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One Good Call?

"I've read about that myself. You have to grudgingly admire the cunning."
- Mark Crothers
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What am I missing?

"Mortgage REITs, over the long run, have not done well. You will lose more in capital than you make in dividends. Sophisticated investors shun these stocks, which is why the price is low and the payout is high."
- Ormode
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Penny Wise, Pound Foolish

"I remember those BMWs. Nice bikes!"
- DAN SMITH
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Taxes Season 3

"Mark, thanks for helping those folks from the service employees union. Those simple $300 returns are a big reason why DIY software has become so popular. Of course, the DIY software companies lobby probably had something to do with Direct File being shut down. "
- DAN SMITH
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Financial Planning

"Allan Roth isn’t taking new clients"
- Michael1
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My sister’s will and what it taught me.

"Amen. Both of my wife's parents died intestate. Her sister was able to resolve issues with both of their estates for their home and assets. However, her father owned property in a rural county 100 miles away. My wife and her 6 siblings each owned a share of 42 acres in that county. One of her brothers agreed to give his share to my wife. We hired a local RE attorney to handle this. It became a tangled web because of their dying intestate. It took a considerable amount of time and expense for our attorney to resolve this, costing more than the value of the timber land she inherited. Another lesson about dying intestate."
- Jerry Pinkard
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Investment Versus Speculation

"Good question Andy. I have no idea."
- Jack Hannam
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Financial regrets about parenthood?

"Yes indeed. We look forward to spending as much as we can as long as we can on the grandchildren. My parents were unable and had no inclination to spend on us or our children even in modest ways, we are not going to repeat that."
- R Quinn
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Resist the Urge to Act

