Time to Be Fearful
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AUTHOR: William Housley on 3/27/2026
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What, Me Worry?
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AUTHOR: William Housley on 3/12/2026
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It’s Never Too Late
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AUTHOR: William Housley on 2/26/2026
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How Far Back Would a 40% Drop Take Us?
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AUTHOR: William Housley on 2/20/2026
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Should You Stop Contributing To Your IRA?
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AUTHOR: William Housley on 2/9/2026
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Sleeves or Buckets?
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AUTHOR: William Housley on 2/3/2026
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Average vs. Humble Average
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AUTHOR: William Housley on 12/28/2025
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You DRIP?
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AUTHOR: William Housley on 12/8/2025
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Thanksgiving: The Keeping Story
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AUTHOR: William Housley on 11/26/2025
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THE REAL RETURN ON DELAYING SOCIAL SECURITY
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AUTHOR: William Housley on 11/12/2025
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Which Brokerage Works Best for U.S. Expats?
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AUTHOR: William Housley on 11/18/2025
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Does My Sister Need a Financial Advisor?
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The Conversation: Contrarian Meets Momentum
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Contrarian Thinking About Roth Conversions
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Your Portfolio, Your Business
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Our Special Relationship
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Laughter, the Best Medicine
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AUTHOR: William Housley on 9/8/2025
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AUTHOR: William Housley on 9/7/2025
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Paper Certificates to Real-Time
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AUTHOR: William Housley on 8/23/2025
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Outliving Your Money? Let’s Do the Math on Annuities
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AUTHOR: William Housley on 8/13/2025
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The Silent Compounding Cost of a 1% Fee
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AUTHOR: William Housley on 5/13/2025
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When an Index Fund Is Not an Index Fund
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AUTHOR: William Housley on 7/27/2025
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Dividend Days
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AUTHOR: William Housley on 6/28/2025
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AUTHOR: William Housley on 6/13/2025
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AUTHOR: William Housley on 5/21/2025
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AUTHOR: William Housley on 4/7/2025
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AUTHOR: William Housley on 4/4/2025
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AUTHOR: William Housley on 3/6/2025
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AUTHOR: William Housley on 3/13/2025
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AUTHOR: William Housley on 12/28/2024
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No tax on your Social Security?
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AUTHOR: William Housley on 11/23/2024
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Comments
Let’s reverse the question you asked at the end: “Do you ever look back at what you spent on yourself and wonder what your life would have been like had you made a different decision?” Having spent short periods of time living among the poorest of the poor, I’ve noticed something striking: they don’t tend to ask the question your intriguing contribution raises. Their framework is different. Children are not primarily viewed through a financial lens—as costs, trade-offs, or constraints on optionality—but as part of the fabric of life itself. Even in scarcity, they are often seen as a source of meaning, identity, and, at times, even hope. That doesn’t invalidate your experience or your decision—it reflects a different set of priorities shaped by different circumstances. But it does suggest that the financial calculus, while real and important, may not be the only—or even the primary—measure by which a life is ultimately evaluated.
Post: Financial regrets about parenthood?
Link to comment from April 12, 2026
We all have an expiration date. My aim is to extend mine—and help extend others’. I exercise daily, read and write to stay sharp, and regularly donate blood and platelets to give life to others. KISS—keeping it simple.
Post: Getting Older
Link to comment from April 8, 2026
The BOLD was a mistake - OOPS 😁
Post: Note to HD Writers and Contributors
Link to comment from April 4, 2026
Elaine: Regarding the suggestion to “Please also help to police the site,” I propose that contributors voluntarily limit themselves to one contribution per week. This would encourage everyone—especially more prolific contributors—to focus on their highest-quality ideas.
Post: Note to HD Writers and Contributors
Link to comment from April 4, 2026
Thank you.
Post: Forum Rules
Link to comment from March 30, 2026
I can always sleep at night, and most days in the afternoon too. 😁 Why? Because my hope is not found in wealth. - Happy Easter everyone.
Post: Time to Be Fearful
Link to comment from March 29, 2026
I’d like to say look how smart I am. 😁 But the truth is I had no clue. 😳 Cheers
Post: Time to Be Fearful
Link to comment from March 28, 2026
I think my biggest lesson is this: when my fear was greatest, I needed to hold fast. Second—if I may add another—I came dangerously close to making a mistake I might never have recovered from. I can’t do that again. Fairy tales seldom work out. I wasn’t especially smart or lucky. I was blessed—and rescued.
Post: Time to Be Fearful
Link to comment from March 27, 2026
Is it permissible to use the “C-word?” I can edit it out but it is real.
Post: Time to Be Fearful
Link to comment from March 27, 2026
Started in 2016 then big dip ~2019…
Post: Time to Be Fearful
Link to comment from March 27, 2026