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AUTHOR: R Quinn on 4/30/2026

I do the grocery shopping. I just returned from such an adventure. It’s one way I get exercise as a walk up and down the aisles, intentionally – .75 miles today.

Shopping is not easy. First, you need to locate things, which, eventually after shopping in the same store, you figure out. It would help though if the aisle signs actually reflected what was on those shelves. 

Then there are prices, different prices. There is the regular price, the sale price, the member price, the coupon price and nowadays the digital coupon price. I look for sales, but I’m not cutting paper coupons – when I have, I usually forget they are in my pocket. Give me digital everyday, you can’t forget them, they just expire. They and my member ID are in my phone app. I have a shopping list app as well- I prefer paperless. 

But even digital has challenges. Sometimes the product sign shows a digital coupon price, but I can’t find the coupon. Last week I complained and was told I needed store WiFi to download. I had store WiFi, but still no coupon appeared so they added it manually. I was then shown a kiosk that would scan my member number off my phone and load all digital coupons – it didn’t. More frustration.

Some of those sales are tricky. Today Connie insisted I take a coupon for chicken as it was a big discount. When I checked out, the coupon was rejected, I had chicken breasts and a valid coupon, what’s wrong?  I called the clerk over. “This darn thing won’t work.” He tried and still no luck. Upon closer examination he noticed the coupon was only on chicken at a certain price per pound.  The package I had picked had a different price per pound so no discount-I paid full price, but didn’t tell Connie. Kinda makes you wonder how old that on sale chicken may have been. 

A big sale on bottled water may mean you need to buy three cases. Last time soup was on sale I grabbed several cans only to learn at checkout the sale only applied to certain kinds of soup, not the ones I liked. I guess they had a surplus of cream of potatoe. It was in the fine print though – if you can read it. Why is the 36 pack of paper towels on sale, but not the 24 pack? 

Size matters in other ways. Do you look at the per unit cost on store shelf labels? The larger size is not always the better deal, but how often do we do the math? 

There is one store I occasionally use that allows you to scan each item as you take it from the shelf, place it in a bag in your cart and then scan your phone at checkout and your done. You entire order is processed. 

There is one flaw though. I seem to have a guilty look. One in four or five times my auto checkout is audited. That means, the clerk standing in the self checkout area must match each item in my bags with what is on my phone. Yup, as frustrating as a shopping cart in the center of a handicap parking space 😱

It seems these days you need a combination of financial, mathematical, technological and orientation skills to do the weekly grocery shopping. 

That combination is often lacking for many of us and not just senior citizens. Sometimes that is evidenced by the discussions overheard at checkout. Did you ever notice the shoppers who feign ignorance at picking up the wrong soup, only one case of water or the wrong size towels? 

Many things can be frustrating at checkout, but on top of my list is the person who waits until the entire order is processed and bagged before they start looking for their credit card or cash to pay. That full price chicken could spoil while waiting. 

Enjoy your next trip to the store😱

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Linda Grady
20 days ago

Oh, Mr. Quinn. I try to think of it as an adventure, and a chance to interact with the people who work at the two supermarkets that I patronize on alternate weeks. Why? The first one is walking distance, though I drive when I do a week’s shopping (excluding produce – see below). Prices are higher and Junior, the owner, likes to rearrange all the shelved stock frequently, so that you often feel like it’s your first visit. But he contributes generously to every charitable endeavor in town, including our food pantry. The produce, however, doesn’t last very long once home. I suspect the store is the last stop on the produce delivery route. The other store, part of a larger chain, is not huge, but it’s clean, arranged in a stable way and has all the coupon options that Dick mentioned. Oh, I forgot to mention that the closer store caters to a wide variety of ethnicities, so I can get ginger beer from Jamaica, kimchi pancakes (sometimes) and all manner of jarred items, as well as cookies and candies, from Eastern Europe. It’s an international cultural experience just down the street, worth paying the higher prices, imho. You’ll usually find me there on alternate Tuesdays, Senior Discount Day.

Linda Grady
18 days ago
Reply to  R Quinn

Yes, I have certainly seen such gentlemen, sometimes the same ones from previous visits to the store. 😊

Mike A
20 days ago

Good article Mr. Quayle

Howard Schwartz
20 days ago

Mr. Quinn and I must shop at the same stores. His writing perfectly describes my grocery store experiences. I do not understand why they don’t treat their customers with more respect, as I spend lots of money there. They should make it easy for loyal customers to get the best prices.