BEFORE WE GET into it, a brief word. We lost Jonathan last year, and those of us who followed his work felt it more than we perhaps expected.  He had a saying that I always liked - that there are really only twenty stories in personal finance, and the financial industry spends most of its time telling them on repeat in slightly different hats. He was right, of course. He usually was. It struck me that a fitting tribute might be to take his core principles and do something with them, not quote him at length, but wrestle with the ideas in our own words, from our own lives. I've chosen "Resist the Urge to Act," and had a go below. If the idea appeals to any readers posting on the forum, I'd love to see others pick a principle, whichever one speaks to you, and write about it in your own voice. No need to be an economist. Just be honest. I suspect Jonathan would have approved of that approach more than most. There's a strange truth lurking at the heart of personal finance that nobody tells you about, possibly because it would put a large number of people out of work. The more urgently you feel you ought to do something with your investments, the more damage you will probably do by doing it. I find this deeply satisfying, not because I'm wise, far from it, but because it seems my instinct to do very little was correct all along. Vindication, when it arrives, should be savored. Jonathan Clements spent decades writing about money for the Wall Street Journal before founding HumbleDollar, which if you're reading this you already know, and if you don't, welcome, you've somehow stumbled into excellent company by accident. One of his core messages, boiled down to its purest form, was this: The secret to successful investing is to be comprehensively, almost aggressively boring. He had a list of principles, and one of them was deceptively simple: Resist the Urge to Act. I have a suspicion he knew it was one of the hardest ones, which is perhaps why he saved it for near the end of his various lists. Telling people to do nothing runs headlong into every instinct the modern world has carefully cultivated in them. The financial news industry has a business model, and it is not, I would suggest, your long-term wealth they're hoping to help. Their holy grail is your attention span, and attention without action doesn't keep the lights on. So urgency is manufactured. Alarm is engineered. The moment a headline about Federal Reserve policy or market volatility lands on your phone screen, the correct and sophisticated response, according to Jonathan, is to put the phone face-down and go and make a cup of tea. This is not what the headline wants you to do. The headline wants you to feel that failure to react immediately constitutes negligence. It doesn't. The information has already been digested, debated, and priced in by people who got it considerably earlier than you did. Acting on it now isn't smart. It's like arriving late to a party that ended an hour ago and wondering why nobody's offering you a stiff drink. Jonathan was a firm believer in market efficiency, the rather humbling idea that you, me, and most professional fund managers with their impressive offices and Bloomberg terminals, cannot reliably outthink the combined judgment of millions of other investors. Once you genuinely accept this, something might shift for you. You'll probably stop checking your portfolio three times before lunch. Which matters more than it might sound, because there's a fairly direct relationship between how often you look at your balance and how likely you are to do something regrettable with it. He had a line I've shamelessly adopted as my own: Your portfolio is like a bar of soap, and the more you handle it, the smaller it gets. My wife Suzie heard me say this recently and pointed out that I've never shown this level of restraint with actual soap. She's not wrong. But then again, I liberate hotel soap. The other temptation Jonathan warned against was treating the market as a hobby. There's a certain thrill, I understand, in hunting for the next great stock, the overheard tip, the sector everyone's talking about. The feeling that you've spotted something the rest of us turkeys have missed is a powerful one. He was fairly blunt on this point. If you want that kind of excitement, go to the cinema. Go to a casino. These are perfectly respectable venues for the willing suspension of rational judgment. Your brokerage account is not. The urge to act, dressed up as diligence and research, is still the urge to act. The actual solution is somewhat anticlimactic. Broad index funds, bought automatically and regularly, regardless of what the television talking heads are shouting about. When the market drops and the headlines turn an alarming shade of red, the correct response, the disciplined, intelligent, sophisticated response, is to turn the television off, close the laptop, and take yourself for a walk. Jonathan was clear on this point: Doing nothing, at the right moment, is one of the harder things an investor can do. It only looks like laziness from the outside. From the inside, when every instinct is screaming at you to move, to switch, to sell, to “do something,” holding still takes genuine effort. I have found, in my own modest experience, that retirement makes this philosophy considerably easier to live by. Urgency has a way of evaporating when you no longer have somewhere to be. The news cycle hums along without me. The market does whatever it decides to do. And I go for my walk. By strange coincidence, the halfway point often coincides with a bar serving decent Guinness. I consider this a stroke of luck. It seems I was a follower of Jonathan's advice for many years before I stumbled upon his name and writing. There's something to be said for arriving at the right answer through a combination of temperament and mild indifference. I'm choosing to call it wisdom. This piece was never meant to be anything more than one person's attempt to retell one of Jonathan's principles in his own words, a tribute of sorts, filtered through lived experience rather than expertise. The voice is mine, for better or worse. The wisdom, unambiguously, was his. There are more principles still sitting there, waiting. Each of them deserves exactly this kind of treatment, personal, honest, and a little bit imperfect. So, who's next? Because if there are no takers I'll have a pretty big task ahead of me.
Mark Crothers is a retired small business owner from the UK with a keen interest in personal finance and simple living. Married to his high school sweetheart, with daughters and grandchildren, he knows the importance of building a secure financial future. With an aversion to social media, he prefers to spend his time on his main passions: reading, scratch cooking, racket sports, and hiking.
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Avoid the noise, buy the market and stay invested

"Glad to see you made it to the "two-comma club" as well. Welcome, new member, and Congratulations. It really is a simple process. NOT easy, but simple."
- Mike Lynch
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“We did everything right.” Maybe not. Retirement income should not be an unpleasant surprise.

"I was fortunate to work with five unions who supported me in our efforts to communicate to their members on how to obtain the most value from their employee benefits. They wanted appreciation from members for what they had negotiated and we both wanted value for the cost of the benefits, the unions well aware they gave up some pay to obtain those benefits. We were both frustrated at the high level of indifference by many workers."
- R Quinn
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Stock Tokens

