Movin’ On Up
Marjorie Kondrack | Oct 27, 2023
WHEN I GRADUATED high school in the 1950s, I was age 17—and totally directionless. But living in New York City offered many opportunities, some of them right outside my front door. At the time, the larger banks and insurance companies sent letters to recent graduates offering job interviews. I chose to accept an invitation from American Surety Co. I had no idea what a surety company did. The venerable old company was housed in the second largest skyscraper in Manhattan—the American Surety Building at 100 Broadway in lower Manhattan, near Wall Street and across from Trinity Church. My best interview outfit was my almost new Easter outfit, a prim green and white checked suit worn with proper white gloves, white purse and appropriate pumps. I got an entry level job doing clerical work. I soon got the lay of the land and was promoted to the stenography pool in the bond department. Nothing is more boring than transcribing notes relating to bond contracts. I often took dictation from an elderly lawyer who kept dozing off in midsentence. So much for my foray into the insurance industry. We all have to start somewhere, but it wasn’t for me and I was never one to delay action. It was time to broaden my horizons. A minor but memorable distinction I achieved at American Surety: I won a jitterbug contest, more like a swing dance, with a coworker at the company’s 36th annual Christmas party. The company was serious about its contests, with a dance committee and all. First, there was a sedate waltz and fox trot contest, and then me and my spirited swing dance. It was the most fun I had at the company. Onward and upward: The ad for the job of executive secretary at Melodee Lane Lingerie Co. caught…
Read more » Prosperity
Marjorie Kondrack | Aug 25, 2024
I never thought about becoming ultra rich. I just wanted enough money to feel financially secure and not have to think about stretching every dollar. I reached my goal, but found that the most important thing money can provide is personal freedom. However, earning or having a lot of money is not liberating to everyone. it’s all too easy for us to fall into the trap of spending too little money. Once we have worked hard or smart for many years to create income, it follows that we should enjoy it. Misers have put together a fortune and have not experienced one bit of pleasure from it. Talk about financial dysfunction. Preposterous as it may seem, countless people in elite income brackets have proven that financial independence doesn’t necessarily mean prosperity. . While money can’t buy happiness, it can add to your enjoyment of life— which is the reason for having financial independence in the first place. Living ridiculously below your means is just as financially dysfunctional as living way above your means. Since having money requires that you save it prudently, but spend it joyfully, you may not want to sacrifice present happiness, joy, and satisfaction for a few extra dollars. Happily parting with some portion of your money can add to a feeling of prosperity. I found that viewing spending, in that context, eased away my stress and my life was enriched. Would you say you feel proud and satisfied with your spending choices? Or, is parting (with your money) such sweet sorrow.
Read more » A Balanced Retirement
Marjorie Kondrack | Jan 28, 2025
Among the many options we have in retirement such as travel, volunteer work, and spending more time with children and grandchildren; we also have a host of hobbies to consider. While too numerous to list, hobbies provide more than entertainment. They can elevate your mood, and improve memory and problem solving skills. You also get a brain boost and a sense of purpose and achievement when you undertake a new hobby. One of the best things about having a hobby is that if one becomes more of a bother than a pleasure, or if your interest gets stale, you can always choose another one. Make it enjoyable enough to keep pursuing—something that challenges you physically, mentally and, ideally, something that gives you the social interaction we all need. What hobbies have you found that are enjoyable and keep you actively engaged with your life?