Marilyn Lavin
20 days ago
Reply to  R Quinn

i think you may need to broaden your grocery shopping experience. Try going to Trader Joe’s or Aldi — no coupons of any kind and both are much smaller than the traditional supermarket. And then there’s Walmart, the biggest grocery seller in the US. The grocery market is quite segmented. The various formats appeal to different shoppers. I love to grocery shop— love them all!

Last edited 20 days ago by Marilyn Lavin
Nick Politakis
20 days ago
Reply to  Marilyn Lavin

Aldi and Lidl. They are the best if you don’t mind mainly store brands of generally excellent quality at prices that can’t be beat. No coupons. Lidl has an added bonus: a bakery which makes fresh bread and other tasty treats.

Dave Melick
20 days ago
Reply to  Marilyn Lavin

Marilyn: regrettably, not all of us have ready access to Trader Joe’s or Aldi stores. The nearest of those stores is approximately 70 miles distant, and the time and fuel expenses would add onto the grocery cost. Walmart, we do have access to, but it is 3x farther to drive there than the 2 grocery stores we frequent.

Marilyn Lavin
19 days ago
Reply to  Dave Melick

if saving money is a priority, maybe a Walmart trip once a month might be worth it. I’ve found their prices on cleaning products and packaged staples really much cheaper than the traditional supermarket I frequent.

David Lancaster
20 days ago

“Size matters in other ways. Do you look at the per unit cost on store shelf labels? The larger size is not always the better deal, but how often do we do the math?”

it’s funny you posted this today because I was doing errands errands today my wife asked me to pick up some toilet paper. We like a certain brand so I checked out the unit price (per 100 feet), and bought the least expensive one. Still $17 for eight extended length roll? I haven’t been shopping for a while but jeez! Good thing I learned during COVID how to conserve. Something I had never thought about till the.

“There is one flaw though. I seem to have a guilty look. One in four or five times my auto checkout is audited. That means, the clerk standing in the self checkout area must match each item in my bags with what is on my phone.”

They want you to be their unpaid untrained worker and yet the expect accuracy?

DAN SMITH
21 days ago

Dick, I’m hooked on digital coupons, and I have an app called Key Ring that stores all my affinity cards; so no bulging wallet for me. You have to watch those unit prices on different size packages carefully. I also use store brands as much as I can get away with. I share your frustrations both in and outside the store, but Chrissy tells me I have to choose my battles more carefully. Smart one, she is.

Paul Westenkirchner
21 days ago

At our local grocery store, the receipt shows your coupon savings as a percent of the list prices. The savings are often more than 50% of list prices. Clearly they mark prices up to make the savings look great. Almost like my medical insurance explanation of benefits.

Ormode
21 days ago

But people who don’t have a coupon do pay that full price, right? The store knows what percentage of customers use the coupon, and what percentage do not, on each item. They can adjust their prices based on these percentages to get the revenue they need from that item.

DAN SMITH
21 days ago

Paul, I have a theory about the current prices, though I have only anecdotal data to support it. After prices spiked post COVID, they never came back down when gas prices receded and supply chain shortages eased. Instead, sale discounts increased. For example, retail for my vice, Pepsi Zero, increased to $12 per 12 pack. The regular retail price never came down, but are almost always on sale now at buy two, get two for free. On holiday weeks they are buy two and get three for free. Many companies reported increased earnings at that time. I noticed the same thing on other grocery items as well.

Marilyn Lavin
20 days ago
Reply to  DAN SMITH

Actually PepsiCo dropped its prices across the board— snacks as well as soft drinks. I’ve been buying 12 packs of Pepsi Zero at Walmart for little more than $6 for more than a month.

David Lancaster
20 days ago
Reply to  DAN SMITH

Your last couple of sentences say it all. They no the average person is not going to buy two, then have the storage for another three, so they just buy one at full price. MADDENING!

DrLefty
21 days ago

I’d like one of those stores where you could scan things as you add them to your cart! I’ve never seen one! Sometimes, living in a smaller college town, we don’t get all the cool stuff.

I swear by my Notes app on my iPhone for grocery shopping. I have a list of meals, with recipe links, followed by the shopping list. I know there are bespoke grocery list apps, but I like having my recipe links available in case I need to check any ingredients or substitutions.

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