RECENTLY, The Wall Street Journal ran a story about a new type of investment known as a digital stock token. For now, they aren’t available in the U.S., but they’re coming soon, so it’s worth taking a closer look. What are stock tokens? At the most basic level, they’re a technology designed to make stock market investing quicker and easier than it is today. With tokens, trading won’t be limited to traditional business hours. Instead, investors will be able to trade 24/7. And token trades will settle instantly, allowing investors to deposit or withdraw funds from an investment without the overnight delay imposed by traditional stock exchanges.  An additional benefit: Tokens will allow investors to purchase fractional shares. To see how this would work, consider Microsoft. Today, its share price is around $370. Through the token system, though, an investor with a modest budget could gain exposure to Microsoft with just $5 or $10. There will also be index-based tokens, so an investor could gain exposure to the S&P 500, for example. In many ways, stock tokens are the equivalent of cryptocurrencies but for stocks, allowing investors to trade more quickly and easily. That’s their key appeal, and it’s part of the broader trend toward digitizing the financial system. Along the same lines, a number of retailers are pursuing so-called stablecoins as an alternative to costly credit card networks. Stock tokens do carry risk, though. You may recall an episode that occurred in 2022, when a digital currency called TerraUSD, which was designed to maintain a fixed value of $1, suddenly lost most of its value. In that case, there was a breakdown in the algorithm that was supposed to prevent Terra from dipping below $1, and that caused the equivalent of a run on the bank. Supporters of stock tokens will tell you that Terra’s failure can be attributed to its primitive structure and that today’s technology wouldn’t be similarly vulnerable. That may be true, but stock tokens carry other potential vulnerabilities. For starters, they’re complex and rely on a significant amount of financial engineering. Unlike a share of stock which is simply an ownership stake in a business, tokens are more of a synthetic financial instrument. That’s why the recent Journal write-up referred to them as “digital avatars.” When you buy a token, you aren’t buying an actual share of stock. It’s more like a chip issued by a casino or a gift card issued by a retailer. It looks like real money, and under ordinary circumstances, it probably will function like real money. But in times of stress, they may not perform as expected. The financial firm Robinhood, which has already created a family of stock tokens for international investors, acknowledges another risk: Because tokens don’t represent actual shares of stock, they carry what’s known as counterparty risk. Under the hood, tokens are actually financial contracts, which means that the party on the other side of a given contract needs to remain solvent in order for a token to maintain its value. On its website, Robinhood includes this disclosure: “Investors may lose up to the full amount of their invested capital due to market conditions or the insolvency of Robinhood.” To be sure, counterparty failure is usually a low risk, but it isn’t zero, and actual shares of stock don’t need disclaimers like this.  Even under ordinary circumstances, stock tokens’ prices likely won’t move in lockstep with actual share prices. That’s for a few reasons.  First, because tokens aren’t real shares, they don’t pay dividends. While that might not seem like a significant factor, dividends do add up. Over the past 15 years, they’ve accounted for about 20% of the total return of U.S. stocks. Also, stock tokens don’t carry the voting rights associated with real shares. That might also seem insignificant to everyday investors, but because it is important to larger, institutional investors, it means that tokens will probably always trade at a bit of a discount to real shares. A final risk is one that is longer term but much more serious: Stock tokens are built on blockchain technology, and that means they’re vulnerable to hacking. Of most concern is the fact that blockchain technologies rely on cryptography to secure investors’ holdings. While blockchain encryption has never been cracked, advances in computing power—and specifically, a technology known as quantum computing—could one day compromise a blockchain. Most experts believe this is 10 or more years away, but companies including Google and IBM are actively working on it, so it’s worth bearing in mind. The bottom line: In thinking about this new innovation, I’d lean on a concept known as Lindy’s law. This is a rule of thumb which postulates that the future life expectancy of an idea is proportional to its current age. In other words, the longer an idea has stood the test of time, the more likely it is to continue to stand the test of time in the future. That’s how I’d look at stock tokens. They might or might not be a good idea, but it’s too soon to tell. And since the benefits they offer are more in the category of convenience rather than investment performance, I see no particular need to own them. For that reason, it might make sense to wait and watch until any bugs are worked out.   Adam M. Grossman is the founder of Mayport, a fixed-fee wealth management firm. Sign up for Adam's Daily Ideas email, follow him on X @AdamMGrossman and check out his earlier articles.
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One Good Call?

"I've read about that myself. You have to grudgingly admire the cunning."
- Mark Crothers
Read more »

What am I missing?

"Mortgage REITs, over the long run, have not done well. You will lose more in capital than you make in dividends. Sophisticated investors shun these stocks, which is why the price is low and the payout is high."
- Ormode
Read more »

Penny Wise, Pound Foolish

"I remember those BMWs. Nice bikes!"
- DAN SMITH
Read more »

Taxes Season 3

"Mark, thanks for helping those folks from the service employees union. Those simple $300 returns are a big reason why DIY software has become so popular. Of course, the DIY software companies lobby probably had something to do with Direct File being shut down. "
- DAN SMITH
Read more »

Financial Planning

"Allan Roth isn’t taking new clients"
- Michael1
Read more »

My sister’s will and what it taught me.

