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Michael1

Formerly a career Army officer and then external affairs executive for a Fortune 100 company. In addition to personal finance and investing, I like reading, traveling, being outdoors, and strength/movement training and coaching. Now nomadic and can be found someplace or in between places.

    Forum Posts

    This Too Will Pass - Moving to Assisted Living

    21 replies

    AUTHOR: Michael1 on 1/22/2026
    FIRST: baldscreen on 1/22   |   RECENT: Stacey Miller on 1/27

    Fidelity ZERO Funds

    16 replies

    AUTHOR: Michael1 on 2/7/2025
    FIRST: Jonathan Clements on 2/7/2025   |   RECENT: Randy Dobkin on 2/10/2025

    Love, Hate and My 401(k)

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    AUTHOR: Michael1 on 12/6/2024
    FIRST: baldscreen on 12/6/2024   |   RECENT: Dwain Sims on 12/7/2024

    How to Not Waste a Low Income Year

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    AUTHOR: Michael1 on 11/10/2024
    FIRST: stelea99 on 11/10/2024   |   RECENT: Michael1 on 11/18/2024

    Hurricane Beryl aftermath

    15 replies

    AUTHOR: Michael1 on 7/13/2024
    FIRST: Jonathan Clements on 7/13/2024   |   RECENT: Michael1 on 7/15/2024

    Comments

    • I wouldn’t say Mark is rationalizing. I read a post from Nick Maggiuli some time back that made a similar argument but with more math :-) I’ve tried to find it to share a link but gave up; maybe someone else is more persistent.

      Post: Money to burn?

      Link to comment from January 26, 2026

    • Completely agree. I’d even say not just scout but get on a list. It doesn’t even have to be where one hopes to live out their days, just an acceptable place to do so, just in case.

      Post: This Too Will Pass – Moving to Assisted Living

      Link to comment from January 26, 2026

    • Thanks Ed, I appreciate that. “Whirlwind of work and emotions” about captures it. There are still things to do but with less urgency and from anywhere, so yes, taking a breather right now. I hope things are going well on your end.

      Post: This Too Will Pass – Moving to Assisted Living

      Link to comment from January 23, 2026

    • Yep. Many people want to enter a CCRC while still independent, and the LTC insurance isn’t helping at all until more care is required - and crucially, until the need for it can be proven.

      Post: This Too Will Pass – Moving to Assisted Living

      Link to comment from January 23, 2026

    • Thanks Kathy. That was my dad’s expectation as well, and he might have done so had the timing been different. But then he wouldn’t have found the activities he has now. Silver linings…

      Post: This Too Will Pass – Moving to Assisted Living

      Link to comment from January 23, 2026

    • Thanks Chris. Yes, all in all it has gone well. Best for you and your MIL.

      Post: This Too Will Pass – Moving to Assisted Living

      Link to comment from January 22, 2026

    • One thing is that I now lean even further away from spending money on LTC insurance. Among its downfalls is that it requires proof of need. If you plan to self-insure, you can choose to go into assisted living when you feel like the need is getting close rather than wait for it to happen. Of course you can still do that if you buy insurance, but part of the money you’d use to pay for it has already gone to the insurance company.  Also, though not a direct result of this experience, we’re already on two CCRC lists even though we have no plans to settle anywhere in the near future, and we already have estate documents in place. 

      Post: This Too Will Pass – Moving to Assisted Living

      Link to comment from January 22, 2026

    • In my dad’s case, the rush was due largely to circumstance rather than failure to plan. He had already chosen and moved into a CCRC, and part of his thinking in the choice was that it had multiple levels of care. I already had POA so I could do a lot on his behalf. My sister already had health care POA. We had also already broached the topic of assisted living with him, though he wasn’t ready to make that move.  An emergency trip to the hospital and the rehab that follows just happens. Given his condition at that point, we were aware that his community might not let him back into independent living. Knowing a couple of weeks in advance that they might say this helped but still left a lot to do. It just happened when it did.  All that said, there are plenty of people out there who don’t have estate documents and aren’t on CCRC lists.  The next big event for my dad would be a move to skilled nursing or memory care, or to pass away. Along with the will, we just updated the POA so my sister is on it as a backup; it just named me before. 

      Post: This Too Will Pass – Moving to Assisted Living

      Link to comment from January 22, 2026

    • I was having a conversation the other day with a person in a similar situation. They opted to hang onto the coins because selling them would incur 28% capital gains tax, while inheriting them would avoid that.

      Post: Silver Lining

      Link to comment from January 19, 2026

    • Indeed. Also, so I’m not a “true index investor” … so what? While I fully understand the advantages of indexing, I’m investing to meet my goals, not to adhere to some investing mantra.

