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Best method for buying home for permanently disabled daughter (SSI and ABLE account)

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AUTHOR: Dianne Baumert-Moyik on 5/13/2026

My husband and I are embarking on an effort to identify a small home to purchase nearby so his adopted Latvian daughter (my stepdaughter) may begin living independently at 33 years old. She has permanent cognitive disabilities that impact her attention and executive functioning but she has learned how to drive and remains gainfully employed part time.

We set her up with an ABLE account via ABLE United here in Florida so that she can work and save beyond the Social Security Supplemental Security Income (SSI) cap of $2,000 in assets. She paid for her grandpa’s car after he made the decision to stop driving at 92 and a golf cart for working at the ranch near our home. Today she has $11,000 saved and is quite proud of that!

She currently earns about $11,000 annually working (pre-tax on 1099) and coupled with her SSI benefit, is well below the AMI income threshold of $51,840 (family of 1) to be able to afford a mortgage on her own. Thankfully, the ABLE account permits her to cover the mortgage, utilities, property taxes, repairs as qualified disability expenses (QDE).

I am looking for guidance on how best to approach a home purchase and what type of mortgage makes sense. We plan to help her with a downpayment and will be able to cover the gap between what she is earning and the cost to operate the home monthly and annually (using contributions to the ABLE account).

I’d appreciate any advice from this HD community about how to approach this effort to avoid any pitfalls and maximize the effort for Alyssa’s greatest benefit. If all goes well, she will live in the home for the rest of her life supported by her Special Needs Trust after we are gone from this wonderful earth. Thank you all.

Dianne

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Dan Smith
4 hours ago

Dianne, there’s more that I don’t know about special needs planning, than things that I do know, so I’m afraid I have nothing constructive to add to the conversation. I do want to commend you  on all steps you have taken on your step-daughters behalf. 
Today’s special needs community is living longer than ever before, so it’s important for parents to plan for a future when they are no longer able to help their special needs children. I am familiar with special needs trusts, but had to look up ABLE accounts. They are a wonderful tool for special needs planning. 
Thanks for educating me.

Nick Politakis
8 hours ago

thanks for your post, Dianne. It’s such a wonderful thing you and your husband are doing. I have nothing to add in terms of answering your question but I’d like to ask a question. Why do you need to buy her a house? Why don’t you rent?

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