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It’s now been 18 months since I retired from my primary career as an electrical engineer. In a previous post, I talked about financial moves I’ve made since retiring. What other changes in my life have occurred since retiring from full-time work? Here are a few:
Parks and Recreation. For over three decades, my opportunity to enjoy the beautiful Pennsylvania autumn season was limited. As an engineer at a nuclear power plant, I was required to support refueling outages every two years for each reactor. Since we had two reactors at my site, one reactor was shut down each year. Because the replacement cost of electricity is lower in the fall than summer, these outages were scheduled in September or October. Typically, I would have to work 60 or 70-hour weeks during an outage. Life outside of work had to be pared down to the bare essentials.
My outage days are behind me. Although I’m still working part-time in the industry, I have no interest in working crazy hours or night shifts. I’m now able to enjoy the fall.
Lancaster County Central Park is only a few miles from my house. It’s a large park, covering 544 acres. That’s almost two-thirds the size of Central Park in New York City. Last September and October, one of my favorite activities was exploring the nooks and crannies of this park while enjoying an almost unprecedented string of sunny, beautiful autumn days. There are several other parks and nature preserves within a three-mile radius of my home.
I recently read the book Successful Aging by Daniel Levitin. A key takeaway for me is that walking in nature is one of the very best things you can do for your aging brain and body. I’m blessed to have so many varied terrains so close by to choose from. It’s good to know that the novelty of walking on a crooked path is helping to keep my brain young.
Retiree Work. I’ve found post-retirement employment has an entirely different flavor than work in my primary career. The layer of stress I used to experience as a result of being responsible for the outcome of a complex project is completely gone. Instead, I can simply focus on the work assigned to me, with a goal of making life easier for my overburdened clients. The expressions of gratitude I’ve received for my efforts mean a lot to me. Another benefit of this work life phase is that I can and do turn down assignments that I judge not to be a good fit.
I’ve never experienced or observed age discrimination in my industry. In fact, many of my retired colleagues are being lured back into post-retirement employment as the electric power industry strains under numerous demands. We live in interesting times.
Volunteering with Kids. I’ve always enjoyed children. One of my former bosses recruited me to help out with a school program—Club for short—held at his church Thursday mornings during the school year. There was a need for more male volunteers. Quickly, I got drafted to be one of the bus riders, making two round trips between the church and the local public elementary school each Thursday.
The old yellow bus is packed with around 50 students in grades three through five. These kids have their parents’ permission to be released from class to come to the church for a lively Bible program. The kids are happy about their weekly escape from school, but that bus can sure get loud with their raucous singing and so forth. My Apple watch often flashes loud noise warnings as my ears approach the threshold of pain.
One of the boys I work with has selective mutism and may be autistic. He will talk a bit with other kids, but not to me or any other adult—with the exception of his family. He’s quite sharp, though. When I give him a pencil and paper, his strong memory is evident. He’s indicated he likes math, so that’s something I bring up from time to time. When I recently asked him about his math class, he wrote out a long multiplication problem and started solving it.
He seemed to be having a good time at the program, but I couldn’t know for sure what he was thinking. Last week as I was dropping off the kids at their school cafeteria, a lady came up and started talking to me about this young man. I realized it was his mother. She works in the cafeteria and her son must have described me to her. She told me how he goes on and on at home talking about what he’s learning at Club. I was a little stunned to hear that. Learning from his mom how much he enjoys Club made my day. I was planning on not returning as a volunteer next year, but after that encounter I may be back.
Ken, your work with kids is inspiring – thank you for sharing. I want to volunteer as a reading tutor to kids like Jeff.
Thanks Cheryl. I think that tutoring reading is a terrific volunteer activity.
Ken, Back in the mid 1990’s I enjoyed being a part of Junior Achievement at my local high school. In the early 2000’s I was part of Big Brothers/Big Sisters for three school years. I had three different young boys as my “littles.” All three were hispanic males with single mothers.
Invariably, some time during the school year I would get a call or a note from the boy’s mothers thanking me for being a “Big.”
I retired in January 2024, and I haven’t. yet gotten involved in my new community, but your post reminds me that even at 74, I still have a lot to give. I will look into that in Late August, when school starts up again. Reading tutors areaways in demand. I could certainly be a bus rider as well.
