AUTHOR: Rick Connor on 4/27/2026 FIRST: Mark Crothers on 4/27 | RECENT: Kenneth Tobin on 4/29
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Just a clarification - It is my understanding that FiCalc does not perform Monte Carlo analysis. The About section on the site says this: FI Calc is a calculator that utilizes backtesting to evaluate different withdrawal strategies. It uses historical asset return data to backtest a retirement plan. This is a fundamentally different technique than Monte Carlo analysis, but both have value in evaluating a retirement plan.
Andrew, thank you for your courage and honesty in telling us your sister's story. I'm so sorry for the tragic loss you and your family have experienced. In one of the last email exchanges I had with Jonathan he told me that your sister had passed away. It seemed so unfair, and I can't imagine the pain you and your family must have felt last fall. My father's alcholhism led to financial ruin and put me, my wife, and my brothers in the position of taking over my parent's finances in our late 30's. But that experience, and helping my in-laws in their retirement years, helped me learn how to plan for our retirement.
Andrew, thanks for a lovely article. I found Jonathan's combination of kindness and honesty to be rare, admirable, and something to emulate. Thanks for your kindness and honesty.
I found this article to be very challenging, both poignant and heartbreaking. Like many, I was amazed by Jonathan's equanimity during his journey. But I knew how much his family meant to him, and this article demonstrates the pain he felt. I recently lost a close friend to a butterfly glioblastoma that covered both hemispheres of his brain. He was about the same age as Jonathan, very sharp, with a big loving family, and young grandkids. His disease took his cognition first, and then his body. It was hard to know what he understood of his condition as it progressed. Two good friends, one stayed mentally sharp until the end, one lost his cognition well before he lost his life. I guess there are blessings and curses with each. I apologize for the mournful thoughts. My wife says the thing she dislikes the most about aging is that the challenges your loved ones face are big deals. As Jonathan often wrote, my takeaway is what a gift he gave us by allowing his family, friends, and the HD community to share his life, until the end.
Javier, thanks for an interesting post. A few years before I stopped working full-time I took a CFP course and passed the test. I then took the Retirement Income Certified Professional (RICP) course. I took the courses for my own education, in large part after being put in a position of managing my parents and in-laws finances as they aged and became infirm. That experience was a crash course in all things retirement, and shaped a lot of my thinking. I also considered switching to a second act career in financial planning, but chose not to. My first article for HumbleDollar was about looking at financial planning as more than just investment management. I know planners who provide holistic planning - investments, insurance, estate, taxes, cash flow, ... I also have friends who pay a significant AUM fee for wealth management - with all other services either not provided, or at additional cost. I would only work with a planner who does holistic planning. I don't have an answer to your second question. Like many others on HD, I do volunteer tax preparation. I am certain that many of the lower and middle income clients we serve would benefit from some basic financial planning. I've looked for organizations or programs that provide pro-bono planning but haven't found one similar to the tax preparation program. Far too often we have clients who could have made small choices that would improve their finances, but it's too late when they get to us.
Dana, congratulations on the move. I wish you many happy years in your new home. We moved in 2021 and, then moved again in 2023 to our current home. It's never fun but both moves went OK. I noticed your mention of extension cords and three prong adapters. I think you previously wrote that the new home was built in the 60s, and I was wondering if the outlets are ungrounded? If so is this something that can be addressed during renovations?
Dennis, I'm very sorry to hear about your health challenges, and wish you a speedy recovery. Your article is terrific, and touches on many important topics for those of us in retirement, or those of us with loved ones who need help. I love your sentence "Allowing someone to help you can also be an act of trust and love". My mother was a great example of accepting help gracefully. She had helped so many people in her life, and they, and their families, were a big help to me and my family as we cared for her. Allowing them to help, and say thank you, was a final gift she gave them.
Andrew, like Dan I wasn't sure how to respond. Jonathan had written about his boarding school experiences, but your article adds additional insights. In addition to my admiration for yours and your brother's resilience, my strong take-away is to remain humble and not assume I know what others have faced and overcome.
