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    • I think one of the things that we are grateful for as a family is that we are still close and we talk to each other, maybe not as often as we would like, but we do talk!!! We lost our Dad very suddenly and I think we all wish we had that last chat just a day or two from his sudden passing but alas for me it was two weeks.

      Post: Four Thoughts

      Link to comment from March 1, 2025

    • After selling the company that I owned with my twin brother I was more than ready to leave the workforce but I found the three year transition into retirement helpful in helping decide what more I could do to fill my time aside from riding my bike for countless hours. Photography was a hobby of mine when I was younger and I took this up again. Volunteering with watershed organizations is an important part of my retirement life and it fulfills many of my needs from interacting with others to time alone in nature, feeling I am giving back to Mother Nature and society, etc. If I grow tired of one thing then I find something to fill its space. I find my retirement is an evolving process, that it’s fluid and each day is never really the same which is a good thing.

      Post: Before You Quit

      Link to comment from October 26, 2024

    • I worked hard to accumulate sufficient funds for retirement and so this has taken away a source of worry but with that said some of the happiest people I know have very little money.

      Post: On the Clock

      Link to comment from August 17, 2024

    • Jonathan, I remember chatting with our aunt many years ago and she asked me if I was happy. I told her, feeling somewhat uncertain, that I thought I was to which she replied that one is never truly happy, a statement which made me think more deeply into what does happiness look like to me. As many HD readers know it’s a subject you have written about frequently. The answer, which at times felt intangible and out of reach, has become more clear as I get older. Each individual has their own idea of happiness and it’s one that you discover on your own. I find it irritating when told that I should do this or that as if that person knows what will make me happy! I’ve always known that it doesn’t come from material goods and having all the money in the world. For me happiness comes from being home, spending time with family and friends, walking in nature, volunteering, helping others, etc. and putting aside as best I can anxieties that use to keep me awake at night. All quite simple things that have little to do with money or material goods and that I think will find my days fulfilled. Nothing too complicated, the way it should be.

      Post: On the Clock

      Link to comment from August 17, 2024

    • Yes he is.

      Post: Unasked Questions

      Link to comment from August 3, 2024

    • Jonathan, even before your diagnosis I had already looked ahead to the inevitable, whenever that time might be, and I wanted to ensure that all was in order for whoever might be handling my estate. Just this past week Larry (my husband) and I had our wills updated along with new POAs and health directives. Our estate attorney is young and so with any luck will be around to help guide Larry with how to proceed should I be the first to go. I have decluttered my life and I would like to think it will be smooth sailing for Larry. We are fortunate to have a mother who is similarly in tune to ensuring all her documents are in order. This is not the case with my father-in-law who is leaving us with a financial mess and stubbornly refuses to accept personal responsibility for his actions. One thing we can do as we get older is to realize the strain that you can put on your children and caregivers when you leave them with a financial and estate disaster that needs to be managed as we enter into old age, dementia and beyond. With all that said I want to express my admiration for you with how you have managed your diagnosis. Many of us can only hope that we have the same noble and brave approach.

      Post: Unasked Questions

      Link to comment from August 3, 2024

    • Since entering retirement I have tracked my monthly expenses, even giving myself a budget to keep to for each month. I have never gone over budget! I also keep an annual budget for the big ticket items such as estimate federal and state taxes. All of this is unnecessary but I feel compelled to do so. Perhaps it gives me some sense of self-control, to ensure that I am not spending wildly, as if I would!

      Post: Where It Goes

      Link to comment from April 13, 2024

    • There’s a lot to be said for a quiet and simple life and I find this more important as I get older. Instead of cluttering my mind, I have been trying to keep it less so. My daily schedule is enough to keep me occupied and in touch. This helps reduce my anxiety something that my family is prone to. Watching my mother as she navigates the later years of life and seeing how my father managed his when he was alive is also helping me prepare for what lies ahead. Thank you for sharing your story Kristine.

      Post: A Quiet Life

      Link to comment from March 23, 2024

    • Robert, thank you for sharing your story! At least you’re in a country where I have found the cost of living to be much lower than in the USA. I am heading to Mexico next month, to Ixtapaluca and San Francisco Cuautla. We will spend a couple of days in Oaxtepec, close to Cuernavaca.

      Post: For the Fun of It

      Link to comment from February 21, 2024

    • I have thought of how I will be remembered after I am gone. Will I be remembered for all of the volunteer hours that I put in picking up litter, encouraging neighbours to plant trees, beautifying my community, etc? Some have told me that I inspired them to volunteer but I’m not sure if that inspiration will continue after I have passed. Over the past 25 years I have become close to several Mexican families. The husbands, brothers, sons, and cousins from these families worked with me at my landscape company. My company went through the bureaucratic hurdles to get them work visas. After I sold the company I have remained close to some of the families and I help them financially each year. I would like to think that after I am gone that my memory will remain with the families, that in a small way I made their lives better. For me this would be the greatest legacy of all.