"Amen. Both of my wife's parents died intestate. Her sister was able to resolve issues with both of their estates for their home and assets. However, her father owned property in a rural county 100 miles away. My wife and her 6 siblings each owned a share of 42 acres in that county. One of her brothers agreed to give his share to my wife. We hired a local RE attorney to handle this. It became a tangled web because of their dying intestate. It took a considerable amount of time and expense for our attorney to resolve this, costing more than the value of the timber land she inherited. Another lesson about dying intestate."
- Jerry Pinkard
Read more »

Investment Versus Speculation

"Good question Andy. I have no idea."
- Jack Hannam
Read more »

Financial regrets about parenthood?

"Yes indeed. We look forward to spending as much as we can as long as we can on the grandchildren. My parents were unable and had no inclination to spend on us or our children even in modest ways, we are not going to repeat that."
- R Quinn
Read more »

Resist the Urge to Act

BEFORE WE GET into it, a brief word. We lost Jonathan last year, and those of us who followed his work felt it more than we perhaps expected.  He had a saying that I always liked - that there are really only twenty stories in personal finance, and the financial industry spends most of its time telling them on repeat in slightly different hats. He was right, of course. He usually was. It struck me that a fitting tribute might be to take his core principles and do something with them, not quote him at length, but wrestle with the ideas in our own words, from our own lives. I've chosen "Resist the Urge to Act," and had a go below. If the idea appeals to any readers posting on the forum, I'd love to see others pick a principle, whichever one speaks to you, and write about it in your own voice. No need to be an economist. Just be honest. I suspect Jonathan would have approved of that approach more than most. There's a strange truth lurking at the heart of personal finance that nobody tells you about, possibly because it would put a large number of people out of work. The more urgently you feel you ought to do something with your investments, the more damage you will probably do by doing it. I find this deeply satisfying, not because I'm wise, far from it, but because it seems my instinct to do very little was correct all along. Vindication, when it arrives, should be savored. Jonathan Clements spent decades writing about money for the Wall Street Journal before founding HumbleDollar, which if you're reading this you already know, and if you don't, welcome, you've somehow stumbled into excellent company by accident. One of his core messages, boiled down to its purest form, was this: The secret to successful investing is to be comprehensively, almost aggressively boring. He had a list of principles, and one of them was deceptively simple: Resist the Urge to Act. I have a suspicion he knew it was one of the hardest ones, which is perhaps why he saved it for near the end of his various lists. Telling people to do nothing runs headlong into every instinct the modern world has carefully cultivated in them. The financial news industry has a business model, and it is not, I would suggest, your long-term wealth they're hoping to help. Their holy grail is your attention span, and attention without action doesn't keep the lights on. So urgency is manufactured. Alarm is engineered. The moment a headline about Federal Reserve policy or market volatility lands on your phone screen, the correct and sophisticated response, according to Jonathan, is to put the phone face-down and go and make a cup of tea. This is not what the headline wants you to do. The headline wants you to feel that failure to react immediately constitutes negligence. It doesn't. The information has already been digested, debated, and priced in by people who got it considerably earlier than you did. Acting on it now isn't smart. It's like arriving late to a party that ended an hour ago and wondering why nobody's offering you a stiff drink. Jonathan was a firm believer in market efficiency, the rather humbling idea that you, me, and most professional fund managers with their impressive offices and Bloomberg terminals, cannot reliably outthink the combined judgment of millions of other investors. Once you genuinely accept this, something might shift for you. You'll probably stop checking your portfolio three times before lunch. Which matters more than it might sound, because there's a fairly direct relationship between how often you look at your balance and how likely you are to do something regrettable with it. He had a line I've shamelessly adopted as my own: Your portfolio is like a bar of soap, and the more you handle it, the smaller it gets. My wife Suzie heard me say this recently and pointed out that I've never shown this level of restraint with actual soap. She's not wrong. But then again, I liberate hotel soap. The other temptation Jonathan warned against was treating the market as a hobby. There's a certain thrill, I understand, in hunting for the next great stock, the overheard tip, the sector everyone's talking about. The feeling that you've spotted something the rest of us turkeys have missed is a powerful one. He was fairly blunt on this point. If you want that kind of excitement, go to the cinema. Go to a casino. These are perfectly respectable venues for the willing suspension of rational judgment. Your brokerage account is not. The urge to act, dressed up as diligence and research, is still the urge to act. The actual solution is somewhat anticlimactic. Broad index funds, bought automatically and regularly, regardless of what the television talking heads are shouting about. When the market drops and the headlines turn an alarming shade of red, the correct response, the disciplined, intelligent, sophisticated response, is to turn the television off, close the laptop, and take yourself for a walk. Jonathan was clear on this point: Doing nothing, at the right moment, is one of the harder things an investor can do. It only looks like laziness from the outside. From the inside, when every instinct is screaming at you to move, to switch, to sell, to “do something,” holding still takes genuine effort. I have found, in my own modest experience, that retirement makes this philosophy considerably easier to live by. Urgency has a way of evaporating when you no longer have somewhere to be. The news cycle hums along without me. The market does whatever it decides to do. And I go for my walk. By strange coincidence, the halfway point often coincides with a bar serving decent Guinness. I consider this a stroke of luck. It seems I was a follower of Jonathan's advice for many years before I stumbled upon his name and writing. There's something to be said for arriving at the right answer through a combination of temperament and mild indifference. I'm choosing to call it wisdom. This piece was never meant to be anything more than one person's attempt to retell one of Jonathan's principles in his own words, a tribute of sorts, filtered through lived experience rather than expertise. The voice is mine, for better or worse. The wisdom, unambiguously, was his. There are more principles still sitting there, waiting. Each of them deserves exactly this kind of treatment, personal, honest, and a little bit imperfect. So, who's next? Because if there are no takers I'll have a pretty big task ahead of me.
Mark Crothers is a retired small business owner from the UK with a keen interest in personal finance and simple living. Married to his high school sweetheart, with daughters and grandchildren, he knows the importance of building a secure financial future. With an aversion to social media, he prefers to spend his time on his main passions: reading, scratch cooking, racket sports, and hiking.
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Stock Tokens