Read more » 11 Mottos to Live By
Marjorie Kondrack | Apr 21, 2023
LIVING BENEATH OUR means is one of the best habits to develop if we want a secure retirement. Like many others, I learned this sort of thrift from my parents and grandparents, who lived through the Great Depression and, by necessity, had to avoid waste. Not only did our forebearers survive the Great Depression, but also the Second World War came right on its heels. These were years of conserving materials—such as metal, rubber, paper and food—to support the war effort. My mother saved a food ration book from the war that still had some stamps in it. When she shopped, she had to hand the grocer stamps when buying meat, sugar, butter, cooking oil and canned goods. The number of stamps handed over depended on the scarcity of the item purchased. For instance, if bacon was 35 cents a pound, you might have to give the grocer seven stamps. Once the stamps were used up for the month, people couldn’t buy any more of that food until new stamps were issued the following month. I wonder how many young people today know that, in this land of abundance, food was once rationed, and that thrift in itself can be a source of remarkable household revenue. Mom also saved a booklet from the war years that gives information about saving or conserving just about everything—food, clothing, house furnishings, appliances, utilities, cars, even insurance. People found artful ways to scrimp on just about everything. Nothing was wasted. We could all benefit from the advice in this little booklet. Here are 10 of the more memorable passages that appeared at the bottom of the booklet’s pages: Willful waste makes woeful want. Waste nothing. Hoard nothing. Use everything. Spend what you must and save what you can. He that eats and saves sets…
Read more » Acting Our Age
Marjorie Kondrack | Apr 9, 2024
I CHUCKLE WHEN I read Lucille Ball’s gentle admonishment that “the secret to staying young is to live honestly, eat slowly, and lie about your age.” That’s not so easy anymore, ever since the internet outed us all. But I’m not above using a little subterfuge. After all, forced disclosure is never comfortable. When asked how old I am, my usual reply is “any woman who will tell her age will tell anything”—a remark sometimes attributed to Mary Kay Ash. Still, as my husband and I have advanced in age, additional economic and physical challenges have emerged. Last year was our annus horribilis—a Latin phrase most of us learned from Queen Elizabeth II. With our physical capabilities declining, we’ve needed to outsource more home maintenance, both inside and outside our home. My most recent capitulation was to surrender my fussbudget tendencies and hire a house cleaning service. I still engage in light housekeeping—important for my brain health and sanity. But deep cleaning became an impossible chore to manage. Bringing on help is expensive. It’s all been a huge concession for me—the original do-it-yourselfer. Regarding meals, it’s possible to prepare quick, simple, nutritious and delicious meals at home without resorting to fast food and frozen dinners. For instance, you can pack a lot into a simple omelet, and it’s ready in a flash. I like pizza, too, but the digestive system doesn’t. I keep convenience foods on hand for those days that are hectic. We’re lucky to live near a food market that prepares and emphasizes healthy prepared meals. In earlier years, we enjoyed having the extra time to shop around for the best deals. Don’t underestimate the everyday small savings that can come from comparison shopping. I used to plan our meals, perusing the weekly food market circulars for specials…
Read more » Don’t Go Breaking My Heart
Marjorie Kondrack | May 8, 2025
Love and heartbreak are human experiences. Heartbreak is not restricted to the end of a relationship. It can be unrequited love, the death of a loved one, divorce, unmet expectations we have of another. Or other severe emotional conditions. Harvard Medical School recently published an article about a phenomenon known as Broken Heart Syndrome. It is a real condition known as Stress Cardiomyopathy or Takotsubo syndrome, and can be deadly. But most people recover quickly without any long lasting effects. Although it mimics a heart attack, the key difference is that in broken heart syndrome there are typically no blockages in the coronary arteries While dying from a broken heart sounds like something that happens only in romance novels, it can grab the headlines. In 2016, actress Debbie Reynolds unexpectedly died four days after the passing of her daughter, actress Carrie Fisher. Headlines blared, “Can Someone Die of A Broken Heart?” Broken heart syndrome isn’t what the media has painted it to be, but it can be fatal for about 1% of people who experience it. Previously it was thought that it affected mainly women over the age of 50, but a recent study by the New England Journal of Medicine indicates a marked increase in the percentage of men affected as well. Researchers attribute this to the likelihood of, at some point beyond mid-life, the response to stress can weaken or stun the heart. An ultrasound (echocardiogram) of the heart can show how well the heart is contracting and whether the heart has taken on what has been officially termed as the Takotsubo shape. Your heart suddenly changes shape and weakens. While older women are the most likely to develop broken heart syndrome they also have the best chances of recovery. Men and younger people are less likely…
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