      Post: Forget Me Not

      Link to comment from February 19, 2024

    Articles

    Things I’ve Picked Up

    Nicholas Clements   |  Jan 31, 2024

    IT’S BEEN MORE THAN 10 years since my retirement journey began at age 52. For almost 30 years, I’d worked hard, especially the last two decades, when my twin brother and I owned a landscaping company. Vacations were few and far between, and even on vacation I was always on call.
    I was burned out and ready for a new chapter. Going into retirement, I was well-prepared financially. But how I’d fill my days was something of a mystery.

    Wheeling Dealing

    Nicholas Clements   |  Feb 15, 2018

    CAR BUYING CAN BE overwhelming, which partly explains why we held onto our 2002 Toyota RAV for as long as we did. When the time came to part ways, we needed to decide whether the replacement would be new or used, how much we were prepared to pay, the features we wanted and what vehicle would meet all our criteria.
    These were relatively easy tasks. While I realized that purchasing a used vehicle made more sense financially,

    Odd Couple

    Nicholas Clements   |  Dec 5, 2017

    THEY SAY OPPOSITES attract. In many ways, this is true of my husband and me. When we met, I was very frugal. My husband was on the other end of the spending spectrum. But we’re still together 21 years later—and we have managed to make this work in a way that’s been good for both of us.
    We both well remember that first visit to the grocery store. Before we moved in together, I would go down the aisles with coupons in hand,

    Hunting Happiness

    Nicholas Clements   |  Oct 3, 2017

    I HAVE NEVER BEEN under the illusion that happiness was a simple matter of more money and more material goods. But I did question where happiness could be found.
    When I was young, I saw poverty at its most extreme in newly formed Bangladesh, where my family lived for four years during the 1970s. People struggled each day to stay alive and were lucky to find food and shelter.
    As an adult traveling through Mexico,

    Help Wanted

    Nicholas Clements   |  Sep 13, 2017

    IN THE EARLY YEARS of the landscape maintenance company that I owned with my twin brother, we would hire workers locally—both American and Latino. But each year, we struggled to find a sufficient number of willing and able workers.
    It wasn’t until several years into running the company that I heard about the H-2B visa nonimmigrant program. The program allows companies to bring in foreign workers for as long as nine months. I saw this program as a way to provide our company with the workers we needed.

    On Our Own

    Nicholas Clements   |  Aug 22, 2017

    IT ALL BEGAN WITH an afternoon phone call between Andrew, my twin brother, and me. I made an off-the-cuff comment about starting our own company. For the previous eight years, both of us had worked at a large lawn care company and then, for a few brief months, at a medium-sized landscaper.
    Neither of us doubted we would be successful. But we were taking a large financial risk: Starting our own company meant leaving the security of a regular paycheck,

    Growing Up (III)

    Nicholas Clements   |  Aug 1, 2017

    I WAS LESS THAN 10 years old when I decided that I wanted to earn some extra cash over and above my weekly allowance. I took day-old sections from the Washington Post and went door-to-door in my neighborhood, selling each section for a dime. Not many fell for it, but there was a couple who were willing to hand over a dime to a young boy looking to supplement his allowance.
    I doubt that I earned much from this endeavor.

    Less Green

    Nicholas Clements   |  Jul 21, 2017

    I WAS STAYING on the outskirts of Mexico City, with no internet access. But I had my satellite radio and I was listening to CNBC. The reception wasn’t good, but the news was even worse. While bad financial news had been pouring in from every corner of the globe for months, it seemed matters had suddenly got much worse. It was September 2008.
    The global financial crisis affected many companies, big and small, and the commercial landscaping company that my twin brother and I owned was no exception. 

    Not a Good Time

    Nicholas Clements   |  Jun 27, 2017

    IT WAS APRIL 29, 2009. My 12-hour workday had already begun when, at about 4:30 a.m., I received the call from Jonathan, my younger brother. He never calls at that hour. In fact, we never phone without first texting each other to determine the best time to talk. I sensed bad news and sure enough it was. Our father had been killed 36 hours earlier while riding his bicycle. In the months that followed,

    Opening My Wallet

    Nicholas Clements   |  Jun 1, 2017

    SPENDING DIDN’T always come easy to me. As a child, I had a small weekly allowance, the spending of which I carefully controlled. In boarding school, a treat for me was a Mars bar from the school “tuck shop”—a British term for a small candy store.
    As I entered my mid-teens and started to earn my own money, more often than not it went into my savings account. Only when I turned 16, and had my first car,

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