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I’ve written two recent posts about our decision to buy a new (to us) home and sell our condo. I appreciate all the comments and well-wishes I’ve received, but I’ve decided to be candid about one aspect of this big “little” move: It’s financially stressful at a period of life where that might not seem to be…prudent.
First, the nuts-and-bolts. The home we bought is more expensive than the one we’re selling (a little more than 50% higher if you go by both sales prices). We’re replacing a 3% mortgage we obtained in 2020 with one in the low 6%. We’re also taking on expenses for yard care, pest control, and other ongoing maintenance issues that come with buying an older house. And, significantly, we’re planning a substantial renovation (kitchen and master bath) almost immediately. Offsetting this somewhat is that we’re getting rid of $750/month of HOA dues and that our property tax increase will be capped because of California’s laws protecting seniors from major jumps when they sell/buy and move. In all, our monthly housing payment (just mortgage/taxes/insurance) will be about double what it is now.
So how are we going to manage all of this? I’ll first talk about the purchase and remodeling costs and then about the ongoing expenses.
Purchase and Remodel: We put 20% down on the home we bought. To come up with this rather sizable chunk of money, we took cash out of our high-yield savings accounts and maxed out our HELOC on our condo. When our condo sale closes in May, we’ll replenish the cash and pay off the HELOC. We have to pay one month of interest on the HELOC ($361) plus the loss of earned interest on the cash.
As for the remodel, we’ll pay for that with a combination of replenished cash from our condo sale and from withdrawals from my IRA. I don’t love paying taxes on the IRA withdrawal, but we see this as a one-time but necessary move. We will, however, keep a reasonable amount of cash liquid as an emergency fund.
Ongoing Expenses: Despite my 2025 retirement and my husband’s retirement plans, we still think it will all work out. With our current income (my pensions, my husband’s pension from his former state job, his salary), we were living very comfortably with relatively low housing costs and plenty of disposable income. There will be less of that going forward, but in the short run, here’s how we plan to make ends meet:
My Social Security benefit will make up the difference between our condo payment and our new house payment. There is still the matter of my husband’s income being cut in half (and eventually disappearing when he fully retires), but the reduced support to our daughter and/or income from the cottage should help that balance out somewhat, and he’ll start drawing his own Social Security in several years plus will get a small pension from his current employer (not public sector, for the record).
We’ve also agreed that if the budget is tight between now and when we both take Social Security, we’re OK with taking a bit out of our IRAs each year. This will be less painful, tax-wise, after his income drops. We think that reducing our balance in advance of RMDs (which for us are still more than nine years away at age 75) makes some sense, especially if it funds continued travel and other fun activities during the “go-go years” of retirement.
So that’s how we hope it’s all going to work. I’d be lying if I said it doesn’t make me a bit anxious. I liked having cash on hand, I liked having a lower house payment with a good interest rate, I liked not touching our retirement accounts, and I liked having a comfortable enough income that we don’t have to watch our spending that much. This will be an adjustment, but we think it will be worth it. At the end of the day, why did we save all that money in retirement accounts and keep cash available if it wasn’t to do something like this? So now we’re doing it!
What an honest post, Dana. Financial considerations aside, it appears you and your husband have come to a decision about your daughter and have a plan to move forward. You’ve written about that aspect of your life, and I’m happy to read you’re resolving it in a way that may bring you all more happiness. I wish you the best. Thank you so much for your writing here on the site.
Thanks, Ed. Yes, deciding the best way to support our daughter through and beyond the rough few years she’s had has been delicate and agonizing. She will always have a roof over her head if she wants it from us, but it’s time for her to take more responsibility for her own life. This new home with the guest cottage offers us an option that we can present to her as “here’s what we’re willing and able to do.”
I don’t see any major problems with the plan. It should work, and adjustments are always possible. But you’ve lost me on the daughter front. I thought the one in SD was ok, and you also had one in the Davis area that was late to launch.
i envy your California property tax situation!!!!
It’s the daughter in SD who has been slow to launch and who may need to move back to Davis if she can’t figure it out down there with less help from us. Our older daughter lives in Oakland and is financially independent.
I’m obviously no expert, but I was wondering: Is there any mileage in getting a HELOC on the new property for the remodel and carrying debt at 8%, or whatever the rate is, rather than taking the immediate tax hit from an IRA withdrawal?
Once your husband retires and your household income drops, an IRA withdrawal to pay down that HELOC might be more efficient from a tax perspective. Maybe doing a quick analysis of that early tax hit versus the ongoing interest costs on a HELOC might be a worthwhile exercise. Although, since I’m not a US citizen, maybe I’m just talking rubbish lol
You raise a good point, actually. The HELOC rates are around 7.5% right now and are interest-only for some years. And you’re right that it would be more efficient from a tax perspective. I’m not sure a bank would think our 20% down payment gives us enough equity in the new place, but it might be worth researching.
I have always found that the year when your taxable income is decreasing requires more attention and planning as you typically want to avoid potential underpayment by having 90% of your current year (2026) tax paid in. Your cash needs from buying a more expensive home means you likely will prefer not lending the government money interest free by overpaying your 2026 tax via withholding.
Note the maximum loan for mortgage interest deduction purposes is $750K on the new mortgage.
While any HELOC interest will likely not be deductible because of the overall $750K mortgage limit the HELOC could also provide funds to allow your husband to max out his tax deferred retirement contributions in 2026 and thus reduce your 2026 tax if it is likely your 2027 taxable income will fall in a lower bracket. I like the thought of a HELOC on the new house and getting one in place while there are still strong wage earnings. I still keep a large HELOC that is mostly unused as a backstop to our emergency funds.
I hope the IRC 121 gain exclusion on the sale of your old home (condo) is such that the gain from sale will be excluded from both federal and state income taxes. I also note that most closing statements have fine print stating that it is also a substitute form 1099-S so to avoid a mismatch with what is reported on the sale by the title company to the IRS you should be sure to report the sale with the appropriate IRC 121 exclusion on your 2026 return. It is rare that I have seen the title company send you a separate 1099-S when the 2026 tax documents come out in early 2027.
I hope my thoughts help.
Best, Bill