November is my birthday month. A good time for reflection. With advancing age, we can all give more thought to how we can improve the quality of our lives—enjoy our days and gain peace of mind. When we don’t have as much life left, we want to maximize the time we have.
One of my pet peeves has always been dealing appropriately with rude and disrespectful people. With maturity, we are motivated to avoid jerks and futile conflicts.

BENJAMIN GRAHAM, the father of investment analysis, made this observation: “The investor’s chief problem—even his worst enemy—is likely to be himself.”
Why? One reason is our intuition can sometimes lead us astray. Things that seem like they make sense, and seem like they ought to be true, often turn out not to be supported by the data.
Perhaps the best-known example is the divergence between growth and value stocks. Intuition suggests that growth stocks—companies like Apple and Amazon—would deliver better performance than their more pedestrian peers on the value side of the market.

If this happens what are your thoughts? Will it change any financial strategy, such as a ROTH conversion? … Maybe something else?

American credit card debt just broke the trillion dollar level.  Taking on  debt, “ bad” debt, credit cards , auto loans and similar, is a like attending a raucous party ,  taking in too much alcohol , etc.
The aftermath , paying off high interest loans, is like the worst hangover, ever. It can take decades to recover from it.
Often,  too much alcohol can kill you, quickly or long term, * alas , debt can kill you,

Be careful what you ask for or at least understand it.
The words “living wage” keep popping up in my reading, even on HD, but mostly on social media when complaining about pay. It’s also a good trigger phrase in politics.
Everyone should earn a living wage we may be told. Of course, typically without understanding what that means, how it could be achieved or the possible consequences. 
After I wrote the following, I read and re-read it and concluded I was going in circles.

I was going through some files this morning and happened upon a printout of my portfolio on 4/1/99, probably because this was the first time it totaled 100k.
This is what I held:
These were the Vanguard funds:
20% Healthcare (I was a physical therapist, buy what you know)
22% Growth and Income
19% Growth Index
20% Total Bond
6% Small Cap Index
5% Pacific Stock (I believe the Japan market was hot)
8% Janus Worldwide (it was the hot Janus fund)
 

IT’S AN ARGUMENT I’ll never win. But perhaps I can sow a few seeds of doubt.
The anti-foreign-stock drumbeat has grown louder with each additional year that international markets underperform U.S. shares. Indeed, even though foreign stocks beat U.S. shares in the 1970s, 1980s and 2000s, there are folks today who argue there’s no reason to own foreign shares.
Really? Before you throw in the towel, ask yourself six questions:
1. If U.S.

In late 1981, not long before my 19th birthday, I left Bryanston—my second and final English boarding school—for the last time. I didn’t graduate. Nobody did. At the time, graduation simply wasn’t a thing at English schools, and apparently it still isn’t.
Instead, I’d taken the Cambridge entrance exam, marking the end of my nine years at boarding school. With the exams over, it was time to pack my bags and head back to Washington, DC,

One of HD’s newer authors, Alina Fisch has a great article about Bucket Lists, but it was something in her bio that really caught my attention. Alina is a fee only financial advisor focused on helping single and divorced women.
My experience with the subject comes from my own divorce, as well as a handful of my income tax clients who found themselves in that situation.
These women were all good people and loving moms whose marriages ended for a variety of reasons.

As Jonathon and many others have advocated on this site, avoiding life style creep, and not climbing aboard  the hedonistic treadmill, keeping it simple, etc., are sure fire ways to have a really good chance of achieving financial success. Also, keeping the assets in the correct account types, diversifying and rebalancing are critical , as well as taking the long term view.
It appears to me that Warren Buffett has long been a tremendous example of following that advice.

Personally I have no problem with tipping servers and others for that matter. I just tipped two delivery men $20 each when they delivered a piece of furniture. I tip at Starbucks and usually when I see a tip jar on the counter. My point of view is these workers need the money more than I do and I can afford it. Maybe I’m helping a kid through college or just with family bills. They are working after all and I remember what it was like trying to earn money as a kid.

FOUR 20-SOMETHINGS named Ben, Duncan, Jonnie and Dave came up with a great idea for a reality show in 2010. It involved a purple bus named Penelope, a cross-country road trip and a list of 100 things to do before you die. For every item they crossed off their list, they’d help a stranger achieve something on his or her own list. 
Some of their to-dos were ambitious, with a low probability of success: host Saturday Night Live,

IN JANUARY, I surrendered to passionate irrationality, buying a park unit in Arizona that has become my second home.
Now I understand why, at least in the movie cliché, a man might buy house slippers for his long-suffering wife’s birthday, while giving flashy, expensive baubles to his girlfriend for no reason at all.
My single-wide “girlfriend” is tiny and fragile, the bloom off her youth. Things that improve her are easily obtained. A phone call to a friendly fellow at a store,

I have mentioned previously my joy helping our grandchildren like funding 529 plans.
Now our oldest grandchild is in college. A few days ago I texted him to let me know if he needed anything.
Today I received this text. “I was wondering if you can get me a cheese burger with just lettuce, cheese and pickles, fries and a lemonade from the  pizza house near my dorm and you can order online. I’ll pick it up.”
So I placed the order.

MY LIFE’S GOAL WAS to make money. I make no apologies for this. I’m not particularly gifted in this pursuit, but I did persevere.
I take satisfaction that I stuck to my goal despite all obstacles. There were many trips, falls, mistakes and failures along the way. I had to work hard and seek a new job each time my old employment ended. I set out to do something—and I did it.
That all changed when I retired.