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MY WIFE AND I ARE going to New York City for a vacation. One reason we chose New York: We wouldn’t have to deal with inflated rental car prices. We can walk and use public transportation to get where we want to go. Also, it’s just a fun place to visit.
Trouble is, I’ve been suffering from foot pain and a bum shoulder. The past few months, I’ve been trying to stay off my feet to give my foot a chance to heal, knowing we have this trip planned. Meanwhile, I went to physical therapy for my shoulder and it’s much better, so that shouldn’t be a problem. With my shoulder almost pain-free, I should be able to put our carry-on bags in the plane’s overhead compartment without a problem.
My foot, however, could make or break this trip. I know we’re going to be walking a lot. My wife and I went to Montreal three years ago and we walked more than 20,000 steps a day. We probably won’t walk that much on this trip. Still, how much I can walk is an open question.
When I was younger, I remember going for walks with my father when he was retired. While we were walking, I would sometimes say to myself, “I’ll still be running when I’m his age.” Well, I’m now his age and running is the last thing on my mind.
The best time to take a trip like this would have been when we were younger and still working. In fact, that’s usually the best time to travel almost anywhere. Many people put off traveling until they’re retired, thinking that’ll be the best time. Yes, you have more time and money. But the problem is, you’re gambling that your health will hold up.
That’s what’s happening to me. I have the time and money to make this trip. But am I healthy enough? I’ll soon find out.
I’ve had frozen shoulder twice (once in each shoulder), and it hurts like hell and I’m highly motivated to never have it relapse. My days of putting something heavy into an overhead compartment of an airplane are over. And I don’t want my husband doing it, either—he’s got a cranky back. We check our bags unless it’s a very short trip.
Enjoy!
Uber’s are not super expensive and may be a nice indulgence for you when your feet have had enough. Also, RPh speaking….when you are in chronic pain, don’t underestimate the power of ibuprofen to improve your overall enjoyment of the day (assuming you do not have any contraindications regarding concomitant medications and personal health.)
Good luck!
Good luck! Could you ride a bike instead of walking? I believe NYC has a bike share program. Also, try to make sure your hotel is close to a bus stop or subway station. When flying I check one small bag and can then get my carry-on under the seat in front of me, so no need to access the overhead compartments.
I took early retirement at 53 precisely because I wanted to travel before I got too decrepit. I heard too many stories like yours. I had fifteen really good years before I came down with a variant of rheumatoid arthritis and am so glad I stopped working when I did.
Good luck Dennis. Plan your days, use public transportation, build in rest periods as needed. People watching from a river side cafe or a park is great fun.
Two years ago we went to Rome just as my right knee flared up (it would be replaced 4 month after we got home). I limped my way through a walking tour of Pompeii by taking my time and finding resting spots along the way. My wife was VERY patient and supportive. Although I missed a lot, we still had a great trip.
Walking the streets of Pompeii is not easy even with two good knees.
Spot on Dennis. I can attest to it all. My wife and I started traveling the year before I retired and stopped only because of covid, but because we are now 78 and 82 and my wife suffers from back problems I fear our travel days, at least overseas, may be over, but I still have hope. My wife wants to go back to Italy for the fifth time and Iceland is on my bucket list. We still have plans for road trips though.
We did make it to 45 countries and had some amazing experiences.
One thing I disagree with though, New York City. Can’t stand the place and avoid it at all costs even though outside of rush hour we could be in Times Square in about 30 minutes from our home in Jersey. My wife on the other hand likes Broadway plays so in the past we compromised.
We have gone to see several plays – including Jersey Boys – in London😎
Mr. Quinn – Sure your future trips may be more limited but that doesn’t mean you’re out of options. While personally we’re not ready for them yet, I understand barge trips on many of the rivers in Europe are outstanding or perhaps a guided trip to Iceland (of course including transportation around the island might make it easier for your wife). Perhaps you’re considering giving up on overseas travel too soon.
Actually we have done all the rivers in Europe and Russia. I’m thinking of hiring a personal guide and car for Iceland. That might work.
Walk as much as you can and use public transportation or taxis when your feet give out. Enjoy your trip.