Congrats on the happy retirement.
Kevin, just saw your comment now. I’ve never done Big Brothers but it sounds like a great program that fills a real need. I’m sure you appreciated being appreciated and yes, you still have a lot to give. Thanks for chiming in.
Ken, the life you describe is much like the way I envision mine over the next few years—a mix of work, play and charity. Thanks for the encouragement.
Thanks Ed. I’ve found the ratios of the mix change every season, or even more often than that. Every month in retirement has seemed unique.
Ken – Congrats. My commitment is far less rigorous, but I volunteer as a reading tutor in a local elementary school. It’s only one day a week, and over an hour I (and other tutors) meet with kids who are lagging behind in reading skills. Usually each kid will see two tutors in a week. Last year just before school was over for the year, there was a short celebration of all tutors and students in the program. When the students arrived, one of “my kids” immediately sat with me and pulled out a self-written note of thanks. You never know when you’re going to receive one of those feel-good rewards. 🙂
Very cool Jeff. Well done.
Jeff-great story, valuable service, and what a super reward. Your commitment is certainly not less rigorous than mine….
Ken, I love what you’ve done with young boy. You’re legacy will live on in that boy’s heart.
Nice story Ken. Jonathan already captured my thoughts about your volnteer work – well done.
PA has many great parks. Despite living there for 6 decades, I still have some on my bucket list. You likely have hit some of these, but, in no particular order – Ricketts Glen, Ohopyle, PA Grand Canyon, Raystown lake, Ringing Rock, … Vicky and I are planning a trip to Cleveland to see a good friend. Along the way we are thinking of taking a day or two to stop at the Flight 93 Memorial and Museum, Falling Water, and the PA-MD-WV tripoint. So many choices!!
Rick – I recently read that Fallingwater is undergoing repairs. Investigate to determine if you can do and see what you hope.
Jeff, thanks – I saw that also. Our plans are very tentative at present. The trip could wait till the fall.
Thanks Rick. When the Covid-19 pandemic hit, we scaled back our vacation plans and stayed in state. That was when I started realizing how many great destinations are in PA, many of which I’d never visited. We’ve been to all the spots you mention with the exception of Ringing Rock. Maybe we can check that one out on our way to Delaware Water Gap.
If you’re going to the Delaware Water Gap, stop in Milford, Pa., for lunch and even consider staying at the Hotel Fauchere. Also, cross the river into New Jersey and head to High Point State Park, which is the highest point in the state and has great views.
Jonathan, thanks for the recommendations. Hotel Fauchere definitely looks like our kind of place. With all these great suggestions in the comments, a Cutler trip to DWG and Milford is starting to look like a near certainty in 2025.
Two other suggestions while you’re in the area: 1) visit Dingmans Falls; and 2) drive north of Port Jervis on the NJ side of the Delaware, going past the Hawks Nest Lookout. The beautiful twisting road has apparently been used to shoot a number of car commercials.
Just had a chance to check these suggestions out. They both look like worthy contenders, depending on how long our trip lasts. I wonder how Hawks Nest compares with Hyner View, which is the most spectacular PA overlook I’ve seen to date.
Jonathan, Thanks – I’m going to borrow this suggestion. We’ve been meaning to go to High Point and surrounds. For Ken, a stop in Jim Thorpe, PA on the way to the Gap would be fun.
Jim Thorpe-another PA gem. We’ve been there, but it’s been at least 20 years.
This fall you’re going to have to make it up into the Poconos to the Delaware Water Gap National Recreational Area. It’s two hours from Lancaster.
David, that’s definitely on our radar. We’ve spent a couple of weekends in Stroudsburg, but never made it to DWG. Maybe this summer.
We stopped in Stroudsburg once on the way from NH to visit my aunt in Lititz when we had little ones. It looked like a cute town.
We discovered DWG when we lived in Pottstown PA and were driving back to NH on a regular basis. We were driving Pa turnpike to Jersey turnpike, to Garden State Parkway. My aunt told us about going through DWG as trucks are not allowed, and you don’t have to deal with the traffic in NJ. Sorry NJ HDers
We often never know the impact we have on others — sometimes it seems like folks aren’t even listening — and yet, as your last paragraph makes clear, the impact is often profound.