have more fun, and certainly learn more, if you travel cheaply. (I often recommend Rick Steves’ “Europe Through the Back Door” although he has moved more upmarket as he has gotten older. Lonely Planet and Rough Guide are good for budget travel in Asia.)

mytimetotravel
17 days ago

Hi Marjorie, sorry to hear about your husband. I was observing people retiring at 65 and six months later they seemed either to have serious health problems, or were back at work. Not what I wanted.

Thank you, but I would say innate frugality as much as careful budgeting. If I saw a pricey hotel I would think about how many more days travel I could get for the same money staying somewhere cheaper…

Winston Smith
17 days ago
Reply to  mytimetotravel

Being a Chicagoan …I “knew somebody” so I was able to get my last IT job even though I was likely waaayyyy, wwwaaayyyy past my “sell by” date.

R Quinn
18 days ago

I have been retired 15 years, partially retired a year earlier. I think the essence of your observations -aside from not only the need for more education, but people pay in attention to it, is the mistake some people make of setting an age to retire.

How many times have we heard “I plan to retire at 50 or 55 or 60. Setting such a goal may sound nice, but that does not mean a person is ready to retire even ignoring the financial aspect. I say when your ready, you will know it.

I once ran a voluntary early retirement program with very lucrative added benefits. 1300 people jumped at it – we expected half that. Within six months there were people asking for their job back as they made a mistake – and it wasn’t about money. A few claimed to have jeopardized their marriage because they had not discussed their decision.

My view is some people enter retirement with unrealistic expectations even plans. Among those married they may fail to consider what retirement means to the spouse, working or not.

I never found retirement boring and at this point I welcome a boring day. Everyone on HD knows my views on funding retirement, but let’s leave it at create a steady income stream to ease stress.

Our health care premiums increased (at 65) but our out of pocket costs disappeared. Combined we have incurred well over $500,000 in charges since being on Medicare and paid only the Part B deductible.

No politician, not even ..l will allow SS to go away.

Yup there are people who just don’t want to retire. Have at it if it makes you happy.

I started working in the company mail room in 1961. When I retired in 2010 there was a guy still there who had been there since 1955. He was in his 80s collecting his pay, pension and SS and had more money than he knew what to do with for him. He only had a sister and he told me was hoping to buy her a house. Good old Tony passed away never retiring, but apparently being happy.

An undiscussed question may be, given our workforce issues and national debt, can the Country afford to have workers entire, especially early?

Last edited 18 days ago by R Quinn
Jack Hannam
16 days ago
Reply to  R Quinn

I had similar thoughts when I heard others wish out loud for early retirement. I spoke with a few of them, and asked whether what they really wanted was the financial security to make choices. When reaching 50 or some similar age, to be able to afford to choose options, such as early retirement, or scaling back, to change careers, or to just continue plugging away. In other words, financial peace of mind.

Nick Politakis
18 days ago

If Americans are taught more about finances and healthy living earlier in their life, more of them will be able to have a good retirement no matter when they decide to do it.

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