I am Chris. My spouse and I are newly retired, and are navigating all the things new retirees do. We live in the Midwest in the same town as our children and grandchildren. I have been a faithful HD reader since the beginning, and enjoy the different perspectives the writers bring to the table. I have learned a lot from them.
Guardianship
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AUTHOR: baldscreen on 12/7/2025
FIRST: Mark Crothers on 12/7/2025 | RECENT: baldscreen on 12/9/2025
Social Security COLA announced this morning.
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AUTHOR: baldscreen on 10/24/2025
FIRST: DAN SMITH on 10/24/2025 | RECENT: eludom on 10/26/2025
It is never too late. By Chris
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AUTHOR: baldscreen on 10/18/2025
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Trips in your “go go” years?
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AUTHOR: baldscreen on 6/10/2025
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Our kids do listen to us.
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AUTHOR: baldscreen on 1/21/2025
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First Year of Retirement
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AUTHOR: baldscreen on 1/5/2025
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Jonathan in Washington Post this am.
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AUTHOR: baldscreen on 8/28/2024
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How do you know when it is time to step in with elderly parents?
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AUTHOR: baldscreen on 6/25/2024
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Thank you, Dick. This is the truth, I agree with you. Chris
Post: Enough with IRMAA complaining
Link to comment from December 29, 2025
Dana, that was a blessing you had the savings to help your daughter I saved a lot of cash the last few years also. Chris
Post: If You Could Rewind 5 Years Before Retirement… What Would You Change?
Link to comment from December 28, 2025
We retired when my Spouse was 64.5 and I was just turning 66. Part of the reason was family: as I have shared on here, my spouse’s brother was in the later stages of ALS. Also, right before he passed, their mother was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s. She had been struggling for a few years and we had known she had some kind of dementia. We also help care for our grandchildren. We had “enough” financially and with the family stress it was definitely a blessing that we could retire. So many people can’t. Chris
Post: What Age Did You Retire—and What Made You Decide It Was Time?
Link to comment from December 27, 2025
We like being debt free in retirement. Our last mortgage was a 10 year like you are planning to get. My spouse made an amortization schedule that was interactive and I added extra payments we made to it from things like bonuses and tax refunds, etc. It was amazing how quickly the principal went down. We paid it off in 3.5 years. I don’t know what your other assets are and if you could do something like this or would want to with unexpected $$, dividends, etc. I am just offering as a thought exercise for you. We were in the last 10 years of working when we did this. Good luck. Chris
Post: Mortgage in Retirement
Link to comment from December 27, 2025
Greg, this is what Spouse and I thought too. Chris
Post: The House Always Wins
Link to comment from December 27, 2025
Good question, Jeff. We are in the time frame you are talking about, since we are just at 2 years into retirement. Covid was part of this time for us, and was unexpected, as it was for everyone. We had thought about doing some remodeling of our house, but weren’t far enough along to get estimates before things shut down. And, as you know, prices have gone up a lot so we are having to save more money for what we would like to do. Chris
Post: If You Could Rewind 5 Years Before Retirement… What Would You Change?
Link to comment from December 27, 2025
Thanks, Dennis, I appreciate your kind words. Chris
Post: Someday Is Here
Link to comment from December 24, 2025
Thank you, Mark. Good reminder to all of us. Chris
Post: When a Debt-Free Christmas Goes Wrong
Link to comment from December 24, 2025
Thank you so much for this, Dennis. I am in the middle of feeling like you did when you were taking care of your mom, it helped to know I am not alone. I feel sad retirement is not going like I thought it would. The papers for guardianship of Spouse’s mom were filed yesterday. I hope we will get to a place where we can have adventures like you and Rachel. Merry Christmas to you both. Chris
Post: Someday Is Here
Link to comment from December 24, 2025
We did the same. Chris
Post: Becoming A “Bad Investor”
Link to comment from December 17, 2025