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Happy New Year, HumbleDollar folks! Today, besides being the first day of 2026, is also the six-month anniversary of my retirement. How’s it going so far? I thought I’d follow up on a couple of posts from last year–this one was a year ago today (a “six months out” post).
So far, I absolutely love being retired. Seriously, I’m just ecstatic about it. I said to my husband recently, “I thought I’d miss it (my career) a little bit.” After all, even though university politics had soured me on my day job, I always loved teaching, and I enjoyed it right up through my last day of class in June. But I’m just feeling a sense of relief about the absence of responsibility.
The Biggest News. After a few months of watching me live my best life, my husband started rethinking the “maybe I’ll work until 70” plan (we’re 65). His contract with his firm requires six months notice, so he’s planning to give notice on April 1 for an October 1 retirement date. (Why that date? He has a couple of projects he wants to see through, and bonuses are paid in August.) It’s possible that they’ll ask him to stay on either as a part-time employee or as a consultant–he has a pretty specific skill set that will be hard to replace–and he’s open to that, but he’s committed to being done with full-time employment by October 1, 2026.
How I’m Spending Time. That has gone pretty much as I expected. After a lot of travel over the summer, we had a quieter fall mostly at home. I’m working on several academic writing projects (a new edition of one of my books, journal articles from my final two research projects, and a new collection I’m co-editing). I’m trying to work on those at a relatively leisurely pace. A typical weekday looks like this: a cup of coffee or two, a workout, and then to my computer for 2-3 hours of productive work. I’m an early riser, so I’m usually done with all that by lunchtime. In the afternoon, I might nap, read, get started on dinner, run errands, or do a household project. During the fall, I systematically went through the whole condo decluttering and reorganizing. Then I make dinner and in the evenings we either watch sports or a TV show(s) or do something social.
I continue to do various volunteer tasks for our church. I’m on a teaching team for the weekly women’s Bible study and give 4-5 talks per year for that. I’m also the main curriculum writer for small group home Bible studies–I write discussion questions for the groups based on whatever the Sunday sermon was about. My husband and I co-lead one of the groups, which meets in our home. My other volunteer role is on the HOA board for our condo community. My two-year term on the board will end in August, and I do not intend to re-up. I’m also hoping to get my major academic writing projects wrapped up by the summer.
Goals and (Lack of) Progress. In my “six months out” post, I listed a bunch of things I wanted to start doing or get better at. I’ve made progress on some but not all of them. One of my most important personal goals was to be intentional about being more social and a people person, not just a cross-things-off-the-list person. I’ve done pretty well with that so far. We’re socializing quite a bit with neighbors, we’ve been inviting people over, and I’ve been initiating with other women (at church and in the neighborhood) to get to know them better. So far my efforts have been well received. This month I plan to reach out to a couple of my favorite former coworkers, people with whom I promised to keep in touch, to suggest a coffee or a walk. I also took a quick solo trip in September to San Diego for some “girl time” with my daughter, who had just lost her job and needed some care. That’s the kind of thing that being retired allows me to do now.
I also have made some progress on getting our financial/digital life better organized. After reading some posts here, I decided it was well past time to get a password manager. I had actually installed one last year but got confused about how it worked and gave up on it. This time, I let ChatGPT walk me through how 1Password works, got it installed, and have it mostly up and running, including changing all of our passwords for our most important financial accounts.
Two goals that I have not attempted yet: (1) new workout options and (2) volunteering for a local nonprofit. I spent early fall dealing with a couple of minor injuries. Since November, I’ve just been trying to get back to where I’d been previously with my workout routine. I still want to try something new–maybe working with a trainer to level up my weight training. As for more volunteer work, I’m actually feeling pretty maxed out with the writing, HOA board, and church stuff. That may be a goal for next fall after I’ve taken a few things off my plate.
For the next six months, I think the goal will be to wrap up some of my current commitments (writing/HOA board) and to continue to get our financial lives well organized. My husband’s more imminent retirement date adds some urgency to this. While he was still working, we didn’t have to think very concretely about a “retirement spending plan,” but now it’s time to start envisioning that. I’ll write a separate post later about how that is coming along. I’ll also follow up on our updated thoughts about moving to a new home –but this one has gotten long enough!
Happy 6th “luniversary”! So glad to read these details about how well everything is going.
Dana — happy 6-month retirement anniversary, and Happy New Year to you and all the HumbleDollar folks. I loved reading this: the relief you describe (more than “missing” the job) feels so real, and your days sound like a great blend of purpose, health, and margin.