RECENTLY, The Wall Street Journal ran a story about a new type of investment known as a digital stock token. For now, they aren’t available in the U.S., but they’re coming soon, so it’s worth taking a closer look. What are stock tokens? At the most basic level, they’re a technology designed to make stock market investing quicker and easier than it is today. With tokens, trading won’t be limited to traditional business hours. Instead, investors will be able to trade 24/7. And token trades will settle instantly, allowing investors to deposit or withdraw funds from an investment without the overnight delay imposed by traditional stock exchanges.  An additional benefit: Tokens will allow investors to purchase fractional shares. To see how this would work, consider Microsoft. Today, its share price is around $370. Through the token system, though, an investor with a modest budget could gain exposure to Microsoft with just $5 or $10. There will also be index-based tokens, so an investor could gain exposure to the S&P 500, for example. In many ways, stock tokens are the equivalent of cryptocurrencies but for stocks, allowing investors to trade more quickly and easily. That’s their key appeal, and it’s part of the broader trend toward digitizing the financial system. Along the same lines, a number of retailers are pursuing so-called stablecoins as an alternative to costly credit card networks. Stock tokens do carry risk, though. You may recall an episode that occurred in 2022, when a digital currency called TerraUSD, which was designed to maintain a fixed value of $1, suddenly lost most of its value. In that case, there was a breakdown in the algorithm that was supposed to prevent Terra from dipping below $1, and that caused the equivalent of a run on the bank. Supporters of stock tokens will tell you that Terra’s failure can be attributed to its primitive structure and that today’s technology wouldn’t be similarly vulnerable. That may be true, but stock tokens carry other potential vulnerabilities. For starters, they’re complex and rely on a significant amount of financial engineering. Unlike a share of stock which is simply an ownership stake in a business, tokens are more of a synthetic financial instrument. That’s why the recent Journal write-up referred to them as “digital avatars.” When you buy a token, you aren’t buying an actual share of stock. It’s more like a chip issued by a casino or a gift card issued by a retailer. It looks like real money, and under ordinary circumstances, it probably will function like real money. But in times of stress, they may not perform as expected. The financial firm Robinhood, which has already created a family of stock tokens for international investors, acknowledges another risk: Because tokens don’t represent actual shares of stock, they carry what’s known as counterparty risk. Under the hood, tokens are actually financial contracts, which means that the party on the other side of a given contract needs to remain solvent in order for a token to maintain its value. On its website, Robinhood includes this disclosure: “Investors may lose up to the full amount of their invested capital due to market conditions or the insolvency of Robinhood.” To be sure, counterparty failure is usually a low risk, but it isn’t zero, and actual shares of stock don’t need disclaimers like this.  Even under ordinary circumstances, stock tokens’ prices likely won’t move in lockstep with actual share prices. That’s for a few reasons.  First, because tokens aren’t real shares, they don’t pay dividends. While that might not seem like a significant factor, dividends do add up. Over the past 15 years, they’ve accounted for about 20% of the total return of U.S. stocks. Also, stock tokens don’t carry the voting rights associated with real shares. That might also seem insignificant to everyday investors, but because it is important to larger, institutional investors, it means that tokens will probably always trade at a bit of a discount to real shares. A final risk is one that is longer term but much more serious: Stock tokens are built on blockchain technology, and that means they’re vulnerable to hacking. Of most concern is the fact that blockchain technologies rely on cryptography to secure investors’ holdings. While blockchain encryption has never been cracked, advances in computing power—and specifically, a technology known as quantum computing—could one day compromise a blockchain. Most experts believe this is 10 or more years away, but companies including Google and IBM are actively working on it, so it’s worth bearing in mind. The bottom line: In thinking about this new innovation, I’d lean on a concept known as Lindy’s law. This is a rule of thumb which postulates that the future life expectancy of an idea is proportional to its current age. In other words, the longer an idea has stood the test of time, the more likely it is to continue to stand the test of time in the future. That’s how I’d look at stock tokens. They might or might not be a good idea, but it’s too soon to tell. And since the benefits they offer are more in the category of convenience rather than investment performance, I see no particular need to own them. For that reason, it might make sense to wait and watch until any bugs are worked out.   Adam M. Grossman is the founder of Mayport, a fixed-fee wealth management firm. Sign up for Adam's Daily Ideas email, follow him on X @AdamMGrossman and check out his earlier articles.
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Manifesto

