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Is it okay not to leave a tip at a full-service restaurant?

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JAY SCATTERGOOD
2 years ago

we go to the same few restaurants and the same Casino Resort for vacation and have always tipped at least 30% which they remember so we have never had bad service or bad meal and the bellboys to our Casino Hostess, which we give a small gift each time , remember us and our time and money well spent………life is too short not to enjoy each minute good or bad but the good out weight the bad

Michael Hennessy
2 years ago

Waitstaff are underpaid, often harried, and usually young–at least at the kind of restaurants I frequent. My starting minimum is 20%. I think of it this way: if the server were my own son or daughter, would I want restaurant patrons to leave a tip?

Kathy C
2 years ago

YEARS ago, at the beginning when I was seated and the server came to take a drink order while mulling over the menu, I used to ask them: Do you know what compensatory means? 99% looked at me dumbfounded. I then said do you know what compensate means….. I then used it in a sentence.: Your tip is compensatory based on the quality of service I receive. 🙂 I usually got better service. 😉

Kathy C
2 years ago

If I had ever had service so bad as to not want to leave a tip, I’d ask to speak to a manager to let them know what my experience was like. Maybe the server just had a difficult day or is having a tough time in life, and it crossed over into work that they couldn’t do without the money. Just not leaving a tip doesn’t fix the bad service situation. On typical to good service, I leave a tip from 15-20%. On ONE occasion, after receiving our beverages after 30 min, and after another 45 or so not getting the order, we just walked out. I called the restaurant the next day and let them know what had happened. It was busy, but not THAT busy to not even get our food. I think the order was never put in.

Rob Jennings
2 years ago

This is the wrong question-the answer to this is no. The question should be is it ok not to leave a tip at restaurant that is not full-service-for example, get a sandwich to go or sit down and eat-the answer to that is yes and it’s gotten completely out of control.