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I’m excited this morning! Why the excitement, you may ask? It stems from the fact that, for the very first time, my wife Suzie and I are decamping to our holiday home in Portballintrae, a small coastal village on the North Coast of Ireland, for the next three months. This is only possible because we’re now both retired, allowing us to fully utilize the home we purchased six years ago. As we’ve been organizing for departure, I’ve been thinking… again!
While we absolutely know what a privileged position we’re in to even have a second home, I’ve been pondering whether the opportunity cost of handing over a large quantity of cash to purchase it has truly been worth it. I could have put that money to work in one of my Vanguard accounts and seen a very healthy return these last six years; my Vanguard global tracker has had over 75% return in that time frame, far exceeding property growth! Up to now, we’ve probably only used it, on average, 40 days per year. It was a significant investment, not just in the initial outlay but also in the continual expenses like maintenance and utilities, which can feel like a drain.
But the memories and enjoyment we’ve taken from those precious 240 days of use during the last six years have been priceless. We’ve had so many wonderful walks along the wild Atlantic coast and cliffs, reveled in the stunning scenery, and sampled the lovely restaurants in the area. A simple example: a lovely walk to “The Nook” Restaurant right beside the Giant’s Causeway, where we sit outside having cream tea with a pint of Guinness while watching all the foreign tourists disembark from their coaches. We love speculating about their life stories and commenting on their dress style. We’ve also hosted numerous fun and memorable BBQs with visiting friends, burnt steaks optional! Most importantly, it’s provided a much-needed decompression from our normal busy lives. Drifting to sleep with the roar of the waves after a busy day provides the best sleep I ever experience.
We’ve also enjoyed our times with the grandchildren staying over; their favorite thing is sand tobogganing on the high dunes overlooking White Rock Beach—they think it’s such an adventure! Plus, we’ve had the ability to loan our home to family when the cost of paying for accommodation would mean them going without a short break. On balance, I think these invaluable human experiences make it an easy question to answer… for me, yes, it was definitely worth the purchase!
I’m going to be happily busy the next few months, hopefully I will get time to post a few articles, maybe even an update on how our adventure is going…..Oh, and did I mention there’s a lovely little harbour bar within 5 minutes’ walk of our home? Nice Guinness there too!
Nice Guiness everywhere it seems. What a great thing. I believe, with regards to a purchase like this, it’s more how you feel on your deathbed. Are you happier knowing you had all those great experiences at your second home, or knowing you’ll be passing on more wealth to your survivors. Probably the former. Enjoy your holiday Mark.
Guinness….. what can I say, it’s Ireland lol
So you are The Master of Portballintrae?
(Old movie reference.)
We never considered a second home, but a beach house on the Pacific — with storm waves occasionally washing into the back yard — was our primary home for six years. You’re right, there is absolutely nothing like a walk on a wild beach or letting the sound of the surf rock you to sleep. I miss it.
Your little haven sounds absolutely splendid.
I’ll have to look into that movie 🎥
The Master of Ballantrae. Errol Flynn.
Sounds lovely. But maintaining one house was as much as I wanted to tackle, and I wouldn’t want to keep visiting the same place – I might need a place in the mountains and another at the beach. We’re all different!
That’s where we’ve ended up on the second home question, though we did buy timeshare, which is sort of an in-between version of that. The time, effort, and money of dealing with a vacation home always sounded overwhelming, but the flexibility to go different places is the key. If there had been options like VRBO, Redweek, or AirBnB 25 years ago when we bought our first timeshare, I doubt we would have done it.
(I’m looking out at the ocean from a VRBO unit in San Diego as we speak…)
We had considered a permanent move to our holiday home’s area. However, because our family and close friends are rooted in our current location, buying a holiday home there ‘squared the circle’ for us.
It sounds like it’s worked out great for you!
Other than in the first couple years while we were “stretched” to cover the costs of our 2nd home, a condo at the Jersey shore, we have never thought about the trade-offs vs. keeping the money invested. We bought the condo 8 years ago while we were both still working as a place to spend summer weekends with our family. Since then, we have been blessed with 2 more grandkids (total 4 now) and we spend most of the summer here now that my wife and I are retired with the kids making it down for long weekends with us all summer. It is a short 70 minute drive from our full time home in North Jersey so we frequently come down during other times of the year too (fall and spring here are awesome).
I understand the feeling to think about the lost opportunity costs of the initial investment and ongoing expenses of a vacation home but at the end of the day, if used for its intended purpose ( to enjoy with family, not as a rental property) there is no comparison of the “return”.
enjoy your time there, Mark!
Thanks!
Mark, I’d love to meet you at that harbour bar for a Guinness sometime!
Any things possible is this old world of ours!
Ditto.
As I write this I just finished packing the car and as soon as Connie finishes her makeup and hair we are off on a five + hour drive to our home in Chatham, Massachusetts for the summer.
So many great memories since 1987 with family and grandchildren. Things are different now they are growing up, but two families still come up and one brings their 80 lb dog – my buddy. I get into trouble because I let him climb on the couch with me to sleep.
The house is expensive to maintain and we have put a lot of money into additions and remodeling over the years. It sure isn’t an investment, but it’s my happy place – even though I do all the cooking and paying for meals out.
Time to tap the travel bank account. 🤑
Strange, thousands of miles apart and doing essentially the same thing today. I’m hitting the road right now!
We are right behind you – purchased a mountain home in Cle Elum 90 minutes away and plan to retire in about 5 years. To help cover the costs in the interim we will be doing short term rentals.
Thought about rentals but in the end we never did.
Wow, I grew up in Oregon but have never been to Cle Elum. It’s gotta be beautiful. I hope to get up into central and northern Washington, North Cascaded NP, soon. I’ve traveled extensively west of the Cascades, but gotta head east.
The pondering should be behind you. You answered your question “But the memories and enjoyment we’ve taken from those precious 240 days of use during the last six years have been priceless.” Enjoy!
Congratulations Mark…the rest of the still working beings will live vicariously through your vivid posts. I can just about taste the Guinness and smell the ocean waves.
I’m smelling that ocean now!