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Not Retired, Just Re-Directed

I’m typing this early in the morning from my cousin’s lovely little courtyard garden in London. Everyone is still sleeping, and it’s a beautiful, sunny start to the day, perfect for contemplating and drinking coffee. The thought is playing through my mind: although my life is now different, I don’t feel “retired.”

My days are certainly different and definitely more enjoyable than when I was working, but I still have that sense of agency and direction that filled my time prior to retirement. I assume it’s because I’ve shed one set of metaphorical clothing and donned another set of comfy leisure clothes, more suited to my new reality of personal choice rather than professional necessity.

Perhaps, although I’m the new guy on the retirement block, that’s the answer to this question: retirement shouldn’t be an ending, but a continuation of your life journey at a more sedate pace, focused on yourself and your loved ones. With that little thought in mind, I may get ready for a pleasant retirement day tubing through London to the Natural History Museum for a few hours of experiencing the joys of London. I hope you, too, have a lovely, intentional retirement morning, because we only have this one shot at life. Enjoy.

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G W
1 year ago

Spot on. “Go where you wanna go. Do what you wanna do.” – Mama’s & Papa’s.

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Richard Hayman
1 year ago

Retirement to me means that I am in total control of how I spend my time.

DrLefty
1 year ago

Honestly, also being a newbie, I don’t think I’ve completely made the mental transition yet. I’m still doing stuff (work stuff, church stuff), so I’m not completely footloose or fancy free. But I just caught myself today feeling a bit guilty that I’ve moved slowly this week and haven’t gotten as much done as I could have.

It’s going to take me a minute to move past the sense of urgency and that time is getting away from me. It’s been my way of life for so long.

David Lancaster
1 year ago
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”But I just caught myself today feeling a bit guilty that I’ve moved slowly this week and haven’t gotten as much done as I could have.”

Remember now that you are retired time is on your side,

mytimetotravel
1 year ago

Time is never on your side. Every day you get older, every year you get frailer. However, when you’re retired, you have more say over what to do with your time. As a new retiree Dana can sit back and relax while she figures out wh