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During a recent trip to the Philippines, I found myself watching the people who keep everything moving. From construction workers under the heat of the midday sun, laborers doing jobs that most would quietly avoid, jeepney drivers bringing people from A to B while barely making a profit. After that visit, I sat down and wrote a poem about their struggles. This is my attempt to turn that reflection into something more.
What I saw stayed with me.
It’s easy to admire visible success: Careers with titles, businesses that flourish, financial
milestones we are taught to pursue. But there’s another kind of work all around us. Quieter, harder, and often invisible. It’s the work that keeps things running but rarely gets the recognition it deserves.
I’ve met people, many of them immigrants, who leave behind everything familiar: Their country, their family, their sense of certainty. They arrive in a place that doesn’t quite feel like home, carrying little more than determination and the hope of opportunity.
They take on jobs others won’t do. Not because they want to, but because they must.
The work is often grueling. Long hours under a sweltering sun. Labor that wears down the body. Jobs overlooked or dismissed by those who benefit from them. The pay can be modest, sometimes barely enough. But behind that effort is something powerful: Responsibility. A family depending on them. A promise they refuse to break.
What struck me most isn’t just the physical hardship—it’s the quiet resilience.
Imagine living in conditions many of us would reject outright. Being far from home, often alone. And still showing up every day. Still sending money back. Still believing the sacrifice means something. And yet, despite all that, these workers are sometimes met with indifference, or worse, judgment.
That’s the part I struggle with.
Because when you strip everything else away, accent, background, skin color—you’re left with something simple: Another human being trying to build a better life. Not so different from the rest of us.
If anything, their willingness to do difficult work for the sake of others is something to respect.
It also raises a broader question: What does it mean to have “enough”?
In my own life, I’ve spent time thinking about financial independence, making smart decisions, and building security. Those things matter. But there’s a humility that comes from recognizing that not everyone starts from the same place, and not everyone has the same options.
For some, “enough” isn’t about optimizing a portfolio or deciding when to claim Social Security. It’s about getting through the week, sending money home, and keeping a promise to family.
That perspective has a way of resetting your own.
We live in a world that’s more connected than ever, yet it often feels divided along the simplest lines. But if you look closely, the threads that tie us together are stronger than the things that separate us.
Work. Family. Hope. Responsibility.
Those aren’t bound by borders.
And maybe that’s the point.
If we can begin to see each other not by where we come from, but by what we’re striving for, something shifts. There’s less judgment, more understanding. Less distance, more connection.We may live in different places, speak in different ways, and walk different paths but in the end, we’re all working toward something that matters. A better life for ourselves and for the people we care about.
For we are One World, after all, and have more in common than we sometimes care to admit.
Thank you for this, Andrew.
I take my daily walk through a nearby subdivision where new homes are being built. I marvel at the workers, many of them apparent immigrants from Mexico and Central America, as they skillfully construct million dollar homes they’ll never live in.
They’re up on steep roofs, casually walking around with no tethers, even when it’s a 100 degree Texas summer day. And I wonder how many “native born Americans” would take on those jobs if all the immigrant workers suddenly were gone? I’d guess close to zero.
Immigrants have built our country, oftentimes literally. As you said, their motivation is the same as ours—a better life for themselves and their families. I’m thankful for their contributions.
Andrew
My wife and I travelled to Kenya for medical volunteer trips, and I spent a little time at a local free clinic at home. I met many people who work hard, appear to have very little, yet they are happy and grateful. They taught me a lot. You expressed what I feel more eloquently than I could have with your poem. Thanks.
Bravo! Andrew, Your posts reminds me, based on who I am, and where I was born, that the ‘floor’ I was born to, was many stories higher than where most others in the world must begin their lives.
In my darkest financial days, I still had the resources to put food on the table, and cover necessary living expenses. So many people in the world are not able to say that.
I’ve been thinking about adding the World Central Kitchen to my list of charitable donations. You just made up my mind for me🙂
Thank you Dan, I appreciate you sharing your own story.
Andrew, thank you so much for this. The advances in transportation and communication in the last century have wakened us to the perspective that we are all one human family. The images of Earth from space have, for the first time in history, shown us that national boundaries are artificial — we are all world citizens.
So very true, thank you for sharing.
Thank you, Andrew, for a most meaningful, grounding, and hopeful article.
Thank you Jo for taking the time to read it and your comment, its much appreciated.
Thank you, Andrew. Your article reminded me of the conversation I had recently with the attendant on my long distance Amtrak sleeper car. While her job is not physically difficult, it is still a servant job with lower status than my own (retired nurse), yet we bonded in a quiet moment on the train over our shared love of reading and our faith. She said that her all time favorite book is Pilgrim’s Progress. She didn’t explain why she works at this job that takes her away from her family for several days at a time. We embraced when we reached my destination.
Thank you Linda for sharing your beautiful story, my sister was also a nurse working the grueling night shifts.
I’ve been noticing this and thinking about these people more lately since I retired 3 years ago. We all made sacrifices to support our families during our working years, but hearing some of the stories of these “invisible” workers makes our efforts seem feeble in comparison. Like the waiter we met on a recent Europe River cruise, who was on a 3 month “tour of duty” with the line and just had a new baby born at home in the Philippines 2 weeks ago. It will be another 2 weeks until he can get back home to meet his new son. In a job that requires hard work and a pleasant and positive demeanor, this person could not have treated us and fellow guests nicer! No resentment that he missed the birth of a child. He appreciated that he had this job which pays him a good wage to support his family. Seeing people like this and hearing their stories makes me appreciate more the lives we’ve made for ourselves and less tolerant of the complaints of our grown daughters struggling with the busy scheduleS of raising our grandkids.
These may not be the most glamorous jobs, but without people like our waiter to do them, life would be a lot different.
The filipinos are the kindest and warmest people, despite hardships they will always give you a smile. Thank you for your thought out comment
Thank you Andrew, wonderfully written.
Many of us reading your article will have been winners of the “genetic lottery”. You remind us to be aware and grateful for that.
And hopefully to be generous to those not as lucky as we are.
Well said Greg, I value you comment.