Sundar Rao Sundar retired after a four-decade career as a research and development engineer. He lives in a 55-plus community. His interests include investing, digital painting, reading, writing and gardening. In addition to his Forum posts and comments, shown below, be sure to check out his writer's page where his articles are listed.
Lump sum Vs Monthly Payment - Which pension option is better?
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AUTHOR: smr1082 on 6/21/2024
FIRST: steve abramowitz on 6/22/2024 | RECENT: Alex Ware on 11/30
How to minimize the caregiving burden on our adult children when we need help?
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AUTHOR: smr1082 on 8/2/2025
FIRST: Catherine on 8/3 | RECENT: moonwalkerdaughter on 8/10
What's the best career advice you ever got?
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AUTHOR: smr1082 on 7/20/2025
FIRST: Mark Crothers on 7/20 | RECENT: Martin McCue on 7/28
Sad news about T. V. Narayanan, a writer for HD
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AUTHOR: smr1082 on 5/22/2025
FIRST: Andrew Forsythe on 5/22 | RECENT: smr1082 on 5/25
Assisted Living: How Will You Choose?
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AUTHOR: smr1082 on 5/11/2025
FIRST: mytimetotravel on 5/11 | RECENT: smr1082 on 5/17
Going Against the Grain
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AUTHOR: smr1082 on 4/25/2025
FIRST: Dan Smith on 4/25 | RECENT: smr1082 on 5/3
Three bucket strategy for financing retirement
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AUTHOR: smr1082 on 3/27/2025
FIRST: Jonathan Clements on 3/27 | RECENT: smr1082 on 4/23
What should be our % cash allocation in investment portfolio?
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AUTHOR: smr1082 on 11/6/2024
FIRST: Brent Wilson on 11/6/2024 | RECENT: Ben Rodriguez on 4/2
Senior Care Crisis - Are we prepared?
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AUTHOR: smr1082 on 3/4/2025
FIRST: Nick Politakis on 3/5 | RECENT: smr1082 on 3/10
Dump the 60/40 and target date funds for 100% stock plus annuity portfolio?
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AUTHOR: smr1082 on 2/5/2025
FIRST: David Lancaster on 2/6 | RECENT: L H on 2/19
Lessons you have learned from articles by Jonathan Clements
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AUTHOR: smr1082 on 1/22/2025
FIRST: Randy Dobkin on 1/22 | RECENT: Bear Seiver on 1/28
When should one give up financial control?
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AUTHOR: smr1082 on 12/11/2024
FIRST: eludom on 12/12/2024 | RECENT: Rick Connor on 12/15/2024
What life lessons would you like to pass on to the next generation?
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AUTHOR: smr1082 on 11/17/2024
FIRST: Winston Smith on 11/17/2024 | RECENT: smr1082 on 11/27/2024
Dream Retirement: Is It Fading Away?
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AUTHOR: smr1082 on 10/31/2024
FIRST: Dan Smith on 11/1/2024 | RECENT: neyugn on 11/5/2024
How would you prepare for the staggering cost of in-home care?
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AUTHOR: smr1082 on 9/10/2024
FIRST: baldscreen on 9/10/2024 | RECENT: parkslope on 9/15/2024
When you retire, should you move your savings to IRA or leave it in 401(k) plan?
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AUTHOR: smr1082 on 8/11/2024
FIRST: Nick Politakis on 8/11/2024 | RECENT: smr1082 on 8/17/2024
How to protect your retirement savings from scammers?
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AUTHOR: smr1082 on 7/29/2024
FIRST: Rick Connor on 7/29/2024 | RECENT: Margaret Fallon on 8/7/2024
Signing up for pre-planned funeral services: Is it worth it?
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AUTHOR: smr1082 on 7/23/2024
FIRST: baldscreen on 7/24/2024 | RECENT: smr1082 on 7/28/2024
Perils of market downturns early in retirement
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AUTHOR: smr1082 on 7/19/2024
FIRST: Sanjib Saha on 7/20/2024 | RECENT: Ormode on 7/22/2024
What Financial/ Life advice would you give a 2024 college graduate?
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AUTHOR: smr1082 on 6/29/2024
FIRST: Ed Wong on 6/29/2024 | RECENT: Ben Rodriguez on 7/2/2024
DURING A PROJECT meeting at my old employer, a member of our team was constantly raising questions without offering any solutions. Afterwards, the team leader commented, “This guy always thinks his cup is half empty. Nothing will ever satisfy him.”
We’ve all known such people. Is there anything wrong with their attitude? It depends. My boss told me during my first week, “Never be satisfied with the status quo. Find ways to improve everything.
MANY FOLKS CLAIM TO be ready for retirement, both financially and psychologically. But they’re often surprised to discover that the reality is different from what they expected.
I started planning well in advance of my 2023 retirement. I read dozens of books on the subject, and talked to many classmates and friends who’d already retired. Of all the books and videos that I reviewed, one talk on YouTube stood out: a TEDx Talk by Dr.
WHEN I LOOK BACK at my career, I see that the key to my long tenure with one employer was my desire to learn new skills and help expand the business. That mindset, I believe, helped me survive multiple rounds of layoffs.
I’m hoping that same mindset will help with retirement.