      Post: Market Concentration in Index Funds

      Link to comment from January 15, 2026

    Articles

    Retirement on the Road

    Michael Perry   |  Jan 1, 2025

    WE’VE BEEN TAKING stock of our nomadic life. We’re quite happy living as we are. But we’re also conscious that things could change at any time for multiple reasons, and we’re ready to shift gears if needed.
    We aren’t exactly “living the dream”—because being nomadic was never our dream. We hadn’t even thought about it until a few months before we started our travels. We officially uprooted ourselves—meaning we sold our Houston home—after we’d been away from the place for most of the first year of my retirement.

    Our Nomadic Life

    Michael Perry   |  Jun 5, 2024

    WE’RE IN OUR SECOND year as nomads, having sold our Texas home and driven away from our storage unit in November 2022. In the few years before that, we often talked about where we wanted to move, but could never quite decide.
    When I retired in 2021, we traveled for most of the next 12 months. At the end of it, we still hadn’t decided where we wanted to live, but we knew we wanted a change,

    Running Up the Tab

    Michael Perry   |  Dec 9, 2023

    A FEW DAYS AGO, I RAN the numbers on our likely 2023 taxes, and reached two conclusions: We have a small refund coming—and we should find a way to pay more taxes.
    How can both be true? I project that our 2023 taxable income will be well below $190,750, which is the top of the 22% tax bracket for those married filing jointly. Getting taxed at 22% strikes me as a good deal, given the likelihood that we’ll be taxed at an even higher rate later in retirement.

    Taking Back the Wheel

    Michael Perry   |  Nov 11, 2023

    WE FLEW BACK TO the U.S. last week from Madrid, and were reunited with our car of 12 years. After selling our house in late 2022 and going nomadic, we had headed to Europe six months ago, opting to have our 2008 Lexus SUV professionally stored.
    In an earlier article, I recounted the thought process behind this decision. Suffice it to say, we chose this option largely because we had no firm plans for when we’d need our car again,

    Free to Roam

    Michael Perry   |  Oct 6, 2023

    LIKE MANY WHO THINK about where they’d like to retire, we’ve always had a vague list of wants: comfortable climate, walkability, good health care, access to cultural events and outdoor activities, friendly tax regime, reasonable cost of living, that sort of thing.
    I wrote previously about feeling stuck for many years in a place where we didn’t want to stay, but also not really having one place where we felt drawn to settle, whether for a few years or permanently.

    A Basis for Decisions

    Michael Perry   |  Aug 1, 2023

    I’VE WRITTEN BEFORE about harvesting tax losses and using them to offset the gains from selling other investments. We have a bit of a sprawling portfolio, with numerous small positions and lots of embedded capital gains.
    Gradually harvesting gains would simplify the portfolio and make it more tax-efficient. And if we do so during these early retirement years, while our income is low, and if we can partially offset those gains with realized losses,

    Fork in the Road

    Michael Perry   |  Feb 20, 2023

    IT HAS BEEN THREE months since we closed on the sale of our home and drove away from the storage unit that contains everything we couldn’t donate, sell, give away or take with us. It was a big decision to have no fixed abode, and we feel great about it.
    We’re about to move our rambling lifestyle across the pond to spend some time in the U.K. and continental Europe, and we have no return date in mind.

    Profiting From Losses

    Michael Perry   |  Feb 10, 2023

    WE TRIMMED THE TAXES we owed on investment gains in 2021 by using losses we’d realized during 2020’s stock market swoon. Now, 2022’s market decline has allowed us to repeat this process, once again offsetting capital gains with tax losses that we’d earlier harvested.
    My wife and I haven’t just saved on taxes, however. The sales have also allowed us to reposition our taxable portfolio away from active management and toward more of an indexing bent.

    Too Much Cash?

    Michael Perry   |  Nov 17, 2022

    I’VE SPENT THE PAST seven or eight years lamenting our cash position, both the interest it was earning and the size of it. The former was too little, the latter too much.
    Some years ago, we sold an investment property with the idea of buying another somewhere we might potentially retire. But as I noted in a recent article, we’ve never been able to settle on where that would be. We were also constantly thinking we were going to move or be moved away from the Houston area,

    Free in the World

    Michael Perry   |  Nov 1, 2022

    YESTERDAY EVENING we went under contract to sell our home of the past 10 years, by far the longest I’ve ever lived in one place. In our neighborhood, the average time on the market is currently 33 days. We’d been on the market for one day and the offer was over asking. We credit this to taking good care of our home, and having a sharp listing agent and staging consultant.
    This experience, and what we learned from it,

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