NO. 64: AS WE GROW wealthier, we should seize the chance to save on insurance—by raising deductibles, lengthening elimination periods and perhaps dropping some policies entirely.

humans

NO. 71: WE FIND strength in faith. Research has found that, on average, folks who are religious report greater happiness. This finding is especially strong among those with lower incomes or who live in less prosperous nations. Perhaps religion helps us to focus less on our own wants and struggles, and more on helping others and leading a life of purpose.

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NO. 11: WE’RE BAD at math and we don’t carry around financial calculators, so we guess—and our guesses usually aren’t very good. We underestimate how much loans will cost us. We overestimate the likelihood of winning with long-shot gambles like lottery tickets and penny stocks. We underestimate the benefits of compounding.

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CONFLICTS of interest. It’s hard to get unbiased financial advice. Insurance agents collect bigger commissions if we buy cash-value instead of term life insurance. Brokers make more if we trade frequently and buy high-commission products. Advisors who charge a percent of assets earn more if we keep money in our portfolios, rather than paying down debt.

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NO. 64: AS WE GROW wealthier, we should seize the chance to save on insurance—by raising deductibles, lengthening elimination periods and perhaps dropping some policies entirely.

Spotlight: Houses

Selling Your House and Reaping Tax Free Capital Gains May be in Jeopardy

The National Association of Realtors forecasts that by 2035, close to 70% of homeowners might have gains exceeding $250,000 and 38% of them will have more than $500,000.
Per AI
I just read an article in which it was reported that in comments to the press on Tuesday the President suggested he is considering eliminating capital gains taxes on the sale of homes.
The article reviews the rules to claim this benefit which is definitely in the near(er) future for Humble Dollar readers
If you have lived in it as your primary residence for at least 24 months (consecutively or not) in the previous five years before you sell it,

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Advice needed: Buy house with cash + securities loan?

