Should Retirees Get a Temporary Flat Tax Window on IRA and 401(k) Withdrawals?
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The Art of Spending Money
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A Life You Build
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Your two best investing books—and do you also keep an End-of-Life “family binder”?
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At what age did travel start feeling like work—and what changed your plan?
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What Age Did You Retire—and What Made You Decide It Was Time?
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Fixed Indexed Annuity for 3–6 Years: Worth It as a Short-Term Move?
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Andrew, this was deeply moving. What struck me most is the reminder that success and peace are not the same thing. From the outside, your father had what many people chase: education, career success, financial security, respected work, and the ability to retire comfortably. But inside, he was still carrying wounds that no title, pension, or place in Key West could fully heal. The line, “People called me a loner, but I was a reluctant one,” is heartbreaking. It says so much about a man who may not have wanted to be alone, but struggled to feel safe, settled, or fully understood with others. There is a big difference between choosing solitude and being trapped by it. Your piece is also an important reminder about retirement. We prepare for the financial side, but often neglect the emotional side. Retirement removes the job, schedule, identity, and daily interaction. What remains is not just freedom. It is ourselves. What moved me most is that your father had the courage to write honestly about his struggles. That gave you something painful, but also precious: a fuller picture of the man behind the accomplishments. Thank you for sharing this. It is a powerful reminder that a good retirement plan needs more than money. It also needs people, purpose, honesty, forgiveness, and some measure of peace with ourselves before life gets quiet.
Post: My Father: The Peace He Never Found
Link to comment from May 21, 2026
I agree with the spirit of the idea. The current retirement savings system has become far too complicated for the average worker. Between Traditional IRAs, Roth IRAs, 401(k)s, 403(b)s, 457s, TSP rules, income limits, catch-up rules, RMDs, Roth conversions, pro-rata rules, and then IRMAA on top of it all, the system often feels like it was designed for tax professionals instead of ordinary people trying to save for retirement. A Universal Retirement Plan has a lot of appeal. One account, one contribution limit, one set of rules, and one clear message: save for your future, and the growth will not be taxed if you follow the rules. That kind of simplicity could help younger workers and middle-class families who are often overwhelmed before they even get started. That said, the transition would be the challenge. Millions of people built their retirement plans around the current rules. Any major change would need to protect existing balances and avoid punishing people who followed the law as written. I also think we should be careful about eliminating pre-tax contributions completely. They may not matter much to very low earners, and high earners may not need them, but there is a large group in the middle where that tax break helps make saving possible. The employer match is probably the most important part of any retirement system. A simple universal plan with automatic enrollment, automatic increases, low-cost investments, and a meaningful employer match would likely do more good than simply creating another new account structure. The match is what gets many workers moving. Jeff
Post: Time to scrap IRAs, 401k, 403b and all the rest
Link to comment from May 21, 2026
Good morning, Dick, I like the way you frame this as a “retirement payday.” That really is the goal for me — to make retirement income feel as close to a regular paycheck as possible. Our plan has been to build a steady income floor first with our military pensions, my FERS retirement when I completely retire in 2029, Cathy’s current Social Security, and eventually my own Social Security. That gives us a dependable monthly base to cover the essentials without feeling like every market swing could threaten next month’s grocery money. Then the TSP becomes more of a backup, tax-planning tool, and flexibility fund instead of something I have to depend on every month just to live. I’m also open to using part of it for an annuity if it helps create more predictable income. Everyone handles retirement income differently, but for me, the emotional side matters as much as the math. I want simple, steady, and mostly automatic — the kind of payday that lets you sleep at night and only interrupts the afternoon nap when another deposit hits the account. Just 2½ more years, and then that complete retirement payday starts.
Post: The never ending payday
Link to comment from May 10, 2026
I really like this, Mark. The “mirrored funnel” is a great way to describe the seasons of life. When we’re kids, life feels wide open because we don’t yet carry the weight of work, bills, mortgages, kids, and all the pressure that comes with building a life. Then, somewhere in adulthood, that funnel gets pretty narrow for a while. But your carnival story shows the hopeful side of it. If you stay steady, plan well, and make good choices through those tight years, life can open back up again. There’s something beautiful about reaching a point where you can simply be present with your grandkids, enjoy the day, eat the cotton candy, and not feel pulled in ten different directions. That’s not just retirement — that’s the reward.
Post: The Mirrored Funnel
Link to comment from May 10, 2026
I’ve been blessed to see a lot of the world in my travels, but there is something about going back to the Smoky Mountains in the fall that always feels different. The air is cooler, the colors are deeper, and life seems to slow down just enough to remind me what peace feels like. It’s not just the scenery, although the mountains are hard to beat. It’s the feeling of returning to a place that settles my mind, quiets the noise, and reminds me of the simple things I love most. No matter where I’ve been, the Smokies in the fall always feel like coming home.
Post: First Place
Link to comment from May 7, 2026
Grant thank you for sharing your story. 😊
Post: A Life You Build
Link to comment from May 7, 2026
Very true Mark. 😊
Post: A Life You Build
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You're very welcome!
Post: A Life You Build
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Thank you!
Post: A Life You Build
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Your very welcome!
Post: A Life You Build
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