I suspect that the only ones that regret children are the ones where the children don’t turn out well. If the children do turn out well, I can’t imagine anyone exchanging them for more money.
What I’d like to know is why those who can afford children agonize over affording (they are financially stable enough and/or upwardly mobile) to have them and those who can’t have no problem having them in abundance…..
Appears that this could have been a successful merger if not for the initial overpayment (a bid if I admit). It made a lot of sense, not two completely different companies. A lot of back-office savings. But of course, all the bidders knew this. The smart ones bowed out when the price when too high. The "winner" not realizing they doomed what was a good idea.
I suspect that most on this forum are overfunded for retirement and have, or should have, no concerns even if economy gets worse. Also, any planner worth their salt would have automatic contingency plans for negative economic events (I change nothing unless the bad economic events are elongated, go on for years). Most likely have 3-5 years of guaranteed income (many guaranteed income for life). So for most it is “smile and wave.” My concerns are more for my kids, whom are much more vulnerable to economic events.
Where did you get the advice "A sensible recommendation is to invest 20% to 50% in foreign markets."? 20-30% is a more common recommendation, certainly nothing near 50%. As far as where to hold foreign stocks, it is likely what the best place to keep it is where it will be the simplest and easiest to manage (rebalancing, etc.) in your portfolio. Albeit, the general recommendation is in taxable brokerage accounts so you can claim the foreign tax credits.
AI is a great tool, imperfect, but what source is? Generally have to question any source of info, even a map gets outdated. Took a course in how to use AI, how to improve inquiries, etc. Helped. Sometimes useful to as AI for its references/source of info to check accuracy.
You “lost” $8k in hindsight. Could have easily had a 10 year market downturn and you could have come out ahead with the early payoff. Yes, statistically, you made the wrong decision. But the not paying off option included a degree of risk. Due to the unusually long bull market, the risk of the market is a distant memory. Many blogs would have a whole different outlook if we were coming off a long downturn or even a normal market.
The best argument for gold is as insurance against currency debasement, but even in that case, you'd likely be better of with a stash of booze, guns, food stores, and chickens.... If you have to claim against this insurance policy, you will likely have bigger, basic survival, problems to deal with. The guy with the guns is going to take your gold and whatever else you have....
"A Budget" is just a tool and worthless on its own. But most of the time when someone is "on a budget" or "budgeting" they are describing the budget as a tool AND all that goes with budgeting to make it useful. Just like when I say I use a financial calculator. The assumption is that I am both using the tool (calculator) along with the proper inputs and assumptions to make the tool useful. The two items, the tool itself and implementing the tool, go together. So stating a tool is useless on its own is correct, but somewhat pointless.
Setting aside a small percentage of funds annually for education/skills improvement, etc. would be a worthy investment for any young person. Investing in yourself.
Most withdraws take a few days to process, so you're ok unless they are going to hold you hostage for a few days...
A bigger, more likely scam, is family/other with some amount of financial control over your accounts, taking your funds when you are elderly.
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I suspect that the only ones that regret children are the ones where the children don’t turn out well. If the children do turn out well, I can’t imagine anyone exchanging them for more money. What I’d like to know is why those who can afford children agonize over affording (they are financially stable enough and/or upwardly mobile) to have them and those who can’t have no problem having them in abundance…..
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Link to comment from April 12, 2026
Appears that this could have been a successful merger if not for the initial overpayment (a bid if I admit). It made a lot of sense, not two completely different companies. A lot of back-office savings. But of course, all the bidders knew this. The smart ones bowed out when the price when too high. The "winner" not realizing they doomed what was a good idea.
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I suspect that most on this forum are overfunded for retirement and have, or should have, no concerns even if economy gets worse. Also, any planner worth their salt would have automatic contingency plans for negative economic events (I change nothing unless the bad economic events are elongated, go on for years). Most likely have 3-5 years of guaranteed income (many guaranteed income for life). So for most it is “smile and wave.” My concerns are more for my kids, whom are much more vulnerable to economic events.
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Link to comment from March 28, 2026
Where did you get the advice "A sensible recommendation is to invest 20% to 50% in foreign markets."? 20-30% is a more common recommendation, certainly nothing near 50%. As far as where to hold foreign stocks, it is likely what the best place to keep it is where it will be the simplest and easiest to manage (rebalancing, etc.) in your portfolio. Albeit, the general recommendation is in taxable brokerage accounts so you can claim the foreign tax credits.
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Link to comment from February 21, 2026
AI is a great tool, imperfect, but what source is? Generally have to question any source of info, even a map gets outdated. Took a course in how to use AI, how to improve inquiries, etc. Helped. Sometimes useful to as AI for its references/source of info to check accuracy.
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You “lost” $8k in hindsight. Could have easily had a 10 year market downturn and you could have come out ahead with the early payoff. Yes, statistically, you made the wrong decision. But the not paying off option included a degree of risk. Due to the unusually long bull market, the risk of the market is a distant memory. Many blogs would have a whole different outlook if we were coming off a long downturn or even a normal market.
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Link to comment from January 24, 2026
The best argument for gold is as insurance against currency debasement, but even in that case, you'd likely be better of with a stash of booze, guns, food stores, and chickens.... If you have to claim against this insurance policy, you will likely have bigger, basic survival, problems to deal with. The guy with the guns is going to take your gold and whatever else you have....
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Link to comment from January 10, 2026
"A Budget" is just a tool and worthless on its own. But most of the time when someone is "on a budget" or "budgeting" they are describing the budget as a tool AND all that goes with budgeting to make it useful. Just like when I say I use a financial calculator. The assumption is that I am both using the tool (calculator) along with the proper inputs and assumptions to make the tool useful. The two items, the tool itself and implementing the tool, go together. So stating a tool is useless on its own is correct, but somewhat pointless.
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Link to comment from January 4, 2026
Setting aside a small percentage of funds annually for education/skills improvement, etc. would be a worthy investment for any young person. Investing in yourself.
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Most withdraws take a few days to process, so you're ok unless they are going to hold you hostage for a few days... A bigger, more likely scam, is family/other with some amount of financial control over your accounts, taking your funds when you are elderly.
Post: Can we be completely safe?
Link to comment from December 20, 2025