Also—how fun that retirement is proving contagious. October 1, 2026 will be here fast, and it sounds like your husband is making a thoughtful exit plan.
I’m three years out from my own retirement, and posts like yours are exactly the kind of “this is what it can look like” encouragement I need. One more thought: I enjoy watching Real Retirees Uncut on YouTube, and you’d be a fantastic guest retiree on there—your mix of structure, meaning, and honesty would really resonate.
Keep us posted on the spending plan and the next six months of simplifying and wrapping things up.
Jeff
Thanks for the kind words and the suggestion, Jeff! I’ll look it up on YouTube!
Happy New Year, Dana. Thanks for the update. It’s good to hear that retirement is working for you, and that your husband will be joining you.
Not sure why you got down votes on a couple of your replies – I upvoted and got rid of them.
Thanks, Kathy. Happy New Year to you, as well!
Dana, let us know how well you keep up with former co-workers. For me, I’m afraid my co-workers won’t have the time and energy to stay in touch after I retire. Typically I’ve seen that happen with other people who have left my workplace. Meanwhile, enjoy your retirement!
Dana, thanks for the update on how things are going. It sounds like you are still in the “honeymoon” phase and I am glad your husband is thinking to join you in retirement earlier than he had planned. Chris
Thanks, Chris. I don’t think this honeymoon is going to end!
Some of my friends and colleagues have their doubts about me. One friend told me that he has a couple of friends who “failed” retirement after a year (meaning they couldn’t stand it and went back to paid work). I said, “I’m not going to fail retirement. I’m going to get an A+!”
Dana, I applaud the optimism. And why not? Apparently my own honeymoon phase is on year four and shows no sign of abating. Rock on.
No wait… four years in already, in year five. Now to today’s brain training 😉
Dana, this is a very refreshing post. You sure are in a good place, whatever you decide to take on is now on your own terms. And no more work related politics!
Will your husband be working on any new music after October 1?
I’m sure he will, and I’ll tell him you asked! He’s had an album’s worth of music ready to record for a while, just waiting for the band he works with to have time for the project. I also have told him that in my newfound free time, I’ll help him promote his music. He doesn’t even have an Instagram account.
Dana, very glad your retirement is going so well! As I read about your academic writing, I was thinking, someone is going to tell you you’re not really retired… 😆
A lot of our neighbors in our condo community are already retired. A bunch of us were out for lunch right before my retirement date, and they were congratulating me and all said the same thing: “You’ll wonder how you ever found time to work.”
The question I keep getting is “So what do you do?” This question amuses me because anyone who knows me at all understands that I’m not one to sit around. But I usually say something like “Whatever I want and nothing I don’t want.” That’s not entirely true, of course. But close enough!
Dana and the HD Community:
I have been following this website on and off for the last 5 years and recently retired in late summer 2025 at the age of 62 with a CalPERS pension and a brokerage account through the magic of deferred compensation and compounding provides us a comfortable retirement. My wife has reached her FRA and collects social security, and we recently signed her up for Medicare part B and D. During my career I spent approximately the same number of years contributing to Social Security and to CalPERS and was surprised when congress passed the Social Security Windfall Elimination Provision “WEP” in January 2025 allowing me to “double dip” from both retirement plans. I will delay my SS benefit to age 67 or beyond.
I find the financial advice on HD helpful and interesting but much more enjoy contributors’ personal stories and how they have transitioned to retirement. Like you, I have enjoyed every minute of my retirement but have anxiety on how I will fill my days in a meaningful way going forward. Under your heading on “How I’m Spending My Time” I ramped up my fitness routine to only find out that I likely need the same surgery on my right knee that I had on my left knee in 2022 (torn meniscus). We have traveled a bit more and will be taking a 15-day cruise from Hong Kong to Tokyo this Spring. I have reconnected to our local church we drifted away from when our two sons left for college. I have made an effort to get involved in a local non-profit homeless services agency and will be contributing my time and profession expertise in assisting them with their mission.
Living in Southern California, this past fall’s World Series run for the Dodgers was magical. I wish your Giants better luck next year. I am looking forward to your future posts and hope to submit one or two of my own to Humble Dollar.
Thanks, Brian! My husband and I are also retired from CalPERS. He got his 20 years in before retiring and working in the private sector, so we got our health coverage through that before 65 and now get a Medicare supplemental plan through them. That part’s been pretty seamless.
We have family in SoCal (Orange County & north San Diego County) so we are down there several times a year. We also went to grad school at USC.
I hope you enjoy your retirement and that you write some posts!