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My recent Friday Thoughts article on Linkedin.

The past few weeks have deepened an anxiety that already weighs heavily on so many of us. War. Rising prices. Relentless layoffs. Job applications met with silence.

In my post-retirement life of volunteering and coaching, here is what I am seeing and hearing every day:

  • Low-income families struggling to pay rent, put food on the table, and simply feel safe.
  • Middle-income families — employed, but gripped by fear about their jobs, mortgages, and their children’s futures.
  • People recently laid off, desperate to be noticed, heard, and given a chance.
  • Students and new graduates searching for a first foothold in the world.
  • Talented, experienced professionals quietly doubting themselves.

I recently wrote about the need for empathy in the face of layoffs. One person commented — laid off people don’t need empathy, they need to find a job. That response, I think, proved my point perfectly. There is an old saying that stays with me: I complained I had no shoes, until I met a man with no feet.

To everyone who is worried and anxious — Let me open a window for you. Consider this my open window. Reach out. Ask for help. You are not alone, and you are not a burden.

To everyone who is fortunate enough to have food, shelter, and stability right now — remember, circumstances change for all of us. While yours are good, look around. A small act can change someone’s trajectory — a warm introduction, a referral, a five-minute conversation.

I am happy to pick up the phone and talk. Reach out and let me know how I can help.

And to everyone reading this — please, keep your window open too.

Let’s return to believing in the power of community, and in each other.

#Life #Motivation #Help #Coaching

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Jack Hannam
6 months ago

Thanks for writing a positive and timeless message.

Mike Lynch
6 months ago

“It is never wrong to do the right thing,” attributed to Mark Twain, seems appropriate here.

In every generation, there are problems one is forced to deal with. It has always been the case, and I doubt it will ever change to be otherwise.

The difference is only what each generation is forced to live with. Is it really harder today than it was in the 1920s and 30s…the 1940s…?

Being empathetic costs you nothing and may actually help someone else. Being charitable is always the right thing to do, whether it is emotionally, spiritually, or fiscally.

I would venture to say some, but not all, of those regularly visiting this site have endured times of great difficulty. I am 75 years old, and although I have enjoyed a blessed life, I have experienced an older brother killed in war, a younger brother who died of HIV, a marriage that failed, job losses twice, the deaths of my parents and siblings, years of estrangement with one of my children, a major financial loss, and yet, I am still here, successfully retired from three different careers, coming up on a 52nd marriage anniversary, and on Monday of this week, I earned my Doctor of Minstry degree, thereby fulfilling a lifetime goal.

The best way I have found to enrich and enjoy your life is in service to others. In times of trouble, when you are focused inwardly, as difficult as it may be to do, at the same time, maybe the answer is to look outward and see what you can do for someone else, worse off than you. And if you are fortunate enough to believe in God, remember that HIS plan and NOT your plan is the right answer.

Dan Smith
6 months ago

What a nice sentiment, Raghu. Empathy can literally be a life saver for someone who feels their circumstance is beyond hope. Being an empathetic person is good, if for no other reason, it helps to make us less self-centered.

R Quinn
6 months ago