Want to enjoy life more? Put down the remote, back away from the television—and do something where you’re a participant, not an observer.
Adam M. Grossman is the founder of Mayport, a fixed-fee wealth management firm. Sign up for Adam's Daily Ideas email, follow him on X @AdamMGrossman and check out his earlier articles.NO. 50: WE SHOULD strive to raise financially responsible children. If our kids grow up to make foolish financial mistakes, we’ll likely ride to the rescue—and their problems will be ours.
DRAW UP A LETTER of last instructions—and tell your family where it’s located. This isn’t a legally binding document. Rather, think of it as a roadmap to your estate. You might list financial accounts, who should get personal possessions, what sort of funeral you want, where you keep usernames and passwords, and any final thoughts you have for your heirs.
NO. 90: HOME improvements are money losers. Yes, homes typically climb in price over time. But the only sure source of appreciation is the land. The house itself deteriorates and requires hefty expenditures just to maintain its value. Indeed, if you remodel your home, you might recoup just 50% to 90% of the money—and that assumes you sell within a year.
MORAL HAZARD. When we know someone else will pick up much or all of the financial tab, it’ll often change our behavior. For instance, those with health insurance are quicker to seek medical help, while those with long-term-care insurance are more inclined to enter nursing homes. The downside of this moral hazard: It means insurance costs more.
NO. 50: WE SHOULD strive to raise financially responsible children. If our kids grow up to make foolish financial mistakes, we’ll likely ride to the rescue—and their problems will be ours.
WHEN I CLAIMED SOCIAL Security benefits, I had no idea how much there was to know—and how much I didn’t know. Bear in mind that the Social Security website didn’t exist until the late 1990s, and back then only minimal services were accessible through the site. In addition, most people didn’t fully appreciate the advantages of delaying benefits.
In my naïveté, I thought I would go to my local Social Security office to find out what options were available for claiming,
I recently read – again – that 401k plans are a scam. You can’t save enough, you can lose money, etc.
Consider these words of wisdom. “It is a scam. When I worked in corporate America I contributed the max amount each year. At the time it was $19k per year. It took 5+ years to hit $100k. When I stopped contributing it barely grew.”
We don’t know the years involved, but nevertheless it’s nonsense. Investing the $19,000 a year even in a GIC would get you over $100,000 in less than five years.
THE PANDEMIC HAS given many folks a taste of what retirement could be like. An abrupt end to work. A loss of social connection. Trying to make ends meet on a much lower income. Many haven’t been happy with the experience.
Worried that your retirement could be similar? Here are eight lessons we can learn from the pandemic, all drawn from my new book, Retirement Heaven or Hell:
1. Retirement can be a shock.
I LIKE TO THINK of myself today as a pretty savvy investor. But I wasn’t savvy when I started out. Despite attending business school and earning a master’s degree in computer science, I knew nothing about managing money or saving for retirement, so I initially made a number of blunders—but also one particularly lucky choice.
My first real job after college was in 1987, as a systems programmer for the University of North Carolina in Chapel Hill.
I’VE BEEN EMPLOYED fulltime for nearly three decades—and retirement is now on the horizon. That means I’m spending more time trying to figure out how best to generate retirement income.
One obstacle: I keep getting bogged down by the seemingly endless choices. Despite knowing how critical these decisions are, I often find myself throwing up my hands in frustration and opting to do nothing. My experience isn’t uncommon. Welcome to the paradox of choice: When faced with a host of options,
ONE OF THE BIGGEST financial mistakes people make is not contributing to their employer’s 401(k). Nearly 20% of Americans are guilty of this. But that’s hardly the only mistake that folks make. As you strive for a comfortable retirement, here are seven other missteps you’ll want to avoid:
1. Poor tax planning. Try to estimate whether your tax bracket will be higher or lower in retirement. If you think it will be higher,
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