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Just a clarification - It is my understanding that FiCalc does not perform Monte Carlo analysis. The About section on the site says this: FI Calc is a calculator that utilizes backtesting to evaluate different withdrawal strategies. It uses historical asset return data to backtest a retirement plan. This is a fundamentally different technique than Monte Carlo analysis, but both have value in evaluating a retirement plan.
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Andrew, thank you for your courage and honesty in telling us your sister's story. I'm so sorry for the tragic loss you and your family have experienced. In one of the last email exchanges I had with Jonathan he told me that your sister had passed away. It seemed so unfair, and I can't imagine the pain you and your family must have felt last fall. My father's alcholhism led to financial ruin and put me, my wife, and my brothers in the position of taking over my parent's finances in our late 30's. But that experience, and helping my in-laws in their retirement years, helped me learn how to plan for our retirement.
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Andrew, thanks for a lovely article. I found Jonathan's combination of kindness and honesty to be rare, admirable, and something to emulate. Thanks for your kindness and honesty.
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I found this article to be very challenging, both poignant and heartbreaking. Like many, I was amazed by Jonathan's equanimity during his journey. But I knew how much his family meant to him, and this article demonstrates the pain he felt. I recently lost a close friend to a butterfly glioblastoma that covered both hemispheres of his brain. He was about the same age as Jonathan, very sharp, with a big loving family, and young grandkids. His disease took his cognition first, and then his body. It was hard to know what he understood of his condition as it progressed. Two good friends, one stayed mentally sharp until the end, one lost his cognition well before he lost his life. I guess there are blessings and curses with each. I apologize for the mournful thoughts. My wife says the thing she dislikes the most about aging is that the challenges your loved ones face are big deals. As Jonathan often wrote, my takeaway is what a gift he gave us by allowing his family, friends, and the HD community to share his life, until the end.
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Link to comment from June 7, 2026
Javier, thanks for an interesting post. A few years before I stopped working full-time I took a CFP course and passed the test. I then took the Retirement Income Certified Professional (RICP) course. I took the courses for my own education, in large part after being put in a position of managing my parents and in-laws finances as they aged and became infirm. That experience was a crash course in all things retirement, and shaped a lot of my thinking. I also considered switching to a second act career in financial planning, but chose not to. My first article for HumbleDollar was about looking at financial planning as more than just investment management. I know planners who provide holistic planning - investments, insurance, estate, taxes, cash flow, ... I also have friends who pay a significant AUM fee for wealth management - with all other services either not provided, or at additional cost. I would only work with a planner who does holistic planning. I don't have an answer to your second question. Like many others on HD, I do volunteer tax preparation. I am certain that many of the lower and middle income clients we serve would benefit from some basic financial planning. I've looked for organizations or programs that provide pro-bono planning but haven't found one similar to the tax preparation program. Far too often we have clients who could have made small choices that would improve their finances, but it's too late when they get to us.
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Dana, congratulations on the move. I wish you many happy years in your new home. We moved in 2021 and, then moved again in 2023 to our current home. It's never fun but both moves went OK. I noticed your mention of extension cords and three prong adapters. I think you previously wrote that the new home was built in the 60s, and I was wondering if the outlets are ungrounded? If so is this something that can be addressed during renovations?
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Dennis, I'm very sorry to hear about your health challenges, and wish you a speedy recovery. Your article is terrific, and touches on many important topics for those of us in retirement, or those of us with loved ones who need help. I love your sentence "Allowing someone to help you can also be an act of trust and love". My mother was a great example of accepting help gracefully. She had helped so many people in her life, and they, and their families, were a big help to me and my family as we cared for her. Allowing them to help, and say thank you, was a final gift she gave them.
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Thanks Adam. Great book review and great job on The Long View podcast.
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Andrew, like Dan I wasn't sure how to respond. Jonathan had written about his boarding school experiences, but your article adds additional insights. In addition to my admiration for yours and your brother's resilience, my strong take-away is to remain humble and not assume I know what others have faced and overcome.
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