Family

WHEN MY YOUNGER brother Jonathan died, I thought I knew who he was.
After all, we had shared a childhood in England, years together at boarding school, family adventures in Bangladesh, and more than six decades as brothers. I knew the journalist the world admired, the devoted husband and father, and the man whose words quietly helped millions of readers live richer lives, not simply financially, but personally as well.
I was wrong.
Over the past several months,

“Hi. Could I borrow $5000? Only if you have it available from a cash source (don’t want to cause taxes for you). We depleted our HSA with all the medical expenses in the last year and still have bills to pay. I would need to start selling off stock and mutual funds at this point and pay the taxes on the earnings.”
I told him I would not loan him the money, but I would send the $5,000 immediately which I did.

FOR MUCH OF THE seventeenth and eighteenth centuries, European monarchs used a financial instrument known as a tontine to help finance their governments. 
Tontines were first developed in the 1650s by an Italian government worker named Lorenzo Tonti and were similar to annuities: In exchange for a single, lump-sum purchase, tontines offered guaranteed payments for life. But tontines also offered some unique features.
Unlike an annuity, where payments end with the death of the owner,

 
Marks recent post on the cost of his daughter’s upcoming wedding made me think about and remember fondly the 2 weddings we “hosted” (sponsored, bankrolled… not sure what the right term is) now 17 and 12 years in our rear view mirror.
Yes, the costs and add ons were outrageous then but we paid for them, survived and even retired since.
Mark, if you think the wedding is expensive wait until the costs of family social gatherings (including your new in-laws),

DEEP DOWN INSIDE, I want to be the richest person in the graveyard. 
I retired at age 62, confident in our financial plan to survive market fluctuations. We saved over 25% of our income for nearly three decades. Perhaps a bit too much, but we lived well and always had sufficient funds to raise a family, maintain our household, and put our children through postgraduate education.
If anything, our retirement spending level is conservative,

RECENTLY, A FELLOW—let’s call him Tom—contacted me with a distressing story of financial fraud. I’ll describe what happened then review steps you might take to prevent this same sort of thing.
Tom first noticed there might be a problem when he spotted a larger-than-average withdrawal from his checking account. The payee was a 529 college savings plan. But because Tom and his wife—let’s call her Jane—have 529 accounts for their children, the transaction almost went unnoticed.

BOB MADE A very expensive tax mistake. Doctors told Bob that he only has a year to live… What did Bob do?
He decided to gift a house to his only son before passing away. The house is worth $2,000,000 that he bought back in 1970 for $50,000 in an expensive suburb of California.
The son decided to sell the house and paid about $430,000 in federal taxes.
$430,000 that could have been $0 instead…
How?

THE OTHER DAY, WHILE walking to my mailbox, I noticed a summer class schedule for a private gifted youth academy lying on the ground. I assumed it belonged to one of my neighbors, who has elementary-aged children.
Their interest in extra academics didn’t surprise me. Many families move to this area because of its excellent schools. Parents here clearly value education. On any given day, it’s common to hear children practicing the piano or violin as you walk through the neighborhood.

A TOPIC THAT’S been in the news recently is the so-called K-shaped economy. 
Imagine a chart plotting the relative standing over time of those with higher incomes and those with lower incomes. Owing to a strong stock market and rising home values, the shape of the chart for those with higher incomes would extend up and to the right and has been moving increasingly in that direction since Covid.
Folks with lower incomes, on the other hand,

INNOVATION IN THE world of retirement plans is decidedly slow moving. But as of July 4th, investors now have a new savings option known as a Trump account. In short, these are retirement accounts designed specifically for children.
Trump accounts share some similarities with traditional individual retirement accounts (IRAs), but there are also key differences. If you have children, grandchildren, nieces or nephews, this new option may be worth exploring.
Who is eligible for a Trump account?

It’s been almost 58 years since my parents decided to immigrate to the U.S. for a better future for me. That’s the reason they gave as to why they uprooted our  lives in Athens, Greece.  I did not like their decision and for years afterward I let them  know that I preferred my life in Greece.  My parents knew what I didn’t know which was that America was a land of opportunity and I could educate myself and eventually have a better standard of living than in Greece.

I DON’T HAVE MANY regrets in life. But there is one conversation with my mother that I wish I had never had. It was about moving her into an assisted living facility. She was in her 90s, and I thought it would be best for both of us.
My mother would receive better care, and I could take much-needed breaks. She could even keep her house and spend time there when I was with her.
It seemed like a middle-of-the-road approach to providing care.

At ten years old, my twin brother and I stood in a dark hallway trying not to cry.
The suitcases had already been taken from the car. Around us stood other families saying goodbye to children far too young to understand why they were being left behind. Then suddenly it was our turn.
Two frightened boys clinging to their mother, tears streaming down our faces as we watched home disappear behind us.
“An ominous dark hallway,


I have on occasion criticized politicians and/or people of wealth for not remembering where they came from. Other times I have read articles enumerating retirement account balances by age, and commented negatively about young people’s failure to prepare for their future.
There is validity to feeling that way to a certain extent, still, in doing so we may be denying our own past. While I’m proud to have achieved a two comma net worth, that didn’t happen until sometime in our 7th decade of life,

Some of us can choose our path through school and career. But life often has other plans. It did for my mom. As Mother’s Day approaches, I got to thinking of her story.
Mom was one of nine siblings. She was the third youngest, but she was old enough to draw the short straw when her pharmacist father fell ill and died as she was coming of age.
With her older siblings off at school or busy establishing careers,