Hi HumbleDollar Community,
First of thanks to Jonathan and all of you for creating such a fantastic source of wisdom and practical advice. I am 53 and a novice investor (started very late ) with no residential property and semi-stable job. I have 2 young kids (got married late..) and plan to work till 64.
With the crazy housing market and bidding wars, I have been sitting on sidelines and getting priced out every year. I finally have come across a property in my town which I don’t want to leave (great schools) which I can afford.

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DIY

Excellent article about DIY. My question to all HD readers: What are you willing to do instead of paying someone else to do it?

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California On Our Minds

I just returned from a six-day silent retreat. What in the world could that have to do with retirement and financial life?  Maybe nothing or maybe a lot.  I’ve been going on silent retreats for more than 20 years, ever since I became a minister and they were part of my spiritual and professional development. These days in my semi-retired lifestyle they are still part of both.
One of my goals for the retreat was to write a draft article about moving to California for Humble Dollar.

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More Than Money: Our Holiday Home

I’m excited this morning! Why the excitement, you may ask? It stems from the fact that, for the very first time, my wife Suzie and I are decamping to our holiday home in Portballintrae, a small coastal village on the North Coast of Ireland, for the next three months. This is only possible because we’re now both retired, allowing us to fully utilize the home we purchased six years ago. As we’ve been organizing for departure,

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When the Retirement Community Goes Bankrupt

A sobering read (apologies, this article is behind a paywall hence I am not sure if I can reproduce the article here or attach the pdf)
 
https://www.nytimes.com/2025/01/18/health/retirement-community-bankruptcy.html

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Spotlight: Smith

Final Decision

Her life is slipping away as I compose this forum topic. Both her daughters, my daughters, have been camped at her bedside for the past 10 days as hospice provides comfort care until my ex-wife dies. No words of sympathy need be offered to me, she and I fell out of love a long time ago. Still, this is the person responsible for 11 beautiful family members that would not be in my life without her. She has my respect and compassion. Everything changed for this robust 72 year old when a devastating stroke came out of nowhere. Brain surgery at 1am left her with a shaved head and a Frankenstein looking scar, complete with staples holding her together. Now she is in the bed at hospice, struggling for breath, mouth agape, snoring from the effects of sleep apnea. Looking good was her 2nd highest priority topped only by her love for our children. She would be devastated if she knew people were seeing her like this. I appreciate what hospice is doing for her. But where is the dignity? Once the decision was made for palliative care, wouldn’t the option of a more immediate end to the suffering be appropriate. If/when I’m in her shoes, my answer will be yes. I’d like for this option to be a part of my health care directive. My daughters are devout Catholics and would not agree with my thinking. But I don’t see a lot of difference between abandoning medical treatment to allow death and taking a pill to let it happen sooner. I would like to see laws to allow for this. What are your feelings on the subject?  
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On Being Aware

Quinn’s “big scary number” got me thinking about my approach taken on the path towards retirement. I would say being aware was my best tool. Oh I did my share of spreadsheets and extrapolations, and while I had a goal of reaching a seven figure net worth, it had nothing to do with achieving a big scary number. Being aware of my spending and saving is what got me over the top. For me retirement planning meant knowing what would be coming in versus what would be going out. I’m not one to analyze every cent we spent, but I knew how much money flowed from the checking account each year. That annual spending became my target number for the income needed to survive. Now comes the income planning. Again I was aware of my future Social Security income via the Administration’s excellent website. I was also aware of a rather insignificant amount defined benefit pension we would receive. My plan was to purchase an annuity to cover any expense beyond the SS and pension income. The way it actually worked out, by waiting to age 70 to start SS, our expenses are totally covered by the SS and pensions, with dollars to spare. No annuity purchase was necessary for us. The money we accumulated is just icing on the cake. I love icing. Awareness was my secret weapon, what’s yours?
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Get Your Stuff Together (For Taxes)

