You infer you've lived 6 hours away from your aunt most of your lives. Yet never thought to give your contact to her neighbors & church yourself when she was 85 or 90, or stay in regular contact & visits initiated by you, so you could've observed her aging process?
Instead you talk about the "tremendous amount of work" & "all it would've taken was a note" & "had she told me I would've kept in closer touch"
Callous victim blaming & self-aggrandizement.
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You infer you've lived 6 hours away from your aunt most of your lives. Yet never thought to give your contact to her neighbors & church yourself when she was 85 or 90, or stay in regular contact & visits initiated by you, so you could've observed her aging process? Instead you talk about the "tremendous amount of work" & "all it would've taken was a note" & "had she told me I would've kept in closer touch" Callous victim blaming & self-aggrandizement.
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