Many retirees say, “I just want to relax. Get rid of the alarm clock. No more classes or schedules for me.” While that feels good for a while,
DURING A GATHERING of retired friends, the topic of wills came up. Many had completed their wills and had their finances in order, while others were working on updating their wills. But there were several who hadn’t even started thinking about it. One of them said, “As a retiree, I’m just starting to enjoy my freedom and have some fun. It’s too stressful to think about death. I’ll get to it someday.”
As you might imagine,
IF SOMEONE TOLD ME 10 years ago that I’d end up living in a 55-plus community, I would have laughed. Our plan was to stay in the home we loved and age in place.
What happened? Our initial move to a 55-plus community was driven solely by convenience. My company transferred me to Atlanta in 2021. We wanted to downsize to an apartment, but finding one close to work was challenging. Our son pointed out that there was a 55-plus apartment community close to my workplace.
WE’VE ALL HEARD THE maxim that “without risk, there’s no reward.” Over the years, we’ve all taken countless risks—big and small, financial and otherwise—to get to where we are today.
Every activity has a risk associated with it, and that includes retirement. It’s best to be aware of these risks and, when prudent, take steps to limit them. Here are nine risks that retirees face.
1. Health. Even if we’re fortunate to enjoy a long,
DURING THE PANDEMIC, I started devoting more time to retirement planning. But I had more questions than answers. I called a friend who was a financial planner.
“Retirement planning is confusing,” I told him. “I have a lot of questions.”
He laughed and said, “The answer is money. What’s the question?”
While his answer was humorous, it reflected what most retirees already know: Money is crucial for a good retirement. While it isn’t the only thing you need for a happy retirement,
I WAS WORRIED ABOUT what we’d be giving up when, a few years ago, we moved to a 55-plus community in Atlanta. We downsized from a large home to a small apartment, plus all our neighbors were considerably older. It was obvious we had to adjust and start enjoying our unfamiliar environment or we’d end up miserable.
My wife and I made a conscious decision to slow down, and make every effort to get to know other residents and their life stories.
WHEN I VISITED INDIA after working in the U.S. for a decade, it struck me that people seemed happy, despite harsh living conditions.
How could that be? “People compare themselves with others,” my brother said to me. “That’s human nature. If they’re better off than their immediate community, they’re happy. It doesn’t matter how bad their situation may be compared to more prosperous countries.”
That made sense. I was making the mistake of applying U.S.
DECADES AGO, WHEN I was trying to save consistently for retirement, I found that my impulse purchases were standing in my way. Like many, I wanted feel-good stuff or the latest gadget, and I was willing to spend money to get it.
Once, I saw an expensive jacket in a store and badly wanted it. I was about to buy it when reality struck. I said to myself, “Let me think it over for a day.
I WAS FASCINATED with retirement planning during the final decade of my career. I read many financial books and focused on saving diligently. Yet, after retiring several months ago following a 39-year career as a research and development engineer, I had a rude awakening.
You can plan all you want, but then comes an unexpected situation that derails everything. As boxer Mike Tyson famously said, “Everybody has plans until they get hit for the first time.”
In the brief time I’ve been retired,


Comments
Happy Anniversary! Wishing you many more years of love and happiness!
Post: Fifty-seven years and counting and it’s snowing…again.
Link to comment from December 15, 2025
Look for a non-profit, financially sound CCRC. There are many, if you do your due diligence. Be wary of situations like these.
Post: How Has Living in a CCRC Affected Your Monthly Bills?
Link to comment from December 9, 2025
I am sure HD readers have heard about this plan. The administration is eyeing Australia’s superannuation model as a potential method for the U.S.
Post: I CAN SOLVE THE SOCIAL SECURITY AND RETIREMENT CRISIS IN AMERICA
Link to comment from December 6, 2025
As of now, ours is 18 carat. One reason is that we kept our expectations low and realistic going into retirement. In addition, we have not yet developed any new major health issues. That could change any day. We downsized, and lead a simple and active life. We have good support network amongst our community. Positive mindset helps.
Post: They lied to us.
Link to comment from December 4, 2025
Should we assume "holding 4 years of expected expenses in cash" would mean expenses over and above Social Security and annuity etc. Is that right?
Post: The 4 Year Rule for Retirement Spending
Link to comment from November 29, 2025
After moving to my 55+ community, I realized that having good health is the most important asset for happy retirement. There are many examples like you described. I am at peace with the notion that last few years of our lives are going to be miserable. Meanwhile, enjoy the journey getting there.
Post: You worked a lifetime, you achieved your goals, you have it all-the next day it hardly matters
Link to comment from November 26, 2025
Such stories are becoming more common. We have one couple in our community going through the same situation. Now the spouse, who was the care giver, has developed serious health issues. Scary.
Post: You worked a lifetime, you achieved your goals, you have it all-the next day it hardly matters
Link to comment from November 26, 2025
Even if one manages money well, and assumes they will be happy in retirement, health issues can derail everything. I know several in my community who are very well to do, but suffer from poor health, and cannot enjoy life or be happy.
Post: Money, Happiness, and Choice
Link to comment from November 25, 2025
Wishing you and team the very best in managing this transition. Thanks so much!
Post: Jonathan’s Service
Link to comment from November 14, 2025
Farewell, Jonathan. Your legacy lives on in the lives you touched. Rest in peace.
Post: Farewell Friends
Link to comment from September 23, 2025