The following is from one of the newsletters I used to send to my clients each year. It is not meant to be comprehensive but it may help the organized challenged people (OCP) among us. Most of you are probably sick of reading this paragraph because I include it every year. If you are one of my organized peeps you can just skip this one. Two things to do here. First is to look at the left side of last year’s tax folder (that’s where I attached all of their source documents) to get an idea of what you may need this year. Next thing is to watch the mail for this year’s versions to be delivered. Again, the general rule is to bring me anything with the letters or numbers 1099, 1095, 1098, W2, or K1. Those are the documents you will want to keep together in a dedicated place. I suggest you should have a financial junk drawer, an old shoe box, shopping bag or whatever. Just don’t let the dog, cat, or kids eat them. Don’t forget, not all tax docs arrive in January. For example, the consolidated 1099 from you broker dealer may not show up until March. The K1’s from your trusts, oil wells, and etc. may not arrive until after Labor Day. You may need to file an extension. If so, remember an extension to file does not change the last day to pay, which is typically April 15. Are you or the kids in college? Depending on your income you may be eligible for a tuition credit up to $2500. Clients often told me that they didn’t receive this form in the mail. You may have to access your students form 1098T (T as in tuition) on their internet portal at the school.…
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How Do You Spell Research?

"Do your own research” are words that pop up in many forum posts, and I agree it’s important for people to dig into various things before making a purchase or forming opinions on important matters. Research for an unbiased writer probably includes things like interviewing sources, checking their facts, citing references, furnishing bibliographies, and etc. At the other end of the spectrum someone like my friend Bubba down at the local watering hole might consider Facebook, CNN, or Fox news to be deep research. Of the two examples above, my research probably falls somewhere between the two extremes. So feel free to slap me silly(er) if I ever claim to have researched something. Take my word…. I researched it!
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Fifty Ways

I like the idea of writing my obituary in the first person. I have composed a few drafts of such an obituary. It has been fun recalling memories from my youth and of raising my children, and thinking about the 8,590 or so days that Chrissy and I have been together, even former occupations and the friends I have made along the way.  It would begin something like this; If you're reading this, you waited too long to call me; I can't do lunch, I’m dead. If you like, you can stop by the mortuary and look at me for a spell. There’s even going to be a party after the service. I’ll leave details at the end of this obituary.  The one part I can’t write is the way it all ends. It would be nice if I could write my own ending, but what would I write? There must be 50 ways to write your ending. I  missed a corner driving through the mountains while on vacation. My heart exploded while shoveling the snow with that stupid new electric snow shovel.  I fell down the steps after tripping on one of Sophie the wonder cat’s toys. I was eaten by a shark while swimming in the warm blue water off the coast of St. Somewhere.  Apparently those weren’t mushrooms on my pizza. I accidentally locked myself inside a self cleaning oven. That'll save money on cremation, though some of the ashes could be from last night's dinner.  A piano fell on my head. My gold mine collapsed on me. I fell in the pen and the hogs ate me. I died with a smile while in the loving embrace…. I like that last one the best. Feel free to add to my list. It looks like I need…
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Questions Matter

My hat’s off to the couples that got hitched right out of school and stayed that way, happily. That was not my reality. Young love, often ignited by intense physical attraction, often doesn’t ask the hard questions, or require clear answers even if the right questions are asked. And while achieving the age of 73 doesn’t make me an expert, I think everyone is entitled to my opinion, so here goes😉. That intense physical energy is going to change over time, there had better be a lot more depth to a relationship. Two people with exactly the same interests and personalities could lead to a boring life. Separate interests may add some spice to your life, but you may be in trouble if your mind is closed to new things. He’s not into your seats at the opera, and she’s not into your season tickets to the hockey games, or vice versa.  My high school sweetheart wanted to get out of town after high school, I had no interest in leaving my home town and family. We broke up, now she has a great life 2000 miles away from Toledo, and I have a great life here. Lucky us. How about kids? Do you both want ‘em? If yes, is this person going to be a good parent? These may be hard things to know at a young age, but there will be signs. For a budding middle age romance, the questions may relate to grand-kids. Chris never tried to muscle in on my ex-wife’s domain; neither I or my daughters would have wanted that. However, she loves the kids and has made me a better grandpa in many ways, which is something appreciated by everyone.  How about money? Is money the number one cause of marital train wrecks? I…
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